When my father, Bruce, told my mother, Rosemary, that their marriage was over, she hadn’t seen it coming and was overwhelmed by shock and grief. My father had been planning the separation for many years and had another partner and a son. The last thing on her mind was settling the finances and the legalities.
If only she had owned a copy of Surviving Your Split, by Lucy and Rebekah Mannering, back then. The book, by two sisters, both lawyers, who separated from their husbands within four months of each other, would have helped.
A separation or divorce is psychologically the second most devastating event in life, ranking just behind death of a spouse or other loved one, they explain.
Around 47,000 married Australians will split up this year, plus…
