Innholdsfortegnelse for 27 November 2025 i You South Africa

JUST about this time every year I wish I was one of those people who plans ahead what I’m going to give my family members for Christmas. I wish I kept a little list somewhere filled with gift ideas for each of my loved ones – a kind of dream list to avoid drama once the silly season hits. Alas, planning ahead has never been my thing. It’s always time for the last countdown to Christmas by the time I finally come to my senses. And then I feel totally overwhelmed by all the wonderful things the world offers. This leads to an anxious scramble through the shops at the last moment, or wild plans that are almost impossible to implement in time. And, ultimately, a jumbled mess wrapped in…

WE’VE all stood in front of our wardrobes wondering, “What am I going to wear today?” For most of us that might mean choosing between comfort and style – but for Michelle Obama it meant a whole lot more. During her White House years, critics homed in on everything from her sleeveless dresses that showed off her “too masculine” arms to what made her decide to mix designer pieces with everyday brands. Yet through it all she kept a smile on her face and put her best fashion foot forward. And now, eight years after her first lady days came to an end, Michelle is telling her side of her sartorial story. Her new book, The Look, features over 200 photographs showcasing around 100 different looks and also reveals how…

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Send suggestions for topics and requests for info to yourmoney@you.co.za. We may answer your questions in this column but won’t reply personally. HOLIDAYS with friends can be an incredible experience, but nothing kills vacation vibes faster than playing debt collector while everyone else posts Instagram stories. Here’s what you need to do to keep your friendships and finances intact. 1 CREATE A BUDGET POLL, AND KEEP IT ANONYMOUS People’s spending preferences can vary widely, especially in big groups. An anonymous budget poll can help everyone to share their ideal budget without feeling pressured to match others. Include questions about transport (for example, travelling by road or flying), accommodation, food, activities and in what instances members of the group would consider paying more. Also, decide what will happen if someone drops…

HE’S the man who made James Bond irresistible to a generation of 007 lovers – suave, sophisticated, seemingly invincible. His Hollywood smile has charmed audiences for decades, his Irish wit has lit up red carpets from London to Los Angeles. But behind Pierce Brosnan’s twinkling blue eyes lies a story of tragedy and loss that would make a tear-jerker of a movie all of its own. Abandoned by his father as a baby, Pierce has spent a lifetime battling ghosts. His beloved first wife, Cassandra, died from ovarian cancer in 1991 just a day after their 11th wedding anniversary and, in a cruel twist of fate, 22 years later his adopted daughter, Charlotte, succumbed to the same disease at the age of 41. Then came another gut-wrenching heartbreak – his…

THEY’RE known for glitz, glam and, of course, unending drama. But this time, they’re turning up the heat with the upcoming The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Africa, bringing together the most memorable women from the South African, Kenyan and Nigerian franchises of the hit show. Launching on 28 November on Showmax, this season promises to be every bit as explosive as these powerhouse women are. Here’s a look at the women who’ll be flying the SA flag high and what they’ve packed in their bags. THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF JOHANNESBURG CHRISTALL KAY Christall (53) is back after making waves on last year’s Ultimate Girls Trip: South Africa. Last time out she loved being the centre of attention, and this trip will be no different. She promises to bring her…

JUSTICE FOR RON AND NICOLE OJ’S ESTATE AGREES TO PAY GOLDMAN FAMILY OJ SIMPSON’S estate has agreed to pay nearly $58 million (R986m) to the father of Ron Goldman, Fred Goldman, more than 30 years after his son’s death. Ron was stabbed to death alongside OJ’s ex-wife, Nicole Brown Simpson, in Los Angeles in June 1994. OJ was charged with their murders but sensationally acquitted in 1995. He was later found liable for their wrongful deaths in a civil suit brought against the former football star by the Brown and Goldman families in 1997, with the jury awarding more than $33m (R561m) in damages. Laws protecting OJ’s NFL pension meant the families received only a fraction of this amount. When OJ died of cancer in April 2024 at age 76,…

IT WAS supposed to be a day off – a chance to relax at home – but when his friend invited him to a holiday resort in the Limpopo bushveld, he decided to tag along and invited his brother to join. The day was scorching and the idea of having a braai and a cooling dip in the dam soon overcame any reluctance or laziness he had at the thought of going out. There was a zip-line tower at the dam too and 21-year-old Jason Fourie told his brother, Kevin, they should dive off it into the water below. He’d go first, Jason said – if anything went wrong Kevin could help him, he joked. The first two dives went perfectly – arms up, head down, spring off, into the…

BLIND AS A BAT Dracula wanted to know which of his bats was the best. So, he organised a little competition. The bat that drank the most blood in the shortest time would be the winner. The first bat went and came back after 10 minutes. Its mouth was full of blood. Dracula was impressed. He asked, “Nice, how did you do it?” The bat said, “Do you see that tower? Behind it, there is a house. I went inside and drank the blood of all the family.” Dracula said, “Very good.” The second bat went and came back after five minutes. He too had blood all over his face. Dracula was shocked: “How did you do that?” The bat said, “Do you see that tower? Behind it, there is…

ABDOMEN The back part of the beetle’s body. It holds the beetle’s organs and is protected by the hard wing covers called elytra. THORAX The middle part of the beetle’s body. This is where its six legs and two pairs of wings are attached, helping it walk, crawl and fly. HEAD The front part of the beetle’s body. It has the eyes, brain, mouthparts for eating, and antennae for smelling and feeling things. Inner (hind) wings These are flying wings. When the insect takes off, the hard outer wings lift up and move aside of the soft wings underneath can spread out and flap. HORNS & JAWS Male beetles have two big horns that make them look like tiny rhinoceroses! These horns are used for fighting other males. During these…

MARVEL’s Hawkeye star, JEREMY RENNER, has found himself under fire after a director he worked with has accused him of inappropriate conduct, harassment and threatening to have her deported. Filmmaker YI ZHOU (38) claims she started a relationship with Jeremy (54) back in June after he auditioned for two film projects they would eventually work on together. In a lengthy post on Instagram, Zhou gave a breakdown of what transpired over four months. One of her claims was that her first introduction to Jeremy was a string of unsolicited nude images he sent to her before they met in person. “He convinced me of his sincerity, saying he had been single for a long time and open to a long-term relationship. I believed in him, in the power of love,…

SHE’S been called many things over the years, has Meghan don’t-call-me-Markle – Duchess Difficult, a wannabe Martha Stewart, a flop, a fake, an opportunist . . . the list is long and often harsh. But you have to hand it her – whatever people may think or say she isn’t going anywhere. And Meghan seems to be everywhere these days. High-profile charity events, award ceremonies, sports games, Instagram, even a movie set – the Duchess of Sussex has been there, done that and got the muted-colour T-shirt. But in the midst of the blitz one thing has really got people talking: Meghan and Harry’s appearance at Kris Jenner’s 70th birthday party, an occasion brimful of boobs and booty and awash with elegantly attired A-listers. Mariah Carey was there, as were…

THEY come from different worlds. She grew up in the lap of luxury where home was a mansion in the English countryside, holidays were spent on private yachts, clothes were designer and her father was a household name. He was raised in a working-class household, his dad a supermarket caretaker and his mom a nursery school manager who gave her all to fulfil her son’s dream of becoming an Olympic swimmer. Four years ago Holly Ramsay and Adam Peaty met on the set of a reality TV show – and now the three-time Olympic gold medallist and the daughter of celebrity chef Gordon Ramsay are set to marry. But their upcoming wedding has become embroiled in a bitter row. The 30-year-old breaststroke champ is accused of turning his back on…

FISH TIKKA MAKES 6 SKEWERS / PREPARATION & COOKING: 1 HR 20 MIN (INCLUDES MARINATING) ◗ 1 box (600g) of hake fillets, cut into large cubes◗ 3 limes, halved◗ fresh naan bread TIKKA MARINADE ◗ 1t crushed garlic◗ 1t salt◗ ½t turmeric powder◗ ½t black pepper◗ 5ml (1t) egg yellow food colouring◗ 30ml (2T) plain yoghurt◗ 1t chilli flakes◗ 1t lemon pepper spice◗ 10ml (2t) tomato paste TO ASSEMBLE ◗ oil for drizzling◗ juice of 2 lemons or 30ml (2T) lemon juice Keep 6 kebab skewers on hand. 1 Tikka marinade Mix all the marinade ingredients together. 2 Coat the fish well with the marinade. Leave to absorb the flavours for at least 1 hour, or preferably overnight. 3 To assemble Thread half a lime onto the skewers, followed by pieces of fish. 4 Drizzle with some oil…

I’M A NEW DAD BUT I’M FINDING FATHERHOOD OVERWHELMING Q I always imagined fatherhood would be wonderful. While I knew having a baby would change our lives, I never expected such a dramatic transformation. My wife and I have been perfectly compatible since we met. I immediately knew I wanted to spend my life with her. We had such fun as newlyweds until pregnancy brought unexpected trials and tribulations. Once our daughter was born (I’d hoped for a son), problems began. My wife seems to have no time for me anymore. She’s constantly busy with the baby, with no moments to spare for our usual cuddles and daily catchups. Even when the baby sleeps, she hovers over the cot, ensuring our daughter’s safety. It feels like this new person has…

For daily horoscopes, go to you.co.za SAGITTARIUS 22 NOV – 20 DEC HOME PLANS FINALLY GAIN MOMENTUM Finally, your ongoing plans for relocation or home improvements are coming together. Even if the actual deed is not yet happening, you’ll at least have a clear sense of which direction to take. Your partner may still have some doubts but, given time, they’ll come round to value your point of view. The best news is that love diva Venus will settle into your sign on the 30th, bringing with her a renewed sense of beauty, joy and affection. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 3, 15, 42, 47, 34, 5 CAPRICORN 21 DEC – 20 JAN Things will start to slowly fall into place for you this week, especially around the 28th when your planet,…

ON OUR RADAR 1 GOLDEN GIRL A year ago, EJAE was unknown, but K-Pop Demon Hunters – in which she voices Rumi – has brought her into the limelight. The Korean-born, US-based singer is no overnight success – she’s been preparing since she was 11 years old and began training to be a K-pop star at the SM Entertainment label. After 12 years without debut, the label dropped her, calling her voice “too dark” and “not feminine enough”. The singer (33), whose real name is Eunjae Kim, then went to New York University to study music and psychology. She returned to SM in 2017 for a songwriting camp, writing the melody for Red Velvet’s hit Psycho. That launched her songwriting career. She went on to be a vocal director and…

THE world’s first dedicated centre for research on giraffes has opened near Bloemfontein. “Giraffes have an uncertain future on the continent. They are becoming extinct. Twenty years ago, we had giraffes in 22 countries – now it’s fewer than 15. This is a great source of concern for us,” says Professor Francois Deacon, the chief researcher at the centre, which is located at Amanzi Private Game Reserve near Brandfort. Giraffes face three threats: habitat loss, deforestation and bush-meat poaching. There are traditional beliefs throughout Africa that contribute to the poaching of giraffes. In Tanzania, people believe the giraffe’s brain and bone marrow can cure HIV/Aids, and in the Democratic Republic of Congo, their tails are used as part of wedding gifts. “We've got a home at Amanzi, a facility that…

SHE’S dined with Louis Theroux, charmed Idris Elba over lunch and made Hugh Jackman blush between bites of fried chicken. In other words, she’s dated some of the coolest and hottest guys on the planet – although romance has nothing to do with it at all. Amelia Dimoldenberg has made a name for herself by hosting flirty celebrity interviews in London chicken shops through her YouTube series Chicken Shop Date – and it’s become such a hit it’s now celebrating its 10th birthday. Over the years the 31-year-old British comedian has “dated” an impressive roster of A-listers, including Ryan Reynolds, Jennifer Lawrence, Cher, Paul Mescal and Andrew Garfield, whose episode became her one of her most-watched with more than 12 million views thanks to their cute chemistry. So why chicken…

1 EMBRACING AI While there has been huge pushback against the use of artificial intelligence in the entertainment industry, actors MATTHEW McCONAUGHEY and MICHAEL CAINE are going against the stream. Matthew (56) and Michael (92) are teaming up with tech company ElevenLabs to create AI-generated versions of their voices. With permission, companies will now be allowed to use the actors’ voices in creative projects. The partnership is said to be a test of whether controlled compensated collaboration between artists and AI companies could work. 2 DAWSON’S AUCTION JAMES VAN DER BEEK is parting with some of his prized memorabilia to help finance his cancer treatments. James (48), who announced he had been diagnosed with Stage 3 colorectal cancer in November last year, is auctioning off items his characters wore in…

MARIAH DISPENSES JOY It’s a running joke that when Christmas comes around, MARIAH CAREY is defrosting somewhere ready to belt out her hit All I Want for Christmas. Every year the Queen of Christmas tickles fans pink with an It’s Time video, which she releases on 1 November to usher in the festive season. This year she teamed up with beauty brand Sephora for an ad in which she steps in as Santa Claus after an elf decides to steal all the gifts to pawn them for therapy. HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS The 90s hit Home Alone is arguably one of the most popular Christmas movies of all time. Fans were delighted when they heard they’d get to see MACAULAY CULKIN return in the role as the mischievous Kevin McCallister…

AFTER losing a lot of weight, Amy Schumer has been excitedly showing off her new figure. But when she recently deleted all her pictures pre-weight loss, she faced a backlash from social media users who implied she was embarrassed of her chubbier body. Amy (44), who in January revealed that she lost 13kg using weight-loss drugs, quickly clapped back at critics, saying she has always been proud of what she looks like and that what is on her social media page is not her identity. “Your Instagram is not your identity. It’s a curation of what you want the world to see and I feel great strong and beautiful and it’s been fun sharing that,” she wrote. “I’m sure my weight will always fluctuate. I’m a perimenopausal woman on HRT meds.…