Innholdsfortegnelse for 11 September 2025 i You South Africa

A LITTLE while ago, in a slightly existential moment, I projected my mental meanderings on to my kids. I asked them: “If you could choose, what would you like to understand: how science works, how the world works, or how the inner life of other people works?” They looked at me with something between confusion and reproach. It was almost bedtime and they weren’t in the mood for their mom’s introspection. My eldest sighed and said: “It all sounds like just a little too much information to me.” I laughed. Perhaps he was right. Too much! The next day I thought about the main character in The Puttermesser Papers by Cynthia Ozick. “Life was a riddle she was trying to solve,” she says describing the inquisitive character. As always when…

SMART. Check. Handsome. Check. Not from Hollywood. Check. Loves dogs. Super check. Those close to Jennifer Aniston say that her new boyfriend ticks all the boxes. For the past few months the 56-year-old Hollywood beauty has been spending a lot of time with Jim Curtis, a successful life coach and speaker – and by all accounts things are getting serious. The biggest clue that Jen thinks he’s a keeper? She’s introduced the 50-year-old to her inner circle. Since they were first linked in July, Jen and Jim have stepped out on double dates with two of her closest friends – former Friends co-star Courteney Cox and actor Jason Bateman. Jen, who a few years ago said she wasn’t keen to date anyone from the world of showbiz again, is “in…

WHEN most people think of a country, they picture sprawling landscapes, bustling cities and a thriving population. But the Free Republic of Verdis in Europe is just 0,5km² in size, has never been inhabited and its self-declared president is a 20-year-old game developer. He doesn’t oversee his country from a presidential palace with a grand entrance and stately pillars. Instead Daniel Jackson’s seat of power is far more modest and isn’t even in Verdis, which is located on the Serbian-Croatian border – he lives at a quiet spot tucked behind a bingo hall on a small street in Dover, Kent, in the UK. “I am not interested in power at all,” he says. It started out as just a harebrained idea when Daniel was 14. He and some friends decided…

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For daily horoscopes go to you.co.za. VIRGO 23 AUG – 22 SEP THE TIME IS NOW You find yourself centre-stage in the cosmos with the sun and Mercury both in your sign and joining forces in an aspect called in cazimi, meaning being in the heart of the sun. Take this as being both cherished and protected, sort of being the cosmic darling for the moment. So stretch yourself, put aside your self-doubts and venture forth into new territories of existence. Your working career especially can massively benefit from this. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 11, 33, 40, 47, 39, 20 LIBRA 23 SEP – 22 OCT Keeping your own company will stand you in good stead this week, especially if you think you’re on the brink of finding new solutions to…

WOLF HOUR By JO NESBO Harvill Secker Marco Dante, a dealer in illegal firearms, is shot by a sniper in Minneapolis. Although the shooter leaves no obvious evidence behind all signs point to a lone wolf. Dante survives but when the sniper strikes again Detective Bob Oz is called in to solve the case. Tomás Gomez, a man known as The Wolf, emerges as the chief suspect and it turns out he’s left a clue in the form of a dead cat which he handed over to taxidermist Mike Lunde to be stuffed. Lunde promises to sound the alarm as soon as the shooter returns to collect his cat but it turns out he’s hiding a few secrets of his own that could cost Bob his life. This standalone novel…

SHE’S the kind of chill gal pal we all wish we had – or could be. Becca Bloom dishes relationship advice like she’s been through it all and effortlessly breaks down complex financial concepts as if it’s brunch-table chatter – and she does it all while making you feel like you’re being embraced in a reassuring hug. Except Becca (27) isn’t your regular girl next door. She’s the reigning queen of #RichTok, the TikTok enclave where ultra-wealthy one-percenters show off eye-wateringly expensive stuff. But unlike most Rich-Tok residents, Becca has won over millions of fans with her friendly, sincere and down-to-earth attitude. “I can’t describe what it is about her that makes [her wealth] palatable,” Shellie Weber posted. “She has impeccable taste. She is highly educated, intelligent and just comes…

SEVERAL Hollywood stars are opting to start their families pretty early on in their lives. Take Stranger Things actress MILLIE BOBBY BROWN who recently announced to the world she and husband JAKE BONGIOVI have welcomed a baby girl through adoption. Millie (21) and Jake (23) made the announcement on Instagram and have already been spotted out and about with the baby on several occasions. “We are beyond excited to embark on this beautiful next chapter of parenthood in both peace and privacy,” they wrote. The couple first started dating in 2021 and tied the knot last March in a private ceremony in the US before having a lavish wedding in Italy a few months later. Earlier this year, while appearing on the Smartless podcast, Millie spoke about always wanting to…

MRS SOUTH AFRICA 2025 ERIN-JANE MILLER One of my secrets is to add turmeric and cayenne pepper to a cup of hot rooibos tea. Turmeric is a powerful natural anti-inflammatory that brightens the skin, while cayenne pepper stimulates circulation. REAL HOUSEWIVES OF CAPE TOWN’S CAMILLA MCDOWELL The humble avocado pear is bursting with skin-loving healthy fats. It’s also rich in vitamins E and C – a powerhouse duo that protects against ageing, boosts collagen and locks in hydration for that fresh, dewy look we all adore. Think of it as your skin’s natural moisturiser, working from the inside out. Eat it or mask with it – avo is the ultimate glow food. ACTRESS MAKOMA MOHALE Rosemary, tea tree oil, blackseed oil and fenugreek are all amazing to use on your…

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‘NEVER BELIEVE THAT BECAUSE YOU’RE GETTING OLDER, YOUR BODY CAN’T ACHIEVE THINGS’ WHEN most people think of pole dancing their minds instantly flash to dimly lit clubs and strippers in fishnet stockings. It’s a stereotype that drives Debbie Howes mad – but she’s realised the best way to change people’s minds is not through arguments, but action. She strides over to a shiny pole in her studio and in one fluid movement wraps her legs around it and shimmies up towards the ceiling. Then comes the real showstopper – she slides down in a controlled spiral, flipping herself upside down mid-descent to land in a perfect split. “As you can see pole sports are incredibly technical and physically demanding,” she says, barely out of breath. “It’s so much more than…

I’M DEPRESSED AFTER HAVING TO MAKE STAFF REDUNDANCIES Q I’m an HR manager who recently faced the devastating task of making 20 employees redundant. I had to conduct individual meetings with each person, telling them their employment would end in two months. Most were young, dedicated, hard-working individuals who genuinely didn’t deserve this blow. Many have families, which is even more heartbreaking. Despite trying to deliver the news as compassionately as possible and even attempting to help some find other jobs, I’m now struggling with depression and overwhelming emotions. This experience has left me feeling empty and questioning life’s meaning. Normally I’m positive, strong-willed and resilient so I’m confused by my current emotional state. My own position isn’t at risk, which somehow makes me feel worse. Margaret, email A What…

AS A little girl she’d stand in her garden in Durban gazing in wonder at the night sky. That was when Professor Michele Dougherty caught her first glimpse of Jupiter’s moons and Saturn’s rings – and her love of astronomy took hold. But never in a million years would she have dreamt that as an adult she’d play a key role in some of the major discoveries in the solar system, including finding the possibility of extraterrestrial life. Or that one day King Charles would choose her to be his Astronomer Royal, making her the first woman to fill this high-profile position since its creation 350 years ago. “I’m having to pinch myself at the thought of it,” says Michele (63), who was handpicked by the British monarch to take…

‘They’re just so good together . . . and they’re both so happy’– ED KELCE (TRAVIS’ DAD) IT’S THE news fans have been waiting for so there was much excitement when TAYLOR SWIFT (35) shared that she’s engaged to Kansas City Chiefs player TRAVIS KELCE (35). The pop superstar’s Instagram post captioned “Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married” went viral with more than 33 million likes and 10 million comments. “This all started when Travis very adorably put me on blast on his podcast, which I thought was metal as hell,” Taylor revealed. The singer revealed their romance began privately, though. “We actually had a significant amount of time no one knew.” What about that first Kansas City Chiefs game in September 2023 that Tay Tay…

1 Cate Blanchett wore her 2022 SAG Awards Armani Privé pocketed gown with large gems on a plunging neckline to the La Grazia premiere. She paired it with Louis Vuitton jewels. 2 Actress Molly Sims nailed gothic glam in a Georges Chakra sheer black Chantilly lace gown, with sculptural lace and tulle details at the Frankenstein premiere. 3 Singer Halsey brought attitude in an Erik Charlotte navy lace and hand-dyed cotton-twill gown with a steel-boned corset and ostrich feathers at the amfAR Gala. 4 Angolan model Maria Borges kept things beautifully classic in a fitted strapless gown by Yara Shoemaker at the amfAR Gala. 5 Dutch model Yasmin Verheijen was the belle of the ball in a blue-chiffon-draped mermaid gown at amfAR. 6 Paris Jackson was a vision in this…

HER physique has long been a topic of discussion. She’s one of the greatest tennis players of all time, with 23 Grand Slam singles titles to her name, and her powerful, muscular frame often got as much attention as her incredible sporting achievements. Now former tennis champ Serena Williams is once again facing scrutiny over her appearance, and this time it’s because of her 14kg weight loss – something she’s achieved not due to diet and exercise, but thanks to GLP-1 weight loss drugs. Yes, Serena (43) has joined the ranks of celebs who are taking medications such as Ozempic, Mounjaro or Wegovy to shed unwanted kilos. Reactions to her admission that she’s used the drug have been mixed. Some fans are angry that a sporting icon who has been…

THE storage unit looked ordinary from the outside – just another rented space in an unremarkable facility. But inside was the wooden bunker that would become Samantha Stites’ personal hell. Soundproofing panels covered every surface. A makeshift bed sat in one corner and metal brackets were drilled into the wall to keep her chained. This was where Samantha spent the longest 14 hours of her life. She was kidnapped from her home by Christopher Thomas – who had been stalking her for more than a decade – and brought to the bunker where he held her captive. Thomas was inspired by the Netflix show You and spent months planning the kidnapping, believing he could finally force her into the relationship he’d been fantasising about since they met at college. But…

KOFTA CABBAGE MEATBALLS with YOGHURT SAUCE MAKES 12-16 MEDIUM MEATBALLS / PREPARATION: 40 MINS / COOKING: 20-30 MINS Old-fashioned cabbage meatballs get a Middle Eastern twist. Delicious with the cardamom-scented tomato sauce and cucumber yoghurt sauce. MEATBALLS ◗ 500g mince◗ salt and freshly ground black pepper◗ 1 small onion, peeled and coarsely grated◗ 2 garlic cloves, finely grated◗ 1 egg◗ 5ml (1t) each ground cinnamon, coriander, cumin and paprika◗ 20ml (4t) Worcestershire sauce◗ 60ml (¼c) fine breadcrumbs soaked in 60ml (¼c) water◗ 30ml (2T) chopped parsley◗ 60ml (¼c) chopped coriander leaves oil for frying TOMATO SAUCE ◗ 1 onion, finely chopped◗ 2 garlic cloves, finely grated◗ 6 cardamom seeds, crushed◗ 2 tins (400g each) chopped tomatoes in juice◗ sugar, salt and pepper to taste◗ lemon zest of 1 lemon◗ 12-16…

CONSIDER FREESTANDING Popular in rustic kitchens such as this one, freestanding storage can extend to any style – from industrial (think locker-style cupboards) to maximalist (think colourful ball-and-claw). If you have the space, you can incorporate unique pieces among existing fixtures. PEG IT UP Hanging boards such as versatile pegboards allow you to use up free wall space and organise your utensils – perfect for small kitchens. MAXIMISE WALL SPACE Small kitchen? Look for any free wall space to put up extra shelving. We love these shelves above the door frame in this kitchen. COLOURFUL CUPBOARDS A lick of paint to one or all existing cupboards can transform your entire kitchen. Be sure to choose the correct type of paint for your cupboards. And yes – melamine can be painted!…

Send suggestions for topics and requests for info to yourmoney@you.co.za. We may answer your questions in this column but won’t reply personally. FOR many people it’s no longer enough to have one job – these days nearly 60% of working South Africans have extra gigs and side hustles to generate additional income, according to the 2025 Old Mutual Savings & Investment Monitor. If you are juggling multiple jobs to boost your earnings, it will affect your tax assessment. This is what you need to keep in mind to avoid running into trouble with the taxman. 1 YOUR PAYE COULD BE INSUFFICIENT Each employer deducts Pay As You Earn (PAYE) based only on the salary they pay you. When you have only one employer, the total PAYE deducted monthly should be…

GUIDE DOG GAMES A man with a Great Dane and a man with a Chihuahua go to a bar, but it says “no pets allowed”. One says to the other “how will we bring our dogs inside?” The second man gives the first a pair of dark sunglasses and says “do what I do”. He goes inside and the manager says, “Sorry sir, no pets allowed.” The man says, “This is my guide dog.” “A Great Dane? Really?” says the manager. “Yeah. His sense of smell allows me to find my way around.” The manager lets him in. The man with the Chihuahua was watching, puts on his sunglasses and goes to the bar. The manager says: “Sorry Sir, no pets allowed.” “This is my guide dog.” “A Chihuahua?” “A…

IN A country where rain is scarce and droughts can last for years, the concrete giants that are dams are lifelines for millions. South Africa is unfortunately considered a water-scarce country – we get about half the rainfall most nations receive each year. In fact, out of 195 countries, SA is one of the 30 driest in the world. Because the rain here is seasonal, it doesn’t fall evenly across the country, which means some areas can go without proper rainfall for years. Because of this water shortage, about 77% of South Africa’s water comes from rivers and dams rather than underground sources. Dams in South Africa play a vital role in storing water, producing electricity, preventing regional flooding and keeping the environment healthy. Let’s explore some of the biggest…

TWO years – that’s how long she went without work between The Woman King and her latest project. She could have taken any role that came her way. Instead she wanted stories that mattered, characters that challenged her, projects that would leave audiences with something meaningful. Then Task arrived – and everything clicked into place. The adrenaline-pumping crime drama follows an elite FBI task force hunting a crew of violent robbers. “What drew me to it was the fact that the character was a little older than all the characters I’ve played and that she’s an FBI detective,” Thuso Mbedu tells YOU from her stylish Los Angeles living room where a massive poster for TV mini-series The Underground Railroad commands attention. “I think for most of us who have watched…

AFTER facing an onslaught of petty posts slamming her body and weight, Canadian singer NELLY FURTADO served up the ultimate clapback. No caption, no speech, just a perfectly timed fashion statement that spoke louder than 1 000 trolls ever could. For her recent Manchester Pride festival performance, the 46-year-old took to the stage in a statement-making outfit. She rocked an oversized T-shirt featuring a sketched hourglass figure cinched with a “Whoa Nelly” belt, a cheeky nod to her 2000 debut album. She completed the bold look with glittering fishnet tights, pink fingerless gloves and boots proudly boasting the words “better than ever”. Although the I’m Like a Bird singer stayed silent about the meaning behind her outfit, her stylist, Phil Gomez, appeared to confirm the message behind the shirt in…