Innholdsfortegnelse for 2 January 2025 i You South Africa

SHE ISN’T sorry to be turning her back on 2024 – there was too much pain, too much trauma, too many worries and frustrations. The festive season was tough too, a reminder of what she’d lost and also of happier times when family togetherness used to be celebrated. Now Chrissie Lewis’ brother, former high-jump champ Jacques Freitag, is dead and her mother is fighting for her life. “It was a year from hell,” she says. Chrissie (49) is finally ready to talk six months after Jacques’ murder. Her feelings are complicated: she loved him but he also led her through hell. He used drugs, he drank, he stole. Jacques’ body was found in a field in Pretoria on 1 July. He’d been shot twice. News of the killing shocked South…

1 PRETTY PASTELS Pastels are making a big comeback. Soft shades like lavender, mint green, baby pink and sky blue will dominate eyeshadows, lipsticks and nail polishes. Pair delicate pastel eyeshadows with a nude lip for an understated vibe or opt for a bold pastel lipstick with a glossy finish. The key is to focus on one feature – either your eyes, lips or nails – and keep the rest of your makeup minimal, like actress Micaela Diamond. 2 CHERRY GLOSS This is making a major comeback but with a modern twist – a glossy, high-shine finish that feels fresh and vibrant. From deep, almost-black cherry shades to bright, lively maraschino reds, like singer Olivia Rodrigo, this versatile hue is set to be a major player in makeup trends. 3 SUN…

HOW DO I COPE WITH BEING RETRENCHED? Q Just before the festive season my manager called us in and told us most of us will be retrenched at the end of the month as the company can no longer afford our salaries and has to drastically scale down. In the months leading up to this bombshell no one prepared us. We didn’t know the company was going through difficult times as it’s always been said everything is fine although all of us know things are tough for businesses these days. So it came as a shock that we’d be retrenched just before the Christmas holiday! Where am I going to find work now? We were told we’d receive three months’ salary to tide us over but that money will disappear…

FAIL TO PLAN, PLAN TO FAIL ■ God initially planned to use wasps to pollinate flowers. But in the end, he went with plan Bee. ■ Planning meals in advance . . . Now that’s some food forethought. ■ I never plan anything I do in my life. I don’t want any of my crimes to be considered “premeditated “. ■ I tried plan a,b,c,d, but none of them worked. But, plan e might just take off. ■ I’ve been thinking about why some of my plans are weak. I guess they never work out . . . ■ I have a plan to become rich . . . First, I just need money. ■ I’m making a plan to write all of my friends’ names in alphabetical order .…

INTO THE STORM By CECELIA AHERN HarperCollins As Dr Enya Pickering negotiates the twists and turns of a mountain pass driving home in a violent storm, she’s flagged down by a man who’s found an injured boy in the road, a victim of a hit-and-run. For a scary moment Enya thinks the boy is her teenage son, Finn. It’s not, but the incident sends her spiralling. Cecelia Ahern’s 20th novel deals with loss, trauma and grief, and the messiness of dysfunctional families. Enya shares a successful medical practice with her doctor husband, Xander, but their relationship is fraught, she and her son are growing increasingly distant and she feels lost. She decides to leave her Dublin home when she hears about a post for a doctor in rural Ireland. The…

IN AN airy studio at the top of a building on Marylebone Road in central London, the disembodied arms of Helen Mirren are stretched out on a shelf. On a nearby table are Ed Sheeran’s wrists and hands; in a corner stands a skulk of headless men in tuxedos. There are boxes of hair organised by style, texture and length and, behind a glass cabinet, 11 eyes. Their watery gaze follows visitors around the room. This isn’t the lair of a sociopath – it’s the nerve centre of Madame Tussauds’ London HQ. Downstairs, visitors queue up to meet a constellation of waxwork stars, but this tranquil studio is where the magic happens. Here, a team of specialist artists spend days colouring faces and threading hairlines, dressing fibreglass torsos and painting…

HAVING a manicure used to be her ultimate indulgence, her way of kicking back and relaxing while her nails were buffed, shaped and polished. But the last time Diana Armstrong had her fingernails cut was in 1997 – and 27 years of growth has made them quite a sight to behold. Each one is at least 1,3m long, which means they touch the ground when she’s standing, and collectively they measure almost 12m, making them as long as a bus. They’re so long it’s impossible for the 67-year-old grandmother to tend to them herself but luckily her grandchildren are only too happy to help, she says, and love painting her nails in different colours. It takes the kids 10 hours to manicure each nail and requires up to 20 bottles…

YOUR GUIDE TO THE WORLD OF CELEBS THE BREAK-UP EXPRESS Arguably the most talked about break-up in 2024 was that of Bennifer. What should’ve been a tale of rekindled love went up in flames two years after they got married as JENNIFER LOPEZ filed for divorce from BEN AFFLECK. CHANNING TATUM and ZOË KRAVITZ also called it quits. They started dating in 2021 and Channing proposed in 2023. One month after Zoë’s directorial debut, Blink Twice, in which Channing plays a lead role, hit cinemas, they broke up. MORE RELATIONSHIP WOES ■ Billy Ray Cyrus filed for an annulment of his marriage to singer Firerose just seven months after they tied the knot. ■ Less than a year after son Halo was born, Little Mermaid actress HALLE BAILEY and rapper…

MEDIA PERSONALITY KIM JAYDE “This year I had the honour of being selected as one of 100 people from across the globe whose story was published in the My Barbie Story book. It celebrated 65 years of this iconic brand and featured model Claudia Schiffer and actress Helen Mirren, as well as locals like designer Gert-Johan Coetzee, jewellery designer Jenna Clifford – and myself! My family flew from Zimbabwe to celebrate the launch event with me. It was so special!” PRESENTER JANEZ VERMEIREN “My favourite memory was meeting my father-in-law, Silvio Romeiro, for the very first time this year during our holiday to Brazil – 15 years into the journey with my wife, Juliana.” COMEDIAN SIV NGESI “My favourite memory of 2024 was travelling to China. I went there to…

Your brain health and memory is important and focusing on ways to improve it is a good way to start 2025. The first edition of YOU Brain Games is packed with expert-approved puzzles that will sharpen your focus, increase your concentration and improve your thinking speed. Puzzles and crosswords aren’t just fun – they’re one of the best ways to flex your mental muscle and keep cognitive decline at bay. Get your copy in stores or online at youstore.co.za. Or contact Johan Terblanche on 021-406-4962 or johan.terblanche@media24.com to order a copy. See your writing or news tips in print! Here are the email addresses you need for submitting material for publication. News ideas news@you.co.za Personal stories web@you.co.za Original jokes chuckles@you.co.za Recipes recipes@you.co.za…

IT’S so hot even the fans in the kitchen are struggling to cope, their blades turning listlessly in the stifling air. Cathrine Abbott-Coetzee adds blocks of ice to glasses of fruit juice and carries them to the table to offer us a bit of relief from the brutal December heat in the North West town of Christiana. When she hands over the drinks it’s impossible not to notice: on her two hands she has a total of only three complete fingers. Cathrine doesn’t try to hide this fact though – she’s full of humour and laughter and has a new zest for life since moving to this sleepy town on the banks of the Vaal River. When YOU met her seven years ago at her parents’ home in Kariega in…

1 RICH IN COLOUR, PATTERN AND TEXTURE For the most part, we can say farewell to cool whites and greys and welcome warm and luxurious colours. Think burgundy and chocolate brown, dark wine shades, saturated blue and green, terracotta, ochre and jewel tones. Red is particularly trendy with interior designers saying adding just a pop of the striking hue to a room will make everything look more put-together. Colour and pattern drenching is also popular – using the same colour or pattern on the walls, upholstery, drapery and most accessories in one space. 2 OUTDOORS IS IN There’s been a gradual trend towards giving your outdoor leisure space as much TLC as you do your indoors. Enjoy your outdoor space to the max by making it a comfortable, stylish place…

Send suggestions for topics and requests for info to yourmoney@you.co.za. We may answer your questions in this column but won’t reply personally. YOU’D be surprised at how much is wasted every year on bad financial decisions, impulse purchases and bank fees. With every cent going a long way, here are some simple tips to help you put a stop to unnecessary spending and get a better grip on your finances. 1 DITCH DOOM SPENDING This is when you spend money to self-soothe because you’re worried about the future. It’s very common and is usually linked to anxiety about broader issues such as the economy or politics. But while it can provide a temporary feeling of relief, it can land you in unnecessary debt. Try to change your spending focus. Challenge…

For daily horoscopes go to you.co.za. CAPRICORN 21 DEC – 20 JAN IT’S TIME TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF Things are building up to a crescendo this week and if this involves any kind of money, the scene is set for a confrontation of note. If you feel you’ve been wronged, it’s time to stand up for yourself and others in a similar situation. But be smart in how you plan to go about this, as brute strength will always be overshadowed by the power of the word. With scribe Mercury going into your sign on the 8th, it’s your moment. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 25, 42, 49, 52, 48, 31 AQUARIUS 21 JAN – 18 FEB Things might be tough in your love life, especially if there’s also a lack…

‘I HATE IT WHEN ASKED WHO MY FAVOURITE PLAYER IS BECAUSE THEY’RE ALL SPECIAL’ FOR years she’s been a constant presence on the sidelines, sorting out aches and pains, preparing ice baths and pummelling strained muscles. She was also there for the guys when they felt homesick and missed their loved ones. René Naylor has been right by the Boks’ side for nearly 180 Test matches and she played a vital role in their last two world cup wins. But her time as the team’s physiotherapist has come to an end – and after 16 years it’s hard for her to imagine life without the men in green and gold. “It’s been very emotional. I dropped my 11-year-old son, Cullin, off at school this morning and it was sad because…

“I’m willing to risk bacterial infections, viral infections, parasites or just general illness just to encourage future players to apply to be on Survivor!” Survivor host Jeff Probst (63) to Entertainment Weekly about his intense commitment to his reality show “I got a big cash payday for that. Well, it doesn’t feel right in retrospect because they lost money.” Ben Affleck (52) feeling conflicted about earning big bucks for the 2003 flop Gigli, which co-starred ex Jennifer Lopez “McDonald’s was my first and only job. I got fired three times. I was eating the chicken nuggets.” Pharrell Williams (51) talking to BBC Radio about life before his crazy-successful music career “The biggest red flag . . . Okay, this is a very oddly specific question that I ask guys on…

OUTRAGEOUS SO CHIC GIRL WITH THE SPARKLE BOLD AND FUN…

THE QUEEN once famously spoke about her annus horribilis, a year she’d rather sooner forget – and there can be little doubt her granddaughter-in-law will share the sentiment after the kind of year she’s had. A major operation, the world turned against her as she retreated from the spotlight, then a cancer diagnosis and all the challenges of treatment. An annus horribilis indeed – and like the queen, who used the term in 1992 when two of her children divorced and a devastating fire ravaged her beloved Windsor Castle, Kate hasn’t shied away from talking about her year of hardship. “I didn’t know this time last year that it was going to be the year I’ve just had,” she said. And then she added, “But I think lots of people…

MULTIPLE relationships, seven kids and a reputation as a bit of a ladies’ man – it’s safe to say Princess Diana’s little brother is no stranger to making headlines. And Charles Spencer is at it again. At the age of 60 and fresh from the collapse of his third marriage, the 9th Earl Spencer is nowhere near settling down and living a quiet life at Althorp, the glorious ancestral home where he and Diana grew up and which he inherited. He finds himself slap bang in the middle of a bitter fight between his new girlfriend, archaeologist Dr Cat Jarman (42), and his estranged wife, Countess Karen Spencer (52). Cat recently filed a lawsuit against Karen accusing her of the misuse of private information. The details were initially kept secret…

1 STILL SPORTY Athleisure has been around for a while and it seems it’s not going anywhere anytime soon. Comfortable, easy-to-wear and pair, and oh so trendy – it’s easy to see why this trend is still around. This look is perfect for both active lifestyles and casual everyday wear but you can also pair sporty pieces with more formal ones for an edgy look. 2 STAND-OUT ACCESSORIES Whether your outfit is muted, brightly coloured or patterned, pairing it with bold accessories is so hot right now. Think dramatic, colourful jewellery and shoes, oversized bags and distinctive hats. 3 ON POINT Welcome back, pointed flats! These pumps are making a comeback as the modern, refined alternative to classic ballet flats – perfect for adding a touch of elegance to everyday…

PREPARE for a big year as four of the major planets change signs in 2025. Jupiter jumps into Cancer, Saturn and Neptune both shift into Aries and Uranus transits into Gemini. All of this means we can expect some individuals and nations to demand more independence, and we’re likely to see the rise of strong new political leaders and the restructuring of religious institutions, as well as incredible inventions and advances in technology involving mass media, education, electronics, cars and computers. Pluto (the planet of powerful transformation) is transiting through the progressive, group-focused sign of Aquarius until 2044. The last time Pluto visited Aquarius was from 1778 until 1798, a period that included the Industrial Revolution and the French Revolution, so expect discoveries, innovations, rebellions and revolutions. There’ll also be changes…

ON OUR RADAR 1 THE LEGEND LIVES JUICE WRLD died suddenly at just 21 years old in 2019 after an accidental overdose of codeine and oxycodone. But his music lives on. The rapper, who recorded more than 3 000 tracks before his death, made his Fortnite debut in December as a playable character in the online game and around the same time, The Party Never Ends, said to be his final album, dropped. The rapper’s mom, Carmela Wallace, told fans she was excited about them “getting the music they have been anxiously awaiting!” The rapper, whose real name was Jarad Anthony Higgins, loved globes, Carmela said. “When Jarad was a toddler, he developed a love for globes that lasted for years. He was fascinated with spinning them. Reflecting on that,…