Innholdsfortegnelse for 14 July 2022 i You South Africa

I’M SURE I’m not alone in diving into the letters page every week to see what you have to say. Sometimes I’m left with a lump in my throat, on other occasions I have a bit of a chuckle. And every time without fail I marvel at the interesting lives of others and how you can keep a conversation going via this section in YOU. I’ve learnt many a tip (tighten a thin leather belt around a lid for a stuck jar, advised one reader) and an interesting fact (canola stands for Canada Oil Company so margarine absolutely cannot contain canola seeds, shared another). I’ve learnt about sorrow and about love in your letters. About anger and about forgiveness. About friendship and caring for strangers. About what it is to…

MORE DARK DAYS AHEAD Experts warn power rationing in South Africa is far from over COULD this finally be the beginning of the end for Eskom’s grip on electricity supply (or in their case, lack thereof) – and the start of a new way of thinking about energy in South Africa? The worst week of loadshedding since 2019 sparked fresh calls from business leaders to find urgent solutions to the problem. In the Western Cape, for example, the City of Cape Town has managed to stay two stages below the rest of the country with the help of the Steenbras power station. The 180MW Steenbras Hydro Pump Station consists of four turbines that can generate electricity, especially when demand is great. Cape Town is the only municipality with a hydroelectric…

YOUR MONEY SORTED Send suggestions for topics and requests for info to yourmoney@you.co.za. We may answer your questions in this column but won’t reply personally. 1 OPEN A SEPARATE ACCOUNT Once you’ve decided you want a baby, start saving! It’s a good idea to do so in a separate account because money in your transactional account is easy to spend. Consider setting up a monthly debit order. Many banks give you the option of linking a savings account to your transactional account. Or you can open a completely separate account – just be sure the interest you earn is more than the bank charges. 2 BE CAREFUL ABOUT BABY PURCHASES Because having a baby is such an emotional experience it’s easy to make impulse purchases and…

BOOK OF THE WEEK THE MEASURE By NIKKI ERLICK Borough Press People wake up one day to find a small, mysterious box on their doorstep. No matter whether they live in a flat, mansion, tent or have no home, every adult in the world over the age of 22 gets one. The box is inscribed with the recipient’s name and a cryptic message that ”the measure of your life lies within”. Inside is a piece of string and the length indicates how long each person will live. The world is in uproar. Scientists study the material makeup of the box and string and can’t match it to anything on Earth, but eventually are able to connect the string length to a period in months and years. Division starts between the…

ONE late spring evening in 2018, Justo Gallego Martínez said he’d show me his grave. The old man was warming his hands by a stove in the dim back room of his cathedral. A dusty film coated the concrete floor. The shelves and tables were full of relics, screws, chipped wood, crushed glass, half-eaten loaves of bread. A bare hanging bulb cast the room in jaundiced light. “I want to be buried here,” Justo said, signalling around him to the cathedral’s cavernous nave and the 20 trembling towers sprawled across thousands of square metres of his own land on the outskirts of the Spanish capital, Madrid. The cathedral’s crypt would be his burial place. And he’d be buried there because it was his cathedral. He’d designed it entirely in his…

AT PLAY IN SAINT-TROPEZ NEARLY two months after BROOKLYN and NICOLA PELTZ BECKHAM tied the knot in an opulent ceremony in Palm Beach, Florida, the newlyweds found a luxurious honeymoon destination to celebrate their wedded bliss – glamorous Saint-Tropez in the south of France. The British model and photographer and the American actress, who’ve both taken the surname Peltz Beckham, were seen cuddling as they explored the city. During one of their outings, the lovebirds tucked into a gourmet lunch at swanky beachside restaurant Club 55. Nicola (27) and Brooklyn (23), eldest son of retired soccer star David and fashion designer Victoria Beckham, have been updating fans on their travels via social media. While at the restaurant they shared an utterly gorgeous moment with followers. As they dined, a live…

R400! YOUR LOVELY FACES As cashiers, when the wearing of masks started, we struggled to identify the customers we were familiar with in our store. In public, people who knew each other very well couldn’t recognise one another when they met. Now that we no longer have to wear masks, we’re starting all over again to familiarise ourselves with the faces of people we meet every day. As for the people we met for the first time during Covid-19 pandemic regulations, it’s like we’re seeing them for the first time now. I must say it’s exciting. It’s only now that we recognise the significance of facial expressions. You can tell how someone feels about what you are saying or doing to them through their expressions. With masks covering our mouths…

JUICE, zest and everything in between – citrus fruits are packed with flavour! Use the zest to add pizzazz to baked goods or sauces, and the juice to add zing and sweetness to marinades and dressings. From pork chops to chicken and fish, citrus pairs wonderfully with savoury dishes. We spice up a traditional malva pudding and show you how to make citrus-flavoured koesisters and cheesecake. STICKY CRUMBED NAARTJIE CHICKEN SERVES 4-6 / PREPARATION: 20 MIN / MARINATING: 2 HOURS OR OVERNIGHT / COOKING: 30-35 MIN CHICKEN 12 chickendrumsticks60ml (¼c) soysauce2 garlic cloves,grated5cm fresh ginger,chopped1 chilli, chopped1 onion, chopped30ml (2T) brownsugar5ml (1t) sesame oil(optional) CRUMBS 125ml (½c) cornflour125ml (½c) cakefloura pinch of salt2 eggs, beaten SAUCE juice of 3 largenaartjies or about125ml (½c) store-bought naartjiejuice15ml (1T) sweetchilli sauce30ml (2T) vinegar30ml…

Write to Dr Louise, PO Box 39410, Moreletapark 0044, or email info@drlouise.co.za. MY WIFE LIED ABOUT LIKING ANIMALS Q I am an animal lover and as a child I always had lots of pets – from cats and dogs to rabbits, hamsters and tortoises. When we were dating, my wife told me she loved animals and I always thought it was an interest we shared. After we got married, when we were able to afford to buy a house, I looked forward to getting a dog and making him or her part of the family. But then I discovered that my wife in fact can’t tolerate animals. She has no empathy for them and can’t even touch an animal without making a scene about it. This has made me very…

For daily horoscopes go to you.co.za. CANCER 21 JUNE – 21 JULY FOCUS ON HEALING OLD WOUNDS The subtle undercurrents of what’s happening in your love life will not go unnoticed by you this week. Try to read the signs as they occur, but be mindful of your vivid imagination – it might let you see things that aren’t there. It’s essentially a time for healing old wounds caused by betrayal or accidental hurt. Letting go might be the most difficult thing to aim for right now, but it’s a sure way of moving on and letting the past stay where it belongs. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 2, 17, 42, 48, 39, 6 FAMOUS BIRTHDAYS CANCER STYLE GUIDE ● Silver and smoky greys are their colours. ● Clothing with flowing fabrics…

1 What is the name of Australia’s capital city? 2 Which SA swimmer won a gold medal in the breaststroke at the Olympic Games in Tokyo? 3 In which country did the haiku poem originate? 4 In which country is kimchi – fermented cabbage – a common part of people’s daily diets? 5 Who is SA’s health minister? ANSWERS 1. Canberra 2 . Tatjana Schoenmaker 3 . Japan. A haiku is a short poem consisting of 17 syllables – 5 in the first line, 7 in the second line and 5 in the third line. 4. South Korea 5. Dr Joe Phaahla…

IF SHE’D been able to tell her teenage self she’d be where she is today, she would’ve laughed disbelievingly. Back then everything seemed hopeless after a childhood fraught with tragedy and trauma. Julieth Gudo was orphaned at seven and raised by her paternal grandparents. Then her grandmother died and Julieth seemed destined for a child marriage until she took a leap into the unknown – and the seeds were sown for a future that has made her an inspiration and a beacon of hope for young people battling seemingly insurmountable odds. Julieth (32), who is from the Zaka District in Zimbabwe, graduated with a PhD at the University of Cape Town (UCT) after getting her LLB at the University of Limpopo, and she’s now doing her research fellowship at UCT…

1 CHARLENE AND ALBERT CELEBRATE THEIR ANNIVERSARY Prince Albert of Monaco (64) and Princess Charlene (44) recently celebrated their 11th wedding anniversary. Earlier this month the royal couple released a new portrait to mark the milestone. The pair are pictured holding hands in the photo taken in the gardens of the Pink Palace, with Charlene resplendent in a teal floor-length pleated gown by Louis Vuitton. She shared the photo on Instagram with the caption, “Happy anniversary” and a heart emoji. 2 RUAN TIES THE KNOT South African rugby player Ruan Ackermann is a married man. Ruan, who plays for English club Gloucester, and his partner, digital content creator Kirsty O’Connell (both 26), recently tied the knot at the picturesque Bosjes farm near Ceres in the Western Cape. “Blessed! And so…

Actress WINONA RYDER has opened up about the “tough time” she faced after her split from actor JOHNNY DEPP in 1993. The Stranger Things star, who’s on the cover of Harper’s Bazaar magazine’s July 2022 digital issue, called their break-up and the Hollywood culture at the time “my Girl, Interrupted real life”, referring to her 1999 movie about mental-health struggles. Winona (now 50) and Johnny (59) began dating after meeting at the New York premiere of her movie Great Balls of Fire! in 1989. They went on their first date two months later. Then five months after the first date, the Edward Scissorhands co-stars got engaged but called it quits in June 1993. The two-time Oscar nominee mentioned she never opened up about her feelings after she and the Pirates…

YOU Cook for Two takes the guesswork out of zero-waste small-scale cooking – it’s perfect for small families or singles. This magazine features weekly menus specifically developed so there’s no wasted food to throw away, and a handy shopping list each week for your next grocery run. Recipes include mint koftas with pita bread, coriander chicken with chilli sweet potatoes, marinated pork ribs with mealies and more delicious delights. There are also recipes for freezer-friendly bulk-cooking so you’ll have a quick meal at hand for those especially busy days. Get your copy online at youstore.co.za or contact Johan Terblanche at 021-406-4962 or johan.terblanche@media24.com. See your writing or news tips in print! Here are the email addresses you need for submitting material for publication. News ideas news@you.co.za Personal stories…

AT FIRST everything gave them hope – a knock on the door, the ringing of a phone, the sound of a car stopping outside the house. Each time they dared to think it might be good news: that their little Khaya had been found and was on his way home. But as the days dragged into weeks they knew it was hopeless. The little boy who had brought them so much joy was gone – but the thought of him being lost forever in the sewer system that snakes under the city was too terrible. They needed closure. And now at last they have it. Six-year-old Khayalethu Magadla’s body was recently found near Eldorado Park Cemetery in Johannesburg, bringing to an end an exhaustive three-week search. Kholekile Magadla, the boy’s…

FEDORAS These are a dressier option and add an instant touch of chic, edge and elegance to dresses and coats. Invest in Nubuck and felt fedoras in neutral colours to easily mix and match winter outfits. BAKER-BOY HATS Add a dash of European flare with a statement-making retro baker-boy or newsboy hat. It’s a great add-on to give outfits a playful, chic finish. Go for solid colours in tweed or pleather or stand out in embellished hats. Add it to a feminine dress or pants-and-coat combo for an effortlessly put-together look. BEANIES This humble and classic winter staple is the best way to keep your head warm in style. From cable knits to pompoms and ribbed headwear, beanies in all colours are a must for your closet and perfect to…

CAN’T PLEASE EVERYONE Three friends stranded on a deserted island find a magic lamp with a genie inside. He agrees to grant each of them one wish. “I want to go home,” says the first friend. The genie grants her wish. “I want to go home too,” says the second friend. And the genie sends her back home. “I’m lonely,” says the third friend. “I wish my friends were back here.” SHOWING YOUR AGE A man is asked for his ID at a liquor store and his Blockbuster video card accidentally falls out. The cashier sees it and smiles. Then he says to the customer: “If you’re old enough to have a Blockbuster card, never mind about your ID!” ON THE LOOKOUT A cement mixer and a prison bus crashed…

1 ON OUR RADAR LISTEN TO THIS ‘I feel a renaissance emerging and I want to be part of nurturing that escape in any way possible’ BEY IS BACK! It’s happening! BEYONCÉ is set to release her seventh studio album, Renaissance, on 29 July. The pop superstar has confirmed the date on social media, adding that the album will be Act 1, leading to speculation it will be released in multiple parts. The title refers to life after lockdown, she told Harper’s Bazaar magazine last year. “With all the isolation and injustice over the past year, I think we’re all ready to escape, travel, love and laugh again. I feel a renaissance emerging.” It features 16 tracks, including the first single, Break My Soul, and reportedly has touches of country…

NO 1831 QUESTION WHAT IS THE WORD SPELT OUT BY THE LETTERS IN THE COLOURED BLOCKS? With NIVEA’s new Cellular Lift Expert, a daily skincare collection, women who require firmness, tightening and renewed smoothness will see the benefits they’ve been searching for. It’s thanks to a highly safe yet cutting-edge new botanical ingredient, pure bakuchiol, together with two types of skin-hydrating hyaluronic acid blend to create superior yet safe treatments for your skin. Formulated to address three core concerns for women, Cellular Lift Expert treats deeper wrinkles, skin laxity (sagging skin) and loss of skin density. This means mature skin benefits from three amazing actions of this treatment range: tightening for an anti-sag lift, deep wrinkle reduction and improvement of skin density and structure. HOW TO ENTER : COMPLETE THE…

PIERCING blue eyes? The rippling muscles of an otherworldly being? Holder of the mighty hammer? Check, check and check. Yes, good people, the hunk of hotness that is Chris Hemsworth is back on the silver screen to sweep us away from a reality of loadshedding and rising petrol prices. In Thor: Love and Thunder he’s once again joined by Valkyrie (Tessa Thompson) and former flame Jane Foster (Natalie Portman) to take on vengeful and villainous Gorr the God Butcher (Christian Bale). But two little newcomers to the set are the ones who matter most to the Thor star: one of Chris’ eight-year-old twins, Tristan, and his daughter, India (10), have cameos in the film. Tristan plays a young version of Thor while India plays the character of Love. “It’s really…

ACTRESS MEGAN FOX has revealed that she and her fiancé, musician MACHINE GUN KELLY (MGK), are seeking professional help in a bid to tame his demons. “We’ve done every form of therapy that exists,” the Night Teeth star says. “Some of it’s really difficult, but our therapist said that a relationship is basically the process of breaking each other down, but most people don’t have the tools to build each other back up, to rebuild.” Megan (36) opened up after MGK (32), who was born Colson Baker, spoke candidly in his Disney+ documentary, Machine Gun Kelly’s Life in Pink, about how he tried to take his life in July 2020. The Midnight in the Switchgrass actor details his battle with depression following his father’s death and how he attempted suicide…

TAORMINA FILM FESTIVAL SICILY ONLY MURDERS IN THE BUILDING LOS ANGELES GRAND PRIX BALL LONDON PATTERN BEAUTY LAUNCH LONDON MR. MALCOLM’S LIST PREMIERE NEW YORK…