Innholdsfortegnelse for 10-Nov-16 i You South Africa

I’VE always been fairly water-conscious – in our home we try not to waste and we make clever decisions to stay water-wise but I’ve realised we have to do even more to help save the precious resource. There’s no hiding from the fact South Africa is in a crisis when it comes to water and we have to make serious, drastic changes in the way we use it if we want to avert a greater disaster. Our story on page 14 shows the precarious levels of our dams and why we need to do much more to conserve water. And if you’re considering using “grey water” at home, turn to page 16 to find out what you need to know to get started. Id love to hear if you have…

Kim Kardashian’s robbery was a waste of two pages in your lovely mag (YOU, 20 October). In South Africa we have six robberies every hour of every day. That equates to 148 a day! FRANK, SMS Oscar Pistorius being allowed out of jail to attend a funeral (YOU, 27 October) wasn’t justified. Reeva Steenkamp will never be able to attend her parents’ funerals one day. RIP REEVA, EMAIL What are the producers of Isidingo thinking? They’re sending a bad message that corruption, greed, deceit, theft and even murder are acceptable and that you can get away with all the above. GOODBYE SABC, EMAIL I’ve stopped watching Isidingo. It’s become too smutty – and all the subtitles just spoil one’s viewing. ANNOYED, EMAIL I can’t afford my YOU so I have…

‘We all need to be aware of how precious water really is and we should be mindful how we use it’ IT’S time to pack away your hosepipes and get real about the looming water crisis as the worst drought in three decades sinks its unforgiving teeth into our parched country. Rivers are drying up in KwaZulu-Natal, officials in Gauteng are hinting at the possibility of water-shedding (when the water supply is switched off for a certain time) and severe restrictions have been imposed in parts of the Western Cape as another long, hot summer looms and dams are at risk of running dry (see previous page). “People need to understand the seriousness of the situation” says Etienne Hugo, acting chief operations officer (COO) of Johannesburg Water. If things carry…

SHE has posed with mega music star Usher on the cover of a magazine, was chosen to appear in Kylie Jenner’s new lipstick ad campaign – without having had to audition – and has partied at rapper Drake’s house. Welcome to the world of Carmen Lee Solomons, the modelling industry’s latest It girl who’s swopped her family home in Kraaifontein, Cape Town, for the bright lights of Los Angeles. The 25-year-old is being hailed as one of the most exciting faces to hit fashion in a long time and everyone who’s anyone wants a piece of her. It’s her unusual looks – the red hair, green eyes, high cheekbones and freckles – that are causing such a stir. The same features that kids used to tease her about when she…

MIMI Jardim is a legend in South Africa when it comes to Portuguese cooking. She was born in Portugal but moved in the late ’50s to SA where she developed a love of food quite early in life. Her passion turned into a successful career in cooking, teaching, writing, exploring and sharing her knowledge of Portuguese flavours. Her latest book, My Portuguese Feast, is a true tribute to her 50 years of culinary adventures. ROASTED SWEET POTATO SALAD SERVES 4 Preparation: 15 min Cooking: 45 min Resting: 15 min 150 g blanched almonds 125 ml (½ c) olive oil coarse salt 1 kg sweet potatoes, peeled and cut into chunks 2 red onions, peeled and cut into quarters 2 garlic cloves 1 cinnamon stick 125 ml (½ c) orange juice…

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I prefer peace. But if trouble must come, let it come in my time so my children can live in peace – AMERICAN STATESMAN THOMAS PAINE COVERED OR NOT? Some readers have asked if they’re covered against damage resulting from student protests. For instance, your car could easily get damaged if it’s parked near a group of protesters. In South Africa short-term insurers don’t cover damage or loss resulting from protests. To be insured against this youd have to take out Sasria cover on top of your short-term insurance, says Lizette Erasmus, an insurance expert at IntegriSure. PREMIUMS AND PAYOUTS The premiums are, for example, R2 a month or R20 a year for a family car – you can use the premium calculator on the Sasria website*. The premiums depend…

ALMOST BECAME A DENTIST Sofía (44) was studying dentistry when she was discovered by a photographer on a beach in Colombia, South America, where she’s from. Like most girls in her hometown of Barranquilla, Sofía married young and had a baby soon after, at the age of 19. The marriage lasted just two years and after working as a model for a few years a family tragedy led to her move to the US – her brother Rafael (27) was killed in a failed kidnapping attempt. Sofía says she never made a conscious effort to be sexy. “I never really thought about it until I moved to the US. In Latin America everybody goes to the beach in a G-string and you’re always in high heels. It’s just our day-to-day…

STEP IN THE WRONG DIRECTION On an icy, bitter-cold day Hank visits Lou. “I had a rough time getting here,” Hank says. “For every step forward I slipped back two.” “If you slid back two steps for every one you took forward, how’d you get here?” asks Lou. “I almost didn’t. But then I turned around and started going home.” BY HOOK OR BY CROOK On a plane bound for New York a flight attendant approaches a blonde sitting in the first-class section and asks her to move to economy since she doesn’t have a first-class ticket. “I’m blonde, I’m beautiful, I’m going to New York, and I’m not moving” the blonde replies. Not wanting to argue with a passenger the flight attendant asks the co-pilot to speak to her.…

‘I do like to write fast-paced books, with lots of dialogue and not too many descriptions. For me, the story is everything.’ - STEPHEN LEATHER YOU WILL KNOW ME By MEGAN ABBOTT, Picador If you want insight into what it’s like to try to get to the Olympics this book, set in the world of gymnastics, opens the door a crack. Told from the point of view of Katie, mom of daughter Devon - a 15-year-old whom everyone at their cliquey gym knows has the best shot of reaching the Olympics - it shines a spotlight on the highly competitive nature of this sport. Katie and her husband, Eric, take turns getting up at the crack of dawn to take Devon to practice and spend hours on the road travelling…

The leggy beauty CARMEN LEE SOLOMONS (25)  This sexy local model was chosen by none other than Kylie Jenner as one of the faces for an ad promoting her lip kit. It’s not the first time Carmen has worked with Kylie - she’s also modelled for the American reality TV star and her sister Kendall’s cloth ing line. Stunning Carmen, who’s super proud of her Khoisan heritage, hails from Kraaifontein in the Mother City but now lives in Los Angeles. She’s come a long way since she was discov ered at 16 and has even modelled with R&B star USHER for a Fault magazine feature. Her big dream is to appear on the cover of Vogue. You go, girl! The well-connected muso CANDICE PILLAY (35) This Pietermaritzburg-born singer-songwriter is making…

‘I’m busier than I’ve ever been and happier than I’ve ever been’ ANYONE who’s watched Shark Tank South Africa, the country’s latest hit reality TV show, will know the sharks that sit in judgment of the wannabe entrepreneurs are a tough bunch. They can be biting and ruthless, chewing you up then spitting you out if you aren’t to their liking. But every now and then a contestant comes along with an idea so edgy it sends the sharks into a veritable feeding frenzy. Just take Vusani “Vusi” Ravele. When he entered the tank to punt his business model the sharks weren’t expecting much – they’d already ripped all the contestants before him to shreds. Vusi was different. He had it all: charm, brains, humility and an impressive product, and…

TOM CRUISE (54) is apparently dating a British woman he met while filming The Mummy in the UK in June. The star asked the unnamed woman – who’s been described as “very normal and pretty” – on a date to Bourton-on-the-Water, a charming village in the Cotswolds, and he’s been smitten since. According to a source, the Jack Reacher: Never Go Back star is “serious about this and wants to make it work. He wants some companionship.” MILEY CYRUS (23) has finally cleared up the confusion about why she doesn’t always wear her engagement ring from actor Liam Hemsworth (26): it’s not her style. “Most of my jewellery is made out of gummy bears and cotton candy and they don’t look that good together, so sometimes I replace it with…

Id like to thank Lisa for writing such an incredibly true letter (YOU Say, 27 October). I put my family through exactly what she’s going through and I can happily say that with their never-ending support I’ve been clean for more than three years. What she says about an addict not waking up one morning deciding to be an addict is true, and no one who has not gone through addiction or helped someone overcome it will ever understand how hard it really is. My thoughts and prayers are with her and her son. CAROL, EMAIL I’ve just read Lisa’s winning letter and it left me feeling as if Id written it myself ! Lisa, you really struck a chord. It felt as if youd been inside my head. Thank…

HIS parents weren’t expecting to see him that weekend – hed made plans to go to town with his pals and he usually stayed over when he went partying. “Bye Dad, see you on Sunday” he told his father when he dropped him at work on Friday morning. So when a car rolled up to the family smallholding a few kilometres from Pretoria North the next day, Jan and Judie van Wyk were baffled. Two men stepped out of the car with their son André between them that Saturday morning, 17 September – the day life as the family knew it was about to change forever. The two men were policemen in civilian clothing and said they wanted to speak to Jan and Judie. “I wanted to know what was…

CALAMARI IN CURRIED CRUMBS SERVES 4 Preparation: 20 min Chilling: 30 min Cooking: 20 min 4 calamari steaks, cut into narrow strips salt and freshly ground pepper COATING 250 ml (1 c) flour 45 ml (3 T) roasted masala 2 eggs 60 ml (¼ c) milk 375 ml (1½ c) breadcrumbs TO COOK oil for deep-frying 1 Pat the calamari strips dry with paper towels. Season all over with salt and pepper. 2 Coating Mix the flour and masala well. Roll the calamari strips in the mixture. 3 Whisk the eggs and milk together well. Dip the calamari in the egg mixture in batches and roll in the crumbs, making sure it’s well coated. 4 Arrange the calamari on a platter, cover and chill in the fridge for at least…

EYES Applying a bright colour with some shimmer to the inner corners of the eyelids adds glamour without being over the top. NAILS If you want your bright nail colour to really pop and last longer, first apply a base coat of white nail polish. LIPS Apply your lip colour in short strokes – whether you’re using a lip brush or lipstick wand – as it gives you more control and creates a neater finish. SKIN Leave the heavy moisturisers for the cold winter months – rather go for light ones (such as moisture mists) that hydrate effectively but without the stickiness. Revive tired skin with refreshing masks. SCENT Opt for light floral fragrances in the heat of summer. Apply sparingly behind your ears, on the insides of your elbows…

1 What is Sasria? The South African Special Risks Insurance Association is a state-controlled company and the only short-term insurer in SA that offers cover against damage to assets resulting from exceptional risks such as strikes, terror and unrest. 2 How do I claim? First report the claim to your insurer which will then claim from Sasria on your behalf and make sure you get paid out. Should you need to claim directly from Sasria you can find information about the claim process on its website*. 3 Does it only cover incidents in South Africa? Sasria cover is for incidents of riots, protests and terror in South Africa but may provide cover in some situations in Namibia. 4 Is it compulsory to take out Sasria cover? No, but short-term insurers…

X-MEN: APOCALYPSE 2016. 145 min. 10-12PG V. Sci-fi action. R129* In 1983 powerful mutant Apocalypse (Oscar Isaac) is awakened from his long slumber and, disgusted with the world, decides to destroy it and start anew. It’s up to Professor X (James McAvoy) and the X-Men to stop him. This sixth instalment in the X-Men series brings the prequel trilogy that started with X-Men: First Class (2011) to a close. Director Bryan Singer helmed the franchise’s three best films, but it seems he’s run out of energy and inspiration. And while there are some memorable character moments, visually arresting images and clever nods to the comics, much of this film feels tired and repetitive. By exploring the youth of Professor X and Magneto (Michael Fassbender), First Class delivered a fresh take…

LISTEN TO THIS! REVOLUTION RADIO GREEN DAY R149* The legendary punk rockers’ first album in four years (their 12th in total) is hard, fast and pure vintage Green Day. The trio shun all gimmicks and go back to their roots – which should delight die-hard fans. “This was me, Billie [Joe Armstrong] and Tré [Cool] firing off each other” says bassist Mike Dirnt of their latest offering, “in the same way as if we were practising for Kerplunk [the group’s second album, from 1992] without thinking about it” Back in 2012 the band’s future looked uncertain when Armstrong went to rehab for booze and prescription-pill addictions after he’d suffered a meltdown on stage. He said then he was “burnt out”. But now, four sober years later, the band are firing…

He’s only six weeks old but little MAX NICHOLAS SANDES already has his first pair of custom-made “running” shoes! It’s thanks to his professional trail-runner dad, RYAN SANDES (34), of course, who’s sponsored by outdoor sports retailer Salomon. The little red shoes came all the way from France. Mom VANESSA HAYWOOD-SANDES (38) admits the sleep deprivation that comes with having a newborn – who weighed a whopping 4 kg at birth – is “definitely not fun” but says Max is “the biggest gift ever”. “Becoming a parent has taught me so much” the actress says. “It’s been a life-changing experience and definitely the biggest achievement of my life” doting Ryan says. “Max is rad and has had a super-calming effect on me” With Ryan training for the 160-km Grand Raid…

SPRINGBOK RUGBY PLAYER STEVEN KITSHOFF “I’m reading The Rise Of Superman by Steven Kotler. It’s a great book about average people who push the boundaries of human performance and how they go into a ‘flow’ state of mind to perform to the best of their abilities.” RAPPER KHULI CHANA “I’m reading Fela: This Bitch Of A Life by Carlos Moore – it’s the authorised biography of Nigerian musical genius Fela Kuti. I’m also reading Scar Tissue, the autobiography of Red Hot Chili Peppers vocalist Anthony Kiedis. They’re two music legends who’ve overcome hardships and managed to pick up the pieces. They’re an inspiration.”…

JESSICA ALBA The actress did her best impersonation of Eddie from Ab Fab. TYGA & KYLIE JENNER The reality star oozed sex appeal as Christina Aguilera from her Dirrty music video while boyfriend Tyga went as rapper Juelz Santana. TAYLOR LAUTNER Silver and gold - the Twilight star donned a silver crop and gold-medal bling as US Olympic swimmer Ryan Lochte. MICHAEL KIVES & KATY PERRY The celeb agent and the singer were unrecognisable as Bill and Hillary Clinton. BETTE MIDLER The actress channelled her Hocus Pocus character Winifred Sanderson. ORLANDO BLOOM The actor went as Donald Trump, arch-rival of girlfriend Katy Perry’s character.…

STOP STRESSING! STRESS has taken over our society entirely. We throw the word around in everyday conversations and we talk about it as if we’re experts. Where was stress 20 or 30 years ago? Children played outside, neighbours had braais together, and camping was fun and parents talked to each other. We focus so much attention on stress that we don’t enjoy our lives, our jobs, our weekends. We invest so much energy in brainwashing ourselves to believe that we’re “stressed”; instead we should use that energy to seek fun, good times and enjoy the life we’ve been given. There’s so much to celebrate, to achieve, to do, to create – we should embrace all the opportunities and change our way of thinking. Go outside and smell the fresh air,…

HER engagement ring is impossible to ignore. It’s enormous: a sumptuous three-carat diamond surrounded by 12 smaller stones. Every time she moves her hand and it catches the light the effect is dazzling. We meet in a suite of a discreet hotel in the shadow of Kensington Palace where Pippa Middleton has agreed to give her first major interview to talk about her new charity cookery book, Heartfelt. But as she proudly shows off the magnificent sparkler, it’s clear there’s more than cooking on her mind. Her engagement to multimillionaire financier James Matthews (41) was revealed in July and the ring was handmade to his specifications. The first time she saw it was when he proposed to her on bended knee on a romantic weekend away in the Lake District…

‘This leaves a void for the next generation of talent’ – CORNÉ KRIGE ‘France, Japan and England make enticing offers to players’ – THANDO MHLONGO ‘We’ve never used an attacking strategy. The stress is always on defence’ – CHESTER WILLIAMS BURGER, Habana, Vermeulen, Kruger, Van der Merwe . . . Looking at the names on the players’ jerseys you might think you’re watching a local rugby match. But you’d be wrong. After years of loyal service to South African rugby, these big-name stars are now seeking greener pastures overseas. Schalk Burger (33) plays for British club Saracens while Bryan Habana (33), Duane Vermeulen (30), Juandré Kruger (31) and Marcel van der Merwe (26) have all signed to French outfit Toulon along with Juan Smith (35). All six…

‘It’s the broken that find a way because the cracks, although deep, let out as much light as the darkness they let in’– YOUNG ADULT FICTION WRITER TOM KAVANAGH Write to Dr Louise, PO Box 39410, Moreletapark 0044, or email info@drlouise.co.za. I WAS HIS LOVER, NOW I’M HIS NANNY Q My boyfriend and I have been dating for six years, have a five-month-old daughter and have never kept secrets from each other. Three years ago we welcomed his parents into our home and it was great having them. Recently I’ve noticed he keeps stuff from me and doesn’t talk to me about things like he used to. He talks to his mom a lot and when I walk into the room they keep quiet. When I talk to my mom…

FAMOUS BIRTHDAYS WORK AND MONEY: SCORPIO . . . • Needs a vocation they’re passionate about. • Isn’t only street-wise but also money-wise. • Picks up on vibes at the workplace. • Makes a powerful boss and an achieving employee. • Is the still-waters-run-deep staff member. • Likes to work and thrive under pressure. • Believes money is power and power is money. SCORPIO 23 OCT – 21 NOV Take time out for some self-development With the Sun present in your sign the spotlight falls on you as a person, making it a good week to focus on self-development. It’s an appropriate time for deep introspection to bring to light those aspects of yourself in need of transformation – to cultivate strengths and to eliminate flaws. Since it’s also a…

LADY GAGA The US pop star recently released her fifth album, Joanne – her first solo record since 2013’s Artpop. Not only does Gaga ditch her outlandish persona, she also steers away from her usual pop sound and embraces a more stripped-down, blues-rock style. No wonder fans are divided! But the first single, Perfect Illusion, went to No 1 in several countries including France and Spain. The album is named after her late aunt Joanne Germanotta and is her most personal yet, Gaga says. JAMES ARTHUR The singer-songwriter won The X Factor UK in 2012 but was dropped two years later by Simon Cowell’s label, Syco. In an incredible twist James was recently signed again to the label and his new track, Say You Won’t Let Go (off his second…

FORMER DANCER Born Kehlani Parrish, she studied ballet and modern dance before an injury prompted a move to her school’s music department, where she blossomed as a vocalist. THE ALBUM Crzy comes ahead of the release of Kehlani’s debut album, which is expected to drop before the end of the year. The lyrics are all about self-confidence and being a strong woman. “I’m still proving myself every day. I don’t think I’ll ever feel like my mission’s complete. I don’t think any true artist does. Every day is a step towards what I want to accomplish.” BEGINNINGS Despite a tough childhood in Oakland, California, at age 14 Kehlani joined the group PopLyfe. They took part in season six of America’s Got Talent in 2011 and made it to…

The Legend Of Hercules hottie KELLAN LUTZ was recently in Cape Town and couldn’t stop gushing about his visit to the Mother City. The American model and actor, who’s best known for playing Emmett Cullen in The Twilight Saga, posted a triumphant pic of himself on top of Lion’s Head. “Roaring like a lion! I love Cape Town!” he wrote alongside the picture on Instagram. It seems the 31-year-old had longed to visit Cape Town for some time as he posted another photo of the Twelve Apostles mountain range with the message, “ Bucket list One of my most favourite cities in the world!”…

LET’S face it, they were an odd couple from the start – she the limelight-loving American pop diva, he the private Australian billionaire. Yet for 18 months they made it work – that was until September when MARIAH CAREY (46) and JAMES PACKER (49) allegedly fought during a holiday in Greece and called it quits. In light of the split the businessman appears to have forfeited the $10-million (R135-million) engagement ring he gave Mariah in January as the star was seen wearing it – albeit on her right hand – while stepping out with friends for dinner in Malibu, California, recently. She’s also reportedly demanding that James buy her a mansion in Los Angeles as part of a $50-million (R675-million) settlement she wants from him for uprooting her kids –…

Can we just say actress ANNE HATHAWAY’s six-month-old son JONATHAN is the cutest! The 33-year-old, who’s the picture of a doting mom these days, was spotted taking the adorable tyke to a playground in Brooklyn, New York. Missing from the family fun day was her husband, Adam Shulman. On the work front the Oscar winner is set to start shooting Ocean’s Eight this month. An all-female reboot of the movie franchise, it will also star Sandra Bullock, Helena Bonham Carter, Cate Blanchett, Sarah Paulson, Rihanna and Mindy Kaling.…