Innholdsfortegnelse for 22-Sep-16 i You South Africa

A FEW years back Nkalakatha was a huge hit with South Africans across the spectrum, a joyous song that had us all dancing and singing along. And the man responsible for it, kwaito star Mandoza, became a household name from Krugersdorp to Kuils River. But in the years that followed Mandoza was beset by drama – and then came the news earlier this year that he’d had cancer. But he’d beaten it, he told us, and he was grabbing life with both hands again. Tragically, he’s ill once more and in a heartrending interview on page 6 his wife, Mpho, opens up about how he’s fighting a disease that’s back with a vengeance. Throughout the article Mpho’s strength shines through and our thoughts are with her as she does her…

I think Margaret van Wyk is an incredible woman (YOU, 8 & 15 September)! Well done on keeping your relationship fresh by being naughty with your husband, and for keeping your head up during this terrible situation. The only people who should hang their heads are cyberbullies, especially the person who started the snowball rolling by sharing your picture. INGRID, EMAIL To the parent whose stupid actions caused Margaret’s WhatsApp blaps to go viral, I say grow-up! Margaret, hold your head high, have a jolly good belly laugh and move on. LINDY, CAPE TOWN It seems as if Margaret is seeing herself as a victim, saying she didn’t start it. Come on, be real! Nobody was looking for this. You gave it to them on a silver platter. Now you…

Early ’90s Forms a kwaito group called Chiskop with a group of childhood friends. 1999 Embarks on a solo career, releases a top-selling album and wins several awards. 2000 Releases his hit album Nkalakatha. The single of the same name becomes a huge crossover hit that tops many charts. 2001 Wins song of the year for Nkalakatha at the South African Music Awards. 2004 Voted into the top 100 list of Great South Africans. March 2008 His car is involved in a crash in which two people – Charles Shabalala (39) and Felix Thebe (38) – are killed on the N1 highway in Joburg. December 2008 Pleads guilty to culpable homicide and is commended by the magistrate for showing remorse. He’s ordered to pay compensation to the bereaved families –…

THAI BRINJAL CURRY SERVES 4 Preparation: 15 min Cooking: 40 min BRINJALS 4 brinjals, cubed 30 ml (2 T) oil salt CURRY 4 garlic cloves, crushed 5 cm fresh ginger, peeled 1 green chilli 20 g fresh coriander 15-30 ml (1-2 T) water 15 ml (1 T) oil 4 spring onions, chopped 1 can (400 ml) coconut milk 15 ml (1 T) lemon juice Preheat the oven to 200 °C. Line a baking sheet with foil and grease with nonstick spray. 1 Brinjals Arrange the brinjal cubes on the baking sheet, drizzle the oil over and season with salt. Mix to coat the brinjal cubes and bake for 20-25 minutes or until done and slightly caramelised. Set aside. 2 Curry Pulse the garlic, ginger, chilli and coriander in a food…

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An insurance provider’s track record can usually be obtained from the Ombudsman for Short-Term Insurance (OSTI). You can email the ombudsman at info@osti.co.za, go to osti.co.za or call the office on 011-726-8900. Be completely honest when applying for cover, says Peter Cronje of OUTsurance. If it’s discovered that you lied about your circumstances the cover could be declared invalid – at a time when you might need it the most. Don’t simply stop paying your premiums if you’re struggling financially, says finance lecturer Nico Swart. “This not only basically cancels your cover, it also compromises your good claim and credit record, which could count against you when you next try to buy insurance.” Remember that insurers allow for a 15-day grace period after the agreed-upon payment date, Swart adds. If…

THIS MUST BE THE PLACE By MAGGIE O’FARRELL Tinder Press I wanted to stop time so I could keep reading this novel – it was so enthralling. There are two main characters but multiple players, points of view and locations as the story jumps around in time and place from person to person. One of the main characters is Claudette, an eccentric French-English movie star (I pictured her looking like Helena Bonham Carter) who at the height of her fame simply walks away and disappears. She moves to a ramshackle farmhouse in an isolated valley in Ireland. There she meets Daniel, an American linguistics professor who’s fighting for access to his two children after an ugly divorce. They marry and have two kids of their own. We get to meet…

FAMOUS BIRTHDAYS IN LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS: LIBRA . . . Puts their relationship first. Makes for a cooperative spouse. Needs approval from their partner – a lot of it! Is the cosmic matchmaker. Is a most sociable companion. Believes in making love, not war. Shows love by pleasing their significant other. LIBRA SEP 23 – OCT 22 Be careful not to take things to the extreme The Sun moves into your sign this week, heralding the beginning of a new personal year. Soon it will be your birthday, a good excuse for a social Libra to have friends around for a party. But be warned, it could be a week of overdoing things – which may pose a threat to both your pocket and your waistline. Amid the celebrations also…

WE MEET the young co-stars at a luxury hotel in London’s trendy Soho neighbourhood. Girl Meets World star Sabrina Carpenter turns heads in a blue Comino Couture dress while Descendants’ Sofia Carson sizzles in a sexy black studded number from Asos. We even bump into Game Of Thrones star Nikolaj Coster-Waldau, better known as Jaime Lannister, in reception. It’s raining celebs! YOU is here to discuss the remake of the ’80s cult classic Adventures In Babysitting in which Sabrina (17) and Sofia (23) play rival babysitters Jenny and Lola who accidentally swop phones while attending an interview for a prestigious photography internship. Lola then hijacks one of Jenny’s babysitting gigs and Jenny has to clean up her mess when one of the kids wanders off into the city without supervision.…

CALVIN MOVES ON CALVIN HARRIS (32) seems to have put his messy break-up from Taylor behind him. The Scottish DJ is dating Mexican actress and model EIZA GONZALEZ (26), who was once linked to Aussie actor Liam Hemsworth. In British GQ’s October issue Calvin opens up about the split from Taylor, saying, “The aftermath was way more heavily publicised than the relationship itself. When we were together we were careful for it not to be a media circus. She respected my feelings. But when it ended all hell broke loose. “Now I see that Twitter thing [their romance ended in a Twitter spat over Taylor’s role in his hit track This Is What You Came For] as a result of me succumbing to pressure. It took me a minute to…

An Uber ride in Istanbul didn’t take us to our destination. Instead, after a lengthy drive, we were deposited at a carpet shop belonging to the driver’s relative, who insisted we come in and look. When I objected, the relative got quite belligerent. Be vigilant, tourists! HAPPY TRAVELLER, SMS Texting while driving should be given the same punishment as drinking and driving! I see so many young boys and girls still in their school uniforms texting and driving as they leave the school gates. VINCENT RICHARD TARR, YOU FACEBOOK I’m a granny of seven grandchildren and love reading the primary school articles. I collect them in a file for my little monkeys, and when they have a school assignment I gladly supply them with these lovely articles. Thank you! SAKINA…

READERS were spellbound by her emotional account of the unconventional journey she went on to heal her broken heart. She ate pizza in Italy, prayed in India and finally ended up in Indonesia, where she met her soulmate, a sexy Brazilian named Filipe. Elizabeth Gilbert’s bestselling memoir, Eat, Pray, Love, and the movie spin-off starring Julia Roberts and Javier Bardem struck a chord with single women the world over – surely if Liz could find true love after so much turmoil and heartache, there was hope for everyone else? But a decade later comes a twist in the tale that nobody was expecting: divorce in New Jersey. Three months ago the American author stunned fans when she announced that, after nine years of marriage, she and the real-life Filipe, José…

WHETHER it’s seafood, fish, meat, vegetables or dessert, it can be cooked over the coals. And if you’re celebrating Heritage Day on 24 September with a braai, make it a meal to remember with our recipes for yellowtail, pork chops, brinjals and yummy chocolate braai pie from YOU Best Recipes: Braai – on sale now. BRINJALS WITH YOGHURT AND POMEGRANATE SERVES 6 Preparation : 10 min Cooking: 40 min 3 medium brinjals 250 ml (1 c) full-cream plain yoghurt 1 garlic clove, crushed salt and pepper 60 ml (¼ c) pomegranate seeds pinch of za’atar (Middle Eastern spice blend) 15 ml (1 T) olive oil 1 Prick the brinjals with a fork. Braai over indirect heat in a kettle braai for about 30 minutes or until soft. Allow to cool.…

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‘There is no loneliness like that of a failed marriage’ – US AUTHOR ALEXANDER THEROUX I HAD TO LEAVE HIM BUT NOW I FEEL LOST Q I’m so heartbroken. I’ve split up with my fiancé of almost six years because his binge drinking had got out of hand and was affecting our relationship. When he drinks he’s vulgar, has a temper and is embarrassing to be around. He also drives while drunk. He knew his drinking was affecting me but ultimately chose alcohol over me. It’s a pity because I love the sober (true) version of him. We had such great times and I couldn’t wait to marry him. We own a house together and now have to decide what to do with our combined assets. I’m 32 and have…

BARBERSHOP: THE NEXT CUT 2016. 107 min. 13L. Comedy drama. R129* It’s been 12 years since the previous instalment in the Barbershop franchise, but it’s been more than worth the wait – The Next Cut is easily the best flick in the series yet. The shop run by Calvin (Ice Cube) offers more than just a hairdo – it’s a place to meet friends, talk and catch up. And the things being talked about reflect changes in the neighbourhood, which has been taken over by warring gangs. Calvin and his staff manage to organise a truce by offering everyone a free haircut, but will the peace last? With racial issues, sexual politics and economic hardships the order of the day this film deals with the reality of many African-Americans’ lives…

BRILLIANT EXCELLENT WORTHWHILE SO-SO IF YOU MUST A All ages D Drugs H Horror L Language N Nudity P Prejudice PG Parental guidance S Sex V Violence LISTEN TO THIS! BLOSSOMS BLOSSOMS This British indie-pop outfit formed in 2013 but their debut album hits shelves only now. However eight of the 12 tunes have been playlisted on radio stations around the world in the past few years so you probably know tracks such as Cut Me And I’ll Bleed and Charlemagne, both included here, while their EP, At Most A Kiss, hit No 1 on the UK chart earlier this year. The five-piece band’s style is nothing new and although they do a nice job blending ’80s synth-pop sounds with modern production, it’s not enough to make them stand out…

This debut novel is one of the most talked-about releases of the year. It’s based on the Manson family murders and centres on Evie Boyd, a restless teenager who’s drawn to a free-spirited group of strangers living on a rundown ranch near her home in California. But before she knows it she’s out of her depth. We have five signed copies to give away. To put yourself in line to win a copy, SMS the keyword GIRLS, your name, postal address and answer to the question below to 33150* before 5 pm on 29 September. Question: Who’s the author of The Girls? *EACH SMS COSTS R1,50. YOU MUST BE THE REGISTERED USER OF THE CELLPHONE OR YOU MUST HAVE THE OWNER’S PERMISSION TO USE IT TO ENTER THE COMPETITION. THE…

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Her eyes burn with pent-up rage as she rattles off details of the cases she’s investigated EVERY time Erin Brockovich meets someone new, she cracks the same joke. “No, I’m not Julia Roberts,” she says with a throaty laugh. “I hope you’re not disappointed.” It’s been 16 years since Brockovich became a household name thanks to the Oscar-winning film that told her story. She was the ultimate underdog, a feisty single mother who bullied her way into a job with a law firm then uncovered a giant water-poisoning scandal. Ever since, her identity has been partially subsumed by the gum-chewing torrent of legs and cleavage that Roberts brought to life on screen. The real-life Brockovich is 56. She no longer wears hot pants and boob tubes. Her three young children…

HE LOOKS like a cross between Chuck Norris and an ageing hippie and his colourful life story is the stuff movies are made of – literally. He’s John McAfee and if you have a computer you’ve probably seen his name countless times. Because this guy is the king of antivirus software. His cybersecurity company, McAfee Associates, was bought by technology giant Intel for more than R80 billion in 2010 – but the programmer and businessman has also made headlines for becoming caught up in drugs and sexcapades with teenage girls and being arrested in Guatemala for illegal entry. For several years he lived in Belize, a tax haven in the Caribbean, where one of his neighbours was mysteriously murdered. John claims he was the real target and that the Belizean…

ALL HAIL THE COMEDY QUEEN! There’s a downside to being funny for a living when you’re a mom – your kids think you’re joking all the time. “Nobody takes me seriously in that house!” TUMI MORAKE says with mock indignation. The mom of three recently became the first South African woman to be voted comic of the year at the annual SA Comics’ Choice Awards. “It means my industry believes in me and my hustle is recognised,” she says of her win. It’s the perfect accolade to celebrate her 10 years of tickling South Africa’s funny bone. Asked how the past decade has changed her, Tumi (34) says she’s become less apologetic about who she is. “And I dress way better too!” GETTING TO KNOW TUMI My pet peeve is…

STAR LOOK The Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills’ YOLANDA HADID came out to support her daughter BELLA, who was named model of the year. “This is the first time my mom has been out of bed in four years and got her hair and makeup done and I’m so happy she’s here,” Bella said. Both suffer from Lyme disease.…

YOU’RE NOT ALONE THE stigma surrounding depression grieves me to my core. I suffered from postnatal depression after the birth of my first child and have carried much guilt and shame for years because of the responses of some people in my life and the government hospital system. To those who judge, I encourage you to seek to understand first. The battle these vulnerable souls fight each day just to feel a small ray of hope in the darkness is terrifying. They need love, encouragement and practical support, not archaic responses that isolate them further as emotional lepers. To those who are in the depths of despair and fighting this affliction, I want to say: you’re not alone. There is support out there and you don’t have to battle it…

‘I’m not even thinking about death. We want to destroy this cancer forever’ HER eyes are bloodshot and she looks up at the ceiling every so often to keep the tears from rolling down her cheeks. “I have to be strong for my kids,” Mpho Tshabalala says. “Things are serious.” The mom of three is opening her heart for the first time since her husband, Mandoza – one of South Africa’s best-loved musicians – heard his cancer was back. And this time it’s tragically robbed him of his sight. Just four months ago Mandoza (38) told YOU he’d beaten squamous cell carcinoma, a type of skin cancer that attacked his mouth, eyes and nasal passages (YOU, 5 May 2016). Upbeat and relieved, he wanted to share his journey and educate…

Henri is out on bail of R100 000 after being charged with the murder of his parents and brother but his recent drugs arrest won’t affect this case because the two weren’t connected, Eric Ntabazalila, a spokesperson for the National Prosecuting Authority said. He declined to reveal whether Henri had been tested for drugs at the time of the murders, saying that providing such information would prejudice the case. But what if the court finds that Henri was under the influence of drugs when he allegedly committed the murder? Would that influence his sentence? The fact that someone was intoxicated or under the influence of drugs cannot be used to justify a criminal act, says Nzame Skibi, a lawyer from Legal Aid South Africa. “However, intoxication may be brought up…

‘YOU’D better do that right now or else!” “If I have to ask you one more time there’s going to be trouble!” Most parents would have caught themselves uttering these words at some point. You’re tired and after repeating the same thing several times you resort to yelling, threats and ultimatums. Surely there must be an easier way? There is, the authors of a new book say. They’ve studied parents in Denmark and have discovered something quite incredible – the Danes seldom shout at their kids and it would never cross their minds to spank them. This doesn’t mean kids are allowed to do as they please. There are still rules – it’s just that their parents have found a gentler way of enforcing them. The result? Children who are…

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Don’t tell me where your priorities are. Show me where you spend your money and I’ll tell you what they are – US WRITER JAMES W FRICK LIE 1: FINANCES ARE BEYOND ME This is the most common – and weakest – excuse. Thanks to the internet and smartphone apps it’s easy to find the right information. Start with the basics, such as how credit ratings and bank fees work. Request a credit record – it will give you a good summary of your debts. Look at the fees on your bank account and see if there’s an account that offers more benefits and cheaper fees. LIE 2: I DON’T EARN ENOUGH Record your spending. You’ll soon see if you’re living beyond your means – and exactly what you overspend…

THE World Health Organisation (WHO) lists depression as the third biggest illness in the world. By 2020 it could be the second biggest and by 2030 the biggest. According to a local study, South Africans take an average of 18 days a year sick leave as a result of depression. To show you care, join in the Hope Hike on Sunday 2 October in Cape Town and Sunday 9 October in Gauteng. The hike aims to increase awareness about the illness and is an opportunity to do your bit to break the silence and stigma surrounding depression and other psychiatric conditions. This year there’s also a Hope Bike so that mountainbikers can take part too. October is the month in which the WHO emphasises psychiatric wellness and how important it…

The R&B superstar’s eighth album, Hard II Love, hits shelves this week. Here’s all you need to know about the record and the man behind it. 1 His new 15-song collection includes tunes you’ve already heard on radio, such as the Young Thug collaboration No Limit and the ballad Crash, released earlier this year. 2 The album’s title was changed twice – it was previously called UR and Flawed. 3 Tracks Missin U and Champions are also featured on the soundtrack of his new boxing flick, Hands Of Stone. He plays boxing legend Sugar Ray Leonard in the movie. 4 Usher (37) was mentored by hip-hop mogul P Diddy (46) when he signed to Bad Boy Records as a teen. Diddy took him to wild parties when he was only…

YIKES! HE MIGHT LOOK FEARLESS BUT THE STAR IS SCARED OF REPTILES AND SNAKES. WE FEEL YOU, TAYLOR. SIBLING LOVE Taylor loves posting adorable childhood snaps of him and his younger sister, Makena (now 18), on Instagram. He also calls her his “best friend”. Aw! HOBBIES IN HIS DOWNTIME HE PLAYS GOLF, GOES FISHING AND HIKING AND HITS THE GYM. PAGING DR LAUTNER Taylor (24) plays hunky Cassidy Cascade, a hot doc with a strange medical condition, in the upcoming second season of Scream Queens. We reckon sparks will fly. In the trailer he makes out with Abigail Breslin’s character Libby Putney, aka Chanel #5, on a stretcher! HE ♥ HIS FANS! Taylor likes to share snaps on Instagram of fan art sent to him by his followers. Some continue…

AIRPORTS are fascinating, busy places where you can see all kinds of interesting buildings, people and machines. If you’ve been to a large airport you’ll have noticed that a lot of people work there. Each one has an important job to do. Without them – and we don’t mean only flight crew – the aircraft wouldn’t be able to take off or land. Airports have managers, firemen, security staff and cleaners, among others, who all play a role in ensuring everything goes smoothly. Many people also work at the shops and restaurants. At airports there are people who do unique jobs you won’t find anywhere else. THE RUNWAYS Runways are among the most important parts of any airport. They therunwaystomakesurethey’reundamaged and free of any objects that could damage aircraft. Maintenance…

SHE became famous worldwide for being the first person to receive a face transplant – an operation that paved the way for several more surgeries of its kind. Yet Isabelle Dinoire never felt comfortable in her own skin again, even though her appearance improved dramatically over the years. She lived in dread of seeing herself in the mirror as she felt the face that was staring back at her belonged to someone else. “It was half me, half her,” she would always say. But Isabelle’s story – which is part medical miracle, part human tragedy – has now come to an end. Plagued by depression even before the incident that robbed her of her face and haunted by a dead woman whose face she received, Isabelle passed away in April.…

IF SOMEONE had told her five months ago her debut single would be a hit viewed more than 1,6 million times on YouTube and that celebs would be posting videos of themselves dancing to it, she wouldn’t have believed them. And those aren’t the only surprises life has had in store for Babes Wodumo lately. Sports minister Fikile Mbalula jokingly declared her debut track, Wololo, our new national anthem, her fan following on Instagram rocketed to 158 000 in a matter of weeks and she was asked to perform on Idols SA earlier this month – and brought the house down. The 22-year-old Durban singer has also been invited to be one of the opening acts at the MTV Africa Music Awards in Johannesburg on 22 October. It usually takes…

2 MAY Sparks first fly when Taylor and Tom are seen dancing together at the Met Gala in New York. At the time Tay-Tay is still dating DJ Calvin Harris. 13 JUNE The first signs things have turned romantic are when they’re snapped in a PDA on a beach in Rhode Island, USA, just two weeks after Taylor split from Calvin. 24 JUNE Things take a serious turn when Taylor accompanies Tom to the UK to meet his mom, Diana. 27 JUNE The two fly to Rome for a romantic getaway. 4 JULY Tom endures ridicule after wearing an “I love TS” T-shirt while frolicking in the sea with the songbird and her pals during Independence Day Weekend. 27 JULY They’re seen holding hands while heading out on a dinner…

MEL B (41) proved nothing is too outrageous for her when she agreed to urinate on Bear Grylls’ hand after the Running Wild host was stung by a jellyfish! The former Spice Girl explained she’d seen it done in the movies then didn’t hesitate to pull down her pants to do the deed – despite suffering from a bit of stage fright. “To pee on demand when someone’s in pain is very difficult,” the America’s Got Talent judge said later. After she’d completed her, er, task Bear (42) gushed, “Mel B, she saved my life. It still stings but it’s better.” Lewis Hamilton (31) has apparently been secretly dating WINNIE HARLOW (22) for three months. The British F1 champ and the Canadian model, who has the skin condition vitiligo, have…