Innholdsfortegnelse for 6-Dec-18 i You South Africa

I WAS on holiday recently so had lots of time to read. It was just wonderful going through one delightful book after the other and I devoured new ones from several of my favourite authors. But now those are finished and I have to choose a new book from a writer I don’t know well or not at all. It’s not that easy, as any book-lover knows. You first have to see what’s available, then check reviews, then see what others are saying about it, then decide if it’s worth the cost in time and money . . . What I often find frustrating is how hard it is to find trusted sources for good reviews and new books. That’s why I love books editor Jane Vorster’s bumper specials, which…

What’s happened to 7de Laan (YOU, 29 November)? It was an amusing family programme that I’ve been watching for many years. As a friend said, “It’s turned into something bizarre”. I’ve now switched off. DISAPPOINTED, EMAIL ■ 7de Laan, I wish you luck as I wave you goodbye. After watching the past few episodes I decided never to watch the soapie again. What a scare each time! VERY UNHAPPY, EAST LONDON ■ 7de Laan has gone too far with its storyline! I can’t watch anymore. LINDA, DURBANVILLE ■ In reply to Ann’s message about the bad scriptwriting in 7de Laan (YOU Say, 15 November): perhaps she’d like to help the writers out with some ideas. There are so many other channels to watch, or she can simply use the off…

Jennifer Preiss, the deputy ombudsman for long-term insurance, has this advice. ■ Always be honest. If you hide anything or provide incorrect information, it’s regarded as “pre-contractual misrepresentation” and will affect the payout. ■ Rather give too much information than too little. “If you’re unsure about something, ask for more time so you can check with your doctor before signing.” ■ Should you develop a condition after the policy has been issued, you need not declare it. Policies pertain to conditions at the time of signing. ■ Shop around. Some insurers are prepared to cover applicants with serious medical conditions, so explore your options.…

IT CAN’T have been easy to watch her little sister swan down the aisle in a lavish wedding watched by millions while she sat in a pew with her mom as her plus-one. So when Princess Beatrice of York unveiled her new man just weeks after Princess Eugenie tied the knot, her friends were thrilled. Finally, two years after the flame-haired royal kicked her boyfriend of 10 years to the curb, Beatrice appears to have found love again. The guy in question, Edoardo Mapelli Mozzi, seems to be quite the catch. The 35-year-old property tycoon is Hollywood handsome, with dark wavy hair and piercing blue eyes – and he has a bit of blue blood to boot. Edo, as he’s known to pals, is the son of Count Alessandro Mapelli…

AN EPIC bully. That’s how Markus Jooste is described by people who worked with him in the days Steinhoff International Holdings was flying high. As CEO, Jooste ruled the roost at the retail holding company, cracking the whip over his executives’ head, belittling them in front of employees and dismissing them with a barrage of swearwords. Now, of course, Steinhoff is in tatters and Jooste is one of the most vilified men in the country. Steinheist, a new book by investigative journalist Rob Rose, delves into the biggest corporate scandal in South African history and provides insight into the mind of the man who once thought he was invincible. Jooste was “never far from a double Johnnie Walker Black”, one former employee says in the book. “He liked to party…

WATERMELON TART MAKES 4-5 TARTS PREPARATION: 10 MIN 1 large watermelon TOPPING 1 tub (230g) plain cream cheese 125ml (½c) icing sugar, sifted 180g fresh cherries 400g fresh strawberries 125g fresh blueberries fresh mint leaves 1 Cut the watermelon into 2-3cm thick slices and set aside. 2 Topping Mix the cream cheese and icing sugar and set aside in the fridge until needed. 3 Spread some of the cream cheese mixture on each watermelon slice and top with the cherries, strawberries and blue berries. Cut into wedges, scatter the mint leaves over and serve. WATERMELON KEG MAKES 4-5 LITRES PREPARATION: 20 MIN 1 large watermelon, preferably seedless 1 plastic spigot a few mint leaves tequila juice of 6-8 limes ice cubes 1 Cut off the top of the watermelon. 2…

‘MY CAR loan is nearing the end of its contract but there’s a balloon payment of R40 000 left,” a reader writes. “I don’t have cash. Do I have to pay it as a lump sum, can I refinance, or is there another option?” This reader’s situation isn’t unique. Balloon financing means a portion of the selling price – the balloon – is payable only at the end of the loan agreement. This reduces the monthly instalments but the balloon payment lies in wait. The balloon can be as much as 20% or 35% of the selling price. Unfortunately, many people forget about this major expense at the end of the loan agreement and when it rolls around, they’re in a tight spot. We asked Ghana Msibi from WesBank to…

A Allages D Drugs H Horror L Language N Nudity P Prejudice PG Parentalguidance S Sex V Violence BRILLIANT / EXCELLENT / WORTHWHILE / SO-SO / IF YOU MUST THURSDAY ■ FLIGHTPLAN ★★★ 2005, 98 min, PG13, e.tv, 22:00 & 01:25. Thriller. A widow tries to convince the other passengers and crew that her daughter has vanished during a flight from Germany to America but nobody believes her. Jodie Foster, Peter Sarsgaard. ■ THE ODD WAY HOME ★★★ 2013, 87 min, PG13, e.tv, 23:50. Drama. An odd couple go on a road trip across America and find happiness in the unlikeliest place. Chris Marquette, Rumer Willis. ■ HARD SELL ★★★ 2016, 96 min, PG13, M-Net, 02:40. Comedy. A poor high school student who attends an elite academy befriends an aimless…

You want a phone with a massive, immersive screen that fits in your pocket? Start saving. Samsung, Apple and reportedly even Huawei have foldable devices in the works. Samsung seems to be ahead of this curve, with the Korean company promising to bring one to the market next year. But as novel as this sounds, the concept hasn’t been met with much enthusiasm. Mashable’s Stan Schroeder reckons foldable phones will go the same way as 3D TVs and other gimmicky products. “Foldable phones are a solution to a problem that doesn’t exist, and – from what I’ve seen so far – a clunky one,” he writes. “How can I be so sure this early in the game? It’s simple: try as I might, I can’t think of a single reason…

Her life inspires her music The 24-year-old singer says her latest track, Without Me, is about her on-off relationship with rapper G-Eazy. It’s the first song she’s ever written under her real name, Ashley Frangipane. “It’s not protected by some character or subplot. It’s like this is really me talking about my life.” Road to fame She got her break when she released the track Ghost on SoundCloud in 2014. She says she uploaded it at 10pm and within five hours, five record companies had contacted her. She released her debut album, Badlands, in 2015 and her second album, Hopeless Fountain Kingdom, last year. The album spawned several hits including Bad at Love and You & I with G-Eazy. She’s the boss Halsey has around 200 people working for her…

SOURPUSS I can’t believe Victoria Beckham was included in the beautiful picture of the Spice Girls on the cover of YOU (15 November). She looks so miserable. Thumbs up to the other four who are getting together again. Your smiles will take you everywhere. Maybe give some tips to the misery on the right. MERLE, PINETOWN TO BROKEN-HEARTED BIBI Your brother James took his own life as he could see no other way (YOU Say, 15 November). There’s nothing you could have said or done to prevent it. Depression is a real disease that sadly frequently ends in suicide. I’ve tried it and nothing anyone could have said or done would’ve prevented it. At the time I truly believed no one would miss me. In fact I believed they’d be…

My No 1 wish for SA is that we could have safe, reliable public transport systems. How wonderful would it be if the trains and buses all ran on time and there was no fear of being robbed or set on fire! OPTIMIST, EMAIL I bought YOU’s wonderful Homework Done magazine for all my grandchildren. I see No 2 is available in December. Wow! Thanks so much! Issue No 1 has already been delivered and received with great enthusiasm but the other one will have to wait a little until Gran goes to visit. I like to read it first. AMANDA JACOBS, EMAIL Prince Charles always looks as if he’s just farted, or is about to. STEVE, EMAIL It’s sinful how much celebrities spend on weddings. There are so many…

THE HOURS (2002) She donned a fake nose to play British author Virginia Woolf – a role that won her a best actress Oscar. THE PAPERBOY (2012) A tacky fake tan, peroxide wig and skimpy attire turned her into an ageing floozy. THE RAILWAY MAN (2013) Looking ordinary as an ex-POW’s wife in post-war clothes and a brown wig. LION (2016) Sporting short curly hair to portray the adoptive mother of a young Indian boy. HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS AT PARTIES (2017) As an “old-school punk” in this sci-fi romantic comedy. AQUAMAN (2018) She morphed into an ethereal mermaid warrior as the beguiling Queen Atlanna.…

SHE was a close friend of Princess Diana, Charlize Theron carried one of her handbags on the red carpet the night she won her Oscar and she counts everyone from Jennifer Aniston and Reese Witherspoon to Kate Winslet among her clients. And now Lana Marks could be heading to South Africa – not to tout her exclusive totes but to fill the position of US ambassador. Eyebrows were raised last month when news broke that the 65-year-old handbag designer was US President Donald Trump’s pick for the plum diplomatic post, which has been vacant since 2016. But given her complete lack of political experience, Lana is a surprising choice. What might have also factored into Trump’s decision to nominate her is that she grew up in South Africa (although she…

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POPULAR children’s movies may be packed with talking animals, wild adventures and plenty of laughs, but if you listen closely there are pretty deep life lessons in there too. From Beauty and the Beast to Brave, films offer you a way to talk to kids about values to live by and how to handle themselves when facing life’s challenges. Here are a few valuable lessons children can learn about friendship, love and standing up for what you believe in – all from movies. DON’T JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER Whether you’re faced with grumpy ogres like Shrek or reclusive, furry man-beasts with mad ballroom skills like Beast, first appearances can be deceptive. It’s human nature to make snap judgments – it’s just how our brains are wired, says Nicholas…

SAGITTARIUS 22 NOVEMBER –20 DECEMBER Your finances might worry you this week You’re in a prime period for personal development, with the wellbeing of your body being a high priority. A lax approach to your physique could cost you. Not knowing when enough is enough might be a big drawback, whether eating too much taxes the body or overdoing it on the sports field takes its toll. Moderation may be a quality to take on board for the next while, challenging as it might be for a true Sagittarius. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 31, 22, 2, 50, 48, 17 CAPRICORN 21 DEC – 20 JAN If you’re a true Capricorn, chances are you’re an organised person who likes to have your ducks in a row. In this regard, it might be…

WHY IT’S NICE TO BE A DOG ■ No one expects you to take a bath every day. ■ When it’s raining, you can lie around the house all day and never worry about being fired. ■ If it itches, you can reach it. ■ And no matter what itches, no one’s offended if you scratch it in public. ■ You can wear a fur coat and no one thinks you’re insensitive. ■ If you grow hair in weird places, no one notices. ■ You never get into trouble for putting your head in a stranger’s lap. ■ Having big feet is considered an asset. ■ If you gain weight it’s someone else’s fault. ■ No one tells you to wipe your nose because it’s wet. ■ No matter where…

THE LEISURE SEEKER Drama. Ella Spencer (Helen Mirren, who was nominated for a Golden Globe) whisks her ailing husband, John (Donald Sutherland), away on a road trip from Massachusetts to the Florida Keys in their old camper van she lovingly calls Leisure Seeker. Ella hopes John, a literature professor suffering from dementia, can have one last memorable holiday and visit the home of writer Ernest Hemingway, whom he idolises. But the Spencers’ adult children are unhappy about the escapade and struggle with an anxious sense of foreboding. Though it’s slow going at times, the subtle unpacking of the myriad emotions a family experience regarding end-of-life care is both poignant and evocative – a good balance between funny and sad. – CHEZ POOL 2017. 108 MIN. 16DL. ALSO ON DSTV BOX…

THANK U, NEXT! ARIANA GRANDE The pint-size pop star is at the top of her game right now and this new breakup anthem is said to be about all her exes. NONSTOP DRAKE The beat on this tune is addictive and so is the vid, which features clips from the Canadian’s performance at the Wireless Festival in London earlier this year. KILLER BEE 5SOS Following Canadian singer Shawn Mendes’ rendition of Under Pressure, the Australian rockers also take on a Queen hit – and do it brilliantly. Take a listen. HARARE BONGO MAFFIN They’re back! After a 13-year break Stoan, Thandiswa and Jahseed have produced an epic tune with an Afro-futuristic vibe. CLOSE TO ME ELLIE GOULDING & DIPLO FT SWAE LEE On the UK singer’s first original track since…

‘I HAVE led an extraordinary life on this planet. By using my mind and the laws of physics I’ve been to the furthest reaches of our galaxy, travelled into a black hole and gone back to the beginning of time. On Earth I’ve experienced highs and lows, turbulence and peace, success and suffering. I’ve been rich and poor, I’ve been able-bodied and disabled. I’ve been praised and criticised but never ignored. I’ve been enormously privileged, through my work, in being able to contribute to our understanding of the universe. I want to share my excitement about the big questions and my enthusiasm about this quest. One day I hope we’ll know the answers to all these questions. Are we alone? What are the chances that we’ll encounter some alien form…

SHE may have been the youngest and tiniest contestant this year but if ever you needed proof that dynamite comes in small packages, this is it right here. Week after week Yanga Sobetwa belted out hits with a voice that belies both her age and her stature and helped her scoop the title as winner of Idols SA from Thato Makape (23). She still finds it hard to believe, though. “In my head, Thato’s name was ringing louder than mine as we waited for ProVerb to announce the winner. I was like, ‘Oh no, I’m going home, I’m not going to win.’ So I was like, ‘Lord, take the wheel. It’s in your hands now’.” And when ProVerb called Yanga’s name, all the 17-year-old could do was sing, belting out…

THE POWER OF A KIND WORD MANY years ago the words of a total stranger made a big impact on my life. As a result of childhood abuse I was and still am extremely introverted and lacking in confidence. I’d just started a new job and was completing an order form for a much younger, beautiful and extremely poised woman. She startled me by suddenly saying, “You know, you have the most beautiful blue-green grey eyes I’ve ever seen.” Caught off-guard, I mumbled a thank you while a feeling of warmth and wellbeing flooded my entire body. Long before I became aware of the concept of paying it forward I decided to always do the same for others. Years later I was a receptionist for a truly formidable woman who…

The wait is over! YOU Blockbusters issue No 19 is now on sale with more of the great brain games you’ve come to love – and it’s just in time for the summer holidays. There are crosswords, photo blockbusters, codebreakers, anagrams, sudoku and so much more puzzle fun. Get your copy in stores today! It’s also a great Christmas gift for a puzzle fan. If you’ve missed any of our previous issues, order at youstore.co.za or contact Johan Terblanche on 021-406-4962 or at johan.terblanche@media24.com.…

A PICTURE of her husband hangs on the wall of the living room in her home, a constant reminder of the man she would’ve been married to for 20 years this year. But Nathan Ganas was gunned down in the driveway of their home in Shallcross, Durban, triggering shock and grief – and a David and Goliath battle that would make widow Denise Ganas a household name. Denise struck a blow for consumer crusaders everywhere when she refused to back down after insurance giant Momentum said they wouldn’t pay out Nathan’s life policy. Following a nationwide outcry, the insurer eventually capitulated. And while Denise is thankful her fight is over, nothing will erase the horror and heartache of 2 March 2017, the night her husband was murdered. Nathan (42) was…

The position of ambassador is quite senior – it’s almost equal in rank to a ministerial position in cabinet, says Professor André Duvenhage, a political expert at North-West University. “Someone like that needs to have experience,” he adds. “You need political knowledge, to understand the relations between the two countries as well as finance, and you have to be a negotiator.” Gert Grobler, former South African ambassador to countries such as Spain, Japan and Madagascar, says Lana will have her work cut out for her. “Our relationship with the United States is extremely important and one of her greatest tasks will be to promote economic cooperation. She most definitely won’t just be showing off her handbags and sipping Champagne.” But Grobler says Lana’s lack of political experience shouldn’t cause a…

BABY MARROW AND SALAMI MUFFINS Muffins are perfect for packed meals. These savoury muffins with baby marrows, salami and cheddar cheese are a great all-in-one meal. MAKES 12 MUFFINS PREPARATION: 15 MIN BAKING: 25-30 MIN 500ml (2c) cake flour 15ml (1T) baking powder 5ml (1t) salt 500ml (2c) grated baby marrow 250ml (1c) grated cheddar cheese 100g salami, diced 60ml (¼c) pumpkin seeds 125ml (½c) buttermilk 2 eggs 60ml (¼c) oil TO FINISH extra grated cheddar cheese a few salami slices (optional) Preheat the oven to 180°C. Grease 12 hollows of a muffin tin well with nonstick spray. 1 In a large mixing bowl, mix the flour, baking powder and salt. 2 Add the baby marrow, cheddar cheese, salami and pumpkin seeds and mix well. 3 Whisk the buttermilk, eggs…

I’M A SENIOR AND I DON’T FEEL SAFE Q I write to you in severe distress. I live in a retirement home and one day went for my usual walk. I was hoping to find a dog that cries at night in loneliness, so I peeked over a few walls, but the dogs were all quite happy. The matron passed by in her car and shouted at me. I kept walking and saw her on her phone – then several members of staff came out. When I went to say hello to one of the dogs, the maintenance man grabbed me. I said I felt like reporting this disgusting incident and he screamed that I must be sure to put his name in big letters! Shocked at this violence towards…

■ One of Michael’s biggest dreams was to buy his parents a home, which he did in 2015. He bought a Spanish-style mansion in Los Angeles and still lives with them. ■ He’s a comic and anime fanatic and collects graphic novels. ■ He prefers to avoid the spotlight but it’s been difficult since the massive success of Black Panther, in which he played Killmonger. “I didn’t want it to be like, ‘Oh, there’s Mike again.’ I want it to be like, ‘Oh s**t – Mike’s here.’ ”…

NOBODY’S FOOL Comedy drama. With Tiffany Haddish and Tika Sumpter. Director: Tyler Perry. 16DLS. Ambitious advertising executive Danica (Sumpter from Ride Along) has been carrying on a passionate love affair with a man she met online. The two have never met and he always seems to have an excuse for not being able to Skype. Convinced she’s in a relationship with a legitimate suitor, Danica unswervingly rebuffs the advances of Frank (Omari Hard-wick), the coffee-shop owner who’s undeniably smitten with her, because he doesn’t meet the requirements of her “perfect-man list”. Danica’s world is turned upside down when her sister, Tanya (Haddish from Girls Trip) – an ex-convict with a penchant for drugs, sex and violent altercations – moves in with her. Perry (Madea’s Family Reunion, Acrimony) loves to condense…

THRILLERS THE CAPTIVES By Debra Jo Immergut HarperCollins Prison psychologist Frank Lundquist is shocked to discover that his new patient, Miranda Greene, was his high school crush. But Miranda, who’s serving a long sentence for murder, doesn’t remember Frank at all. When she ends up in hospital after a failed suicide attempt he devises a bold plan to help her. A gripping psychological thriller unfolds, told in alternating chapters from Frank and Miranda’s points of view. This one is being hyped as Gone Girl meets Orange Is the New Black. SOCIAL CREATURE By Tara Isabella Burton Doubleday Louise Wilson is an aspiring writer who’s stuck living in a shabby New York flat doing boring jobs. But when she befriends socialite Lavinia Williams, a new life unfolds – one which sees…

CAST your mind back 10 years. Floyd Mayweather, the multi-weight division champion and one of the most successful fighters the boxing world had seen, announced he was hanging up his gloves. Yes, he was only 31 but he had gazillions of dollars in the bank and he wanted to kick back and see what else life would throw his way. And, you know, enjoy all those luxury rides, hang out in his magnificent mansions and take a flip or two in his Gulfstream jets. But there’s a reason Floyd’s nickname is Money: he just can’t resist grabbing a greenback when a whiff of it is waved his way. Time and again he’s been drawn back to the ring, and time and again his bank balance has swollen like a thundercloud…

Blushing beauties 1 TV presenter LALLA HIRAYAMA was sexy in a sheer statement gown by designer David Tlale. 2 Actress ENHLE MBALI MAPHUMULO turned heads in an elegant dusty pink gown by Quiteria & George. 3 Actress and DJ THANDO THABETHE looked gorgeous in a figure-hugging feathered gown by Orapeleng Modutle. Ladies in red 4 TV presenter LERATO KGANYAGO showed off her hourglass figure in a Gert-Johan Coetzee gown with a plunging neckline. 5 Former The Road actress and mom of two GAIL MABALANE opted for a bold form-fitting one-shoulder gown from Tuelo Nguyuza Collectiv. Well matched 6 SA Idols judge SOMIZI MHLONGO and his fiancé, entrepreneur MOHALE MOTAUNG, had fun in their matching striped suits. 7 Mafikizolo singing duo NHLANHLA NCIZA and THEO KGOSINKWE stood out in their bright…

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