Innholdsfortegnelse for 29 October 2015 i You South Africa

PRINCESS Caroline of Monaco is one of those timeless beauties. She shares the unique quality Princess Diana had – photographers don’t seem able to take a bad picture of her. And of course her daughter Charlotte is just as beautiful. In some photographs you almost believe you’re looking at a young Caroline again. Over the years at YOU magazine we’ve often featured Caroline on our cover and have been spoilt for choice when selecting pictures. Sadly, in the search for this week’s cover we battled to find a radiant picture of her. The last few years seem to have taken their toll and when you read about the escapades of her now-estranged husband, Prince Ernst of Hanover, it’s really not surprising. She really has been unlucky in love! I remember…

SHE never saw it coming. As far as she was concerned her marriage to Lance Klusener was rock solid – in fact they’d just returned home from a “wonderful” family holiday in America where they’d celebrated their 15th wedding anniversary. Then came the bombshell news that sent Isabelle Klusener reeling. Out of the blue one of her sons told her about “another woman” the cricket icon was visiting in the afternoons. The woman lives barely 500 m from the Kluseners in the same Durban security complex. And to add insult to injury it also came out that Lance (44) sometimes took his kids with him when he visited her. Details of Lance’s alleged affair came to light recently when a close family friend talked to YOU. But Isabelle (39) has…

DOCTORS told her parents she’d never be able to hear or speak, but they refused to accept it. Fanie and Anette Erasmus simply wouldn’t give up until their daughter was able to communicate. And their love and perseverance has paid off. Their beautiful Janie now has 80 percent hearing and speaks flawlessly – and she’s just bagged the title of Miss Deaf SA! It took some persistence on Janie’s part to win the coveted beauty title. After making it to first princess in 2009 and 2010, Janie (27), from Rooihuiskraal, Pretoria, was recently crowned this year’s winner. “I entered again this year because I just knew I could make a difference in South Africa,” the blonde beauty says. She was just six months old when Fanie (52) and Anette (48)…

I CAN’T believe it’s time to get ready for the festive season. Make sure your fruit cakes are made well in advance so they have enough time to ripen till Christmas. These mini-bakes are ideal to serve with tea or coffee and as after-dinner treat, but they also make great Christmas presents. t – teaspoon/s T – tablespoon/s c – cup/s CHRISTMAS CAKE TRUFFLES My favourite! MAKES 60-70 pops Preparation: 15 min Baking time: 1-1½ hours 500 g currants 500 g dried cranberries, roughly chopped 125 ml (½ c) brandy 15 ml (1 T) honey zest of 2 oranges 100 g soft dark brown sugar 250 g butter, melted 4 large eggs, beaten 250 ml (1 c) cake flour 80 ml ( c) cocoa powder 5 ml (1 t) mixed…

PEANUT BUTTER BARS MAKES 10-12 Preparation: 10 min Cooling: 3 hours, preferably overnight 250 ml (1 c) creamy peanut butter 80 ml (1/3 c) honey 125 ml (½ c) butter pinch of salt 500 ml (2 c) oats 160 ml (2/3 c) coconut 125 ml (½ c) mixed breakfast seeds 150 g peanuts 125 ml (½ c) apricot jam extra jam for drizzling Line a 20 cm x 20 cm square baking dish with baking paper and grease with nonstick spray Set aside 1 Add the peanut butter, honey, butter and salt to a pot over low heat and stir continuously until smooth 2 Add the oats, flour, seeds and peanuts and stir until combined Press half of the oats mixture into the baking dish Spread the jam on top…

Write to Dr Louise, PO Box 39410, Moreletapark 0044, or email info@drlouise.co.za. I WANT AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP Q I’m not jealous at all and have always believed in an open relationship. I enjoy the feel of different lovers and the freedom that comes with not being bored because you’re with just one person. I feel rejuvenated each time I take a new lover and like to return to old lovers now and then. I’ve now met a guy who’s stunning – not just physically – and he also has a lot of money and wants to get serious. I know I’ll have a comfortable life with him and be spoilt rotten and not have to work, but he’ll probably want me to give up my secret life, which I don’t…

A All ages D Drugs H Horror L Language N Nudity P Prejudice PG Parental guidance S Sex V Violence LISTEN TO THIS! HONEYMOON LANA DEL REY Is it possible to get tired of Lana Del Rey’s soulful voice? The “gangsta Nancy Sinatra”, as she calls herself, turns up the gloom on her fourth studio album Production-wise it’s closer to her first two offerings (Born To Die and Paradise) than her previous offering (Ultraviolence), but with trap, jazz and other influences Lyrically it covers much the same topics – mostly doomed love affairs and heartbreak The standout track is the ballad High By The Beach, but also check out the title track and Music To Watch Boys Noir-pop at its best and a must-have for fans NEW ON THE BIG…

A LITTLE LIFE By Hanya Yanagihara, Doubleday, R427* This is one of those novels you’ll either love or hate It was the bookies’ favourite to win the Man Booker but its dark subject matter is likely to have polarised the judges The story begins in New York where four close college friends are setting out to make a name for themselves Willem is an aspiring actor, JB a talented artist, Malcolm an architect and Jude a brilliant lawyer You soon realise the little life of the book’s title belongs to Jude Dumped as a baby and horribly abused as a child by the monastery brothers who took him in and later by other men, Jude is a tormented soul who copes with his anguish by cutting himself As an adult…

IN A BAND He’s a singer and guitarist in a popular Los Angeles-based alternative rock band called The Narwhals (previously called The Feaver). NOT SO TERRIBLE One of his biggest movie roles was as the eldest son, Anthony, in Alexander And The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. CHILD STAR  At the age of 18 Dylan already has a decade of acting experience behind him. Spotted by an agent in his native Chicago at the age of seven, the blue-eyed teen has appeared in a number of popular TV including The Mentalist Grey’s Anatomy and Fixer. SCARY STUFF Dylan stars as Zach in the new movie based on popular n novels Goosebumps. His character teams up with author RL Stine when the terrifying characters from the books start to…

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WITH his friendly, unscarred, boyish face he seems too wholesome to be a rugby player. And also way too polite – when Lood de Jager made a mistake in a recent World Cup match he could be overheard sheepishly apologising to the referee: “Sorry, sir . . .” But let him loose on a rugby field and it soon becomes clear he’s far more dangerous than he looks. Even then it’s not on purpose. It’s just that he’s so obsessed with the advantage line. If he gets the ball he wants to obliterate that line; if the opposing side gets the ball he keeps tackling them further and further behind that line. Together with Eben Etzebeth, he rules the Bok front line. The duo are fast establishing themselves as the…

AFTER being at death’s door LAMAR ODOM (35) has made a miraculous recovery from his drug-induced collapse at a brothel in the US state of Nevada. Having been given a 50/50 chance by doctors, the former basketball star emerged from a three-day coma related to overdosing on herbal Viagra, crack cocaine and other drugs. Since then he’s been making good progress. He’s able to breathe on his own again and passed a swallow test. At the time of going to print he was said to be able to speak but was communicating mainly with hand signals. He also managed to get out of his hospital bed with assistance and move to a chair. But the sportsman remained on dialysis due to extensive kidney damage and doctors were still running tests…

She’s having a really tough time at the moment as her husband battles throat cancer, so it was good to see CELINE DION (47) enjoying herself with her five-year-old twins at Disneyland in California The Incredible singer, who recently resumed her residency in Las Vegas after taking a year-long break to care for her ailing husband and former manager, René Angélil (73), was spotted hitting the rides with EDDY and NELSON The couple also have a 14-year-old son, René-Charles Looking casual yet elegant in white jeans and a grey top, the five-time Grammy Award winner looked in good spirits despite René’s absence…

WOMAN GQ named her its Woman of the Year last month; now she’s been named Esquire magazine’s Sexiest Woman Alive for 2015! Chosen for her “gorgeous balance”, the men’s magazine gushed that Game Of Thrones star EMILIA CLARKE (28) is both “friendly and fierce” and can play “half pal, half dominatrix, half kid-sister, half sexy queen” MAN Seems Harry Styles (21) has been overtaken in the lust-worthy stakes by fellow One Directioner LIAM PAYNE The 22-year-old has been voted Sexiest Man of the Year by British gay magazine Attitude The pop star called it “the biggest compliment of my life so far” and said he’s “very grateful to those who think I deserve this It’s a great title to have”…

Our first mommy-daughter bonding pics! A make-up free CHARLIZE THERON (40) was snapped cradling baby AUGUST while dropping off her adopted son, JACKSON (4), at school The Dark Places star adopted the little girl in July but has kept a low profile Meanwhile a new report claims Sean Penn (55), from whom Charlize split in June, wants her back, but she’s refusing to take his calls “He usually gets over romances quickly but the more time that passed the more he thought about Charlize His ego is taking a big hit” a source told In Touch…

Actor TAYLOR KINNEY (34) says his fiancée, singer Lady Gaga (29), slapped him after their first kiss! It happened on the set of her 2011 music video for You And I in which he played her boyfriend. It was the first time they’d met. “I kissed her and she didn’t expect it. They cut and she slapped me. Then it was just awkward. The next take I just did it again and she didn’t slap me,” the Chicago Fire star told talk-show host Andy Cohen. Clearly he did something right! JUSTIN BIEBER (21) says the pics of his naked bod (YOU, 22 October) that broke the internet left him feeling “violated”. “My first thing was like. . . how can they do this? Like, I feel super-violated, like I can’t…

La Mer bash Designer Nicole Richie captioned this pic on Instagram, “Almost ready to celebrate La Mer 50th anniversary.” Actress Kate Hudson also attended the luxury skincare brand’s party in Los Angeles, wearing a floaty, floral dress by Yanina Couture. The members of Little Mix (from left), Perrie Edwards, Jesy Nelson, Jade Thirlwall and Leigh-Anne Pinnock, at a photo-shoot in Sydney. CATE BLANCHETT wore a striking Esteban Cortázar gown to the London Film Festival premiere of her new movie, Carol. Rachel Weisz and Colin Farrell at the London premiere of their new film, quirky sci-fi drama The Lobster. Actress Julianne Moore and singer Rita Ora, looking more demure than usual, at Chanel’s exhibition party at the Saatchi Gallery in London. Bulgari exhibit Stars flocked to the opening night of the…

WATCH WHAT THEY WATCH I’M WRITING regarding your article on pornography on the internet (YOU, 15 October). I’m an elderly lady but I’m definitely not narrow-minded! I love cats and dogs and often Google pictures and videos of them. One day I was enjoying all the animal images, when to the right-hand side of the monitor appeared adverts for pornographic sites. There were two very explicit pictures but what shocked me most was the urgent invitation to view the sites. I could only imagine children, while looking up cats and dogs, suddenly being confronted by the choice of porn instead. It made me feel almost dirty for having conjured up these sites. I can only add to your pleas to parents to watch what your children are tuning into. G…

IT’S said that when Grace Kelly was scanning Europe’s royal houses for a husband for her daughter Princess Caroline, the candidate who topped her list was Prince Ernst August of Hanover. The American-born actress’ death in a car accident in 1982 aged 52 meant she wasn’t there when Caroline, the eldest of her three children with Prince Rainier III of Monaco, eventually wed Ernst in 1999. But it was widely thought she’d have been pleased about the marriage – even if it was Caroline’s third. Princess Grace had apparently believed Ernst’s impeccable breeding would be a stabilising influence on her wilful daughter. And their marriage had indeed seemed a dream come true for Caroline after years of heartache – first a divorce, then widowhood, followed by a number of ill-fated…

A SUCCESSFUL day starts with a good breakfast. Everyone knows breakfast is the most important meal of the day, and now with Jungle – Have a Good Breakfast, you can be sure to get nature’s fuel to kick-start your day. Each month for a year you can look forward to a page dedicated to delicious breakfast recipes, advice and nutritious options brought to you by Jungle – Have a Good Breakfast. This week’s page shows the convenience of Jungle Oatso Easy – a quick and easy way to enjoy a bowl of Jungle Oats. This is just one example of Jungle’s wide range of breakfast solutions – and we’ll be showing them all in the months to come. In addition, the campaign is launching a newsletter that does the thinking…

WHY CREDIT? Your credit record is one of the building blocks of your financial health. It’s hard to get a bond or a student loan for your child if you don’t have a credit record that a finance institution can check to see if you pay your debts on time. Your record is also a factor when lending institutions set the interest rate for your loan. A poor credit record makes you a bigger risk and the interest rate will be higher, making your loan more expensive. Prospective employers may also check your credit record. ESTABLISH A GOOD CREDIT RECORD The golden rule is that you must be able to afford all your debts and service them regularly. This shows you’re a good debtor. It’s also why experts recommend that…

CHANCES are the first electronic game you ever played was the 2D scrolling Mario game. Its characters, music and sounds are iconic because they defined a platform and even an era. Mario has crossed borders, languages and ages with his appeal and the new Super Mario Maker is even more special. THE GAME THAT KEEPS ON GIVING Every time you log in you’ll find new and exciting things waiting for you, leaving you looking forward to the next time you play And if creating isn’t your thing, then there’s a Course World – a huge list of levels created by other users right at your fingertips, from sample puzzles to the most hardcore platforming, so there’s something for everyone Add to that the 10 Mario Challenge where you start with…

SHE may be known for her hilarious “slaaptiger” move in the Vodacom ads but there’s nothing sluggish or sleepy about Tumi Morake. In fact nothing could be further from the truth – she’s juggling so many balls she wishes she could magically conjure up more hours in the day. “I wish the busier I am the more time I’d get,” the 33-year-old comic and actress says as we chat at her agent’s Mil-park office in Johannesburg shortly before she flies to Cape Town. She’s had to combine grabbing a bite to eat with our interview and is enjoying a chicken and noodle salad and sipping tea. “It would be great if 24 hours could translate into 26. But I’m learning to manage my time.” The mom of three recently signed…

As all the drama around Lamar erupted, SCOTT DISICK quietly headed off to rehab – again. An insider said the 32-year-old decided to seek professional help for his boozing after receiving an ultimatum from former partner Kourtney Kardashian (36), whom he split from in July, about being able to see their kids, Mason (5), Penelope (3) and Reign (10 months). He checked himself into the Cliffside luxury rehab centre in Malibu, California, where he was seen walking with a female sober coach. Let’s hope he gets it right this time.…

The Kardashian sisters (from left), Khloé, Kourtney and Kim, with mom Kris Jenner, were glam in black, with half-sister Kylie Jenner standing out in white. This was their last red-carpet appearance before the Lamar Odom crisis (see page 144). We love actress Julianne Hough’s cheeky look that paired a lace shirt with shorts and strappy heels. RoboCop actress Aimee Garcia and fashion blogger Nikia Lee Provenzano look ready for cake. Australian pop star Cody Simpson arrived with his rumoured new girlfriend, US singer Alexx Mack. Actress Lydia Hearst stood out in a bold patterned dress at the LA bash. TV presenter Kelly Osbourne showed off her curves in a black jumpsuit.…

S It’s sad that when you get beyond 60, working is no longer a viable option. People believe that late adulthood inevitably means declining health, income, self-esteem, productivity and sexuality as well as a time of senility, unhappiness, loneliness, inactivity and disability. The myth of productivity is that a person’s work efficiency declines rapidly after the age of 65. There’s no evidence for this. While physical strength and endurance do decline, most older adults can continue to be efficient workers well past the “normal” retirement age. Elderly individuals are socialised to believe the misconceptions about late adulthood. This results in a self-fulfilling prophecy. In late adulthood, family and friends may actually become more important than at any other time in the older person’s life. However, in today’s turbulent environment, relationships…

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CHEESE AND SWEETCORN RICE BALLS The kids will love these bite-size balls. Leftovers make great lunchbox fare. Serves 4 Preparation: 20 min Cooking: 15 min Cooling time: 15 min 375 ml (1½ c) jasmine rice salt 1 can (410 g) sweetcorn, drained 100 g Cheddar cheese, grated 1 egg, whisked CRUMB COATING 1 egg, whisked 45 ml (3 T) milk 250 ml (1 c) coarse breadcrumbs oil, for deep-frying 1 Cook the rice according to the packet instructions Drain in a colander, but don’t rinse (the rice must be sticky) Once slightly cooled transfer it to a mixing bowl 2 Add the sweetcorn, cheese and egg to the rice and season with salt 3 Roll the mixture into walnut-sized balls (moisten your hands slightly to prevent the mixture sticking to…

1 CENTRE OF ATTENTION It was when he was eight, while playing an improvisati n game with friends, that J ck (46) first realised he enjoyed performing and “couldn’t stand being in the audience” But his calling as a funny-man wasn’t obvious at first “I wasn’t always a comedy guy It wasn’t until later that I realised ‘I’m a clown’ and made peace with my own clowniness ” 2 ROCKING OUT The D Train star and longtime friend Kyle Gass (55) started comedic rock band Tenacious D in 1994 They’ve had three hit albums and have played with rock greats the Foo Fighters and Kings Of Leon Tenacious D’s style has been described as rock-opera or mock-rock “I’d love to do the straight music thing but that’s against our mission,…

A BRIEF HISTORY OF SEVEN KILLINGS By Marlon James, Riverhead, R243* HE WASN’T the author who most people expected to see winning this year’s Man Booker Prize – in fact Marlon James was considered such a long shot that one British bookmaker gave him 20-1 odds of winning the prestigious literary contest. So when the Jamaican writer was named the winner at a ceremony in London recently, beating off competition from the likes of Anne Tyler, Hanya Yanagihara and Tom McCarthy, it was hailed as one of the biggest surprises in the 47-year history of the competition. Spanning three decades, A Brief History Of Seven Killings uses the true story of the attempt on the life of reggae star Bob Marley to explore the turbulent world of Jamaican gangs and…

SAGITTARIUS NOV 22 – DEC 20 Although your professional and social life is probably taxing at the moment, don’t neglect to have time on your own Even an adventurous and boisterous Sagittarius sometimes needs a respite It’s important to retreat, too Consider going on a trip on your own and take time out to reflect on spiritual matters Also regularly set aside time for meditation and contemplation YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 5, 1, 38, 46, 23, 10 CAPRICORN DEC 21 – JAN 20 This is an opportune week to brush up on your social skills, mingle and meet people, as well as build friendships You may prefer to hobnob with the rich and famous, but it might be among ordinary folk that you find kinship and support You can now also…

IF YOU do what you love you’ll never have to work a day in your life. Whoever said that could have been talking about British celebrity adventurer Bear Grylls, who’s not only doing what he loves – he’s also making a fortune doing it. The former military man has turned his love for the outdoors into a multimillion-pound empire. Besides his hit TV shows, which started with Man Vs Wild in 2006, Bear has also written nearly 20 books, has a personalised range of merchandise, a chain of gyms and a survival academy franchised around the world. The 41-year-old adventure junkie and TV presenter, who’s become known for fearlessly jumping out of planes and crossing raging rivers, is worth a reported £6 million (R123 million). Not bad for a guy…

When she said “I do” to the man of her dreams she looked just as radiant as when the Miss South Africa tiara was placed on her head in 2009 NICOLE FLINT (27) made an exquisite bride as she recently wed businessman DAVID VAN HEERDEN at a sun-dappled Cranford Country Lodge in the KwaZulu-Natal Midlands The couple met on a charity cycling tour in 2011 and have been head-over-heels ever since The theme for their big day was rustic yet elegant, so the Appaloosa stud farm was the perfect spot “The venue is rustic and beautiful When Dave and I walked in we just knew it was our venue” Nicole told YOU The reception hall was decorated in hues of duck-egg blue and the colours of spring to keep the…