Innholdsfortegnelse for 08 October 2015 i You South Africa

I REMEMBER when we were kids we’d try to hide in our bedrooms when my mom did the accounts at the end of each month because if we’d spent without her knowledge she’d have strong words about managing money. In those days we had accounts at the fish shop, the chemist and even a lovely gift shop. In fact one year when I was about eight I bought my mom three ceramic swans for her birthday – and popped it on her account. Only years later did I find out the shopkeeper had called my mom to ask if it was okay and she didn’t have the heart to say no! She still has those swans today. But I digress. Being brought up wary of running up debt and being…

HOW is it possible that one of the most talented Springboks always had to leave the field with some injury or another? Why did he walk off with a cracked or fractured bone or a torn muscle in every Rugby World Cup (RWC) tournament he took part in? It’s because Jean de Villiers was so brilliant at the game, experts say. In fact, what catapulted the 34-year-old to the Bok stratosphere is the very thing that caused him to walk away from his latest world cup match and Test rugby for good. “Jean was an unusually explosive player from the start,” says former Springbok centre and now medic Dr Brendan Venter. “Explosive players are faster and more powerful than other players. “Think of a guy like [Ireland centre] Brian O’Driscoll.…

HE COULDN’T contain his curiosity about how his face had changed. He’d been in hospital for four days after the removal of a cancerous growth from his nose and couldn’t wait to see what he looked like. The wound had been heavily bandaged and also had a protective plastic cover so he’d been unable to see the effects of the operation. He expected some scars – after all, the doctors had warned him they’d had to go in deep to remove the cancerous growth. But at least the nasty, yellowish lump would be gone – his face could recover, Brian Schultz thought. When a doctor and nurse arrived to remove the bandages to clean the wound, Brian decided it was his chance to look at the surgeon’s handiwork. He waited…

IT’S the final episode of KykNet’s Megaboer series and we’re glued to the TV with Cora de Kock on the farm Wildeklawer near Barkly West. Tonight the spotlight is on her former farmer-of-the-year husband, Louis, and their extensive irrigated farms on the banks of the Vaal and Orange rivers where they grow and pack vegetables on a vast scale. They’re known as onion producers and are introducing SA’s first sweet red onion to the market this month.. They bought their land 29 years ago – while Louis was lecturing in agricultural engineering and Cora was an attorney in Pretoria – and turned it into the magnificent farm it is today. When they had three children – twins Louis Jnr and Madelein (now 25) and Christine (23) – in two years,…

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Write to Dr Louise, PO Box 39-10, Moreletapark 00--, or email info@drlouise.co.za. I JUST DON’T SEEM ABLE TO LEAVE HIM Q I’ve been dating a guy on and off for seven years. We broke up three years into our relationship and were good friends for a year, then got back together for three years and broke up again. Both times he broke up with me for various reasons, including that he thought I was unfaithful and wanted to focus on his career. We’re not together at the moment but we’re friends with benefits. He wants to get back together but I have doubts. My parents don’t think he’s right for me and my family and friends don’t like him, which makes me feel terrible. He’s unreliable when it comes to…

A All ages D Drugs H Horror L Language N Nudity P Prejudice PG Parental guidance S Sex V Violence LISTEN TO THIS! QUEEN OF CLUBS THE POWER OF 5FM This three-disc album contains 45 tracks selected by 5FM’s women DJs If you’re in the mood for a serious party you definitely need this CD in your collection! It covers everything from hip-hop and dance to pop, and features tracks by the likes of Calvin Harris, Chris Brown and local musos Jimmy Nevis, aKING and AKA It’s a great album for your car or a house party and bound to be on repeat 24/7 Definitely worth the purchase! SOMETIME LAST NIGHT R5 The US group with five members whose names all start with “R” hit the scene with their single…

INTERNATIONAL Month For Deaf People commemorates the first World Congress of the World Federation Of The Deaf, which took place in September 1951 in Rome, Italy. Deaf culture is showcased worldwide and activities are scheduled to celebrate and raise awareness of deafness. Shoprite and Checkers have been incorporating deaf employees into its stores and setting them up for careers within the company. In 2009 it launched a pilot project in partnership with eDeaf, a deaf empowerment and employment agency. After the first year the Decade Of The Deaf project was launched to train and employ 1 000 deaf learners over the next 10 years. “Working in a busy retail environment, serving mostly hearing customers, is a challenging task and we’re proud to be associated with an initiative aimed at empowering…

SCORPIO OCT 23 – NOV 21 The focus falls on friendships this week If you’ve been keeping your own council lately, it’s time to socialise Probably not one for small talk or hanging around idly, you might want to ask friends to join in on martial art classes, go to the movies or attend a music concert Since it’s also time to let bygones be bygones, try to forgive and forget if a friend has done you wrong YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 33, -2, 10, -5, 1-, 1 SAGITTARIUS NOV 22 – DEC 20 At best you’re in a phase of laying foundations and securing some form of stability in your life This could apply to all facets of your life and also on a level of personal development This week…

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RYAN REYNOLDS recently revealed a glimpse of the downside of fame when he shared a story in the October issue of GQ magazine The Hollywood hunk says he was “devastated” to discover one of his closest friends, someone he’d known for 25 years, had tried to sell a private photo of him and his wife, actress BLAKE LIVELY, in hospital with their newborn daughter, JAMES (now eight months) The Mississippi Grind star said he immediately knew who it was as he’d only shared the image with his nearest and dearest He describes the betrayal as being like “a death” As to why the unnamed friend would try to sell the photo, Ryan reckons it was because he’d stopped lending him money “I think he’d asked for a cheque enough times…

Is it just us or is ZAYN MALIK (22) becoming increasingly bratty?! The former One Directioner hit out at his ex, Little Mix singer PERRIE EDWARDS (22), whom he broke up with via text two months ago, after she posted a photo on Instagram cosying up to one of her back-up dancers, RYCARDO GOMEZ “I don’t want you to wait for me, I’m not coming home” he tweeted A few days later he posted a photo of himself cosying up to a mystery blonde, who it turned out was not Teen Wolf actress Gage Golightly, as speculated He also seemingly had a go at his former band after their concert in London got held up due to technical difficulties “Forget about gimmicks, it’s all about lyrics” he tweeted Ouch!…

Pop star SHAKIRA (38) was spotted bonding with eight-month-old SASHA, her second son with Spanish soccer star Gerard Piqué (28), in New York’s Central Park recently. The dressed-down singer went free of make-up as she played with her younger child and also stopped to let fans take pictures. Meanwhile, the Can’t Remember To Forget You hitmaker – who also has a two-year-old son, Milan, with Gerard – has been vocal about child issues in her role as a UN goodwill ambassador, recently pleading with world leaders to invest in early childhood development. “More than 100 million children are out of school and 159 million boys and girls under five are physically and cognitively stunted due to a lack of care and proper nutrition,” she says. ‘Motherhood comes with lots of…

JUSTIN THEROUX (44) reckons his new wife, Jennifer Aniston (46), can keep her famous surname. “I don’t think it would be great if she did [change it],” The Leftover star said in a recent interview. “I think ‘Aniston’ is going to stick with her if she likes it or not.” He also explained their decision to honeymoon with A-list pals Courteney Cox, Chelsea Handler and Jason Bateman, saying, “We thought about it; we could just do a normal honeymoon, or we could go with some friends, keep the party going, relax, and have fun. It was fantastic.” USHER (36) has officially broken millions of female hearts worldwide by secretly marrying his longtime girlfriend and manager, Grace Miguel. According to an insider the pair, who got engaged in January, had planned…

1 Anne Hathaway looked glamorous in Rodarte at the New York premiere of her new film, The Intern in which she plays a young fashion editor who hires an older assistant (Robert De Niro). 2 Singer Mariah Carey made her red-carpet debut with businessman beau James Packer. 3 Anne and Robert’s co-star Adam DeVine and his girlfriend, Pretty Little Liars’ Chloe Bridges, clowned around. Glee’s Lea Michele at the LA premiere of her new show, Scream Queens, with the series’ villain, Red Devil. Singer Selena Gomez (second from left) with Leigh-Anne Pinnock, Jade Thirlwall and Perrie Edwards of Little Mix at an exclusive dinner at Annabel’s in London. Dancing With The Stars judge JULIANNE HOUGH dazzled in a gown featuring mirrored embellishments at a photo call for the series in…

WHEN he finally realised he was driving his wife away with his abusive behaviour he vowed he’d change. “I have rage and aggression that periodically pop up and leave a trail of havoc,” he said. “I’m not entirely sure where my anger and aggression come from – but I do know it destroys not only the people close to me but me too.” Actor Deon Coetzee admitted he’d physically hurt Tertia Moolman, his wife of seven months (YOU, 1 October). “Yes, I pushed Tertia around and gave her a few bruises. Yes, I spat at her and squeezed her head hard between my hands. Yes, I destroyed her possessions and broke things around us.” But, he added, he wants to change. “I want to make amends and that’s why I…

BUTTERNUT SALAD WITH CARAMELISED CASHEW NUTS SERVES - Preparation: 5 min Cooking: 30 min 1 large butternut30 ml (2 T) honey15 ml (1 T) olive oilsalt and freshlyground pepper5 ml (1 t) dried thyme CARAMELISED NUTS 15 ml (1 T) butter30 ml (2 T) brownsugar100 g roasted, saltedcashew nuts DRESSING 30 ml (2 T) olive oil15 ml (1 T) apple cidervinegar15 ml (1 T) honey15 ml (1 T) wholegrainmustarda little salt SALAD 150 g mixed lettuceleaves30 g fresh rocket Preheat the oven to 190 °C Line a baking sheet with foil and grease with nonstick spray 1 Halve the butternut (keep the skin and seeds intact) and cut into wedges Spread the wedges on the prepared baking sheet Drizzle the honey and oil over and mix well Season with salt,…

Send suggestions for topics and requests for info to yourmoney@you.co.za. We may answer your questions in this column but won’t reply personally. START EARLY Many moneywise adults learnt how to work with money from their parents. Teach your teens how to save and spend responsibly before they leave home. If you’ve invested money for your kids early, they can learn while still at school how interest can make savings grow. Discuss the family finances openly and get everyone to put in an effort to save for special things or events. Even if you’re struggling financially, you should try to teach your children to have a responsible attitude to money. POCKET MONEY This is probably the first money your teenagers will learn to manage. They must realise it’s not that easy…

1 seven Fans have long been years waiting for the R&B star’s 11th album, which hits shelves this month. It’s the first released on Janet’s own label, Rhythm Nation, and is the follow-up to Discipline ( 008). 2 nearly It’s the a first decade time Janet in (-9) has worked with her longtime c llaborators, songwriting-pro uction duo Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis. The last time they worked together was on 2006’s 20 Y.O. They’re behind some of her biggest hits, including All For You and Control. 3 a The wide a bum range covers of topics. Jan t reflects on her youth and opens up a out her late brother, Michael Jackson. “Some p ople think of unbreakable as being hard, but I think unbreakable is just being able…

1 both You and keen your to see boyfriend the latest are hit movie but tickets are so expensive. What do you do? a Toss a coin and the winner gets to see the movie b Give him your money so he can go see the movie c Both of you go for a burger instead 2 spend How would a Saturday you prefer evening to with your boyfriend?a At a huge party with friendsb Going to a moviec Watching a romantic movietogether at your house 3“ Your volunteered boyfriend ” by has his been family to tidy up his grandmother’s garden on Saturday. How do you spend the day?a Shopping with your friendsb You go and help c Catch up on your chores or schoolwork at home 4 The longest…

Something evil this way comes Shooting is in full swing for the highly anticipated sci-fi flick Resident Evil: The Final Chapter, in which MILLA JOVOVICH once again takes the lead role. Not so long ago Orange Is The New Black actress Ruby Rose and Heroes actress ALI LARTER jetted into Cape Town, and they’ve been joined on set by Cuban actor WILLIAM LEVY and Irish actor Eoin Macken. “Pretty damn class first day. When you work with nice people everything is easy, the way it should be. South Africa is wonderful and with some damn talented people. I do believe a whiskey is in order,” Eoin wrote on Instagram. Ali also gave a shoutout to William. “Welcome @willevy into the world of #residentevil! I think you’re going to be able…

When CAMERON DIAZ (-3) stepped out recently, all eyes were on her pillowy face, leading to speculation she’s either secretly preggers or had just had work such as fillers done. Rumour has it a baby is on the way especially as the actress opted to keep her tummy covered under a white jacket. She and hubby Benji Madden (36) are reportedly trying for a baby. According to a source the Charlotte rocker “can’t wait to be a dad”. Watch this space!…

IT ENDED almost as quickly as it began After just 21 months of marriage, KALEY CUOCO-SWEETING (29) and RYAN SWEETING (28) have jointly decided to call it quits The Big Bang Theory actress dated the tennis pro for just three months before tying the knot on New Year’s Eve 2013, saying at the time she felt she’d known him her “whole life” But things seemed to unravel fast, with insiders saying the two looked miserable in recent months “The few times they were out together recently the tension was noticeable” a source says, while OK! magazine in June quoted an insider saying the blonde beauty was “secretly worried she doesn’t know him that well” After the news broke Kaley was spotted on a night out with her sister, Briana Cuoco…

KOURTNEY WEEPS OVER SCOTT ON TV SCOTT DISICK (32) didn’t win any fans when he dissed former partner KOURTNEY KARDASHIAN (36) on Twitter while a preview of season 11 of Keeping Up With The Kardashians aired on US TV In the clip Kourtney breaks down over Scott’s alleged fling with stylist Chloe Bartoli earlier this year “Stop talking, peasant” Lord Disick (as he likes to be known) tweeted Two days later, the reality TV star posted a pic of herself and their nine-month old son, REIGN, on a hike with a cryptic post about “being alone can lead to growth” Scott recently boasted he’s unfazed about his cash flow since their split, saying, “I’ve been making money since I was a kid, and I’ll keep making money I’m feeling good”…

I share Highly Vexed’s feelings of helplessness regarding endless telesales calls (YOU Say, 17 September). I too am ill and spend anything up to a week in hospital every four to six weeks. The number of telesales calls I receive is unbelievable. Surely as a citizen in this country, and globally, I have a right to privacy. Companies should not be allowed to give out your information at all. I find it difficult to sleep and relax at the best of times in hospital or at home when I’m trying to recuperate, but these people simply don’t take no for an answer! I contacted a TV station some time ago to see if they could aid in eradicating this problem. I trust that publishing this letter makes the companies who…

SHE could have said something fairly touching. She could have just thanked those who’d voted for her and her agent, producers, colleagues and loved ones. She could have said something that would have made those at the Emmy Awards feel they deserved a pat on the back for making her the first black actress to receive an outstanding actress in a drama series gong for her role in the hit show How To Get Away With Murder. But instead Viola Davis quoted Harriet Tubman, an activist who fought against slavery in the US, and gave one of the most powerful speeches the Emmy ceremony has ever heard. “In my mind I see a line,” Viola said to the famous faces in the crowd, her voice wavering with emotion. “And over…

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PITCH PERFECT 2 2015.116 min. 10-12PG. Musical comedy. R115* After an embarrassing faux pas at the American president’s birthday event, university a capella champions the Barden Bellas have lost their right to compete in any varsity competitions To add insult to injury their European opposition, the German group Das Sound Machine, have taken over their victory tour To gain back any semblance of dignity the Bellas head to Denmark for the international championships, which they hope to be the first American group to win Meanwhile Beca (Anna Kendrick), now in charge of the Bellas, struggles to balance her commitment to the group with an internship at a recording studio; Fat Amy (Rebel Wilson) and Bumper (Adam DeVine) try to negotiate their relationship and new girl Emily (True Grit’s Hailee Steinfeld)…

SMALL-TOWN BOY Garrett (31) grew up on a farm near a small town in Minnesota in the US. After his parents divorced he moved to a bigger city where he used the tips he made as a waiter to pay for private acting lessons. FAMILIAR FACE He moved to Hollywood “with about $600 [then R3 870], a Tupperware container of cleaning utensils that my mom’s friends got me at Christmas and about 90 packets of ramen noodles”. A month later he landed the role of Patroclus in the blockbuster Troy (200-). He’s since starred in Tron Legacy (2010) and Unbroken (201-). LOVED UP He’s been in a relationship with Spider-Man star Kirsten Dunst (33) since 2012. Garrett says they had a terrible first date. “I took her out on a…

SPACE is a fascinating place and for centuries humans have tried to learn more about it. And as they learnt more, the idea of space travel became attractive. Before flying objects could escape Earth’s gravity, astronomers and other scientists had to do lots of research into how they’d be able to send a craft into space. For decades engineers did experiments to make science fiction a reality. SPUTNIK The Soviet Union (Russia) was a pioneer in space exploration and the first country to send a satellite into space The space age began on 4 October 1957 with the launch of Sputnik 1, an unmanned spacecraft This little craft weighed only 83,6 kg and sped through space at a speed of about 29 000 km/h at a height of nearly 950…

THERE’S an article about him in the latest issue of one of the most prestigious magazines in the world. But he’s not really that impressed by the honour. To comedian Tats Nkonzo being featured in the September issue of glossy magazine Vanity Fair clearly isn’t a big deal. “I don’t feel like a hotshot” he says. He may not think so but he obviously made an impression on the audiences and critics who saw his show at the Edinburgh Festival Fringe in Scotland in August – which is why he got a mention in the Vanity Fair feature on top comedians from around the world. He’s still “under the radar”, the funny-man and host of SA’s Got Talent (SAGT) says. “I’m not hounded by interviewers and I don’t get invites…

In what has to be one of the most awkward moments ever, VICTORIA BECKHAM (41) was spotted leaving her own store’s anniversary party in London with a wet patch in her crotch area But it wasn’t what it seemed apparently According to various sources, the fashion designer, who was joined by her hubby, DAVID BECKHAM (40), simply spilt a drink on herself “She let her hair down and had a few drinks and spilled some wine on herself,” a source said while another insider revealed, “It was odd she didn’t change, but she was just ready to go home She said she’d worked harder this week than any other week in her life”…

Clearly NICK NOLTE (74) doesn’t seem to mind the constant comparisons to a homeless person The veteran actor, who’s often pictured wearing scruffy, torn clothes and slippers, was spotted chugging from a large bottle of lemonade while out in Malibu Well, we hope it’s lemonade and nothing stronger It’s no secret the Down And Out In Beverly Hills star has battled booze and drug addictions over the years yet he continues to get work This year he appeared opposite Adam Sandler in the comedy-western The Ridiculous Six and he’s to star in the new TV series Graves with Susan Sarandon…