Innholdsfortegnelse for 12 March 2015 i You South Africa

I THOUGHT I’d read everything of interest about the Dewani case. We did so many fascinating stories, the newspapers covered every angle and I watched the footage of the court case on TV. But when I read our article on page 96 I wanted to weep for Anni’s bereft family all over again. Her loving father, Vinod, has given a few interviews over the years but in this poignant extract from his new memoir he pours his heart out, revealing shocking details about Shrien’s actions and behaviour after Anni’s death. As a father he must have found it awful to hear of his daughter’s reservations about tying the knot. Anni had confided in her cousin Sneha that all wasn’t great between her and Shrien. But it’s Shrien’s actions after Anni’s…

When I heard the wonderful news of the birth of twins to Charlene and Albert of Monaco, I asked who was born first. When I heard it was the little girl I said, “See, he’s a born gentleman, allowing ladies first.” HAPPY GRANNY, WELLINGTON Why can’t all sports celebrities be happy and faithful like Gary and Deborah Kirsten (YOU, 19 February)? SHIRLEY, DURBAN Love the winning letter about the taxi driver and conductor who stopped to help a blind man (YOU Say, 26 February). If you expect the best from people you’ll get the best from people. MARIE DIXON, PIETERMARITZBURG To the taxi driver who helped the blind man cross the road, well done. It’s good to know there are still good, kind-hearted people around. DAWN, CAPE TOWN Just from…

CHICKEN QUICHE “This is best made with leftover roast chicken,” says Ronel Shand of Mpumalanga. MAKES: 1 MEDIUM QUICHE Preparation: 20 min Chilling: 30 min Cooking: 55 minutes CRUST 225 g cake flour, sifted 2 ml (½ t) dried herbs 150 g butter 1 egg 1 egg yolk 10 ml (2 t) milk FILLING 10 ml (2 t) olive oil 125 g mushrooms, sliced 1 red onion, cut in half then sliced 1 garlic clove, crushed 5 ml (1 t) roasted masala salt and pepper 2 chicken breast fillets, cooked and shredded 250 ml (1 c) cream 3 eggs fresh chives Preheat the oven to 180 °C Grease a 20-cm tart tin 1 Crust Mix the flour and herbs, and rub in the butter until the mixture resembles breadcrumbs 2…

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YOU Diet try it!  Every month for 12 months YOU is publishing a new diet. Why? So you can find one that best suits your lifestyle, food preferences and dietary needs. WHAT YOU GET EVERY MONTH > Week 1: A new diet > Weeks 2, 3 and 4: An eating plan for the week PLUS recipes PLUS expert tips. In months with five weeks you get extra tips. Here’s the first of three eating plans to enjoy on the caveman diet that will help you to lose up to 1 kg a week. It was specially designed for YOU readers by registered dietician Lila Bruk of Lila Bruk & Associates in Johannesburg. t = teaspoon = 5 ml T = tablespoon = 15 ml c = cup = 250 ml…

GENERATORS Generators are usually insured under your building and house contents insurance: under building cover if it’s a fixture and under house contents if it’s movable, says Dialdirect Insurance chief Warwick Scott-Rodger. But remember, if it’s a movable item it should usually be kept inside to be covered under house contents. If it’s outside and can be carried away, chances are it won’t be covered. SOLAR PANELS As these are permanently fixed to the property they should fall under building cover. But some insurers require that solar panels be separately insured with your geyser, Dialdirect’s Warwick Scott-Rodger says. They can also demand that the solar panel be installed by a qualified person, as poor workmanship could cause damage and falls under exclusions on most policies. This means the insurer won’t…

ON BECK 1 The 44-year-old American singer-songwriter’s career trended on social networks recently after he upstaged better-known artists including Beyoncé to win the 2015 Album Of The Year Grammy for his critically acclaimed 12th studio release, Morning Phase. US rapper Kanye West (37) blasted him, saying Beck “needs to respect artistry” and demanding that he give the award to Beyoncé. But Beck holds no grudges. “I still love [Kanye] and think he’s ge ius” he says. 2 Beck’s been in the music business for 30 years and has been described as “o e of the most influential artists on the landscape of modern pop and rock music”. The track that put him on the map was the a ternative hip-hop song Loser, off his third album, Mellow G ld (1993).…

Her mom is Italian and her dad is Mexican. Selena means “moon” in Greek. She’s only 22 but already has her own production company, July Moon Productions, a clothing line, Dream Out Loud, and a self-titled perfume. At 17 she became the youngest ambassador for the United Nations Children’s Fund (Unicef) and held a charity concert in 2012 that raised $200 000 (then R1,7 million). “Giving back is important to me. The concert allowed me to connect with fans and raise money for an important cause.” There’s a song about her called Selena Gomez, written by Greg Kurka in 2008. Back then he was a college student and he wrote it one night after class for fun because he’s afan.Checkitout on YouTube. Rumour has it she’s dating DJ and producer…

HE IGNORED it at first because he thought it was for girls. But when IT consultant Rob Harrison helped out at a My Little Pony event in 2013 he started watching the animated TV show – and he was hooked. He also loved the camaraderie at BronyCan, a huge fan convention in Richmond, Canada, for bronies, as the adult and largely male fans of the show are called. “I met a bunch of people in the community and realised they were a lot of fun to be around,” Rob (34) explains. “Plus it turned out I liked the material more than I thought I would – the show was fun but the whole package is what sealed the deal.” Rob, who lives in Vancouver, Canada, is now a diehard My…

AT FIRST she says she doesn’t feel like herself but as the camera clicks away she visibly relaxes. And then it happens: along with the transformation on the outside, something else slowly emerges – self-confidence. When Debbie Calitz and her partner, Bruno Pelizzari, were taken captive by Somali pirates in 2010 they were working as crew members on a sailing vessel. But today she doesn’t look like a woman who’s been through an ordeal. As she poses for photos she throws her head back and laughs with joy. “I’ve never in my life felt this beautiful,” Debbie (52) says, her eyes shining. YOU asked kykNET’s Glam Guru, stylist Hannon Bothma, to work his magic on Debbie and she clearly loves the result despite the fact she’s always felt more at…

HE STOLE hearts last year when he shared his legal expertise on the Oscar Pistorius TV channel, looking dapper in a suit and tie. Since then clean-shaven attorney Ulrich Roux has appeared on just about every news channel, giving insight into South Africa’s major trials. Ask him about women gushing about him on TV and he pauses shyly before revealing he’s received several marriage proposals and that mothers have contacted him asking him to go out with their daughters. “There have been those who got through to my secretary saying they need help with a legal problem. And then when they come to see me they arrive not with a problem but with their daughter.” Sitting at his desk in Houghton, Johannesburg, after a day in court, he laughs and…

Bob and Bella’s big day The bride and groom were like, er, a dog with two tails before their nuptials got under way There was bubbly and a beautiful view as they “tied the knot” in front of guests dressed to the nines, and nobody barked up the wrong tree It was a rather grand affair when the Expresso breakfast show’s much-loved French bulldogs, Bob and Bella, got “married” in an intimate but lavish ceremony at the Twelve Apostles Hotel in Camps Bay, Cape Town, recently The canine couple have been part of the Expresso team for years and after several suggestions from viewers the team decided it was time to make their love official The bridal couple’s outfits were specially made for the occasion by the show’s stylist, Maria…

PICTURE the scene: there she was on the casting couch for the new James Bond movie. Director Sam Mendes had summoned her to London, telling her he had the perfect role for her but Monica Bellucci felt more puzzled than flattered. For the life of her she couldn’t figure out what the British filmmaker had in mind. Finally her curiosity got the better of her. “Why do you call me?” she blurted out in her thick Italian accent. “I’m 50 years old. What am I going to do in James Bond?” When Mendes told her what he wanted her to do in Spectre, the highly anticipated 24th instalment of the Bond series, the veteran actress almost fell off her chair. Because of her age it had never crossed her mind…

THEY started their marriage deeply in love and practically penniless. But after 21 years, two kids, victory in the armed struggle and the creation of a business empire, they’re embroiled in an acrimonious divorce with each side making vicious claims about the other. She says he’s a “billionaire” who’s hiding their money so she can’t lay claim to it. He says she’s “reckless and extravagant” in her spending and “abused the credit cards” at her disposal. She claims he was abusive and he argues she picked arguments with almost everyone, including family. The couple – who can’t by law be identified – have laid bare their grievances in legal documents. Neither of the two parties, who were married in community of property – which means their assets have to be…

• A 2009 document entitled “Counter Espionage Input for the State Security Project” alleges foreign spies played an “active role” in influencing role players in the 1999 Strategic Defence Package, better known as the R70-billion arms deal. The report suggests this wasn’t the first time foreign agents swayed decision-makers regarding government contracts. • A 2010 document from Israel’s Mossad shows that country obtained blueprints for SA anti-tank missile technology from arms maker Denel. SA requested that Mossad return the plans and it agreed to do so “in light of the strong cooperation” between the two countries’ intelligence agencies – on condition that an Israeli citizen involved in the theft wouldn’t face prosecution. Two men were tried in Pretoria for their role in the theft two years later and there was…

Wake up at the same time every day. Even if it’s the weekend or you’ve gone to bed later than usual, wake up at the same time every morning, Nelspruit psychiatrist Dr Leif Brauteseth says. You can’t catch up on sleep so it does more harm than good if you sleep in on weekends. Don’t go to bed too early – or too late. “You need only seven to eight hours of sleep,” Dr Brauteseth says. If you’re sleeping only between five and six-and-a-half hours a night, that’s too little, he adds. Don’t drink alcohol. A tipple at night might help you to fall asleep but it disrupts sleep later at night by reducing rapid eye movement (REM) sleep, neuropsychiatrist Dr Irshaad Ebrahim says. In 2013 he and his colleague…

AS A child I couldn’t get enough of clingstone peaches, or Kakamas peaches as we called them, picked fresh from the trees in the furthest corner of the farm. To this day we’re often spoilt with a box or two. Blushing red nectarines, yellow peaches and plums ripen towards the end of summer and thanks to refrigeration we can enjoy delicious summer fruit a little while longer. t – teaspoon/s T – tablespoon/s c – cup/s 1 FRUIT PICKLE Serve the pickle instead of chutney as an accompaniment to meat. MAKES 750 ML (3 C) Preparation: 20 min Cooking: 10-15 min Maturing: 2-3 days PICKLING MIXTURE 500 ml (2 c) water 250 ml (1 c) apple or rice vinegar 180 ml (¾ c) sugar 1 cm fresh ginger, thinly sliced…

MANY of us believe our lives would be infinitely better if we just had more willpower. Then we’d be able to say no to that second helping at dinner, quit smoking or go for a walk after work instead of just plonking ourselves in front of the TV. But there’s good news for those who believe they were born without the ability to control themselves. Experts say that – contrary to popular belief – lack of willpower isn’t a fixed personality trait. Instead, willpower works more like a muscle that you can train. Natasha van Wyk (27), a stock controller of Alberton, realised this when she decided to boost her own willpower. She’d previously shown little self-control when it came to food, especially sweet things, and could rarely motivate herself…

TRUE NEW YORKER Lena Dunham grew up in Brooklyn, New York. Her dad, Carroll, is a painter and her mom, Laurie Simmons (both 65), a designer and photographer. “I always felt like it was really special to have parents who were artists and to live the kind of life we lived” she says. “I thought there was a kind of romance to it” Being born into New York’s elite network of artists had its perks and as a child Lena featured in Vogue’s March 1998 issue in an article focusing on the city’s fashion-conscious youth. NO BODY ISSUES She’s been slammed by critics for the gratuitous nudity and sex in Girls often featuring the proudly imperfect Lena herself The star has a refreshing take on why seeing her in the…

ARIES MARCH 21 – APRIL 19 Expect the unexpected as sudden changes and surprising events take you on a roller-coaster ride this week Excitement may be part of the package It’s also a great time to pour your energies into a new venture, but watch out for rash decisions that may have dire consequences Your personal year draws to an end, so reflect on its highs and lows YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 13, 1, 40, 10, 19, 24 TAURUS APRIL 20 – MAY 20 You may suddenly be confronted with issues you thought were long buried, be they triggered by people, circumstances or events This may disrupt you and leave you grumpy Some soul-searching may be what’s needed for peace of mind It’s no all gloom though Towards the end of…

SKINJOB By Bruce McCabe, Corgi, R145* Author Bruce McCabe has a PhD in computer science and in his native Australia is best known as a technology columnist and speaker So it comes as no surprise that his first work of fiction is a techno thriller set in San Francisco in the near future The book sees virtual sex taken to the extreme Tech developments now mean that Silicone Valley brothels are “peopled” by perfectly lifelike robotic dolls They can walk, have skin that feels like the real deal and can satisfy every sexual need But they can’t talk – yet Militant feminists and churches, especially the mega-rich New Christian Organisation (NeChristo), are vehemently opposed to these dollhouses When a bomb in one techno brothel kills 12 people Daniel Madsen is…

YOU’D think given the extraordinary prices they charge for their garments they’d know a thing or two about putting an outfit together. But clearly some of the most famous designers in the world don’t think they need to be an ad for their brands. Versace chief Donatella Versace could take a few lessons in wearing the right size and how to ease up on the fake tan. Vivienne Westwood is more bag lady than boutique belle and Karl Lagerfeld might make Coco Chanel think twice, if she were still around, before hiring him for her design house. But perhaps their eccentricities are exactly what make them so brilliant at their jobs. Their designs are adored by the rich and famous and their decisions have an impact on millions around the…

HAIR Glam Guru Hannon Bothma gave Debbie a hairstyle that simply falls into place as the hair dries naturally. “Her hair is slightly curly, which is perfect for the longer elfin style – it just needed extra volume to make it work,” Hannon says. “There’s no hair colour more cheerful than blonde. As a young woman Debbie’s natural hair colour was blonde and the streaks bring out her younger self. The hairstyle and colour combination was my attempt to give her an exclusive, stylish look – that of a woman who enjoys the finer things in life.” MAKE-UP Debbie doesn’t wear much make-up and Hannon wanted to maintain her natural look. “The only eyeshadow I used was a blush because these rust-coloured shades, which you see in a sunset, were…

WHAT does a neurosurgeon know about dieting? If you ask Dr Adriaan Liebenberg he’ll tell you, “Your brain is the most powerful instrument for weight loss.” Which is why it’s so important to first get your head straight if you want to shake off a few kilos – you have to teach yourself what kind of food to eat and what exercise to do. You don’t have to be a brain surgeon to understand the basic principle of his diet: eat less and exercise more. Adriaan (44), who has practices in Paarl and elsewhere in the Western Cape, is renowned worldwide for his treatment of spinal cord injuries and has written several books on the topic. He also wrote the book The Brain Surgeon’s Diet in which he shares how…

ANYONE who’s ever done one of those relationship quizzes on how well you know your partner is aware how satisfying it is to ace it. Whether we’re a smug married couple or in the hot stages of a budding romance, we all like to think we’re so into each other we could bet cash on the outcome of any relationship test. An exciting new reality show heading to our shores is putting that resolve to the test. Power Couple South Africa has big bucks up for grabs for couples who can survive gruelling challenges designed to show how well they know – and trust – each other. One of the couples auditioning for the reality show which originated in Europe is Mandla Hlatshwayo and Brumilda “Lexi” van Niekerk. Aspiring musician…

• William Shatner was forced to defend himself on Twitter after users slated him for missing the funeral of his Star Trek co-star LEONARD NIMOY, who died recently following a long battle with chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD). The 83-year-old, who played Captain Kirk opposite Nimoy’s Spock in the 1960s TV series, explained he had to honour a commitment he’d made months ago to attend a charity event but that his daughters Lisabeth and Melanie would attend. It didn’t seem to help though. “Lame excuse. Man up,” one Twitter user wrote. Ouch. • Only the BIEBS would need an entire island for his birthday party! Yup, the singer rented a Caribbean island near Grenada for his 21st birthday bash recently. The pop star partied the night away with his closest…

Two couples on your cover (YOU, 26 February) with very different attitudes to marriage – Graeme Smith and Morgan Deane Smith, whose marriage is over in the blink of an eye, and Riaan and Michelle Garforth-Venter who have clearly been through hard times recently yet have found solace and support in each other and are riding out the storm. Watch and learn, Graeme. ASTRID, PARKLANDS • Way to go, Riaan and Michelle! That’s inspiring. Beautiful to see a couple working hard at marriage and not giving up. Too many people have the fairytale ideas of “happily ever after” but they forget that you work at things when they’re going well so you’re a bit better prepared when life throws a curveball or two. RUBY LE ROUX, YOU FACEBOOK • So…

• The name It stands for Special Executive for Counterintelligence, Terrorism, Revenge and Extortion, a sinister terrorist group that must be stopped – and it’s up to Bond to do it.• The plot A cryptic message from Bond’s past sends him on a trail to uncover the terror group. While M battles political forces to keep the secret service alive, Bond peels back the layers of deceit to reveal the terrible truth behind Spectre.• The cast Spectre will mark Daniel Craig’s fourth outing as Bond and there’s been speculation it may be his last. It sees the return of Ben Whishaw as Q, Naomie Harris as Moneypenny and Ralph Fiennes as the new M. Newcomer Christoph Waltz has been cast as a character named Franz Oberhauser but it’s not clear if he’s friend…

HE PLAYS squash at least once a week, runs and cycles and eats a fairly healthy diet. The former soccer player also goes for medical checkups once a year and tries to live a balanced life to manage his stress. This is why Neil Tovey didn’t even consider he might be having a heart attack when he felt a pain in his chest while playing squash with his partner, Michelle Hansmeyer (50), at the Mount Edgecombe Country Club in Durban. The 52-year-old former Bafana Bafana captain, who led the team to African Cup Of Nations glory in 1996, simply shrugged off the sluggishness that gripped his body, thinking he’d play away the pain. But after just more than an hour a deep pain shot through his chest. “It wasn’t a…

FOR almost a year she’d been waiting for that phone call – the one to tell her that her daughter was lying in intensive care after being attacked by her boyfriend again – or worse, in the morgue. At 4.15 am one morning in January last year Celia Potgieter’s worst fears were realised when the phone rang and someone gave her the news that her daughter, Amanda Joubert, was in hospital. Her skull was fractured in five places, four of her ribs were broken and so was her pelvic bone and coccyx – the result of a 40-m fall from the second-floor balcony of the block of flats where she lived in Nelspruit. As the former model hit the ground the right side of her face hit a drainpipe. She…

MEAL PLANNER MONDAY Cauliflower risotto TUESDAY Snoek fishcakes WEDNESDAY Crispy chicken with apple salad THURSDAY Sweet ’n sour pork with pineapple salsa FRIDAY Boerewors pizza STORE CUPBOARD Butter, 30 ml Olive oil, 105 ml Dried thyme, 5 ml Vegetable stock, 6 x 250 ml Salt and freshly ground pepper Cake flour, 280 ml Oil, 30 ml Mayonnaise, 60 ml Lemon juice, 30 ml Soy sauce, 45 ml Tomato sauce, 15 ml Brown sugar, 80 ml Rice vinegar, 60 ml Sweet chilli sauce, 15 ml Cornflour, 10 ml SHOPPING LIST Onions, 2 Garlic cloves, 9 Cauliflower, 1 head Potatoes, 5 large Fresh parsley, 10 g Sweetcorn kernels, 250 ml Mixed lettuce leaves, 130 g Cherry tomatoes, 125 g Lemon, 1 Apples, 3 Celery, 3 stalks Pineapple, 1 Fresh coriander, 45 ml…

TALL AND LEAN TIPS 1 Create curves by wearing patterns, horizontal stripes and peplum detail 2 Choose jackets with a single button to emphasise your waist PEAR SHAPE TIPS 1 Look for jackets with shoulder pads and wide collars or lapels 2 Wear it tight at the top and loose-fitting below HOURGLASS TIPS 1 Any length of jacket is suitable for this body shape 2 Make sure it’s tight-fitting, has detail and shows off your curves INVERTED TRIANGLE TIPS 1 Choose a V-neck Jackets with a single button draw attention to your waist 2 Don’t wear shoulder pads or double-breasted jackets SOURCES: TRINNY & SUSANNAH: THE BODY SHAPE BIBLE AND THE SURVIVAL GUIDE, SIMON RADEMAN: THE STYLE BIBLE GO TO THE YOU SHOP AT SPREE.CO.ZA/YOU OR GO TO YOU.CO.ZA AND…

I’M NOT USED TO SHARING Q I’m a South African living in New York. My fiancé is 15 years older than me and we’re getting married in three months’ time. I love him and want to be with him but lately we’ve been arguing a lot and most of the time it seems it’s because of me. I’ve tried to explain to him that we’re from two different worlds and have different understandings of things. All my life I’ve kept to myself. I deal with things on my own and don’t open up to anybody about anything. This seems to be a huge problem as he wants to be more involved in my life and wants to know about issues I have to deal with. He doesn’t understand why I…

LISTEN TO THIS! MY GARDEN KAT DAHLIA R119* Last year the Cuban-American singer-songwriter virtually disappeared from the music scene after developing a pseudocyst on her vocal cords and having to cancel a world tour But she got her voice back and fans of her catchy debut single, Gangsta (2013), can now get their hands on her debut album Whether she raps or sings it’s hard not to fall in love with the 24-year-old’s deep, raspy voice She opens up about her troubled childhood, attempts to realise her dreams and a toxic relationship There are loads of standout tracks, including Clocks and Just Another Dude She’s here to stay! UPTOWN SPECIAL MARK RONSON R156* Funk is back! Uptown Funk, the Bruno Mars-assisted first single off the 39-year-old British DJ/ producer’s fourth…

A MOST WANTED MAN 2014. 117 min. 10-12PG L. Thriller. R132* This British spy thriller based on the book by John le Carré stars Philip Seymour Hoffman in his last leading role and is a must-see for fans of the late actor He plays Günther Bachmann, a German spy in charge of a team that collects intelligence on the Muslim community in Hamburg They’re tracking the movements of Issa Karpov (Grigoriy Dobrygin), a refugee from Chechnya believed to be a dangerous terrorist as well as a Muslim philanthropist whom Bachmann suspects is funnelling funds to terrorist activities He teams up with Karpov’s MILLION DOLLAR ARM 2014. 119 min. PG. Sport drama. R96* In this Disney movie based on real events, Mad Men’s Jon Hamm plays American sport agent JB Bernstein,…

ZANDRA RHODES (74) The British designer has dressed fashion icons such as the late Princess Diana and Jackie Onassis. Their reserved, elegant outfits are as far removed from Zandra’s outrageous garb as you can imagine. Her wardrobe is theatrical and she loves bright colours and flamboyant jewellery. VALENTINO (82) The Italian designer’s fashions have developed over the years – but his appearance hasn’t. Since he entered the fashion industry as a student he’s been known for his neat suits, stiffly gelled hair and fake-tanned face. ANDRÉ LEON TALLEY (65) The contributing editor to American Vogue is often seen in extravagant cloaks on the red carpet at fashion shows. His mantra is clearly “the more the better” when it comes to fur coats, jewellery and bright colours and he wears them…

A GLOSSY black E-Class Mercedes-Benz is leaving as we’re about to enter through the security gate where policemen stand guard. The woman driving rolls down her window and greets us as our eyes meet. Nomachule “Norma” Gigaba then makes a U-turn and drives back through the thick steel gate towards the plush home with large windows she shares with her husband, minister of home affairs Malusi Gigaba. “You guys keep on time!” Norma says after she’s parked the luxury vehicle. “I wanted to quickly go to the shops to buy an energy drink. I’m so thirsty.” There are cameras outside the home Norma (33) shares with the 43-year-old minister and their two boys, Nkanyezi (3) and Mvelo (2). One camera points down at us and the policemen standing nearby watch…

Car trouble, no prob em It’s the kind of nightmarish stuff parents are faced with from time to time – breaking down on the side of the road with kids in the backseat But How I Met Your Mother star ALYSON HANNIGAN (40) and her hubby, ALEXIS DENISOF (49), seemed to take it in th ir stride, taking out the kids’ car seats and heading off with their youngest daughter, KEEVA (2) Alyson has taken a step back from her career since How I Met Your Mother wrapped in March last year, focusing instead on her family which includes older daughter Satyana (5)…