Innholdsfortegnelse for 07 May 2015 i You South Africa

LITTLE Prince George is a delight! Just as we were going to print, exclusive new pictures of him and mom Kate came onto the market and – even though she might well be in the throes of delivery when you read this – the gorgeous snaps of their visit to a farm and petting zoo were just too good to miss out on. The pics show just how hands-on a royal Kate is. Dressed down in a quilted jacket and warm boots, she was on the slide, helping George to climb on hay bales and keeping a close eye as he rollicked with friends made on his outing. See our selection of shots of the cute toddler prince bundled up in a cute onesie on page 10. Soon the little…

A GREAT deal has changed since the last time we saw her. It was just a year ago that she welcomed us into the Cape Town home she shared with her cricket icon husband and their two toddlers. But the Morgan Deane we’re speaking to today is very different from that woman. For starters she’s lost lots of weight off her already petite frame. “It’s the divorce diet,” she jokes. Although she tries to remain upbeat as our photographer snaps away there’s now a sadness in her eyes and a smile that doesn’t seem quite convincing when she speaks about being a single mom. Morgan certainly couldn’t have imagined life would turn out this way when she and Graeme Smith, from whom she’s separating, spoke about his retirement from South…

SHE’S been accused on social media of being distant, cold and arrogant. But the smiling young woman we’re chatting to today is nothing of the sort. Lerato Kganyago is warm and down-to-earth – and even becomes emotional when she talks about her new-found success. “There’s no one in this industry who has been rejected as much as I have,” she says, wiping away a tear. “I’ve auditioned for roles before and when I didn’t get them people went crazy, saying the nastiest things like I’m not good enough.” Of course that’s all changing now – Lerato, who recently cohosted the South African Music Awards (Samas), has a new gig on Metro FM and landed a plum role in SABC1 soapie Muvhango. She hasn’t forgotten how hard she had to work…

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I’M IN LOVE WITH MY PSYCHOLOGIST Q I’ve travelled a long and rocky road with my psychologist and she’s been my only friend during many lonely periods over the past 10 years. I’ve seen more of her than usual lately and I think I’m in love with her. We’ve come to know each other well and I just love everything about her. We’re both married with children – she’s 55 and I’m a 41-year-old woman – and I don’t think I’m a lesbian although I’m starting to wonder. She has no idea how I feel as I’m afraid it will ruin the lovely relationship we have but I don’t know what to do with these feelings. I fantasise about her daily and imagine what it would be like if we…

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BIG HERO 6 2014. 101 min. 7-9PG V. Animated adventure. R129* Hiro (voiced by Ryan Potter) is a 14-year-old genius who lives in the futuristic city of San Fransokyo and wastes his talents on making easy money through robot fighting. His older brother, Tadashi (Daniel Henney), inspires him to do something worthwhile when he shows him his innovative new healthcare robot, Baymax (Scott Adsit). But then tragedy strikes and Hiro enlists Baymax and Tadashi’s friends’ help to catch a mysterious masked man wreaking havoc in the city. This fresh, inventive film can be described as the Disney version of a superhero origin story, which makes sense as this is Disney’s first project based on Marvel material after it bought the comic book company six years ago. But though the superhero…

LISTEN TO THIS! MINISTRY OF SOUND 2015 VARIOUS ARTISTS If you’re a fan of dance music – pop or electro – be sure to add this joy of a three-disc album to your collection. The well-curated selection features some of the biggest tracks of 2014, from artists such as Avicii, Usher and Lana Del Rey to the electro sounds of Martin Garrix, Tiësto and many more. There’s even a selection of underground sounds for those not into radio-friendly tracks. Disc one is particularly awesome, with great songs that will turn up any party! – SAMANTHA LUIZ NEW ON THE BIG SCREEN / THE DUFF TEEN COMEDY. With MAE WHITMAN and ROBBIE AMELL. Director: ARI SANDEL. 13L. Opens 1 May. This is easily the coolest movie of the month. It will…

She’s received mixed reactions to her decision to play in The Duff as she’s neither fat nor ugly and many feel the concept is degrading. “A lot of people have a really strong reaction to hearing the name Duff, and they should – it’s a brutal name. But so is every name that kids get called in high school,” she says . The 26-year-old has voiced the roles of Katara in The Last Airbender and Tinker Bell in the Tinker Bell movies. Mae was discovered at the age of three when she interrupted her actress mom’s audition to say she was bored. She’s the kid of A-listers . . . well, sort of. She played George Clooney’s daughter in One Fine Day (1996) and Sandra Bullock was her mom in…

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THEY seemed wonderful at the time. Pop-up internet ads, office cubicles, emoticons, the AK-47 assault rifle – believe it or not, all of these were dreamt up by people who thought they’d one day be heartily thanked for their efforts. But instead they came to bitterly regret their creations. In fact, Swedish scientist Alfred Nobel – who invented dynamite – felt so guilty about the havoc his invention created he launched the Nobel Peace Prize to make amends. Yet while innovations such as one-cup instant coffee pods and the Flappy Bird cellphone game have caused much less harm than Nobel’s explosive brainchild, their creators have also been plagued by guilt. We look at some of the brainboxes who wished they’d never had their eureka moments. THE ATOMIC BOMB “Woe is…

BE THE DIFFERENCE I’M A teacher who believes teachers must care about their learners. It’s what makes the difference. I read an article online about a teacher who has placed a box in the classroom labelled #iwishmyteacherknew, in which learners can leave notes about their challenges. I decided to give it a shot. My learners’ challenges ranged from things such as “I wish my teacher knew that I don’t have colouring pencils to make my tasks look nice” to more heartbreaking issues such as “I wish my teacher knew that no one plays with me”. After implementing it in my classroom I now have insight into their lives and know how I can make a difference – really make a difference. Even if it’s just hooking a girl up with…

AS THE month drew to a close all eyes might have been turned towards St Mary’s Hospital in London, awaiting the birth of a new little blue blood. But the world’s favourite royal toddler clearly still has the power to steal the show when new pictures of him emerge. Prince George was given mom Kate’s full attention when they went to a farm and petting zoo ahead of his sibling’s birth. It was one of his last outings as an only child and the little prince was thrilled at being able to run around as his mom and their security detail hovered nearby. The Duchess of Cambridge and her firstborn were snapped spending the day at Snettisham Farm after she’d gone on maternity leave. The farm is near their 10-bedroom…

HER life changed in a flash the night when to her horror she discovered a strange woman in their spare room at home in Pretoria. “What’s she doing here?” was her first thought. But it wasn’t a woman, nor was it a stranger. It was, in fact, her husband. Maria* is grim-faced as she recalls the moment she found out about her husband’s secret life. It was in 2004, they’d been married for two years and she was pregnant with their first child. Sitting next to her is her husband. He’s tall and built like a rugby player. But every 10 days he becomes Francine*, the woman in the spare room. “We love each other very much,” Frans* says, reaching for Maria’s hand over the table at the restaurant where…

t – teaspoon/s T – tablespoon/s c – cup/s ON THE centuries-old wine estate Spier near Stellenbosch in the Western Cape, Mariota Enthoven and her family live close to the land on her family’s farm. About six years ago she and husband Angus McIntosh, a former London stockbroker, turned down a promotion and returned home to raise their kids, Maya (13), Hamish (11) and Joshua (9), here. They live as “green” as possible on the farm. They had a cob house built with the help of an architect and Angus packed away his tailored suits to farm with cattle, chickens, wine and vegetables using biodynamic practices. Cattle and chickens roam the green pastures unhindered while fertilising the land; the chickens lay their eggs in egg mobiles that are regularly moved…

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WHEN she and her husband separated recently after four years of married life, she suddenly began waking up at night with a pounding heart, fighting for breath. Her chest and lower back were constantly sore, Louise (27) of Witbank says. “I’m now so tense anything gives me a fright.” Many of us know the feeling. You’ve broken up with someone recently and it feels as if your world’s falling apart. First it’s only the heartache, but the pain soon spreads. Your chest grows tight, your head aches. Can you really become ill from a broken heart, or is it all psychosomatic? A few YOU readers tell how their health suffered after a love disappointment. Tracy* (61), Bellville: “We broke up six months ago. I was very tense, my hair fell…

THE strapping Aussie is back as the god of thunder in Avengers: Age Of Ultron and says this time Thor gets to loosen up. “He’s been on Earth . . . so he doesn’t have to be as regal and kingly, which is nice. I enjoy that more,” Chris says of the movie which sees him rejoined by Avengers castmates Robert Downey Jnr (Tony Stark/Iron Man), Chris Evans (Captain America), Scarlett Johansson (Black Widow) and Mark Ruffalo (The Hulk). Here he talks about the new superhero adventure, his family and struggling to learn Spanish. Were you a Thor fan before you started playing the character? No, I knew nothing about Thor before I started work on these films! But it was exciting to start reading the comics and exploring the…

SOUTH African author Marita van der Vyver now lives in a small town in France. We tracked her down to quiz her about her re-released children’s classic, Rhinocephants On The Roof, and pick her brain about what parents can do to get their kids excited about books and reading. What inspired you to write this book? When my son Daniel was three he spent a night with his grandparents and became scared because he heard these strange noises on the roof . . . So he called his granddad, who thumped the ceiling with a broom to chase away the “rhinocephants”. When I heard about this incident my imagination simply took flight. With Daniel’s help I invented some more monsters. What ideas were you trying to get across to children?…

His 2013 debut EP, Marvelous Light, got to No 9 on the local iTunes chart, topping the singer-songwriter category, and he ended 2014 with a bang opening for US folk-rockers The Lumineers on their SA tour. We caught up with 27-year-old Durban-based electro-folk singer Majozi to talk about his latest single, Fire, and new EP, Mountains. How is Mountains different from your first EP? We experimented a lot more, bringing in dance elements and trying out lots of different things. What inspired the title? To me mountains symbolise the overcoming of challenges and everyone can relate to that. Most of the songs are uplifting and have elements of my faith and hope. How has Fire been received? Amazingly well, thankfully. The radio stations have been awesome and are playing it…

WHEN a party invitation landed in 15-year-old Laura’s Face-book inbox, she quickly called her friend Lerato, also 15. “I was freaking out because we usually need three weeks before a party to work out, eat right and go shopping for dresses,” she says. Nine days and 18 joint workout sessions later, the big day arrived. “I’d been watching what I was eating all week and remember thinking, ‘Why don’t I look like she does in that dress?’ ” Laura says. “I was really angry at myself for not putting in more effort and was pretty jealous that Lerato looked thinner than me.” It’s easy to feel envious of your gal pals, as Laura did. But what happens when comparing yourself with your friends suddenly becomes a dangerous game of bettering…

Cinderella quiz 1. What are the names of Cinderella’s cruel stepsisters? A Drizella and Anastasia B Hilary and Jacqueline C Madeleine and Susan 2. Is Gus a mouse or a squirrel? 3. What were Cinderella’s new shoes made of? 4. What did the Fairy Godmother change into a coach? 5. What time did Cinderella have to be home from the ball? Hair-raising escape Help Rapunzel to escape the tower and reach her prince! Snow White’s wordsearch First match the names to the characters, then find the words hidden in the grid – horizontally, vertically, backwards or forwards. Bashful Now write the unused letters, starting from top left, in the spaces below to find out how Snow White’s story ends: Experience the magic of the Disney princesses with the Disney Princess…

High school, 1968 A high-school jock who plays basketball and American football, he goes on to study physical education at college, graduating in 1973. Winning gold, 1976 He becomes a US hero after winning gold in the decathlon at the 1976 Summer Olympics in Montréal, Canada. Racing champ “I was a lot more badass runner than I was a driver,” says the 65-year-old who nevertheless was a successful racing driver, even winning a few races in the ’80s. Marriage to Kris, 1991 In April 1991 he marries his third wife, Kris Kardashian (now 59), and becomes stepfather to her four kids, Kourtney (36), Kim (34), Khloé (30) and Rob (28). He and Kris have two daughters together, Kendall (19) and Kylie Jenner (17). Bruce also has a son, Burt (36),…

Big Sean (27) and ARIANA GRANDE (21) have split amidst claims of her selfish behaviour and his dirty lyrics. Apparently Ariana (and her grandmother) were highly ticked off when the rapper referred to “his chick’s billion dollar p***y” in the track Stay Down. Sean meanwhile has moaned he travelled to see her “10 times more” than she did to see him and that she’s “immature”. ROBERT DOWNEY JNR (50) made headlines recently when he stormed out of a press junket to promote his new flick, Avengers: Age Of Ultron, after a journalist started asking questions about his past drug use. According to an insider the topic is “intensely personal and private for Bob, and he doesn’t do it for the press”. “Being caught off guard by a reporter hoping to…

I was born and raised in South Africa and have loved it for all my years. There is so much beauty, so much culture. Unfortunately everything is going downhill. I’m not one who follows the news much; I prefer to stay in the dark. Although now I can’t – it’s everywhere. What’s going on? South Africa is filled with so much hate. I just want to make my voice heard. I want everyone in this country to come together again and be an amazing Rainbow Nation. I want the hate, racism and discrimination to end. JENNIFER DU TOIT, EMAIL • As we go on complaining about load-shedding and arguing over statues, I urge every South African to spare a minute to appreciate the life you lead. We’re not a First…

CHICKPEA AND SPINACH QUICHE Here’s a tasty update of a traditional quiche. SERVES 4 Preparation: 15 min Cooking: 40 min 250 g phyllo pastry 45 ml (3 T) butter, melted 15 ml (1 T) olive oil 1 red onion, sliced 2 garlic cloves, chopped 1 can (410 g) chickpeas, drained juice and grated zest of 1 lemon 100 g baby spinach 100 g ricotta cheese, roughly crumbled 1 round feta cheese, roughly crumbled salt and freshly ground pepper EGG CUSTARD 250 ml (1 c) milk 3 eggs, whisked Preheat the oven to 180 °C. Grease a 20-cm cake tin with butter. 1 Brush each sheet of phyllo pastry with the melted butter and line the cake tin with the sheets so the bottom and sides of the tin are covered.…

MOST South Africans love meat and in some households not a meal goes by without a helping of animal protein. But too much of a good thing isn’t always advisable. The biggest cause of death (after Aids) in South Africa is cardiovascular diseases such as heart attacks and strokes, according to a recent study by The Heart And Stroke Foundation South Africa. Red meat contains saturated fats, which lead to high cholesterol in the body – one of the biggest risk factors for cardiovascular disease. With the flexitarian diet you eat less meat and more plant proteins so the diet isn’t as strict as a vegetarian diet, where you cut out meat completely. Registered dietician Jeanie Nel of Cape Dieticians has developed a flexitarian diet specially for YOU readers who…

PERFECT EYESIGHT Norman is 89 years old. He’s played golf every day since his retirement more than 20 years ago. One day he arrives home from the course, upset. “That’s it” he tells his wife. “I’m giving up golf. My eyesight has got so bad that after I’ve hit the ball I can’t see where it’s gone” His wife sympathises and makes him a cup of tea. As they sit down she says, “Next time you play golf, why don’t you take my brother Joe along and give it one last try.” “That’s a terrible idea” Norman says. “Joe’s 102 years old. How could he help?” “He may be 102 years old” his wife says, “but his eyesight is perfect” Norman figures he might as well give it a try,…

WHEN I was young my mother considered television a waste of my precious time and I was only allowed to watch educational programmes. This was a sore point. But my otherwise sensible mom loved watching American soapies, which featured impossibly beautiful women and men with square jaws and white teeth who snarled at the women. I noticed all of them ended their phone conversations with “love you”, which even I could tell sounded insincere but seemed a universal ending to any call. I tried this American line once. I had to phone my mother from school to tell her I’d be home late and after our usual shorthand conversation I blurted, “I love you, Mom.” “What?” Silence hummed along the line and then she said blankly, “Well, of course you…

TAURUS APRIL 20 - MAY 20 Quality time needed more than gifts Your planet, Venus, moves into the family-orientated sign of Cancer this week. It’s a good time to not only allow yourself to be pampered by your family, but also to spoil them. In this regard quality time could be worth more than material gifts. A sibling could possibly go through a confusing period and may ask for advice. Your practical and down-to-earth approach will stand you in good stead. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 42, 35, 16, 43, 11, 6 GEMINI MAY 21 – JUNE 20 If you’re feeling uncertain about your professional goals, don’t despair as it’s a passing phase. In fact, it might be better to postpone career decisions since they could be based on ideals rather than…

WISE UP “We’re not comparing apples with apples. We’re comparing apples, oranges and pears. Don’t think you’re going to lose the same amount of weight in the same time using the same resources as your friend. It’s just not possible,” Meredith says. “Our metabolism, shapes and weights are always going to be different. If we all try to aspire to one size we’re doomed to fail.” REALISE THE CONSEQUENCES “Spurring one another on can be dangerous for your health. Yo-yo dieting and kilojoule restriction can severely reduce your thyroid function and lead to a nutrient deficiency,” Lucy says. STOP THE CHATTER “Work out together if that makes it fun, but place a ban on chatting about who ate what or any extra exercise you’ve done,” Meredith says. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATING…

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AS A photojournalist Lynsey Addario has visited some of the world’s most dangerous places. From Afghanistan to Iraq, Syria and the Sudan the American Pulitzer Prize-winning photographer has risked her life countless times over more than a decade to capture images that reveal the tragedy of war. Her riveting story is due to be made into a blockbuster movie which will reportedly be directed by Steven Spielberg and star The Hunger Games actress Jennifer Lawrence. Here in a harrowing extract from her new memoir, It’s What I Do, on which the film will be based, Lynsey (41), who’s married and has a three-year-old son, reveals exactly how it feels to stare death in the face. THE photographer Robert Capa once said, “If your pictures aren’t good enough, you’re not close…

ON THEIR last evening together in Nanping, China, Elize van Greuning gave her four-year-old son, William Kaiwan Lin, a hug. “See you tomorrow,” she said as she felt his warm breath on her neck. Today nearly six years later Elize (32) is sitting in her parents’ home on a farm near Kabeljous in the Eastern Cape. She treasures that day, she says, and prays constantly that she’ll hold her son in her arms again soon. Since that evening her Chinese ex-husband, Wenkang Lin (37), has been involved in a legal battle spanning two continents. “You’ll never see him again. Forget about the child,” he allegedly taunts her – that’s if she can get hold of him by phone. Since 2009 Elize has turned to the South African courts, Chinese authorities,…

Cindy Nell-Roberts The former Miss SA, mom to AENEA (2) and ETHAN (4) with businessman hubby Clive Roberts, says motherhood has given her a new perspective on life. “The best thing about being a mom is having something to live for beyond yourself, to have dreams other than your own and to think of what you want to leave behind in the world as opposed to what you want from it.” Leanne Dlamini The singer and her hubby, music manager Sipho, are parents to ZANI-LEE (5) and ZAYA-ROSE (1). “The best thing about being a mom is watching my daughters grow into the little beings they are and knowing that I’m nurturing these precious little girls. Living life through the eyes of my children is my greatest joy.” Bokang Montjane…

RIHANNA For once she wasn’t the boss, but you’d be forgiven for thinking she was! Pop star RIHANNA (left and above left) was just one of 11 bridesmaids, who included her BFF MELISSA FORDE (above right), at the wedding of Riri’s personal assistant, JENNIFER ROSALES, in Hawaii. Before the ceremony they shared snaps of themselves hanging out in pink satin robes and smoking because, hey, that’s what awesome bridesmaids do. Speaking of lighting up, the 27-year-old singer has a track called James Joint on her upcoming album. KELLY, SOLANGE & BEYONCÉ TINA KNOWLES (61), the mother of BEYONCÉ (33) and SOLANGE KNOWLES (28), recently remarried and tweeted this pic of the beautiful ladies in her life. Tina is now also stepmom to Witches Of East End actress BIANCA LAWSON (36),…