Innholdsfortegnelse for September/October 2019 i You and Your Wedding

It’s wedding season! And all around the country (and the world) people are tying the knot, saying their vows and declaring everlasting love on beaches, in tepees, churches and barns. Guests will gather and cry, laugh, dance and most possibly raise a toast to the couple. These days are full of love and joy, whether there are 200 or just two people there on the big day. For some couples, the thought of bringing their families together causes huge excitement and happiness. What could be better than new besties Uncle Malcolm and great-cousin Margaret mixing it up on the dance floor? For others, putting families and friends together can be daunting – even terrifying! There’s always going to be someone who upsets the applecart (or dessert table). Go to p98…

THE BRIEF MOOD A tropical paradise with a touch of city glamour. PALETTE Lush greens, pops of pink and gold accents. VENUE Pergola Olympia London – a rooftop oasis with stunning city views. A botanical bolthole with amazing cityscape views calls for modern styling. Tucked away on the rooftop of the historic Olympia London exhibition centre, Pergola Olympia is beautifully presented with a tropical twist. “I was utterly inspired to use this amazing space as the backdrop for our shoot, encapsulating both a modern and tropical look, stirring feelings of escaping the city and discovering a secret paradise,” says stylist and cake maker Ester. As the venue does a lot of the talking, there was only the need to enhance some of its beautiful features: “We used bright greens, golds…

THE COUPLE Cleo & Brett Cleopatra Carlos, 27, and Brett Patry, 28, held their ceremony at St Patrick’s Church, Soho, and their reception at the Corinthia Hotel, Westminster, London Originally, Cleo and Brett dreamed of having their reception at The Royal Exchange, a handsome 16th-century venue in Central London. “However, with such a small guest list for the size of the venue, it just didn’t make sense,” explains Cleo. “Their event manager graciously recommended the Corinthia Hotel, because it has similar architecture but a cosier space.” Location chosen, the couple set about putting together a refined look for the day. As the ballroom for their wedding breakfast has a distinctive, patterned carpet, they opted to keep the colour palette simple to avoid competing hues: white and gold, with pops of…

1 Enjoy the post-wedding wedmin (unwrapping your presents and writing thank you cards) together. 2 Make a big moment of receiving your photos and video – turn down the lights and pop the champagne. 3 Save money in the honeymoon budget for a romantic weekend away a few months into married life. 4 Book a fun couples’ course – anything from dancing together to Kama Sutra classes! 5 Write a wish list of activities you’ve always wanted to do and do them together. 6 Host a dinner party where your two social circles can meet again after the wedding. 7 Learn to cook together and sample the delicious results by candlelight, too. 8 Plan a first wedding anniversary that will rival the day (or honeymoon) itself. 9 New home? Get…

18 MONTHS TO GO Agree on a budget Draft a rough guest list so you know what size of venue to look for Decide whether you would prefer a civil or religious wedding ceremony and what type of venue you want View and book your venue Book your church and registrar/other celebrant Finalise your guest list Invest in wedding insurance Book your photographer and videographer 12 MONTHS TO GO Choose your bridesmaids, best man and ushers Send out your save the dates Book transport, if you need it Book your entertainment If you need to hire caterers, book them and discuss the menu options Start dress shopping Start bridesmaid dress shopping Book your hair and make-up artist, if you're having them NINE MONTHS TO GO Book your florist Book your…

Golden GIRL Forget fake tan, this year it’s all about body luminiser, in particular, Fenty Beauty’s Body Lava, £46. It veils the skin in a sexy, dewy, high-shine finish, giving you an island-hopping glow, even when you’ve been inside working on wedmin all day. New CLASSIC  Nuxe’s hero hair, face and body spray has been given a summer revamp in the form of Huile Prodigieuse Florale, £32.50. With notes of sweet magnolia, orange blossom and zesty grapefruit, this new dry oil nourishes, repairs and beautifies the hair, face and body, and is perfect for packing in your hen-do suitcase. Multi-tasking MAGIC With a wedding to plan, time-saving beauty products are an essential, so we’re head-over-heels for MURAD’S PREBIOTIC 4-IN-1 MULTICLEANSER, £38. The gel-to-oil formula melts away make-up, removes dirt, and…

Having a spot pop up just before your big day is something of a wedding horror story. We spoke to Sally Penfold of Dermalogica about how to ward off pesky blemishes. “One factor contributing to spots is blocked pores, which can be made worse by the daily grime we pick up in the form of pollution or make-up,” Sally explains. “Double cleansing will ensure that all of the dirt is removed both superficially and deeper in the pores. First, cleanse with a water-soluble oil, which will attract dirt like a magnet. Your second cleanse should be chosen for your skin type: use a calming creamy formula for red and inflamed skin, or a clay-based blend to reduce oily shine. “Acne-causing bacteria thrives in a clogged follicle, and a targeted treatment…

CASTLE HOTEL, Windsor WHERE The location of the Castle Hotel is perfect for a romantic break – sitting right on Windsor’s High Street, just moments from majestic Windsor Castle. Guests can even watch the changing of the guards from the hotel. Established in 1528, it’s one of the town’s oldest buildings, and even though the venue had an extensive refurbishment in 2015, the hotel has still retained lots of historical character. WHY Our gorgeous suite, overlooking the Guildhall, had a fabulous king-sized bed, beautiful bathroom and a spacious seating area. Modern touches, such as our huge TV, minibar and Nespresso machine added to the contemporary feel. After gin and tonics in the hotel bar, we headed for dinner in the Marco Pierre White Restaurant. Seared sea scallops and baked Camembert…

1 GAME, SET, MATCH Looking for a luscious lingerie set? We’ve got you covered. 2 HEN-DO HEROES We’ve found the games and accessories that get the party started, while staying sophisticated. 3 MAID WITH LOVE Show your bridesmaids your appreciation with a gorgeous gift from our guide. 4 WHITE OUT Fall in love with our edit of the most elegant blush, pink and nude dresses. 5 PARADISE MADE EASY We’ll help you find the ideal Maldives idyll for your first getaway as newlyweds. LET’S GET SOCIAL Join us on Instagram, Pinterest, Facebook and Twitter for exclusive w-day inspiration JOIN IN THE WEDDING CHAT with other couples at youandyourwedding.co.uk/forum @YOUYOURWEDDING…

Floral design irisandco.com Photography & planning katantoslewisphotography.com Venue pergolalondon.com Stationery socalligraphy.co.uk Invitations mamaincstudio.com Cake, desserts & planning @sugarlily_cakery Bouquet ties houseofmacrame.com Macramé backdrop twome.co.uk Decorations idyllicdays.com Dresses shikobabride.com, thecotswoldfrockshop.co.uk Veil sashandveil.co.uk Jewellery honeyblossomuk.com Hair accessories & sandals theluckysixpence.co.uk Groom’s outfit zebel.co.uk Flower girl dress & hair accessory prettygorgeousweddings.co.uk Rings moltenweddingringcompany.com Hair & make-up rosieblush.com…

THE COUPLE Brooke & Kyle Brooke Wheatley, 30, and Kyle O’Brien, 29, held their ceremony and reception at Wilderness Weddings, Kent ÒOurs was a summer romance gone right,” says Kyle, who met Brooke while travelling around Central America. Nine years later, they became husband and wife in an idyllic corner of Kent. Their vision was for a laid-back, boho big day, and Wilderness fit the bill perfectly, with its enchanting woodland setting and rustic-luxe tepee tents. “It was the only venue we looked at!” says Brooke. The fact that it’s a blank-canvas space allowed the couple to really stamp their personalities on the day – with a little help from their loved ones. “A talented florist friend of ours made a stunning arch out of wild foliage for our ceremony…

SO HOT! CHIC BEDTIMES We love the new bridal sleepwear from Look & Cover, personalised with “Mrs” and your initial, from £35, lookandcover.co.uk FOCAL-POINT FOOD You can now have food from cool London restaurants – including Nobu and Le Bab – as your wedding breakfast, feast-it.com FLORAL GIN We’re all about rose gin now, particularly when it’s made from David Austin roses, from £10, wearetinkture.com SO NOT! MINI GUESTS Sixty-six percent of people think weddings should be entirely child-free, according to new research from The Baby Show. GIFT STRESS Thank maids and ushers with a Happy Box, filled with luxury treats they’ll love, from £25, happyboxlondon.com SIMPLE SPONGE Instead, be inspired by the incredible rainbow explosion cakes in The Power of Sprinkles by Amirah Kassem (Abrams, £17.99)…

A MATTER OF SIZE I’ve always dreamed of a big wedding with all my friends and family there. Even though my partner suffers from social anxiety, he initially said he’d be fine with that – but now he’s saying he wants to keep the guest list to close family only! I’m devastated at the thought of not having the wedding I’ve pictured for years, how can I persuade him? MrsXtoBe Y&YW says: Don’t think of the situation as losing your dream, it’s about building a new dream – one that suits both of you. You may well be able to get him to agree to a larger guest list. However, it’s unlikely you’ll enjoy the day if you know it has triggered his anxiety, and he’s really not enjoying himself.…

THIS ISSUE: Are hen parties over? “Four - night hen do in Ibiza? Sorry, I have dental surgery scheduled” “I can remember the exact moment I realised I’d had enough of hen parties. I was inching along a crowded central London street dressed as Patsy from Absolutely Fabulous. My tight black leather-look miniskirt allowed for only the tiniest of steps; my polyester wig was making my head sweat. I was running late for phase one of a uni friend’s hen: an eyewateringly expensive session at a luxe bowling alley. I hate bowling. This would be followed by manicures – we’d paid for exclusive hire of the salon. Then dinner at a – what else? – seriously spendy restaurant. Hot, uncomfortable and soon to be broke: why, I thought, should I…

This issue, we’re having a princess moment with big, beautiful ballgowns (p132), showcasing statement styles for the modern bride (p140) and shining a spotlight on gorgeous jewellery from Pandora for the perfect finishing touch (p148).…

GRAND HOTEL EXCELSIOR VITTORIA, SORRENTO Hollie Bond stayed in chic Sorrento, home to sunsets and traditional Italian fare Location I’ve dreamed of laying eyes on the famously romantic sights of the Amalfi Coast since I can remember. So, as we meander our way along the cliff road from Naples, with its incredible views of our destination, Grand Hotel Excelsior Vittoria, and our guide imparts the news that in fact Sorrento isn’t technically on the Amalfi Coast, I’m momentarily disappointed. The good news, however, is that this is in fact the Sorrentine Peninsula, and it’s just as beautiful, less touristy and benefits from facing west – so perfect if sunsets are your thing. Perfect for The hotel is family-run and you really get the sense that you’re staying with rather well-off…

It’s not only the music you choose that keeps the dance floor moving. We’ve rounded up the party extras that inject even more joy to the floor – without busting your budget. Join the glitterati Even the most seemingly glitter-immune guest will feel their resistance melt when faced with pot upon pot of the sparkling stuff in a riot of different colours. You can go DIY with your glitter bar, but if you choose a service such as EcoStardust, they’ll provide all the materials plus a glitter artist to create the looks. And the best bit? Their glitter is totally eco friendly! Get the glow The classic rave accessory still has the power to put a smile on people’s faces. Buy in bulk and set up a glow stick station…

Cathedral-length veils and decadent wedding dress trains… beautiful drapes of fabric aren’t anything new when it comes to weddings. But, we love this idea by florist Amie Bone, of taking an element of traditional wedding fashion, the classic drape, and transferring it to your reception tables. It’s an elegant way to add interest to a high-ceilinged space and to draw your guests’ eyes to the floral centrepieces without blowing the budget.…

Call to ARMS From puffed to flared and off-the-shoulder, choose sleeves for show-stopping style…

THE COUPLE Justine & Michael Justine Nicholas, 29, and Michael Adenuga, 34, held their ceremony and reception at Trinity Buoy Wharf, London With the groom of Nigerian descent and the bride hailing from Mauritius, Justine and Michael’s East London wedding day was always going to be a beautiful coming together of cultures. They also added a contemporary-chic décor aesthetic to their celebration. “Our day was a great blend of our cultures as well as incorporating our modern lives,” says Justine. “We are your typical modern, slightly non-traditional couple and this was perfectly reflected in our wedding style.” The couple decided on a minimalist look, with a palette of neutral hues and soft greens. The Allotment Florist adorned the industrial blank-canvas space with hanging floral hoops, a suspended foliage arch and…

THE COUPLE Sheila & Grant Sheila and Grant held their ceremony at St Mary’s Church and their reception at Court House Manor in Painswick, Gloucestershire Sheila and Grant are based overseas, but when it came to their wedding location, there was really only one choice: the English countryside. “Grant has always loved England as it’s been a special destination for his family for years,” says Sheila. “Our goal was to give the event a ‘family vacation’ feel.” They chose Court House Manor, a hotel in the picturesque Cotswolds town of Painswick, with enough rooms for all their family members to stay under the same roof for the celebration. Many of Sheila and Grant’s loved ones had important roles on the day, with their siblings doing the readings at the ceremony,…

Over one trillion photographs were taken in 2018 alone* . Ninety-five million photos are shared on Instagram every day – and a mind-blowing 350 million on Facebook* . With so much snap-happy activity, you’d think a day of wedding photography would be a breeze nowadays, even if that means facing the attentions of your smartphone-wielding guests in addition to your professional photographer. However, we hear time and again from couples that photography may be one of the areas they spend most on – but it’s also one of the things they most fear. “My husband Rhys dreaded the thought of having his photo taken so much that it actually overshadowed the run-up to the wedding,” says Molly, who got married last year. “ON THE DAY YOU’LL BE OOZING A NATURAL…

After all the meticulous wedding planning and excitement of the big day, going on a dreamy honeymoon is the perfect way to spend some one-on-one time with your spouse and reflect on the months gone by. Sandals Resorts in the Caribbean offers couples a chance to do just that – surrounded by all-inclusive luxury. 1 THE ROMANCE Few honeymoon destinations are as romantic as the Caribbean, especially when you experience it with Sandals Resorts. Leisurely strolls on the beach, watching some of the most beautiful sunsets in the world and sipping champagne under the stars are just some of the experiences newlyweds can look forward to in this dreamy oasis. 2 THE LUXURY Sandals Resorts has been voted World’s Leading All-Inclusive Resorts at the World Travel Awards for 23 years…

We don’t mean to be overdramatic, but your w-day hairstyle is probably the most photographed ’do you’ll ever have. That makes your hair trial a key date to note down in your wedding-planning diary. To help you get the most out of your time with your hairdresser, we asked leading industry stylists for their advice on how to make sure you end up with a look you love. Is a trial essential? In a word, yes. The only exception is if you’re going for a simple style (who doesn’t love a bouncy blow-dry?), created by the same hairdresser you’ve been visiting for years. If you’re going to a new stylist, or trying out a very different ’do with your usual hairdresser, trials are imperative. It’s a chance for you and…

We’re all for giving your beauty regime an overhaul in the lead up to your wedding – any excuse for buying a new set of products! However, part of the solution to any beauty issues could actually lie in your kitchen cupboard, rather than your bathroom cabinet. “While beauty products can be helpful, alone they are not as beneficial to your hair and skin as a nutrient-rich diet,” says nutritionist Melissa Rifkin, the brains behind@confessionofadietitian. We’re not talking about popping supplements here, but the nutrients found naturally in food that can supercharge your snacks and suppers to help bring out your inner glow. Whether you’re a kitchen whizz or a cookery novice, read on for the ingredients you should consider adding to your diet for a hair and skin confidence…

Mindful Sleep at ESPA Life at Corinthia, London £220 for 90 mins Walking into ESPA at Corinthia was like being transported to another planet; one that we never wanted to leave. Wellness guru Angel took us on a mindfulness journey, encompassing a personalised hot-stone massage, a therapeutic scalp massage, and even took the time to coach us on mindful breathing techniques. We left the treatment feeling like we were ready to take on the world, or at least our to-do list! And, most importantly, we slept like a baby that night. Margaret Dabbs Peace and Calm Reflexology, nationwide £70 for 50 mins The lead-up to the big day can make even the deepest of sleepers feel like an insomniac. Focusing specifically on complete stress reduction and soothing away tension, this…

RAPID ARRIVAL It’s only right that honeymooners should make a grand entrance, and you can do just that at the Four Seasons Resort Bali at Sayan, which has launched the first check-in by river raft to transfer guests from the Jimbaran Bay resort. Y&YW WANDERLUST Opening this summer, Crossroads Maldives is the ideal option for honeymooners who worry they’ll get “bored” on a paradise island. The 7km-long lagoon and nine islands will feature eight luxury resorts, a yacht marina and 11,000 sq m of retail space. Enjoy the VIEW Is this the dream honeymoon suite? After a revamp, The View villa at Six Senses Yao Noi in Thailand comes with a private cinema and waterfall that flows beneath the bed! Seven nights from £5,395 pp incl. flights and transfers,…