Innholdsfortegnelse for May/June 2019 i You and Your Wedding

Escort cards are an excellent take on a table plan. Guests’ names and table numbers are written on individual cards, so any last-minute changes are easy to accommodate – not so if you have a pre-printed seating chart. And when they’re attached to a stunning floral arrangement like this, escort cards become as pretty as they are practical.…

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THE BRIEF MOOD A bold and bright summer celebration PALETTE Rich blue with cream, white, lilac and metallic accents VENUE Euridge House and Orangery in Wiltshire, with its many backdrops, from castle ruins to a serene reservoir The bold colours and stunning surroundings of this venue offered the ideal opportunity to bend the styling rules – which is exactly what Charlotte Ricard-Quesada did when putting together this shoot. “I fell in love with every corner of Euridge House and Orangery,” she explains. “I wanted to take blue from being an accent tone to being the entire palette, and to meld wild with vintage and luxe with minimal.” “Don’t be afraid to blend patterns and styles as long as you have a base colour running through” Charlotte is a fan of…

Photography danmorrisphotography.co.uk Reception venue Norton Hall, goldenpineapplehospitality.co.uk Videographer weddings.willwarr.co.uk Marquee bisleyhire.co.uk Bride’s dress Catherine Parry at whiteboutique.co.uk Bridesmaid dresses morilee.co.uk Make-up christinecaramakeup.com Groom’s suit nealandpalmer.com Stationery kilkiesands.com Church flowers lisadrinkwaterflowers.co.uk Bouquets & reception flowers fabulousflowers.biz Entrance arch Stuart McMahon Garden Design Cake vanillapodbakery.com Linens linenforhire.co.uk Tableware toptablehire.co.uk Bar thewateringholeeventbars.co.uk Catering atozest.co.uk…

SHORT HAIR, DON’T CARE Why does everyone think I’m going to grow my hair for my wedding? I’ve had a pixie crop for about six years, but now I’m engaged, people seem to expect I’ll go long so I can have an updo. Even though I know long hair doesn’t suit me, I’ve actually started thinking that I should grow it again – I’m worried I won’t look like a bride otherwise. Alouette Y&YW says: What makes you a bride is the fact that you’re marrying the person you love. Anything else – your outfit, make-up, hair – is personal choice. You certainly shouldn’t feel you have to alter your style in any way. Quite apart from anything else, you’ll want to look back at the photos and see yourself…

THIS ISSUE: Should your mum come to your hen party? YES! GILLIAN WILMOT, WHOSE DAUGHTER, ZOE, GOT MARRIED IN 2015, SAYS: “DESPITE OUR AGE WE MANAGED TO SPEND LONGER ON THE DANCE FLOOR THAN SOME OF ZOE’S FRIENDS” “I was happy to go on my daughter’s hen do. Zoe and I have a very good relationship – we often go out socialising together. It was lovely to be included, and I would have been upset if I hadn’t been asked. Of course, when I got married 46 years ago we didn’t have hen dos, it’s quite a new custom of the modern world! I wasn’t there for the whole thing. To start the celebrations, one of the bridesmaids had arranged a private room in a pub, where two hair and…

Country belle Loose tendrils, dishevelled texture and relaxed updos are the order of the day at countryside weddings; these looks are perfectly suited to sun-soaked summer soirées in meadows and stylish barn weddings with DIY touches. City chic Go for a sophisticated vibe with coiffured curls, glossy waves and elegant chignons. They’ll look equally glorious in a rooftop restaurant with sensational skyline views as they do in pared-down industrial venues.…

DESTINATION UNKNOWN If you love surprises, online travel company Srprs.me is for you. Simply input your budget, choose your dates and it will do everything for you. Plus, you’ll get a hand-luggage-friendly scratch card at the airport to reveal your destination! 3 of the best PERFUME PENS Y&YW WANDERLUST We’re dreaming of cosying up in one of these cute-as-a-button new eco pods with views of the Brecon Beacons at Cynefin Retreats. Champagne in the hot tub and toasting marshmallows around the fire pit – glamping doesn’t get more romantic than this, cynefinretreats.com Sail AWAY Step on to the set of your very own Bond film at Como Point Yamu in Phuket. Enjoy a new private champagne yacht cruise around Phang Nga Bay’s stunning islands, which include the islet Koh…

It’s time to loosen your belt – these honeymoons are all about celebrating your newlywed status with fabulous food and delicious drink in the most glorious settings. Whether you want to learn how to cook your chosen destination’s cuisine, source the ingredients yourself or simply sit back and let the world’s best chefs do the hard work for you, there’s a food-lovers’ hotel to suit every honeymooner’s taste. Kokomo Private Island Fiji On the menu: Actually, there’s no menu at this charming island’s Walker D’Plank restaurant. Instead, the head chef visits your table, finds out what you love and conjures up a personalised menu on the spot using ingredients from the hotel’s own 5.5-acre farm. Go there: Seven nights incl. all meals and drinks and return flights from UK from…

The details matter You sometimes worry that you consult your planning spreadsheet more often than the person you’re going to marry. Extra pro points if it features colour coding, multiple tabs or formulae (the spreadsheet, not your partner). You’re a venue expert You can name the top 15 wedding venues in your area, and list their individual advantages and disadvantages. Yours is the best, of course. You’ve deleted your Pinterest dress board If you’ve chosen your dress, that is. You’ve learned that once you’ve made a wed-related decision, it’s best to stop looking at what else is out there. You speak the language Wedmin, mini-moon, MoB… These terms mean something to you now – and you’ve even caught yourself using them. Nothing surprises you Guests demanding plus-ones? Family flare-ups because…

Perhaps you met on holiday and want to return to your special country for your big day? Maybe you had an overseas proposal and want to show your guests the romantic spot? Or have you always imagined saying “I do” with your toes in the sand? Whatever your destination wedding dreams look like, we’ve rounded up some of the most beautiful wedding venues in the world, from vineyards and countryside villas to stunning beaches and chic city hotels. Maybe one of them could become your romantic reality... SPAIN Kempinski Hotel Bahía, Marbella, kempinski.com MAURITIUS La Pirogue, lapirogue.com THAILAND Anantara Layan Phuket Resort, anantara.com BEACHSIDE BEAUTIES SEYCHELLES Six Senses Zil Pasyon, sixsenses.com INDONESIA Nihi Sumba, nihi.com JAMAICA Sandals Ochi Beach Resort, sandals.co.uk MEXICO Hotel Esencia, Tulum, hotelesencia.com ST BARTHS Le Sereno,…

As well as being an extra-special experience for you and your guests, a destination wedding can also be a practical choice if not all your loved ones live in the same country. Alexis and Will are based in the US but his family is British, so a dreamy French chateau venue was the perfect base for this intimate gathering of 50 guests. “We spent a few months looking for venues and were fortunate to receive a tip about Chateau La Durantie,” says Alexis. “We wanted a location that felt both elegant and had history, and that would allow all our guests to stay on the property for the whole weekend.” The couple let the stunning surroundings dictate their w-day look and feel. Their only request was that their florist use…

BINKY NIXON Photographer Binky shot Laura and Mark’s festival-style wedding on p94, showing her instinct for the very best moments to capture. JASON CROZIER Love our cover model’s hair? Jason at Stella Creative Artists created the chic style using Aussie haircare products. Check out his work on p142. MARI CHASE Bridal stylist Mari is part of the team behind the styled shoot on p57, working on both the models’ looks and the reception’s lovely décor. PAULA BEGOUN The founder of iconic skincare brand Paula’s Choice explains how to avoid letting stress wreak havoc on your skin before the big day on p210.…

True romance Lovers of all things pretty will adore this charm-filled country-garden look Cosmic chic Rich shades and modern designs are the only choice for the coolest of couples Rustic charm Dried or pressed flowers are the natural choice for traditionalists…

Alternative Take your pick from trousers, feathers or shorts for a more daring, statement look Classic If you’ve always dreamed of being a princess for the day, this is the collection for you Ballgowns Think big and make a dramatic entrance, without a meringue in sight Slinky Prefer to go a little more low-key? Opt for a sleek, slim outline Strapless For the ultimate in romance, look no further than a classic corset top Sleeves We adore a great sleeve – they come in all shapes and styles and are ideal for covering up…

THE BRIEF MOOD A snow-sprinkled winter barn wedding PALETTE Ice white, silver, soft green, grey and blue VENUE The honey-coloured barns of Caswell House in the Cotswolds Barn venues, with their outside spaces and countryside locations, are perfect for summer weddings, but they can work just as well for crisp winter receptions. Photographer Hannah McClune went for a cool, frosted theme full of seasonal foliage, which was offset by the warm-coloured stone walls of the Cotswolds venue. “We wanted to showcase the beauty of barns in winter and create a cosy, chic atmosphere,” she says. “We had lots of white flowers with grey foliage and white birch twigs to make it look frosty, and the bride had a silver and white bouquet.” To add interest, an emphasis was placed on…

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When the bride works as an influencer, you know the wedding is going to be full of photogenic detail and drop-dead-gorgeous styling. “I wanted everything to feel organic and lush,” says Rachel of her “traditional bohemian” wedding. “The flower design is meant to resemble overgrown wildflowers, like you were walking into a secret garden.” The big day took place at the Knickerbocker Country Club in New Jersey, where groom Matthew spent many summers as a child. Wedding planner Ashley from BK Events created a consistent look throughout the venue, with a palette of burgundy, black, ivory, blush, gold and rose copper. As well as the décor, food was also a big theme at this event – on top of the sit-down three-course surf’n’turf dinner, guests were treated to antipasti, dim…

Laura and Mark were introduced by a mutual friend, who correctly felt they were ideal for each other. And it turns out playing matchmaker brings good karma. “Our friend is now engaged to Mark’s brother!” says Laura. She and Mark decided on a laid-back, festival feel for their big day. Cotswolds venue Hadsham Farm perfectly fit the bill, with its on-site tepees and fire pits, surrounded by countryside. There was also a particularly beautiful spot for an outdoor ceremony. “We decided on a humanist ceremony and had this in front of the lake,” says Laura. “It was performed by two of our close friends, which meant a lot to us.” Instead of a formal sit-down meal, the couple opted for food trucks serving dishes including slow-cooked barbecue, and pizza; a…

You’d think that in 2019, with rigid w-day etiquette a thing of the past, and a “your day, your way” attitude seeing couples tearing up the rulebook, wedding politics would no longer surface. But there’s one thing that hasn’t changed: heightened emotions come with the territory. Weddings are different from other events. Just think about the language involved: referring to your celebration as your “big day”, for example. It’s only right that marrying the person you love is given such importance – but that sense of importance can also lead to a feeling of pressure, for both you and those you care about. And when people feel under pressure, it can lead to all sorts of unexpected dramas. Luckily, when it comes to wedding politics, at Y&YW we’ve seen it…

Serving street food at weddings is a trend that’s here to stay – and there are some excellent reasons for that. Your guests will be able to tuck into dishes that are freshly put together right in front of them, for a gourmet experience to remember. Rather than having to sit at allocated tables throughout multiple courses, they’ll be free to mix and mingle as they eat, creating a more social experience. And if you hire multiple food trucks, there’ll be plenty of variety to tempt every different taste. Let some of these amazing street food options inspire you……

“IT WAS AN OBVIOUS CHOICE” Your wedding day is a one-of-a-kind experience; a precious opportunity to reflect your personality and dreams, together with those of your future spouse. From walking down the aisle to the tune of a mariachi band to a tuk-tuk journey as your guests wave you off from the wedding venue, there are more options than ever before. It’s the beginning of your journey as a married couple, and it’s good to know that if you’re thinking about starting a family in the future, you also have a choice when it comes to planning your little one’s first months – and your first months as parents. Shared parental leave (SPL) allows eligible parents to share up to 50 weeks of leave and 37 weeks of pay after…

Spring fling This April sees Jo Malone London launch the Blossom Collection – a range of scents perfect for spring weddings. Our pick of the bunch is the Frangipani Flower cologne, from £49. It’s light and fresh with notes of creamy sandalwood and a zingy citrus twist. NUDE ambition Call off the search, we’ve found the holy grail of bridal lipsticks! Avon’s Perfect Nudes collection, £8 each, comprises nine soft matte shades, from peachy pinks and warm suedes to caramel hues and rich browns. HOLIDAY HERO Your honeymoon suitcase isn’t complete without Institut Esthederm’s Bronz Repair Sunkissed face cream (£56), which launches in May. As well as protecting you from harmful rays, it illuminates every skin tone for a gorgeous holiday glow. STICK with it Face Gym’s Training Sticks,…

All your favourite people joining you for the most magical day of your lives in an idyllic, warm, far-flung setting – it’s clear to see why destination weddings are on the rise, with 14% more couples* choosing to jet off to sunnier climes for their “I dos”. That said, organising your wedding from afar can be a less than dreamy experience, with so many places to choose from and many more logistics to consider to ensure your big day goes to plan. With that in mind, we’ve put together our edit of the most exquisite overseas venues, with everything from beautiful beachside chapels to a luxurious safari lodge. In this guide, you’ll also find tips and advice on key elements such as the legalities of saying your vows abroad and…

"Make your overseas w-day planning as enjoyable as possible" Wherever you choose to wed, there’s always the dreaded paperwork part of the planning to fit in between the much more appealing tasks of trying on dresses and tasting cakes. To make destination wedding admin as enjoyable as possible we’ve compiled a quick-fire guide to some very popular countries’ big-day requirements. For more detailed information on your chosen location, visit gov.uk/marriage-abroad. Italy Legally binding? Yes, but allow yourself at least four months to complete the paperwork. Same-sex weddings legal? You can have a same-sex civil partnership in Italy. What you need to know: You need to prove you’re legally allowed to get married by presenting a certificate of no impediment (CNI – this costs £35 and is valid for six months…

Romance, fun and amazing memories were the order of the day at this stunning tropical wedding. “Mark and I live in Thailand. We decided to get married here, as it is one of the most beautiful places we’ve ever been,” says Mayra. Even though the couple know the country well, the language barrier made finding a venue and suppliers tricky, so they sought help from planner The Wedding Bliss Thailand. “The company was incredible and took care of every single detail,” she explains. This included making a ceremony and reception plan, sourcing a photographer and putting together a list of beachside venues for the couple to visit. After falling in love with The Surin Phuket the moment they walked through the door, the couple tasked their planners with creating a…

1 BRIGHT SPARKS It’s glamour all the way with our edit of the best glitzy wedding shoes 2 POP THE QUESTION Don’t sign on the dotted line until you’ve asked your venue everything on our list of key questions 3 CIRCLE OF LIFE Are you looking after your engagement ring correctly? Check our guide to be sure 4 COOL CORAL Find out why Pantone’s Colour of the Year is perfect for your bridesmaids 5 THE GOOD PLACE Discover the most romantic hotels in the UK for your mini-moon getaway LET’S GET SOCIAL Join us on Instagram, Pinterest, Facebook and Twitter for exclusive w-day inspiration GET THE ANSWERS to all your wedding questions at youandyourwedding.co.uk/forum @YOUYOURWEDDING…

FULL BLOOM Amaze guests with the most intricate, colourful, “they must be real” sugar flowers. Whether peonies perching on mini round cakes, a meadow cascading around tiers or a pastel arrangement blooming from a chocolate urn – they’re all edible! GILDED GLAMOUR Set a scene of exotic grandeur with mixed metallics and masterful detail – gold leafing, hand piping inspired by henna, tiny cupcakes sat in rococo arches and an edible Venetian mask topped with sugar netting. Not even a doll-size illuminated chandelier is too much! MODERN FAIRY TALE For a happily ever after your wedding breakfast, serve dreamy tiers of lilac and powder blue decorated with ethereal butterflies and iridescent flowers, delicate textured bas-relief, sugar woodland creatures and a magical gingerbread scene. DELICATE DELIGHTS Let them eat cake! Go…

THE BRIEF MOOD A country wedding with elegance, glamour and sophisticated detailing PALETTE Sage, moss, cranberry, purples and pinks VENUE Luxurious Cliveden House in Berkshire with its fascinating history and stunning architecture The classic grandeur of a British country mansion calls for timeless styling. To complement the opulence of historic Cliveden House – the place Meghan Markle chose to stay the night before she married Prince Harry – while still keeping things feeling fresh, stylists and planners Susannah Parker and Mari Chase took inspiration from the simple yet feminine aesthetic of designer Ralph Lauren. THE PALETTE COMPLEMENTED THE VENUE’S BEAUTIFUL GREEN WALLS “We spent a lot of time making sure that all our styling elements connected together,” says Mari. The pair set about ensuring meticulous attention was paid to every…

THE BRIEF MOOD A warm, rich and luxurious autumn wedding PALETTE Burnt orange, burgundy, deep pink, navy, cream, grey and gold VENUE Magnificent Tudor-built Oxnead Hall in Norfolk with its picture-perfect lake When putting together this atmospheric autumnal wedding, photographer Cara Zagni took inspiration from the gorgeous venue of Oxnead Hall, located deep in the Norfolk countryside. “From the moment I saw it, I envisioned the whole shoot before me,” she says. “I wanted to create something transitional that could inspire brides planning autumn and winter weddings.” As well as seasonal burnt oranges, the team added burgundies, deep pinks, navy and creams to the palette, complemented with grey and gold materials. “Autumn and winter is often just thought of as oranges and reds, and we wanted to show you can…

THE COUPLE Lisa & Darren Lisa Henderson, 27, and Darren Gray, 28, held their ceremony and reception at Hartree Estates in Biggar, Scotland Lisa had a strong styling vision for her and childhood sweetheart Darren’s wedding: a bohemian vibe, an intimate outdoor ceremony with hay bale seating and a soft, spring-inspired colour scheme. Once they found their venue, everything else fell into place, with the relaxed vibe of Hartree Estates setting the tone for the day. “As soon as we met the venue’s wedding co-ordinator, Amy, we knew she could create the intimate wedding we wanted, thanks to her chilled approach,” says Lisa. “WE HAD ALWAYS DREAMED OF AN OUTDOOR, BOHEMIAN TEPEE WEDDING” The couple also chose their photographers to suit their laid-back aesthetic. “We didn’t want rigid, posed photographs…

Ever wondered how a wedding planner would design her own big day? Events expert Anna of Golden Pineapple Hospitality used her insider industry knowledge to create a sumptuous celebration. “And contrary to belief, she actually gave me a say!” says now-husband Tom. The couple decided on a look that was “wild, whimsical and autumnal”, with a rich colour palette of cassis, taupe and pinks. Seasonal flowers and foliage were key to creating the right feel, starting with the arch at the marquee entrance, made by Tom’s brother. “We wanted to bring the outside in, as we were in a stunning setting and surrounded by parkland, but still keep it cosy,” says Anna. “Our florist, Matthew from Fabulous Flowers, created an incredible suspended floral arrangement that ran the whole length of…

Flowers aren’t just for your décor. Add some natural beauty to your reception drinks with cocktails that combine floral garnishes and botanical ingredients. Borage flowers, lavender sprigs and fern fronds are perfect for providing prettiness; while elderflower liqueur, wild hibiscus syrup and herb-infused spirits bring the flavour. You can find the recipes for these delights – and many more – in Floral Cocktails by Lottie Muir (Ryland Peters & Small, £7.99), founder of London’s coolest cocktail pop-up, Midnight Apothecary. PLUS 2019’S BEST HEN DO IDEAS | MENU INSPIRATION | YOUR PROBLEMS, SOLVED…

You’ve found your dream dress and an amazing pair of heels, all that’s left to do is find those effortlessly elegant finishing touches that will really bring your w-day look together. Multi award-winning label Glitzy Secrets is renowned for high-quality bridal accessories at affordable prices. A sparkling treasure trove with a celebrity fan base, its collection features more than 700 beautiful designs, from dainty items for the modern bride, to Art Deco- and Old Hollywood-inspired statement pieces for vintage aisle style. With one of the largest collections of co-ordinating bridesmaid accessories in the UK, Glitzy Secrets is a one-stop shop for you and your bridal party. Glitzy Secrets has teamed up with You & Your Wedding to bring you a 30% discount on full-priced products online. CLAIM YOUR DISCOUNT To…

SO HOT! CROCHET Predicted to be a strong trend for 2019 and beyond* . One for statement-makers. CANDYFLOSS BRIDAL BOUQUETS AKA cotton candy (in the USA) – fast becoming a thing on Instagram. BOTANICAL BEDROOMS We’re loving the new Clarissa Hulse Blowing Grasses collection – add to the gift list. SO NOT! ASKING FOR HER HAND Requesting a father’s permission pre-proposal is outdated – according to 44% of millennials** . SUCCULENTS This year is all about glossy, tropical ferns such as monstera and banana plants, say design experts*** . SUMMER SPENDING Guests spend double the amount on the gift for a winter wedding than for a summer wedding, according to a survey by American Express.…

18 MONTHS TO GO Agree on a budget Draft a rough guest list so you know what size of venue to look for Decide whether you would prefer a civil or religious wedding ceremony and what type of venue you want View and book your venue Book your church and registrar/other celebrant Finalise your guest list Invest in wedding insurance Book your photographer and videographer 12 MONTHS TO GO Choose your bridesmaids, best man and ushers Send out your save the dates Book transport, if you need it Book your entertainment If you need to hire caterers, book them and discuss the menu options Start dress shopping Start bridesmaid dress shopping Book your hair and make-up artist, if you're having them NINE MONTHS TO GO Book your florist Book your…

Unwind from the stresses of wedding planning with a spa-like experience at home, courtesy of opulent bath oils and decadent bubbles, all by brands that specialise in making me-time magical. These soothing scents will soak your troubles away and leave you blissed out enough to tackle even the most arduous wedmin.…

The secret to radiant skin lies in a commonly overlooked step in your skincare regime: exfoliating. From scrubs to liquid formulas, this essential task lifts away dead skin cells, cleans out the pores and helps your natural glow shine through. “Exfoliating also helps the rest of your products work more effectively,” says skincare expert Kate Somerville. Traditional, grainy scrubs smooth rough areas, while liquid products use acids that sweep away dull skin. With liquid types, look out for alpha hydroxy acids (AHAs) for normal or combination skin, and beta hydroxy acids (BHAs) for oily and sensitive complexions. Use yours post-cleanse, starting a couple of times a week and building up from there if your skin reacts well. “Not exfoliating enough is a common mistake,” says Kate. “When you don’t do…

EASTWELL MANOR, Kent WHERE Eastwell Manor is a gorgeous 18th-century country house and spa. The main house is full of historical charm, but has been recently refurbished in sumptuous 21st-century style, including romantic shepherd’s huts set in the 62 acres of grounds overlooking the North Downs. WHY Our suite was a great mix of modern and traditional, with fun touches such as a record player. We loved all the relaxing reception rooms – it was just how a country house should be – with oak-panelled walls and huge fireplaces. The seasonal food in The Manor Restaurant is spectacular, and we particularly enjoyed a glass or two of English sparkling wine, from the local Gusbourne Vineyards. During the day, there’s plenty to do – there’s tennis coaching, a putting green, table…

THE BRIEF MOOD Pure luxury, but remaining in harmony with the natural beauty of the surroundings PALETTE A sophisticated combination of black, white and gold VENUE Northern Tuscany’s Villa Scorzi, a historical manor house Planning a wedding from afar doesn’t mean you have to pare back the décor. As this shoot shows, so long as you have the right team on the ground, you can achieve a grandly glamorous look – even if you do have to approve everything over Skype! Florist Stiatti Fiori created opulent flower arrangements which, when paired with hired chandeliers hung outdoors, gave a deliciously decadent feel. Chic tableware and linens were a key part of the overall aesthetic – against such an opulent backdrop, only the very finest of details will do. It also helps…