Innholdsfortegnelse for March/April 2019 i You and Your Wedding

We do love a fabulous real wedding. We’re sent so many and we adore looking through them – the different styles… the little touches… the gorgeous details. And, no matter how long some of the team have been working on You & Your Wedding, we still sigh, swoon and even get a little bit teary on occasion! From grand ballrooms and rustic barns to beach festivities and chic city vows, we enthuse over them all. This issue’s couples’ days are no exception. Priya and Rahul’s stunning Indian wedding will have you longing for a bright pink palette, while Georgie and 5RE·V›ÁRZHU›ÀOOHG›PDUTXHH›UHFHSWLRQ› is seriously romantic. Italy took centre stage for Val and Jim’s special day, while Olivia and Joe chose a gorgeous farmhouse in southeast France. Sarah and Nic’s vows were…

Move over, doughnut walls, there’s a cool new sweet treat in town. This éclair tower from Maitre Choux would be a chic addition to any dessert table, or a moreish alternative to a wedding cake. It reminds us of French w-day favourite, the croquembouche – EXW›ZLWK›pFODLUV›LQ›ÁDYRXUV›VXFK›DV› Spanish raspberry and pistachio, as opposed to the traditional pastry balls. Match the icing to your colour scheme for extra style points! Priced from £350, maitrechoux.com…

THE BRIEF MOOD Opulence and romance on a grand scale. PALETTE A rich palette of deep red, chocolate and modern accents of bright pink to create contrast. VENUE Rosewood London, with its beautiful mixture of traditional British grandeur and contemporary interiors. It’s not just your choice of venue, time of year and décor that create the overall feel for your day. One of the most important elements that is often overlooked when it comes to the perfect ambience is the lighting. When you envisage your celebrations, are they romantic and intimate? Bright and sophisticated? Lively and full of colour? Or whimsical and relaxed? All of these different vibes can be created with clever lighting, and this stunning wedding shoot really shows how, by focusing on light, you can transform a…

THE COUPLE Val & Jim Valentina Squitieri, 30, and James Ring, 30, held their ceremony at Pieve di Corsignano and their reception at Borgo Sant’Ambrogio, Tuscany This couple’s proposal story is particularly intricate. “It involved two treasure hunts, a lockbox in a vault, a secret key, a 17th-century vellum map of London and hundreds of miniature photographs of us from the last 10 years!” says Val. So it follows that their wedding was full of thoughtful details. Val and Jim originally intended to have a Devon celebration, but after their venue unexpectedly closed down, their planner Elisabetta White convinced them to look to Italy instead. “WE WANTED TO CREATE A FUN, INFORMAL ATMOSPHERE SO GUESTS WOULD FEEL AT HOME” Having chosen a stunning Tuscan country estate for their reception, they…

THE COUPLE Priya & Rahul Priya Ohri, 26, and Rahul Bissoonauth, 26, held their ceremonies and reception at Elmore Court, Gloucestershire Priya and Rahul wanted their celebration to be a beautiful blend RI›FXOWXUHV››EXW›ÀQGLQJ›D›YHQXH›WR›PDNH› WKHLU›IXVLRQ›ZHGGLQJ›SRVVLEOH›SURYHG›QR› HDV\›WDVN›DW›ÀUVW››7KH›FRXSOH›QHHGHG›D› VSDFH›WKDW›DOORZHG›WKH›VPDOO›ÀUH›WKDW·V› SDUW›RI›WKH›+LQGX›FHUHPRQ\›WKH\› SODQQHG››DV›ZHOO›DV›KDYLQJ›VRPHZKHUH› VHSDUDWH›IRU›WKHLU›FLYLO›FHUHPRQ\››7KH\› ZDQWHG›WR›EULQJ›LQ›H[WHUQDO›FDWHUHUV› who could create the Indian street food WKH\›ORYH››$QG›WKH\›KDG›D›VWURQJ›VHQVH› RI›WKHLU›GHVLUHG›DHVWKHWLF›› ,›NQHZ›,›ZDQWHG›D›YHQXH›ZLWK›DV›PXFK› EULJKW››QDWXUDO›OLJKW›DV›SRVVLEOH›µ›VD\V› 3UL\D››/XFNLO\››WKH\›FDPH›DFURVV›JUDGH› ,,›OLVWHG›PDQVLRQ›(OPRUH›&RXUW››ZKLFK› WLFNHG›DOO›WKHLU›ER[HV››9HQXH›LQ›SODFH››WKH› FRXSOH›SXW›HYHU\WKLQJ›WRJHWKHU›LQ›MXVW› ›››PRQWKV››IURP›VRXUFLQJ›WKH›VWXQQLQJ› ÁRZHU›EHGHFNHG›PDQGDS›IRU›WKH›+LQGX› FHUHPRQ\›WR›ZRUNLQJ›ZLWK›D›GHVLJQHU›IULHQG› RQ›WKH›SUHWW\›VWDWLRQHU\›VXLWH››)ORULVW›6RURUL› 'HVLJQ›DQG›VW\OLVW›/DXUHQ›*UH\›EURXJKW› WKH›FRXSOH·V›3LQWHUHVW›GUHDPV›WR›OLIH›ZLWK› D›VHULHV›RI›IDLU\›WDOH›DUUDQJHPHQWV›LQ›LYRU\› DQG›SLQN››ZLWK›FRORXU›SRSV›WKURXJKRXW›› 6HHLQJ›WKH›UHFHSWLRQ›URRP›GHFRUDWHG›LQ› LWV›HQWLUHW\›EURXJKW›D›WHDU›WR›P\›H\H›µ›VD\V› 3UL\D›› ,·G›VSHQW›PRQWKV›ZRUNLQJ›RQ›WKH› ÀQHU›GHWDLOV››DQG›KDYLQJ›LW›ÀQDOO\›FRPH› WRJHWKHU›ZDV›PDJLFDO›µ 7KH›GD\›ZDV›ÀOOHG›ZLWK›IHDVWLQJ›DQG› IHVWLYLWLHV››7KH›LQWLPDWH›FLYLO›FHUHPRQ\› ZDV›IROORZHG›E\›WKH›+LQGX›FHUHPRQ\› DWWHQGHG›E\›DOO›››››JXHVWV›› :H›GHFLGHG› WR›EUHDN›ZLWK›WUDGLWLRQ›DQG›ERRN›WKH› ÀUVW›IHPDOH›+LQGX›SULHVW›LQ›WKH›8.›µ› VD\V›3UL\D›› 6KH›WUDQVODWHG›HYHU\WKLQJ› LQWR›(QJOLVK›IRU›RXU›QRQ›,QGLDQ›VSHDNLQJ› JXHVWV›EXW›DOVR›IXOÀOOHG›WKH›WUDGLWLRQV› LQ›D›IXQ›DQG›FKDULVPDWLF›ZD\›µ›*XHVWV› WXFNHG›LQWR›FDQDSpV›LQFOXGLQJ›FKLFNHQ› WLNND›ELWHV›DQG›FRFNWDLO›VDPRVDV››ZDVKHG› GRZQ›ZLWK›FKDPSDJQH››WKHQ›HQMR\HG›D› IHDVW›RI›FXUULHV››(QWHUWDLQHU›+RZDUG›:LQJ› DQG›D›'-›JRW›JXHVWV›GDQFLQJ›XQWLO›PLGQLJKW›› $QG›DIWHU›WKH›ODVW›VRQJ›ZDV›SOD\HG››WKH› FRXSOH›UHWLUHG›WR›WKH›KRXVH·V›OLYLQJ›URRP› ZLWK›WKHLU›ORYHG›RQHV››,W›ZDV›WKH›SHUIHFW› WLPH›WR›XQZLQG›DQG›GHEULHI›²›EXW›DOVR› WR›FRQWLQXH›WKH›SDUW\›µ “I’D SPENT MONTHS ON THE FINER DETAILS... SEEING THE RECEPTION ROOM DECORATED BROUGHT A TEAR TO MY EYE” “WE DECIDED TO BREAK WITH TRADITION AND BOOK THE FIRST FEMALE HINDU PRIEST IN THE UK, WHO FULFILLED THE TRADITIONS IN…

THE COUPLE Olivia & Joe Olivia Doff, 30, and Joseph Luxton, 31, held their ceremony at Chapelle Saint-Martin-de-Peille and their reception at a private farmhouse in Alpes-Maritimes, France Destination weddings bring to mind beautiful weather, wonderful food and wine, and a picture-perfect setting. Olivia and Joe’s South of France wedding had all of these – but with a DIY twist that gave their celebration a particularly personal feel. “IT HAD TO BE RELAXED AND CHILLED BUT I ALSO WANTED TO ADD A TOUCH OF GLAMOUR” Their colour palette was inspired by an iconic 1982 Yves Saint Laurent postcard in blue and teal, with bright orange added for warmth. Working to these base colours, Joe’s mum made chic bunting by stapling folded pieces of crepe paper over string, as well as…

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SO HOT! GETTING ORGANISED The new wedding journal by Moleskine is a chic way to stay on top of planning, from £26.99. RING RETURNS Almost a third of millennials would return an engagement ring chosen by their partner that they didn’t like, according to a recent survey* . HAPPY MAIDS Make their day with a thank-you gift of an exquisitely elegant velvet stretch bracelet, personalised with their names, £21.99, Lily Belle at Not On The High Street. SO NOT! L-PLATES & SHOTS Chillout “zen dos” with plenty of yoga are in for 2019 and beyond, says group travel expert Red7. THE APEROL SPRITZ Our new tipple of choice? Tiptree’s gin liqueur in jam-inspired flavours, topped with prosecco. Available at Sainsbury’s. PALE SHADES Vibrant brights are set to be huge from…

18 MONTHS TO GO Agree on a budget Draft a rough guest list so you know what size of venue to look for Decide whether you would prefer a civil or religious wedding ceremony and what type of venue you want View and book your venue Book your church and registrar/other celebrant Finalise your guest list Invest in wedding insurance Book your photographer and videographer 12 MONTHS TO GO Choose your bridesmaids, best man and ushers Send out your save the dates Book transport, if you need it Book your entertainment If you need to hire caterers, book them and discuss the menu options Start dress shopping Start bridesmaid dress shopping Book your hair and make-up artist, if you're having them NINE MONTHS TO GO Book your florist Book your…

Getting through wedmin without a cup of coffee is near impossible, but did you know a shot of caffeine in your beauty regime can pep up your skin and hair, too? It stimulates circulation, perks up tired skin and temporarily reduces the appearance of puffy eyes and dark circles. From fabulously scented body cream to hardworking scrubs, here’s our edit of our favourite coffee-based products.…

The party doesn’t have to be over after the DJ plays the last song at your reception. When your guests have waved you off, let the rest of the world celebrate your newlywed status with you instead – by booking a festival ’moon. Whether you love music, art, dance, food, sport or wildlife, there’s an event somewhere in the world that’s just perfect for a post-wedding party. It’s not all dancing ’till dawn either. We’ve found the most romantic hotels near each festival location to relax in together (when you’re ready to relax!) Just make sure to book far in advance – these are the hottest tickets in town. January Lunar New Year, Vietnam † Spectacular scenes of bright UHG›ODQWHUQV››\HOORZ›VXQÁRZHUV›› ÀUHFUDFNHUV›DQG›WKH›VRXQG›RI› EDQJLQJ›JRQJV›ÀOO›WKH›VWUHHWV› during the Lunar New Year, which marks…

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Weddings are inherently romantic. If you’re the kind of FRXSOH›ZKR›ÀQG›SXEOLF› displays of affection awkward at best – cold-sweat-inducing at worst – you may not be hugely enthusiastic about this aspect of your celebration. However, don’t feel like you’ll be forced into traditional PDAs – it’s possible to keep your day heartfelt and meaningful without straying into sentiment-overload territory. Here’s how... WRITE IT DOWN Personalising the wedding vows isn’t for everyone, and there’s nothing wrong with staying with the set wording. It’s increasingly popular for couples to write each other a letter to read on the wedding morning, as a more private way to express your feelings – sentimental or silly – whatever suits your style. RETHINK THE GUEST BOOK Instead of asking for goodwill messages from family and friends, put…

LIZZIE HEELEY Some people have travel in their blood, but Lizzie has it in her soul. As marketing director, she has helped grow one of the UK’s best luxury honeymoon tour operators, Turquoise. She gives her honeymoon advice on p226. LIZ INIGO JONES Having been previously described by some of her clients as the “Floral Queen of Blush”, Liz from Blue Sky Flowers loves nothing more than creating beautiful arrangements for weddings. She shares her top tips in our seasonal styling feature on p117. ED PEERS Destination wedding photographer Ed is inspired by authentic moments and natural beauty with a cinematic approach to photographing weddings. He shot Valentina and James’ romantic Tuscan celebration on p87. JENNIFER HOLDEN Jennifer is director of Raspberry Bespoke Events, heading up a wedding planning team…

in a GARDEN ONLY THE SWEETEST STYLES WILL DO FOR A ROMANTIC OUTDOOR SETTING. CHOOSE SOFT SHADES OF IVORY, BLUSH OR NUDE ...in a CITY THINK CHIC LINES AND FLATTERING SILHOUETTES FOR A FABULOUS URBAN DO. FOR MAXIMUM WOW FACTOR, ACCESSORISE WITH STATEMENT EARRINGS ...at the BEACH FLOATING SKIRTS AND LIGHT AND AIRY FABRICS ARE A FOOLPROOF WAY TO NAIL YOUR BIG DAY BY THE SEA ...in a PUB OUR PERFECT PICK FOR A CELEBRATION AT THE INN? CHIC TROUSER SUITS, FABULOUS FRINGING AND GLAMOROUS SILHOUETTES ...in a TEPEE EMBRACE BOHO STYLE IN YOUR BEAUTIFUL TENT SETTING. TEAM YOUR GOWN WITH FLOWING WAVES OR A SOFT PONYTAIL ...in a STATELY HOME THINK BILLOWING BALLGOWNS, SWEET EMBROIDERY AND A TOUCH OF SPARKLE FOR A BRIDAL STYLE AS TIMELESS AS YOUR VENUE…

THE COUPLE Sophia & Scott Sophia McMahon, 30, and Scott Berry, 35, held their ceremony and reception at One Marylebone, London Blank canvas venues aren’t for every couple. You have to hire everything from cutlery to catering, which can make planning the day a complex process. But after Sophia and Scott fell in love with One Marylebone, they understood the huge advantage of the blank canvas option. “You are in control of how everything looks – and that’s great!” says Sophia. She worked closely with caterers and event designer Purple Grape to design a glamorous look within the grand space of the former church. The colour palette was based on romantic pastels, with touches of duck egg blue throughout the décor to tie everything together. Flowers were key to the…

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Behind the scenes AT OUR SHOOT THE DRESSES We chose gowns with gorgeous shoulder details to reflect our magical setting THE THEME Elegant ways to rock statement style THE ACCESSORIES Flashes of white, pink and gold for a pretty finishing touch SPECIAL THANKS The fashion team stayed and shot on location at Atlantis, The Palm, Dubai. Located at the centre of The Palm’s crescent, the five-star hotel features striking décor and furnishings throughout, creating an impressive backdrop for a luxurious wedding day. Choose from a range of settings to say your vows, from opulent ballrooms to the romantic beach, atlantisthepalm.com…

1 RING O’ ROSES Would you choose a rose gold wedding ring? We think our gallery will persuade you… 2 TWINKLE, TWINKLE Discover how to create a romantic reception mood with gorgeous lighting ideas from leading stylists. 3 PLEASED TO ANNOUNCE Looking for a cool way to let others know about your engagement? We’ve got you covered. 4 POWER FLOWERS It’s floral, but not as you know it: check out the best botanic-inspired looks as a contemporary choice for your maids. 5 PARADISE FOUND Dive into our edit of the world’s most beautiful suites for a seriously luxurious honeymoon. LET’S GET SOCIAL Join us on Instagram, Pinterest, Facebook and Twitter for exclusive w-day inspiration JOIN IN THE WEDDING CHAT with other couples at youandyourwedding.co.uk/forum @YOUYOURWEDDING…

THE BRIEF MOOD A mixture of understated elegance and exquisite attention to detail. PALETTE Hot pink, pretty peach and shimmering gold. VENUE Maison de la Vaure – a beautifully restored, 16th-century Cognac estate, overlooking the French countryside. It’s quite an art making something look effortless, yet chic at the same time, but the team behind this fabulous French shoot managed to do just that. By adding pops of fuchsia pink and bold golds to traditional romantic pastels, opting for Grecian-inspired bridal styling, and mixing rustic handmade touches with uber-luxe details, stylist Holly has turned a classic celebration into a free-spirited big day. “We used hot pinks and shimmering golds to create a stylish and less traditional château reception to suit a bohemian couple,” says Holly. “The simple, yet captivating dress…

THE COUPLE Georgie & Rob Georgie Kitchen, 30, and Robert Palmer, 29, held their ceremony at Saint Mary’s Church, Queniborough, and their reception at the bride’s parents’ house in Leicestershire It’s always wonderful when wedding planning brings the couple’s loved ones together – and Georgie and Rob’s big day certainly did this. Family and friends played an important part in helping to put together their elegant celebration, starting with the bride’s parents, who spent months turning their garden into a beautiful space for the marquee reception. Georgie’s father also worked with her on the design of their stationery suite. One friend made their table plan and handwrote the 180 place cards; another wrote a reading for their ceremony. “We were so lucky that family friends, godparents and neighbours helped us…

When it comes to weddings, every time of the year has its own unique delights. From winter sparkle to sun-drenched summer, vibrant autumnal hues to spring prettiness, we’ve asked the industry’s leading experts for ideas on seasonal food, décor, flowers and entertainment – as well as practical advice to make the most of your day. And if you’ve yet to choose your date, this seasonal planning special will help you make that all-important decision. PLUS WEDDING DILEMMAS SOLVED | HOMEWARE UPGRADES | AVOID W-DAY REGRETS…

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PRESENT & CORRECT Choosing your gift list just got even more pleasurable with the launch of The Wedding Shop’s Townhouse in West London. There are four floors of gorgeous gifts to browse, then simply scan the barcodes of your favourites to add them to your list. For an appointment, call 020 7384 8400 or email townhouse@weddingshop.com Truly scrumptious Add a cool twist to your wedding edibles with these quirky foodie ideas Watch these SPACES We’re seriously excited about some new venues launching in 2019. Thorpe Garden (crippsthorpe.com), Staffordshire, will have a hand-crafted yurt for up to 200 guests. Bredenbury Court (bredenburycourt.co.uk), Herefordshire, opens in June and will host luxury barn weddings. In the same county, banqueting hall Crumplebury (crumplebury.co.uk) is due to open in October.…

THIS ISSUE: Is it rude to have evening-only guests? YES! HANNAH DAVIES, COMMISSIONING EDITOR AT Y&YW, SAYS: “There’s something so lovely about receiving a wedding invitation. Knowing that a couple I care about want me to share their special celebration that they’ve worked so hard to create – it gives me a warm glow inside. Unless, that is, I spot the words ‘evening reception’. When that happens, my happy glow is rapidly replaced by a cold spike of irritation, because there are very few circumstances where that doesn’t make me a B-list friend. Having an intimate ceremony and wedding reception, with the majority of the guest list arriving for the evening festivities? That I can understand. But it’s the evening-only guests who are usually in the minority. We’re the unlucky…

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More than just the finishing flourish in your bedtime regime, applying overnight skincare is an essential step towards achieving flawless skin in time for w-day. But why do we need different products for day and night? “When we sleep, our skin starts its repair process. Night products are formulated specifically to aid this, leaving you with a nourished and balanced complexion when you wake up,” says Emma Coleman, dermatology nurse and founder of award-winning clinic group, Inner-Soul Organics. “They tend to be richer and thicker in consistency than day creams and contain a larger concentration of high-performance ingredients. They will slowly absorb and penetrate the skin throughout the night to moisturise, rejuvenate, repair and balance your complexion.” Often scented with calming lavender, great skin and peaceful slumber are just around…

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THE HARI, London WHERE This gorgeous hotel is hidden away in London’s upmarket Belgravia – the perfect location for shopping (Harrods and Sloane Street are on your doorstep), sightseeing (Hyde Park and Buckingham Palace are minutes away) and enjoying the city’s museums. WHY Inside this contemporary ERXWLTXH›KRWHO››\RX·OO›ÀQG›D› fabulous Italian restaurant, Il Pampero, which feels like a real local secret in the heart of the city. We enjoyed crisp calamari and smoked burrata followed by sea bass and chestnut pappardelle with wild boar ragu – all so good. Our studio suite overlooked the tree-lined streets, and the huge bed and marble bathroom were sheer luxury. After a deep sleep, all thoughts of a healthy breakfast dissolved when blueberry pancakes and eggs benedict were on offer. The Hari is a real gem,…