Innholdsfortegnelse for December 2017 - January 2018 i You and Your Wedding

How cute is the dog on this month’s cover? Ralph has appeared before in the pages of this magazine, but this time we have elevated him to cover star! The trend for involving pets at weddings is huge – from horse ring-bearers to kitten bridesmaids, and llama groomsmen to goat guests, it’s all perfectly ‘normal’ and a trend we are totally behind. If you are planning on having your pet as part of your wedding party, please send your pics to yywwebeditor@immediate.co.uk – to say that we’d love to see your pet w-day photos is an understatement! Speaking of things we love, editor-at-large Peta and I have just arrived back from New York Bridal Fashion Week. We adore the shows in NY. The brands put on the most amazing catwalk…

It’s the most important bunch of blooms you’re ever likely to hold, so when it comes to planning your w-day flowers, it pays to spend time finding your perfect posy. To help you choose between all the gorgeous bouquet styles, and answer all your questions, we picked the brains of Ruari McCulloch, creative director and florist extraordinaire at Pinstripes & Peonies. Where do I start when choosing a bouquet? You’ve spent hours scouring Pinterest and have ‘shortlisted’ around 50 bouquets. How to whittle them down? “The temptation is RIWHQ WR FKRRVH ZKLWH flRZHUV› EXW WKHVH FDQ EH ORVW DJDLQVW D ZKLWH GUHVV LQ WKH SKRWRV›µ says Ruari. “My suggestion is to add colour – D OLWWOH JUHHQ› RU VRPHWKLQJ OLNH MDVPLQH WUDLOV WKDW KDYH D VRIW EROW RI SLQN› $OVR›…

“Quality is most definitely the key. Trays edged in gold, coupe glasses filled with champagne, jewelled macarons, and lush florals bring this look to life.” If your wedding day is in the countryside, maybe you’ve got plenty of hay bales and bunting in your décor plans. But country doesn’t have to mean rustic. This gorgeous shoot shows how a wedding inspired by nature and in a rural setting can be chic and opulent, rather than homely and laid-back, if that’s what you’d prefer. “The team was inspired to create something that avoided the typical ‘rustic’ look, and was sensuous, rich and incredibly indulgent instead,” says photographer Amanda Hutchinson. To achieve this, everything from the canapé trays to the stationery was given a lavish edge. 4XDOLWy LV PRVW GHfiQLWHOy WKH NHy›…

THE COUPLE Bella & Chris Arabella Rowe, 30, and Christopher Fincham, 32, held their ceremony at St John the Baptist Church and reception at Elmore Court, Gloucestershire “WE WERE BLESSED WITH SUNSHINE, SO WE WERE ABLE TO ENJOY THE STUNNING GROUNDS WELL INTO THE EVENING” “WE HAD TALL VASES ON MIRRORED DISCS WITH CONTORTED WILLOW, PHILADELPHUS AND TRAILING JASMINE” Bella and Chris’s vision for their day was classic elegance, but they also wanted a laid-back feel. Luckily, they found the perfect venue to capture both of these moods in Elmore Court. “It gave us a mixture of formal country wedding and relaxed chic because of the combination of the old main house and WKH FRQWHPSRUDUy *LOOyflRZHU› ZKLFK LV the venue for dinner and dancing,” explains Bella. “The grounds are also…

Natural GOODNESS A vegan, sugar-free raw cake might not come to mind as you think of an indulgent treat for your w-day, but the geniuses at The Hardihood are changing the very idea of what makes a wedding cake – and dreaming up truly original creations. The four tiers of chocolate fudge pictured here have been cleverly crafted from all-natural ingredients including cacao and nuts, with no baking required at all. Surprise and delight your guests with a stunning cake like this – without making any compromises!…

18 MONTHS TO GO Agree on a budget Draft a rough guest list so you know what size of venue to look for Decide whether you would prefer a civil or religious wedding ceremony and what type of venue you want View and book your venue Book your church and registrar/other celebrant Finalise your guest list Invest in wedding insurance Book your photographer and videographer 12 MONTHS TO GO Choose your bridesmaids, best man and ushers Send out your save the dates Book transport, if you need it Book your entertainment If you need to hire caterers, book them and discuss the menu options Start dress shopping Start bridesmaid dress shopping Book your hair and make-up artist, if you're having them NINE MONTHS TO GO Book your florist Book your…

Your gift list is highly personal to you. Whether it’s full of items you’ll cherish in your home, it’s contributing towards a once-in-a-lifetime honeymoon, or it’s a combination of the two, something so unique to you deserves an equally unique and personalised service. That’s when the expertise of The Wedding Shop comes into play. With over 27 years’ experience as the leading independent gift list provider, The Wedding Shop offers a huge selection of stylish and elegant gifts. From high-end homeware to everyday electronics, you’ll fiQG WKRXVDQGV RI SURGXFWV IURP TXDOLWy brands including Le Creuset, Sonos, The White Company, LSA, Made.com and many more – all of which will be delivered for free in the UK. $QG ZLWK WKH flH[LELOLWy WR LQFOXGH cash funds, experiences and honeymoon contributions alongside gifts…

A great wedding gift is something lovely that’s a joy to use and can be kept forever – and which you wouldn’t buy for yourself. When building a gift list, the most important rooms to consider are the bedroom and, of course, the kitchen – you spend so much waking time in there! Y&YW’S 3 BEST WINTER THROWS... Lambswool throw, £180, Nkuku at Prezola Woodland throw, £65, The Wool Room Heart pattern throw, £270, Cordello at The Wedding Shop…

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While arriving by private jet and having a butler to attend to your every whim would undeniably be rather nice, the good news is that you don’t have to be a millionaire to have extraordinary experiences on honeymoon. Many of the world’s most incredible sights and locations are within reach of more modest budgets. If you thought the temples of Angkor Wat, the ruins of Machu Picchu, the beaches of the Maldives or the plains of Africa were out of bounds, think again. You might not be able to stay in the penthouse suite of a top-class hotel or eat Michelin-starred food every night, but with some clever planning (such as staying fewer nights, sharing safari vehicles and booking all-inclusive accommodation) you can still get the chance to cross your…

For most of you, finding the right venue is the very first item on your post-proposal to-do list.* It makes sense. The wedding location is the foundation of the day – the element that will influence every other decision you make. Our top tips for a successful search? If you’re right at the beginning of the process, it’s a good idea to explore the style of venue that will best suit you by considering the atmosphere you want to create. In practical terms, you’ll have an easier time if you narrow down the location as early as possible. You may need to compromise on some aspects of your venue, but make a complete list of dealbreakers that you absolutely cannot do without, such as outdoor space or on-site accommodation. Then…

CAROLINE GARDNER Using techniques like letterpress and dye-stamping to create unique greeting card and stationery designs, Caroline is a leading name for gifting on the high street. She used her expert knowledge to compile our gift list feature, p133 . EMMA-JANE LEWIS Emma-Jane shot Kristina and Max’s stylish urban wedding on p108 . Originally from Devon, the fashion and wedding photographer, known for her stunning visuals, set up business in London and has travelled far and wide to capture couples’ big days. SHARN KHAIRA Wedding planner Sharn designs and plans showstopping Asian weddings with Desi Bride Dreams. Drawing inspiration from current global trends to create beautiful, bespoke celebrations, she styled our gorgeous shoot on p76 . RUARI MCCULLOCH Pinstripes & Peonies owner Ruari OHDGV D WHDP RI FUHDWLYH flRULVWV WR…

FREEZE-DRYING For a framed memento, try flowersforever.co.uk. “With this option, you send your bouquet off that night or the next day to have it preserved,” says Ruari. “Bear in mind that if your wedding is on a Saturday and it can’t be sent on the Sunday, then sadly you may be out of luck.” FLOWER PRESSING This can be done easily at home by leaving individual flowers between sheets of wax paper under a heavy stack of books for up to six weeks, or you could even buy a flower press ahead of your big day. For a professional, framed version, try preciouspetals.co.uk BESPOKE PAINTING If you want to throw your bouquet at the wedding, haven’t got time to send it off or want to lay it on the grave…

1 DIAMONDS UNCOVERED You might have a rock on your finger, but how much do you know about it? 2 HAIR TRIAL ESSENTIALS Do you need one? What should you take along? Nine things all brides need to know first… 3 ROMANTIC DRESSES Discover the prettiest gowns to flatter every figure with our dream-dress edit. A must-read! 4 FATHER-DAUGHTER DANCES Make even more of Dad’s role in your day by sharing a dance – essential Spotify playlist included! 5 TABLE PLAN TRIUMPH Our easy how-to guide to stress-free seating #FASHION CUPBOARDFRIDAY Join us on Facebook Live every Friday lunchtime for a behind-the-scenes look at Y&YW HQ Sign up for our NEWSLETTER full of the LATEST WEDDING NEWS and TRENDS at youandyourwedding.co.uk…

“It’s quite a brave look, layering so many flowers and patterns together. Everything needed to look good as a whole, like a garden!” Every bride has that one aspect of wedding planning they fall in love with more than anything else. For some of us, it’s the dress shopping, while others are obsessed with choosing the most incredible food and drink. If your wedmin SUHRFFXSDWLRQ LV DERXW flRZHUV› yRX·OO ORYH this dreamy reception shoot, which takes WKH flRUDO VLGH RI WKH ELJ GDy DQG JRHV DOO out with it. Everything, from the reception stationery to the fashion – and even the IRRG ² KDV EHHQ JLYHQ WKH flRZHU WUHDWPHQW› and the result is absolutely stunning. “We used roses, scented stocks, larkspur, trailing ivy, pink cherry blossom and elegant delphiniums” “Florals…

Big-day bother My fiancé and I are in the process of setting our date – we are going to be having a tepee in my in-laws’ garden, so we’re not restricted by venue availability. Someone I know got engaged the week before me and has now set her date. She is the ‘cool girl’ I’ve always compared myself to, and while I know I shouldn’t, I know I will compare our weddings. I don’t think they even have a budget! Do you think it would be better to have my wedding before hers so I can’t compare? R509 Y&YW says: Comparison is the thief of joy, so try as hard as you can to avoid thinking about this other person’s wedding. Just get married whenever you want to – when…

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In this issue, we’re wrapping up warm for winter ( p148 ), accessorising with pops of romantic red ( p136 ), and celebrating with the little ones in a selection of sparkly dresses ( p162 )…

THE DRESSES Rich, romantic dresses and contemporary trouser suits created a chic winter-wedding style THE THEME Stylish statement looks in atmospheric surroundings THE ACCESSORIES Sparkling silver jewellery and cool capes for added glamour SPECIAL THANKS The fashion team shot at Wingfield College, Suffolk. Its Great Hall dates back to 1362 and there are five acres of beautiful grounds. The College is open for occasional tours – visit wingfieldcollege.com for more information.…

MIST-HAVE This star-spangled bottle of facial mist has earned a spot on our dressing tables, and not just because of the way it looks. Inside this limted-edition container is Omorovicza’s Queen of Hungary Mist , designed to purify and hydrate the skin, and lift the spirits. £25 for 50ml . The MAGIC NUMBER Charlotte Tilbury’s Instant Eye Palette, £60, features 12 shades divided into trios to help you create looks for every occasion. We think the fresh and natural Day Eye set is perfect for going full Bambi eyes on w-day, while the gold-hued Disco Eye trio is calling out to be worn on your hen do. LUXE vs LESS Dry shampoo is perfect for pepping up your tresses, post-wedding. Just spritz your locks the morning after and enjoy your…

With the smiliest day of your life just around the corner, it’s only natural to want your teeth to be at their brightest. This is by far the most popular cosmetic treatment among brides-to-be, with 45%* of you considering making your pearly whites even whiter. But given the wide array of methods available, how do you know which one will be right for you? If you just want to remove stains, a visit to a hygienist or upgrading your everyday dental regime could be all you need to add some sparkle. If your caffeine habit has left your teeth less shiny, then you’ll need to go down the whitening route for a brighter look. While in-chair treatments will give you the most effective results, you can still restore some whiteness…

THE GROVE Hertfordshire WHERE The Grove calls itself “London’s country estate”, and while that seems like a contradiction in terms, this sprawling 18th-century manor really is an idyllic slice of rural England within the M25, and just 17 miles from Euston. Forget about the busy city, time spent here is all about switching off and pampering yourself with good food, delightful spa treatments and a great round of golf. WHY In summer, the huge Walled Garden is a delightful IHDWXUH WKDW yRX GRQ·W fiQG in many hotels. It’s home to towering topiary animals, a large heated outdoor pool surrounded by loungers, and even a fake beach complete with super-size deckchairs. After a day spent enjoying the lovely grounds, head to Colette’s in the mansion for HOHJDQW fiQH GLQLQJ› 0DNH sure…

ON THE COVER V-NECK SPARKLE DRESS, £5025, LAZARO AT JLM COUTURE. GYPSOPHILA BOUQUET, POA, AMIE BONE FLOWERS. FLORAL DOG COLLAR, £33.95, CUPID COLLARS. PHOTOGRAPH BY SARAH LOUISE JOHNSON. STYLING BY PETA HUNT, ASSISTED BY MOLLY COUGHLAN. HAIR AND MAKE-UP BY DENISE LILLEY USING PAUL MITCHELL AND BOURJOIS “I love the plunge neckline on this gorgeous gown, it shimmers so beautifully!” PETA HUNT, EDITOR-AT-LARGE…

“The stunning fireplace and backdrop for the ceremony was shouting out for a statement arch” Winter couples, rejoice! You’re spoiled for choice when it comes to styling your wedding. Think festive glitter, sparkling white wonderlands, or, as this shoot shows, a glorious mix of romantic, moody tones and juicy winter fruits. By combining soft candlelight and beautiful seasonal blooms in a stately setting, this hibernal look will give your guests a cosy feeling. “We mixed tartan and tweed with soft tones and a touch of Scandi style through natural elements such as real berries, twigs and driftwood,” says Fran of Gemma Sutton. “The look is a combination of romance, colour and masculinity to provide a setting that’s perfect for all parties involved.” The weather won’t usually allow for al fresco…

THE COUPLE Jenny & Winston Jenny Tran and Winston Yeh held their ceremony and reception at Taglyan Complex in Los Angeles, California IN THE SUN Jenny and Winston gathered together their family and friends in the stunning garden area of Taglyan Complex to witness the ceremony. When your future mother-in-law is head designer of fabulous bridal brand Kenneth Winston, you know your wedding dress will be something rather special – and Jenny certainly wasn’t disappointed, wearing three equally VKRZVWRSSLQJ RXWfiWV RQ KHU ELJ GDy› “I started off trying on gowns from past and modern collections, and yet-to-be released ranges, to get an idea of the shape, style and colour I wanted,” VDyV -HQQy› :H SODyHG ZLWK IDEULFV DQG crystals, and then went to the drawing ERDUG WR GHVLJQ GLIIHUHQW JRZQV…

ICE CREAM dreams We always expect confection perfection from Ladurée, so we were delighted to hear the luxury pâtisserie is now hiring out an ice cream cart. If it’s anything as lovely as the macarons, then make ours a triple scoop! Available throughout the UK, contact Ladurée on 0208 963 1193. MOST INVITING We’re in love with the beautiful stationery available at hitched.co.uk/ stationery – new designs are regularly added, and the ranges cover everything from save-the-dates to invitations and thank-you cards. ANIMAL MAGIC Has our cover dog made you think about including your own on w-day? Dog chaperone services such as scampsandchamps.co.uk keep your pooch looked after so you can avoid white dress/muddy paws dramas. TRADITION VS TWIST FirSt look vs FirSt touch On w-day morning, stand either side…

“FOR THIS DAY ONLY, THE PALEST OF SHADES SHOULD BE RESERVED FOR THE HAPPY COUPLE” NO! HANNAH DAVIES IS Y&YW’S FEATURES EDITOR. SHE SAYS: “I’ve been to a lot of very different weddings over the yHDUV› 6RPH ZHUH IRUPDO DIIDLUV› ZLWK fiQH GLQLQJ under glittering chandeliers. Others were more casual, from a sun-kissed celebration in my friend’s parents’ garden to a riotous party in a pub. But they all had one thing in common: as a guest, I would never have dreamed of wearing white to any of them. Now, this doesn’t mean I’m D flDJ-ZDYHU IRU ROG-VFKRRO HWLTXHWWH› :KHQ LW FRPHV WR Z-GDy› I don’t think couples should feel constrained by tradition, or WKH ZDy WKLQJV ¶RXJKW· WR EH GRQH› $V ZH DOZDyV VDy DW < <:› it’s your…

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TIARA MIRAMAR BEACH HOTEL & SPA Côte d’Azur The vibe Private paradise. The Miramar sits in a secluded cove, with pine-covered hills behind and the water lapping at its own beach. With vast terraces from each of the sea-facing rooms, it’s every bit the luxury hideaway. The chic, spacious suites feature Moroccan-inspired décor, and the huge beds will give you the best night’s sleep. Best for Just-the-two-of- time in beautiful you surroundings – think long, sun-soaked days by the pool, tailor-made spa treatments and romantic evenings watching the sun set. It’s the perfect spot for mountain walks, cycling and watersports, while Cannes is about 30 minutes away by car. The Miramar’s sister hotel, Tiara Yaktsa, is nearby along the coast. Guests are encouraged to share the facilities, and its lush…