Q / Is it weird to send a guy flowers to let him know I’m thinking about him?
—Jennifer, Oxford, ME
Yes, it’s weird. Unless the guy has expressed a genuine interest in them (hey, there are some tulip-loving gents out there, I’m sure!), you’ll just confuse him. My advice: Think of something unique and personal—if he likes to fish, say, pick up a new tackle box for him. If you’re set on sending him something, you’ll find no shortage of guy-friendly options, like the Loveless Cafe Bacon Sampler ($40, lovelesscafe.com) or a three-month membership to the Beer of the Month Club ($39 per month, beermonthclub.com).
I feel self-conscious being naked in front of my boyfriend, but he says I’m sexy. Is he just being kind?
—Kirsten, Sioux Falls, SD…