says Dr Sally Shepherd, clinical psychologist and author of Beyond the Bump (Allen & Unwin, $29.99)
“Breast milk is wonderful, but we are lucky to have a perfectly healthy, safe, second feeding option in infant formula. Women might not breastfeed for so many reasons: mental or physical health issues, the need to stay on medications, excessive shyness, trauma history, needing to return to work, latch or supply issues, adoption, breastfeeding aversion… the list goes on and on, and every single reason is valid. What’s ‘best’ for one woman and baby may not be ‘best’ for another. If you’re feeling guilt in this space, remember that you know your own family’s situation better than anyone, and you’re feeding your baby the way you are for good reason. People have the right…