‘Very few women have perfect bodies’ ‘I decided it was nothing to be ashamed of’
Becky Bate, 35, is a lecturer, who lives in Solihull, West Midlands, with her children Lucy, nine, and Katy, eight.
Climbing out of the pool on holiday in Barbados last December, I could feel people sneaking glances as I towelled myself dry. I didn’t stop, though, as I wanted people to notice the stoma bag attached to my stomach. It was the only way people would realise it’s not unusual or something to be ashamed of.
‘Now I feel strong, empowered and happy’ Stomach pain
In spring 2011, I started suffering from stomach pains and exhaustion, passing blood when I went to the toilet. A year later it hadn’t gone away, so I visited my…