‘I was terrified, unable to speak’ Presenting me with a beautiful pendant necklace, my partner, Clint, grinned. ‘Do you like it?’ he asked, securing it around my neck. ‘It’s beautiful,’ I smiled. Clint wasn’t the sort of man to make grand gestures or buy me gifts for no reason, but I wasn’t about to complain. He’s probably just excited, I thought. We had reason to be. It was October 2016 and we’d recently found out we were pregnant.
I’d first met Clint at university, three years earlier, and we’d been inseparable ever since. And now we were about to start a family together, I was so excited.
By March 2017, we’d held a traditional African engagement ceremony, to honour my heritage, and Clint had been given my parents’ permission to…