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Hmm... Looks like we won’t be seeing lovely Dermot O’Leary every morning after all – just as we’ve got used to seeing his sunny face instead of Phillip Schofield’s. After taking time off from This Morning in January because of filming commitments for The Cube, Phil, dubbed ‘the king of daytime TV’, discovered many This Morning fans wanted Dermot to stay put and Phil to ‘be gone’. But at the recent National Television Awards, Phil revealed he wasn’t afraid of losing his job, adding, ‘He’s shorter than I am. And I know people.’ So back to The X Factor for now, Dermot.…

She’s been hailed by fans as the ‘saviour of Loose Women’ and there’s no doubt that Ruth Langsford has impressed since coming back to the show. But does Ruth, 53, feel the pressure being heaped on her with all the expectation from fans? And how does it really feel to be on the box without her beloved Eamonn Holmes, 54, at her side? We caught up with Ruth to find out what she thinks of her fellow panellists, why date nights with her hubby are rare and what leaves her feeling guilty… We love having you on Loose Women again! How are you finding it? Oh, I love it. It really is great to be back. As you know I have a long association with the show – I was…

The results are in. After years of research, it’s been discovered just what women want in a man. And guess what girls? Size really does matter – when it comes to height, that is. An astounding 70% of us, the study* shows, wouldn’t consider dating a man under 6ft – even though the average British fella is 5ft 10in. And 71% of women say the perfect height of Mr Right is actually between 6ft and 6ft 6in! So do tall men make better partners than their shorter brothers? Plenty of celebrities think so. Strictly winner Abbey Clancy is married to super-sized footballer Peter Crouch, who stands at 6ft 7in, practically dwarfing her even though she is 5ft 9in herself. Likewise, Will Smith is more than a foot taller than his…

From £5.99 Boost volume Thinning hair affects almost half of women over 50. As we age and the scalp becomes drier, it affects circulation so that vital nutrients don’t make it to the hair follicle. To help stimulate the area and get the blood flowing, spend a few minutes massaging your scalp every time you wash your hair. Use a caffeine-based shampoo such as Dr Wolff Plantur 39 Phyto-Caffeine Shampoo for Fine, Brittle Hair, £7.99, to help maintain youthful volume. Follow with Nioxin Diaboost, £39.99 – a leave-in treatment that actually increases the thickness of each strand for fuller-looking hair. Rectify damage We all know heat-styling is bad for hair, but since none of us are likely to give up our irons any time soon, there are products that can…

The events that gruesome night will haunt the family of Carol Parr forever. The 62-year-old mother was found strangled to death in her bedroom after concerned colleagues at her waitressing job raised the alarm when she didn’t arrive for work. Yet the horror that then unfolded was beyond belief. The mum had been throttled by her very own – and muchloved – daughter, Emma. Police discovered that the university data manager, 38, had attacked her mum before climbing out of a bedroom window. She was later found in just her pyjamas and bare feet in her car, 17 miles away from the murder scene in Walton, Liverpool. She stated that she remembered little of what had happened except feeling ‘disappointment’ that her mother had decided she didn’t want to live…

Cancer drug gets go-ahead Good news for breast cancer sufferers, as the ‘smart bomb’ drug Kadcyla, which is designed to seek out and destroy cancerous cells while sparing healthy tissue from damage, has now received European Commission approval. The drug, a combination of Herceptin and a chemotherapy medication called DM1, has fewer side effects than standard treatment and could help a fifth of sufferers in the late stages of the disease. It added six months to the lives of patients in a clinical trial. It’s effective on HER2-positive breast cancer, which 20% of sufferers have, according to research. For more help and information, go to breakthrough.org.uk. 3 step fix Tiredness There’s nothing like a dark, wet winter to make you feel wrung out. ◆ DO THIS Regular exercise ups your…

It’s all about sex People feel they are not having enough sex because we live in a society where sex sells. Adverts, TV, films, fashion – it’s all about sex. But in reality it’s hard with children, work, money worries and lack of time. Don’t worry that other couples seem to be having more – they are probably not! MANISA KUINKEL, FROM MIDDLESEX LESS IS GREAT We have been together for 18 years and my husband’s sex drive has dwindled due to his age, work and, last year, having a vasectomy. But although it is less often now, it is still great sex and we have become closer in other ways, which makes up for it. LUCY JAMES, FROM NORTHAMPTONSHIRE Shameful secret I take my phone to bed, so does my…

A PROBLEM SHARED Those giant slab chocolate bars are a big trend this Valentine’s Day, but some upmarket shops charge £16 for them. Make your own bespoke version by melting any leftover chocolate in a large glass bowl over simmering hot water and stirring in your choice of fruit and nuts. When it’s all melted, spread on a greased baking tray and leave to set. It may be frugal, but it’s a madewith-love treat! NISHA TURNBULL, 59, FROM LONDON Save up to £16! 5 WAYS TO… avoid arguing over money Valentine’s Day may be one of the most romantic days of the year, but unfortunately it’s not enough to stop couples rowing about finances. According to retirement experts Prudential, money, along with household bills and family problems, top the list…

My pooch loves having facials Like all good mums, I’m careful not to spoil my kids – but when it comes to my dog Lucy things are very different! I spend £10,000 a year pampering my pooch and couldn’t possibly let a week go by without her getting a massage or a facial. I know that sounds crazy, but Lucy’s so precious to me. Mum gave her to me back in 2002 when I was 16 and she was just 10 weeks old. The fluffy Maltese pup moved into our home in Newport, Wales, and I fell in love with her straight away. During the day I’d carry her everywhere, tucking her in my handbag. And at night we’d cuddle in bed. When, aged 19, I began dating Leigh, a…

Health risk Tina Malone needs to think carefully before she has another baby [‘All the gossip’, 13 January. I’m all for older mums and had my youngest, Harry, when I was 35, but there comes a time when enough is enough. It’s not fair to put your own, not to mention your baby’s, health at risk. Carol Allen, Bedford TOWIE fan I work in a cold warehouse and have suffered with chilblains for years. I visited my doctor, tried wearing thicker socks and even walked in the snow as attempts at a cure. Then, in an episode of The Only Way Is Essex, the cast said to try Sudocrem. I started using it on my feet and haven’t suffered since. Who knew TOWIE could be educational? K McGowan, Wales PIC…

Former Shameless star Tina Malone caused controversy when she announced – live on TV – that she was expecting a baby at the age of 50. Fast forward a few months and Tina, now 51, and her husband, Paul, 31, are parents to a healthy little girl, Flame, conceived through IVF. Now she’s recorded the journey for a new TV documentary. We sat her down to find out just how she’s coping with her bundle of joy. How is motherhood treating you? Oh, it’s just sheer bliss. I keep looking at her and I can’t believe she’s all mine. Is it as tiring as you remember? Not at all. Usually I sleep for four hours a night anyway. But compared to filming 12-hour days where you’re stabbing someone or having…

Beautiful beading As Corrie scooped the award for best serial drama, actress Georgia May Foote, 22, made a bold statement in this art deco-inspired gown. Sheer genius! EastEnders’ actress Jacqueline Jossa, 21, stole the show in this fairy-tale dress. Glossy, tumbling curls and natural make-up add understated glamour. Cute cape TV presenter Fearne Cotton, 32, is simply dazzling in this bright white vintage-effect frock. A beaded cape is a clever way to balance your silhouette and slim down hips. Flirty fishtail Actress Michelle Keegan, 26, knows that a high neckline and long hemline doesn’t have to mean demure. This slinky dress clings to every gorgeous curve. Suits you! Caroline Flack, 34, is effortlessly chic, stepping out in her beloved shorts and heels combo, while her suit highlights her tanned, toned…

Days after the news broke that Danniella Westbrook and husband Kevin Jenkins had called time on their 12-year marriage, a source told Woman’s Own, ‘Danniella’s emotionally broken and feels like a failure. She just wants to curl into a ball.’ The couple’s relationship had survived Danniella’s drug abuse and bipolar disorder, and Kevin losing his business. The family, including their daughter, Jody, 12, and Danniella’s son, Kai, 17, from a previous relationship, tried to start a new life in the US but it turned sour after a year. They returned to the UK reportedly owing creditors money. Despite trying to makes things work back home, they just couldn’t get things back on track. Danniella, 40, told the pal, ‘Stress played a big part in the split, caused by my health…

All little children come out with funny sayings, which their parents never let them forget. Like small boys who swear they’re going to grow up to ‘marry Mummy’. I was a little tomboy, so mine was a corker. ‘When my boobies grow I’m going to cut them off!’ I told Mum one day. I can picture how she must have giggled, yet for me, it was going to be true. I was going to grow up in our home in Port Glasgow, Inverclyde, and become a teenager and really mean it. I was going to hate my bust that much... I was 13 when the growing started. Overnight, it seemed, my breasts sprouted like a pair of prize vegetables. They grew out of all proportion to my still skinny kid’s…

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He won’t stand up to his mother My mother-in-law is very opinionated about everything, from how we bring up our kids to how we run our lives. Nothing I do is ever right. I usually manage to ignore her nasty asides and hurtful comments but when I do stand up to her, my husband never backs me up. Why is he such a wimp? Cathy, 29, West Wales I’m really sorry to hear this. When one person (often the man) under-deals with his mum, their partner is often left feeling frustrated and furious. So it’s worth remembering that, when parents are around, it takes effort not to flop back into our childhood patterns of behaviour. Your hubby may seem like a wimp to you but, as a child, I’m sure…

The mother next door Naomi Armitage, 33, lives in Aylestone, Leicestershire, with husband Richard, 32, and nine-month-old daughter Amelie. Her surrogate Hayley Wells, 34, lives near Leicester with husband Brett, 32, and their children Connor, seven, Sam, six, and Lyla, four. Naomi says The biggest favour most people do for a neighbour is water their plants while they’re away – mine carried my baby! In September 2011, I found out I had cervical cancer and would never be able to have a child. Richard and I were heartbroken. Shortly afterwards, I saw my neighbour Hayley. She’d lived opposite us for four years, but I barely knew her. She was chasing after her toddler in the cul-de-sac. ‘Lyla’s got the devil in her today, do you want her?’ she shouted. ‘I…

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Fancy a seat at glamorous catwalk shows, shopping all day and then partying the night away? Then don’t miss your chance to buy your VIP ticket to British Plus Size Fashion Weekend, sponsored by Evans, which runs from 14-15 February 2014. You’ll love the Shop Your Shape marketplace, where there are more than 25 pop-up shops offering exclusive show discounts from leading high street stores, independent designers, bridal wear, lingerie and swimwear. You can also chat to experts who will give helpful, friendly advice on how to flatter your shape, whether you’re a pear, apple, hourglass etc. And when you’re all shopped out, sit back and relax while plus-size models show off the best of the new-season looks on the runway. Complete your day with a delicious meal and a…

Grab your wheels There’s a cycling revolution going on, it’s time to get on your bike DEDICATED ROUTES Cycling is the third most popular recreational activity in the UK, with an estimated 3.1 million people riding a bike each month. There are now so many dedicated cycle routes youfll be able to renew your love of the open road without worrying about traffc. Visit cycle-route.com for info. STRESS FREE Cycling is a great way to help you lose weight, too. It also helps reduce stress and improves ftness without putting pressure on your joints. Perfect! You are what you eat... Some people like a fry-up for breakfast, others prefer fruit, but cereals are still a breakfast staple in the UK. The cereal revolution began in the US in the 19th…

South Africa Sixteen days from only £1,899pp. Selected departures April to October 2014 A tour taking you into the very heart of South Africa, exploring its unique history, amazing wildlife, truly breathtaking scenery and vibrant cities. Fully escorted price includes: Return flights from Heathrow Staying in excellent quality three and four-star hotels on a bed and breakfast basis, including five meals Full-day guided safari in the Kruger National Park Visits to the Cape of Good Hope and the Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens in Cape Town Stay in the beautiful Western Cape’s Winelands Tour of the Zulu War battlefields of Isandlwana and Rorke’s Drift Go whale watching in Hermanus, depending on season Enjoy a scenic drive through the beautiful small, landlocked kingdom of Swaziland Visit to Johannesburg’s Apartheid Museum Stay for three…

CUSHTY CAMEO Becks will join Del Boy and Rodney for an Only Fools And Horses sketch next month, as part of this year’s Sports Relief. Sir David Jason and Nicholas Lyndhurst will be reunited for the first time in a decade – and what better way to celebrate than by meeting up with David, 38, in a greasy spoon? Fans were quick to tweet their excitement about the collaboration, with many calling the news ‘amazing’. Lovely jubbly! Earning her stripes It seems Sinitta and Amy Childs have already been at each other’s throats – over a red-and-white ski suit. We heard The Jump stars had a stand-up row over the garment, because both divas wanted to out-glam one another for their debut on the Channel 4 reality show. Eventually Amy,…

BAREFACED Denise Van Outen, 39, looked a far cry from her usual glam self as she stepped out looking make-up free ahead of an appearance on Loose Women. Luckily a makeup artist was on hand to help her back to her best. Meanwhile, the star has insisted that she’s still ‘good friends’ with estranged husband Lee Mead, 32, despite the two splitting last year. ‘Lee and I have come out of it as really good friends,’ said Denise. ‘Lee is brilliant with our daughter, Betsy. I couldn’t ask for anything more.’ IT’S OFF! Gemma Collins has called off her engagement to on-off boyfriend Rami Hawash, after just four weeks. The TOWIE star, 32, accepted his proposal on Christmas Day, but her spokesperson has since confrmed they are no longer engaged.…

Lorraine Kelly Lorraine is like a fine wine – she just gets better with age. From circular specs and a severe dark hairdo at 36, to tanned, sleek and stunning at 54, the presenter rode out those bizarre ’90s fashion disasters in style. Nigella Lawson The Domestic Goddess, 54, hasn’t always looked quite so delicious. At 38, Nigella opted for a far more demure, fresh-faced look – a far cry from the sultry superstar cook we know and love today. Emma Thompson It would be easy to mistake the picture on the right for Deirdre from Corrie, but the bespectacled lady in question is actually Hollywood darling Emma, 54, at age 30. It just goes to show what a bit of LA sun and a few Oscar wins can do...…

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Your meal plan Follow this eating plan for five days, sticking to 1,000 calories on days 1 and 2 and then upping it to 1,200 calories for days 3 to 5 WHAT TO DO Eat three main meals a day plus two power snacks It’s still not too late to kickstart your healthy-eating regime and shed those extra festive pounds fast with this brilliant five-day Happy New You Slim-Down Plan. This simple diet is based on eating 1,000 calories a day for the first two days and then 1,200 for the next three – which allows you three tasty low-fat meals a day and two power snacks. To boost your weight loss further, try to be as active as you can. So, what are you waiting for? Start today! Your…

The amount of sleep we need is determined by our genes. Eight hours is considered average but in fact, anything from three to 11 is normal. ‘If you have four to five hours a night without feeling tired the next day, then chances are, your genes are programmed to be a short sleeper,’ says Dr Neil Stanley. ‘Think of it as a gift of extra time in your day.’ However, tiredness may not just be down to a lack of sleep – it can be triggered by a range of causes including vitamin deficiency, excess sugar intake and anaemia. And if that’s you, then sleep is not the solution. Ask yourself these questions: ◆ How do you feel at 11am? If there was a bed in front of you, would…

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From just 43p per serving Chipolata wrapped in prosciutto rollers with tomato and chilli jam MAKES 12 PREP TIME 15 MINS COOKING TIME 45 MINS COST PER SERVING 68p YOU WILL NEED ◆ 12 chipolata or cocktail sausages ◆ 12 slices prosciutto ◆ 1tsp olive oil ◆ 12 mini hotdog buns FOR THE TOMATO AND CHILLI JAM ◆ 2tbsp olive oil ◆ 1 red onion, finely chopped ◆ 2 cloves garlic, finely chopped ◆ 1 large red chilli pepper, finely chopped ◆ 400g can chopped tomatoes ◆ 10 sun-dried tomatoes, finely chopped ◆ 75g brown sugar ◆ 2tbsp balsamic vinegar HOW TO DO IT 1 Preheat oven to 180°C/Gas 4. Line a roasting tray with baking paper. 2 Wrap each of the sausages in a single prosciutto slice. Heat the…

The words were so desperately poignant… ‘We don’t eat every day. Our tummies hurt, and I don’t know when we are going to eat again,’ it said. They were words describing the life of a little girl – how she’d slept on a soiled mattress and cared for herself and her younger brothers while her sex-worker mum and criminal dad abandoned them. It was heartbreaking but all the more so because I knew these words weren’t just about any girl – but of my mother’s childhood. It was November 2011 and every night my mum, Jenny Molloy, 39, would tap away on her laptop, pouring out the painful memories into the book she was writing. She hadn’t wanted me to read it yet but like any 18-year-old, I couldn’t resist…

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Brighton still rocks Bracing walks along the prom and pier, along with jewellery shopping in The Lanes, give Brighton a seriously romantic resonance. Stay at the Hotel du Vin (hotelduvin.com) with its cosy brasserie and atmospheric wine bar, plus twin bathtubs in two suites. Doubles from £149 (but check for special offers). A bicycle made for two Spending some time on a tandem can make or break a relationship, depending on the effort put in by the one at the back! Rent one and put yours to the test in the New Forest, with miles of off-road bike trails for you to explore together (newforestcyclehire.co.uk). New Forest Cottages (newforestcottages.co.uk) has 130 properties in and around the New Forest. Three-night breaks for two start at £179. Shepherd’s delight Get into hot…

She became a household name in the ’90s for her role in hit ITV drama Cold Feet and things haven’t slowed down since for Fay Ripley, 47. She is also a bit of a celebrity cook too. We sat down with the actress – who lives with her husband Daniel and children Parker, 11, and Sonny, seven – to talk body hang-ups, Nigella, and looking like her dad… Which parts of your body do you like most and least? I’m struggling to think of something I like, because whenever I look at myself I just see my dad in a dress! I suppose I have quite nice blue eyes and my kids have blue eyes too, so it feels like we’re connected. The thing I like least is everything from…