Innholdsfortegnelse for September 23, 2013 i Woman's Own

Gorgeous Joanne Froggatt, 33, looks stunning in this Vivienne Westwood blush pink gown. And we just love those glitzy accessories... So pretty Wow! Phyllis Logan, 57, looks amazing out of her usual housekeeper’s costume. This petalprint dress shows off her shape, too. Blue mood Striking Elizabeth McGovern, 52, ditches her period high-neck blouses to make a dramatic statement in this azure prom dress. Dazzling Laura Carmichael, 27, reveals her long toned legs in this oyster minidress. That bejewelled neckline is a real show-stopper! Floral chic Sophie McShera, 28, loves a good high street bargain! She pairs her bright Zara dress with nude shoes for an understated look. Golden This slinky gown flatters 31-year-old Michelle Dockery’s slim figure perfectly, while the gold lace detail means all eyes are on her.…

We love Claudia Winkleman, but there’s no doubt she needs to sack the stylist – quick! Months after she stumbled out of an awards ceremony with her eyes half shut and her trademark fringe in disarray, she’s at it again. Worse for wear The star appeared at the GQ Men Of The Year awards recently looking dishevelled, with eye make-up smudged all over her face and what looked like an uneven fake tan. Many fans took to forums to express their concern for poor Claudia, 41, with one commenting, ‘She looks like she’s had one too many!’, while another said, ‘Sorry, not a good look. Hairdo by ‘dragged through hedge backwards salon’ and make-up done by a three-year-old.’ Claudia, who arrived at the awards on the arm of her pal,…

What did you think when you saw Cheryl Cole’s bottom with the large, inky, red and black roses curling round each buttock? Many of us asked, ‘What on earth has she done?’ After all, Cheryl’s not only one of the UK’s prettiest celebs, but she has the pertest and most perfect bum to match. Why would she want to cover it up with a giant tattoo? Of course she defended every painstaking moment it took to get the huge illustration inked into her skin. ‘I’ve never concerned myself with other people’s body parts!’ she responded to the criticism she’s received. But you can’t help wondering what it will look like when the sags and wrinkles of old age set in. Will the roses look quite so fresh? Yet surprisingly, it…

5 easy looks to suit everyone Grow it longer Jerry Hall, Julianne Moore and Heidi Klum (above) may all be 40-plus, but their tumbling, glossy tresses make them look 10 years younger. ‘Long hair is connected to youth but can add years if it isn’t looked after,’ says HOB Salons’ Akin Konizi. ‘Don’t go longer than your chest, add shorter layers around the jaw to soften an oblong face and flatter long faces with a fringe,’ he advises Snip in a fringe ‘Fringes are a brilliant way to soften facial features, enhance your cheekbones and hide frown lines,’ says hairdresser Richard Ward. Wear it full and choppy, like Carol Vorderman – it’s a great anti-ageing trick. ‘Face shape is absolutely paramount when you’re considering a fringe,’ says Richard. ‘Heavy styles…

Are you at risk? More of us are turning to antidepressants to help us cope with everyday life – but are we really aware of the dangers? The moment Lynda Hamilton woke up, she mentally went through her to-do list. Get the kids breakfast, take them to school, do the laundry and washing up and get it all finished before heading to work for a 9am meeting. There was only one way Lynda knew she’d be able to do it all. She reached for her antidepressants, swallowing one of the brown pills with a glass of water. Only then could she take on the day. Mum-of-two Lynda began relying on the pills when she suffered postnatal depression in 2007 after the birth of her second child, Jessica. They turned her…

Skin is our largest organ and our body’s protective barrier. It also guards against infections, retains water and produces essential proteins and vitamins. The average adult ‘wears’ about 2 sq m (22 sq ft) or 3.6kg (8lb) of skin. But, just like other body organs, it doesn’t always behave itself! We are all used to the occasional blemish breakout, but when skin problems escalate and start to undermine your confidence, your quality of life can be affected hugely. More than eight million people in the UK suffer with some form of skin condition – like eczema, psoriasis or rosacea – during their lifetime. Here we examine the causes and cures for the most common complaints. Rosacea Rosacea starts with flushing on the face but can lead to permanent redness and…

As you read my story, the words on the page will no doubt come to life with such ease and enjoyment. It’s probably something you take for granted. A skill you use every day at work or at home, when you sit down and relax with your favourite book or magazine. Yet, for some of us, it’s very different. For so long, reading made me feel ashamed – and it took me 30 years to learn how to do it. From an early age, I knew I was different. The words would muddle together and my primary school teachers didn’t have time to give me all their attention. As one of seven children growing up in Plumstead, South London, my parents were too busy to realise I was struggling. So…

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My mum, Kaitlin Jackson, was in tears as she stared at the computer screen. Her hands trembled as she scrolled further down the web page, gasping in shock. ‘What’s wrong?’ I asked, peering over her shoulder. But then I saw it – a vile defaced photo of a little boy who’d passed away, his bright eyes covered by ugly black crosses. ‘How could anyone do this?’ Mum said, turning from the screen. Tragic losses It was 2010 and Mum belonged to a Facebook support group for women who had lost children. She had only just joined after suffering her fourth devastating miscarriage a few weeks earlier. Every loss had been so painful – each of her babies had died at around the 24-week mark. But now, seeing this awful photo,…

Slimy mud squelched between my toes. My Labradoodle, Doogle, jumped around me, splashing dirty water, while the long train of my £500 wedding gown floated behind, soaking up Lancashire’s Roddlesworth Reservoir. I then lay down and watched with delight as the beautiful ivory satin dress turned brown. It was hard to believe that three weeks earlier, on 6 July this year, I’d been worried about my gown ‘Just don’t set yourself on fire,’ Paul said when I told him my plans – we’d seen some great shots of a woman with her dress in flames as she ran into the sea! For my photos, I chose the reservoir picking up dirt from the floor as I’d danced at my wedding to Paul, 28, a council worker. I had planned on…

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Best for romance DevonThe Granthams would be very much at home in the 15-bedroom Combe House WHY IT’S GREAT It’s very hard not to feel pampered and special here even though the atmosphere is less like a hotel, more a feeling of going to stay with friends – although admittedly very few of us have friends with 3,500 acres of garden and a mile-long drive. Arabian horses and pheasants roam freely and much of the restaurant food is grown in the kitchen garden. Combe House (above) offers best aspects of stepping back in time combined with 21st-century luxury in every room. Voted one of the most romantic hotels in Great Britain, it’s the perfect spot to remind yourself why you fell in love in the first place! And make sure…

RICHARD ARNOLD Simons says… EastEnder Rita Simons is thrilled co-star Sam Womack is back, even if Sam is shocked to find her all grown up after two years. ‘This was my first big job, so I was always looking to Sam for advice,’ reveals Rita. ‘Now she’s back she keeps asking me why I’m suddenly so focused and why I keep asking the director questions!’ That said, they’re still reducing each other to fits of giggles… Give us a Clune When Martin Clunes popped in to plug Doc Martin, he told me he’d enjoyed watching me on Strictly last year. ‘The great thing about seeing someone perform like that is that it makes me realise why I am paid so much!’ Cheeky boy. I couldn’t help admire the fact he’d kept the…

Coleen’s HEALTH KICK Coleen Nolan has admitted she’s on a mission to get fit now that the summer is nearly over. The TV star, 48, tweeted, ‘First day of my new juice detox, time to sort myself out and get healthy!’ This isn’t the first time that Coleen has turned her attention to her body – in 2008 she went from a size 20 to a size 10 through healthy eating and exercise. ‘I was prone to chubbiness even as a youngster,’ she revealed at the time. ‘I’ve always been a snacker.’ HOSPITAL DASH Poor Loose Lady Andrea McLean was given a fright when she had to rush her daughter Amy to hospital. A relieved Andrea, 43, tweeted, ‘A huge thank you to the paediatric team at Epsom A&E who…

Abbey Clancy Model & TV presenter what does your husband peter Crouch think of you taking part? He said he’s going to come to every rehearsal! But he knows romance is off the menu – I’ll be too tired. Have you danced before? Never in my life. I was more into singing when I was little. What do you think of your costumes? Oh my God, I love them. We don’t do sequins, it’s only Swarovski crystals – I like the expensive stuff! Vanessa Feltz TV & radio broadcaster Do you worry about becoming this year’s novelty act? I don’t want to disgrace my family so I’m going to work hard and do as I’m told. But If I sprinkle a little light entertainment into the lives of the nation…

Glancing at my watch, I jolted. It was almost 10.45pm! ‘I’ve got to go...’ I blurted, turning quickly towards the pub exit. ‘Go on, then,’ my long-suffering friends chorused. Everyone knew I had to be home by 11pm. My husband, David, insisted on it. Our marriage was one long list of rules. I hadn’t worn a skirt for 14 years, ever since David had pointed out that I had fat legs and they made me look ‘butch’. His evening meal had to be steaming hot and on the table the minute he walked through the door at 5pm – there would be hell to pay if it wasn’t. I was living my life by the clock. ‘Why do you put up with it, Mum?’ my daughters asked. It was 2007…

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Who will care for her now? My mum has dementia and severe arthritis in her knees. By early evening she is angry and abusive and it’s difficult for my dad to cope with her. I’ve been so worried, but Mum doesn’t qualify for Social Services and Dad won’t consider a care home. Now I’ve found a local woman to act as a housekeeper but Dad’s saying he doesn’t like having her around. I feel I’m in an impossible situation. What am I supposed to do? Liz, 56, Lancashire It sounds as though you have done an outstanding job under huge pressure with very little support; please take a moment to pat yourself on the back. But you also need to remember that your dad is having to make a huge…

Doctors said our little girl wouldn’t survive the night Holding my hands, my daughter Ellie-Mae pulled herself up on her feet with a wobble. ‘Well done!’ I clapped. It was January 2007 and with her first birthday a week away, I knew it wouldn’t be long before she’d be toddling around all on her own. But a few days later, I noticed a small purple bruise on Ellie-Mae’s head. I called the NHS helpline, expecting them to tell me not to worry. Instead, they sent an ambulance to our home in Stoke-on-Trent. ‘Something’s wrong,’ I said, calling my husband Billy, 41, at work. Within an hour of arriving at the hospital, a purple rash had spread across Ellie-Mae’s body. ‘It’s meningococcal septicaemia – a type of meningitis,’ the consultant said.…

Cost per serving 60p Simple plum crumble SERVES 6 PREP TIME 10 MINS COOKING TIME 40 MINS YOU WILL NEED ◆ 8-10 plums ◆ 4-5tbsp sugar ◆ Chilled cream, to serve For the topping: ◆ 75g unsalted butter, cubed ◆ 175g plain flour ◆ A pinch of salt ◆ 50g caster sugar HOW TO DO IT 1 Preheat the oven to 180°C/Gas 4 and put a baking tray on the middle shelf to heat. Halve the plums and remove the stones. Cut them into quarters if they are very large. Toss them with the sugar and tip into a medium-sized ovenproof buttered dish. 2 To make the crumble topping, rub the butter into the flour with the salt using your fingertips until it resembles coarse breadcrumbs. alternatively, do this in…

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It felt really rebellious to cover myself in paint Slipping back into my wedding dress, I took one final glance at myself in the mirror and smiled. In just a few hours my gown would never be the same again and I couldn’t wait! ‘Are you sure about this?’ my new husband Jack, 26, asked. But I didn’t have any doubts. It was July this year and eight months earlier, on 14 December 2012, Jack and I had a fairytale winter wonderland wedding at Woburn abbey near our home in stony stratford, Buckinghamshire. I’d spent a year planning the big day since Jack, a carpenter, had proposed on new Year’s Eve 2011, and my mum and dad had bought my £2,000 designer dress with its corset top and 10ft train.…

our astrologer wendy Bristow reveals what’s ahead for you this week Aries 21 Mar – 20 Apr Talking with your other half or best friend gets tricky early in the week. one minute you’re on an innocent subject, the next it’s gone nuclear. Get to what’s really going on and you can turn it around. Late Thursday to saturday your needs are running the show. ◆ For more call 0901 609 4780* Taurus 21 Apr – 20 May This week could go either way. There’s potential for you and another to mend differences and unite in a way that you haven’t in ages. and there’s a possibility you’ll reach a point of no return. It depends on whether you can get what you want from this relationship. ◆ For more…

Three months ago I was stunned when I won £25,062 playing Woman’s Own Bingo and I shared my story with readers in this magazine. Now I can’t believe I’ve won another two jackpots! My first big win came as such a complete shock to me, as I’d only been a member for about 12 months and never expected to win anything like that amount. It was a Saturday morning and I’d been playing the Slots Friendzy game, in which any spin can win the jackpot, so you never know when it could be you. And even better, when one person wins the jackpot, the same amount is paid out as a Community jackpot that’s shared between all the other players. On that day, when I won my £25,062, 33 other members each…

iewers were left stunned at the end of last year when Matthew Crawley was sensationally – and unexpectedly – killed off in Downton Abbey’s Christmas special. Fast-forward several months in period-drama land and his wife, Lady Mary, is mourning his loss – even neglecting their baby, George, in her grief. Following a private screening of the excellent first episode in the new series, we sat down with actress Michelle Dockery – who has just been nominated for a prestigious Emmy Award, (Hollywood’s equivalent of a BAFTA) for the role – to find out what’s in store for the grieving widow. And while we’re at it, we want to know more about how she’s adjusting to the enormous fame that comes with starring in the country’s most famous TV show. But as…

Tim Lovejoy, 45, opens up about embarrassing TV moments, family holidays and his new baby daughter Great memory My baby daughter Jamie being born a few months ago. I was there for all three days of the labour and I cried a lot. It’s really hard not to get emotional at things like that. I have three daughters now and they’re all lined up to take over my empire. Thing I bought A carpet. Not very exciting, I know. I stupidly decided to do an extension and redecorate every room in the house – even though we’ve just had a baby. So we’re basically raising her on a building site at the moment. Text I received From the producer of my new TV show. It says, ‘Do you think Chris…

With a new silver hairdo, Lynda Bellingham looks incredibly well as she continues to fight the disease. In an update about her treatment, Lynda revealed that even with her positive outlook, the whole ordeal has been a nightmare. ‘Let’s be honest, it’s horrible,’ she confessed. ‘There’s no getting away from that.’ But with the help of those around her, especially her husband of five years, Michael Pattemore, Lynda, 65, is slowly finding ways to get through the devastating diagnosis. The support of family ‘My husband makes me walk two miles every day,’ she said, revealing Michael’s tricks to keep her healthy throughout the ordeal. ‘He’s a bully and he gets the whip out! I keep praying for a rainy day so I don’t have to go!’ However, Lynda has insisted…

Geri Halliwell SHOWBIZ AGE 38 REAL AGE 41 When the Spice Girls released their first album in 1996, Geri claimed to be 21. But as this certificate proves, the singer was actually four years older. Christine Bleakley SHOWBIZ AGE 32 REAL AGE 34 Despite being accused of docking years off her age in 2009, TV presenter Christine stuck to her original story that she was two years younger than she really was. Don’t tell Frank! Michelle Collin SHOWBIZ AGE 49 EAL AGE 51 Corrie actress Michelle used to chop two years off her age but she came clean in 2009, confessing she had only just come to terms with her real age! Amanda Redman SHOWBIZ AGE 54 REAL AGE 56 Actress Amanda spoke openly about what it felt like to turn 50…

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How it works We have come up with an easy-to follow menu planner of simple, delicious breakfasts, lunches and family dinners. All of them can be easily adjusted to meet your needs without having to cook separately for yourself. It really couldn’t be simpler! What to do 1mix and match breakfasts, lunches and dinners, trying to get as much variety as you can. also, have one daily snack or treat from the list. 2You also have a 300ml skimmed milk allowance to use in tea and coffee or as you like. 3 make sure you have at least five portions of fruit and veg a day, and six to eight glasses or cups of fluid. Breakfasts 2 slices of wholemeal toast with 1 level tbsp peanut butter and 1 satsuma…

23% of us suffer from bunions. These painful bony growths on the joint of your big toe are hereditary in men and women of European descent, according to a recent study It’s weird… but it works Dehydration is one of the major causes of headaches but, incredibly, watermelon juice can cure the pain. Ayurvedic (traditional Indian) medicine has long used the fruit. It contains essential minerals, like magnesium, that help headache prevention. Make a soothing smoothie with chunks of the fruit, ice, half a cup of plain yogurt, half a teaspoon of grated ginger and a little honey. 3 steps to... a healthy heart ◆ Do THis It’s World Heart Day on 29 September, so it’s a good time to take stock of how yours is working. You are eligible…

The memories are so painful they will be forever etched in my mind. It began on 22 October 2010. My threemonth-old son Charlie wasn’t sleeping well. It was unlike him – he was such a happy baby. My husband Chris and I had even nicknamed him Charlie Cheeky Chops because of his big gummy smiles. It made our other son, James, three, giggle because he could see what a happy little boy his baby brother was. Yet that morning, Charlie seemed listless. He hadn’t been well for a few days – doctors had diagnosed a virus but I was worried and took him to hospital. Chris was at his engineer’s job but met me there. Charlie was given a lumbar puncture and the results came back showing meningitis. My heart…

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Enjoy slice of margherita, pepperoni or spicy chicken pizza-on the house! Here at Woman’s Own, we love Greggs’freshly baked pasties, handmade sandwiches and mouth-watering sweet treats. We are also huge fans of its delicious new additions to the menu. Greggs is very excited to announce its new line of takeaway pizzas, coming in a range of tasty flavours - pepperoni, spicy chicken and classic margherita. They are available to take away as a single slice - perfect for when you’re on the move - or as a full-size pizza (four slices), which is ideal for sharing. Greggs pizzas all come topped with the baker’s own special-recipe tomato sauce and a blend o f mozzarella and Cheddar cheeses. As with all Greggs savouries, they’re freshly baked in Greggs ovens throughout the day, ensuring…

Ever since I was a little girl I knew exactly what kind of wedding dress I wanted – a strapless silk ivory gown with a huge layered princess skirt and sweetheart neckline. Within a month of my fiancé Grant, 26, popping the question in august 2010, I’d found ‘the one’. ‘It’s perfect,’ my mum Rachael agreed, admiring the delicate lace detail of my £1,000 gown. so you might be wondering what on earth made me want to trash it? Well, it was the perfect excuse to wear it again! Showing it off I’d met Grant, a lettings negotiator, back in 2005, and when I walked down the aisle at our local church in Binstead, Isle of Wight, it was the best day of my life. I was so sad when…

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PIC OF THE WEEK Win £50 if we feature your photo Worth a mention… I recently picked up an old copy of Woman’s Own dated 1 July, which I’ve really enjoyed reading. I intend to place an order for future copies. I was delighted to see the celebrity was Ben Fogle, but disappointed that there was no mention of his mother. She was a famous TV actress, a celebrity in her own right. Her name is Julia Foster and she was delightful to watch. You printed a picture of Ben with his mum and dad, but she never got a mention! Patricia Joyce, Weymouth Better the dress you know It’s so great to see a celebrity wearing the same clothes more than once. I was flicking through your magazine dated…

On the ROAD again Coach Trip fans are in for a treat – legendary tour guide Brendan Sheerin is going back on the road for a new series. The Channel 4 daytime show has been a huge hit with viewers, thanks to Brendan’s hilarious antics. Now he’s returning for more adventures with holidaymakers across Europe in the show’s ninth series. Delighted Brendan, 54, said, ‘I think it’s absolutely fabulous. It’s the answer to lots of people’s prayers. I’m ready to ride the coach again.’ Bring it on! Don’t MISS IT... Piers Morgan’s Life stories Friday, 20 sept, 9pm, it V This Friday Julie Goodyear sits down with Piers to discuss her role as Bet Gilroy in Corrie, her toyboy husband (who she met after he stalked her!) and the triumphs and…