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As pop icon Janet Jackson threw her head back with laughter in a bold blush tutu and a velvet top hat, it was a very different image from where the star was just last year. Three months after giving birth to her first child in January, Janet went through a shocking public divorce from her husband of four years, Qatari businessman Wissam Al Mana. Then tragedy struck again last month when her father Joe Jackson passed away at the age of 89 from pancreatic cancer. But as the 52-year-old mother to Eissa danced around in Brooklyn, filming for her new music video last week, it appeared she’s got her groove back. In a recent interview, Janet revealed how after years of turmoil in the public eye, she’s finally learning to…

They do their best to exchange pleasantries when they’re out together in public, but Princess Anne and the Duchess of Cornwall are far from close friends. Now, decades-old bitterness and jealousy threatens to resurface as details of their love rivalry are exposed once again. “Anne and Camilla have a lot of deep-seated drama they’d rather the world forgot about,” an insider tells Woman’s Day. “But the trouble is that it’s all being dredged up – and The Crown is to blame!” The hit Netflix drama is set to return for a third season later this year, and the primary focus will be on 67-year-old Anne’s life, and in turn, her shocking love triangle with Camilla, 71. While the scandal may be many decades in the past, there’s no doubt the…

After surviving years of depression, self-harm, drug abuse and alcoholism, it was breaking up with the love of her life that tipped Demi Lovato over the edge. The 25-year-old US X-Factor judge, who was brought back from the brink last week after a near-fatal drug overdose at her Los Angeles mansion, has announced she’s “grateful to be alive” and is recovering with the help of her family. But a source close to the singer tells Woman’s Day there’s a long road ahead for Demi, whose searingly honest lyrics about her many personal battles have inspired fans around the world to stay strong in facing their own demons. The hitmaker has been in an on-off relationship with That ’70s Show star Wilmer Valderrama since she was 18, once describing him as…

Actress Michelle Williams has finally got her fairytale ending after secretly tying the knot to indie musician Phil Elverum. The star, 37, revealed the news on the cover of Vanity Fair last week, and described her marriage as “very sacred and very special”. Michelle has had her fair share of heartache after the 2008 death of Heath Ledger, the father of her daughter Matilda, 12. But the actress says she “never gave up on love” and was just waiting for the right man. “I’ve never once in my life talked about a relationship,” she reveals. “But Phil isn’t anyone else. And that’s worth something. The way he loves me is the way I want to live my life on the whole. I work to be free inside of the moment.…

His son is only two months old, but John Legend is already making plans to play baseball with little Miles Theodore Stephens. The singer’s only concern? His own terrible catching skills. “Hopefully, I won’t let him down,” John jokes with Woman’s Day. It’s hard to believe the 39-year-old could ever disappoint. Not only is he the proud owner of an Oscar, a Golden Globe and an incredible 10 Grammy Awards, but he also seems to have won big when it comes to love with his supermodel wife Chrissy Teigen, 32, and their daughter Luna, two. The famously tight couple didn’t think it was possible, but the arrival of baby Miles has brought them even closer. “We’re so excited to have him in the family now,” says John, smiling proudly at…

Sitting in her car as dusk settled over Cambridge, on the banks of the Waikato River, Sensing Murder star Sue Nicholson sobbed uncontrollably as she clutched a vial of headache pills. Years of accumulated stress from her role as a cold case investigative psychic on the hit TVNZ 2 show had taken its toll, compounded by cruel words from sceptics and online trolls. Mid-tour, on the eve of a live show before dozens of loyal fans, she should have been happy. But instead she was in a very dark place. A misunderstood quote she’d given a TV reporter had led to a national backlash beyond anything she’d ever experienced. “I just didn’t want to be here any more,” says the 63-year-old as she recalls the moment she thought about taking…

When Shane and Louise Anselmi heard a close friend’s son had attempted suicide, everything changed. The shoe-loving couple behind Merchant 1948 (previously Overland) were aware the country’s youth suicide rate was bad, but for the first time it was affecting someone they knew and loved first-hand. Louise recalls, “We had known this boy since he was tiny – four years old – and we were like, ‘Where’d that come from? Why do people get to that point of desperation?’” Not long after, Shane found himself sitting in an airport lounge on his way to China for work, reading the newspaper about yet another young person who’d taken their life. “I remember it vividly,” he recalls. “It was right on the front page and in that moment, I said to myself,…

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Chia seeds Lightweight and super-nourishing, chia seed oil contains essential fatty acids to soothe, hydrate and promote skin health. Oats  A tried and true ingredient, oat oil helps relieve and soothe extradry skin. It’s infused into this rich yet fast-absorbing body lotion to relieve itchiness and sensitivity – particularly good for this time of year. Apple Derived from the juice of the fruit, apple amino acids deeply clean and exfoliate the skin without the use of potentially irritating alcohols or sulfates, leaving it soft and conditioned. Coconut oil A top multitasker, coconut oil has deeply moisturising, anti-inflammatory properties. Mix L’Oréal’s highlighting drops with your foundation for an all-over glow or dot along the high points of your face to strobe. Kiwifruit Kiwi seed oil can help improve elasticity in skin…

When it comes to exercising, there’s no easier way to get yourself moving than by simply taking a stroll. “Walking is a great way to improve your aerobic fitness and overall health without high impact on the joints and the body,” reveals exercise scientist and personal trainer Victoria Burdon. Here, Victoria explains how to make walking the secret weapon in reaching your fitness goals. Getting started The best part of walking is you can do it pretty much anywhere. That means there’s no need to visit a gym – even when you’re travelling. “You can take it outside to g et some fresh air and your daily dose of vitamin D,” says Victoria. “It can even be a great time to catch up with friends. Start your day by walking…

It’s tough being a parent these days. We are made to feel guilty about lots of stuff. The latest is, we’re making our kids fat. The fight to tackle child obesity is not unique to us, of course. Australia’s biggest soft-drink makers have pledged to reduce the sugar content in fizzy drinks by 20% over the next seven years. Britain has announced it’s getting rid of junk at the checkout aisle in the supermarket. Here, we’ve debated a sugar tax, the value of exercise and offering up supermarket “junk free” aisle options. But at the end of the day, the responsibility of what goes into kids’ mouths and how often they’re off the couch falls on us, the parents. Recently, one mum-of-two in Hamilton said she believes mothers and fathers…

Q I want to set a good example for my kids but this eating healthy thing is so draining. Does it make me a bad mum if I just scrap the healthy diet for a while and treat myself? • Happy Meals, Rotorua A What makes a bad mum? I’m not sure if you mean serving them saveloy water, fast food or frozen fish fingers? I’m all about balance. There is nothing wrong with sometimes being too darn tired to cook. There’s nothing wrong with fish fingers or chicken nuggets once a week. Kids should learn good habits, but not get hung up on diets and dietary stuff. This is my own opinion and I’m certainly no nutritionist. I tried to make sure my kids had a healthy, balanced selection…

Q My friend tells me that her husband is at her all the time to have sex. I almost have to beg mine to even notice me. I have tried all the stuff I’ve read you suggesting, such as toys and outfits, but nothing seems to excite him. He just looks at me sideways and goes back to watching sport. What more can I do? • At a Loss, Seddon A Why does he think it’s OK to be so inert and non-responsive? Probably because you internalise that you are upset, disappointed and just plain confused. I’ve seen this kind of couch reptile before – slow-moving and tongue out occasionally to catch the food that’s generally been cooked for him. The most physical action you’re going to see here is…

British beauty Rebecca Ferguson first burst on to the scene in the TV drama The White Queen, but for her latest role in Mission: Impossible – Fallout, she’s ditching the corsets and taking on some serious action. As a “female version” of Tom Cruise’s Ethan Hawk, Rebecca says her character will give the action man a run for his money. “One of the most beautiful things about this film was that it was written and produced mostly by men and I was on set mostly surrounded by men, but I never felt like a woman amongst men – I felt like a person amongst other human beings,” tells the 34-year-old. “I was equally given as many cool fighting sequences. And Tom backed away and gave me the light, and something…

Even out of scrubs, Grey’s Anatomy actress Camilla Luddington, 34, remains in character. To highlight her scripts for the hit show, she uses Vitapens. “They look like giant pills!” says the star who plays Dr Jo Wilson. The mum of one-year-old Hayden, with fiancé Matthew Alan, opens her Stella McCartney handbag to share the rest of her vitals. GAME FACE “I’ll bring in card game Uno and we’ll play that on set. I posted us playing on Instagram.” BLACKOUT “I have a satin eye mask because I can’t sleep when there’s any light. I’ll use it to nap in my trailer between takes.” A SMALL BITE “My daughter loves to chew on rubbery bath toys, so I have a tiny rubber ducky in my bag. She teethes on those.” ANIMAL…

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Tinseltown hunks Brad Pitt and Leonardo DiCaprio have reunited again to make movie magic! The dynamic duo were spotted last week shooting their hotly anticipated flick Once Upon a Time in Hollywood. Brad, 54, has slipped off the movie radar since his dramatic split from Angelina Jolie in 2016, but sources say it was his good mate Leo, 43, who finally got him back in the game. “Brad wasn’t convinced by this project when it was first presented to him, but Leo made it his personal mission to talk him around,” spills our on-set insider. And Brad certainly looks like he was back to his happy, handsome self last week. The source adds, “He’s enjoyed bonding with Leo and getting back among his peers, who have lifted his spirits and…

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THE QUEEN While Her Majesty has accepted Camilla in recent years, she’d prefer not to play favourites. “The Queen gets on well with Camilla, but the last thing she wants is any more drama,” says the insider. “She’ll be fed up with the both of them!” PRINCE PHILIP While Philip adores Anne, he’s had more of a tense relationship with his son. “He’s a romantic, I’m a pragmatist – that means we do see things differently,” he once said. Adds the insider, “Philip just wants this petty feud to be over.” ZARA TINDALL Zara is loyal to her mother Anne – and doesn’t have much of a relationship with Camilla. “Zara and Camilla have little to do with each other,” says the insider. “She’s close to Mum and would believe…

He’s jetted across the Atlantic to start his life afresh in Florida, following reports he’s trialling a secret separation with Victoria Beckham. But while David Beckham might be doing his best to leave his messy marriage – and his life in London – behind him, sources believe it won’t be so easy. Rumours are swirling that the football legend, 43, and the 44-year-old former Spice Girl could be headed for a bitter tug of war over their four children – in particular, their youngest, seven-year-old Harper. “If David and Victoria are truly going to split, the fallout could go on for years,” a source tells Woman’s Day. “But custody will definitely be the biggest source of contention. While Brooklyn is grown up now and Romeo is old enough that it…

When Karlie Kloss’ boyfriend Joshua Kushner dropped to one knee and popped the question in Paris, there was just one answer that would do – “Oui!” The Victoria’s Secret model, 25, announced the news on social media last week, gushing, “You’re my best friend and my soulmate. I can’t wait for forever together.” Marrying the venture capitalist means Karlie will be joining America’s first family as Josh, 33, is the younger brother of Ivanka Trump’s husband Jared Kushner. Don’t tell Donald, but Karlie supported Hillary Clinton in the last election, posting a photo of herself together with the hashtag #ImWithHer!…

Her mum’s birthday party was in full swing when Lily James leapt onto the table and sang ABBA hit “The Winner Takes it All” at the top of her lungs, while another reveller held a fake microphone in her general direction. For the rest of her family, it was no surprise that the gorgeous Downton Abbey actress was doing her Agnetha Fältskog impersonations yet again. She’s loved the iconic Swedish band since her dad introduced her to their music when she was a child. But everyone was taken aback when, just months later, she landed a lead role in the ABBA-inspired movie Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again – the sequel to the 2008 musical hit. Suddenly, her ABBA renditions were about to be seen by millions of people around…

Binging home two gold medals in four months is a dream come true for rugby dynamo Sarah Goss. The captain of the women’s rugby sevens team almost burst with pride last week as she triumphantly held up the Rugby World Cup Sevens trophy just a few months after scooping gold at the Commonwealth Games. And if all that sporting success wasn’t enough, the 25-year-old has come home to yet another major challenge – planning her Christmas wedding! “I’ve got six weeks of down time before we’re back into the World Series,” laughs Sarah. “So it’s going to be full-on getting everything organised!” Sarah’s boyfriend of four years, Conor Hirini, 25, popped the question soon after Sarah and her teammates won silver at the Rio Olympics in 2016, and the pair…

Amanda Maoate stops mid-sentence, holds her breath, then after a few seconds starts talking again. She apologises and explains that one of her three girls had just gone upstairs and she was listening for a thud. Four years ago, Georgia was 13 and collapsed when running up those stairs. Amanda suspected her tall, skinny daughter had a low iron count and they went to their GP. The diagnosis would change the lives of their entire family forever. Within days, doctors revealed that Georgia, now 17, her sisters Ruby, 15, and Teina, 10, and Amanda all have an hereditary heart condition known as Long QT syndrome. Symptoms include fainting, dizziness, seizures – and sudden death. “I was 44 and had lived what I thought was a normal life, so that was…

Carbonara Frittata SERVES 4 PREPARATION & COOKING 35 MINUTES FIVE INGREDIENTS 250g spaghetti 100g pecorino cheese 200g pancetta 10 eggs 1/3 cup finely chopped fresh chives, plus extra to serve STAPLES 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil, plus extra to drizzle 40g butter 1. Preheat oven to 220°C. 2. Cook pasta in a large saucepan of boiling, salted water for 4 minutes – the pasta will not be completely cooked. Drain, then refresh under cold running water. Return pasta to pan. Lightly drizzle with oil, then toss to coat. 3. Finely grate pecorino, reserving 1/3 cup to serve. Reserve 4 pancetta slices to serve and finely chop the remaining. 4. Heat oil in a large, oven-proof frying pan (see tip) over medium-high heat. Cook reserved pancetta slices for 2 minutes…

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BRING A BOTTLE Always have a reusable drink bottle handy and look to refill it when you’re out and about. This means you can avoid having to buy plastic bottles each time. SCRAP THE PAPER Think of all the unnecessary paper that comes through your letterbox each day. Opting for paperless billing is a really simple way to reduce this. KICK PLASTIC TO THE CURB Replace your plastic wrap and bags with reusable options such as jars or glass containers to store your food in the fridge. Instead of filling a plastic lunch bag, try packing a reusable bento box or use a cute tin. CARRY A CUP Investing in a keep cup or bringing your own thermos to your local café is another way to reduce your plastic footprint.…

Doha is the hub for Qatar Airways, so if you’re flying long haul to the other side of the world and want a stopover, here’s the inside info. 1 Where to go We’ll hear a lot more about the Persian Gulf country of Qatar in the next few years as it will host the 2022 FIFA World Cup, the first Arab country to do so. Independent since 1971, the entire population is less than three million, most of whom (as in more than two million) are ex-pats, so you’re unlikely to bump into a local on the streets. Qatar was once famous for its pearls, but then oil was discovered in 1940 and it’s now the richest country in the world. Doha is the country’s rapidly growing capital, with a…

I’ve been budgeting lately. I’d like to pretend it’s because I’ve had some incredible awakening, but that would be a fib. I’ve been budgeting because I have to. My monthly mortgage payment is larger than the final bill for the Taj Mahal. One of the joys of divorce and job switching, I suppose. I’ve learned so much. I never knew how to work out the cost of washed potatoes versus unwashed, but now I do. A strange thing to worry about, but being of Irish stock, potatoes are always going to be significant. Last week, I was lucky enough to be invited to a wonderful event, the Oversew Fashion Awards, for people who upcycle clothes and turn dreary pieces into high fashion. The event was held in Carterton and I…

The beloved British series Poldark is back with another steamy season of delicious 1870s drama. Before tuning in to the new episodes, Woman’s Day catches up with leading lady Eleanor Tomlinson, who plays fiery Demelza on the show. Do you and Aidan Turner [who plays Ross Poldark], have good banter between scenes? Yeah, absolutely. It’s very funny working with Aidan. Our sex scenes are hilarious! Most of the time we are laughing, which is great. Did you have any favourite scenes to film during this season? The scenes where Ross and Demelza rekindle their love, find each other again and find out a bit about their relationship were my favourite scenes to film this season. There wasn’t much of that last season, but this time we see them coming together…

Helping hand I did enjoy Sophie Neville’s lovely article on Toni Street (WD, July 30). My heart goes out to her mum Wendy, who is always ready to help. As I get older, I realise that there are many parents who suffer great sadness as they see the challenges their children are facing, due to loss, marriage issues and so on. Toni is so blessed to have such a supportive family and I wish them all the best. • Helen, Palmerston North Foster love I read “Kate’s home truths” with interest (WD, July 30). I have, over many years, been a foster mother to several children in need. Being a foster parent can be a very rewarding experience, but it is hard to see children who are transferred from home…

If you’re of a certain vintage, you might not look at me like I’m bonkers when I warble, “Don’t leave home ’til you’ve seen the country!” My kids, on the other hand, have been rolling their eyes at this seemingly annoying jingle that’s been stuck in my bain on repeat since the school holidays. I explained it was an ’80s ad campaign designed to encourage Kiwis to explore their own backyard in an era when we took it for granted – until everyone else in the world cottoned on to how fab New Zealand is, thanks to a few hobbits, and suddenly we all smugly nodded in agreement. Anyway, it’s highly likely Cleo, 15, and Darcy, nine, will get overseas experience because it’s so much cheaper to fly today. But…

It’s not quite six months since Jennifer Aniston split from Justin Theroux, but the Hollywood sweetheart has bounced back better than ever! On a break from filming her new Netflix comedy Murder Mystery in Portofino last week, the gorgeous Friends star showed off her stunning yoga-honed physique as she topped up her tan under the blazing Italian sun. And friends of the star tell Woman’s Day that Jen’s state of mind following the bitter break-up matches her outward appearance – glorious! “She’s in such good spirits,” tells a source close to the actress. “Jen looks half her age and she knows it. Her confidence is bubbling over right now and she feels sexier than she has done for years. She’s getting plenty of attention from men and is getting wolf-whistled…

It’s been a whirlwind engagement for Justin Bieber and Hailey Baldwin, but as the young lovebirds reportedly undergo the Hillsong Church pre-marriage course, tension is rising over Justin’s extravagant tastes. The “Sorry” singer, 24, has turned into a groomzilla and wants to spare no expensive on their big day, while Hailey, 21, is trying to reign in his finances. Our source reveals, “Justin has never been great with money. He grew up without any and despite the advice of those around him, he has over the years blown through cash like a drug lord!” In contrast, his new bride is “conservative” with her cash and was shocked to discover Justin spends over $11 million maintaining his luxurious lifestyle, including pricey cars, designer clothes and private jets. “Hailey wants Justin to…

Looking more supermodel than mum-of-three, Julia Roberts, 50, wowed onlookers at a Malibu beach last week. With her honey hair blowing in the breeze and that mega-watt smile, the barefoot actress looked more gorgeous than ever as she posed and twirled for a photo shoot in a stunning rainbow gown. And when it came time to change position, her husband of 16 years Danny Moder was first on the scene, chivalrously gathering up the back of her frock and helping her across the golden sand. It’s the first time the two have been seen together for nine months and comes after rumours that their marriage was headed for divorce. But Woman’s Day can reveal that after several “extremely rocky” months for the couple, who got together in 2002 after meeting…

‘I’m passionate about people. I want to help where I can, when I can’ When the fire siren sounds in Wellsford, it’s not unusual to see Kaitlin Bowmar get up and slip out of class without a moment’s notice. Normally this is the sort of behaviour that would land you straight in detention, but this 17-year-old has a pretty solid excuse. “If the siren goes off, I just leave school,” says the volunteer firefighter. “The principal is really good. They might just get a bit mad if I don’t come back straightaway afterwards,” she laughs. It would probably be fair to say that the Year 13 Rodney College student has got fire in her blood. Her grandfather Jim, 71, father Trevor, 46, and 20-year-old brother Bradley are all past and…

Highlighter can bring a face completely to life, enhancing its structure and creating a gorgeous lit-from-within radiance. When it comes to getting a glow, both Kendall, 22, and 49-year-old J.Lo prove age ain’t nothing but a number, with powder highlighter the simplest for beginners to master. The aim is to look like you’re being cast in the most flattering light imaginable. With a small soft powder or fan brush, apply a light dusting along the tops of your cheekbones, down the bridge of your nose, under the brow bone and on your Cupid’s bow. Less is more, so use a light hand, especially for a day look.…

If you’ve been reading this column for very long, you will know I have a love-hate relationship with muffins. I love the ones you put blueberries in and eat. And I hate the resulting spare tyre that collects around my middle. Obviously, if I was not quite so enthusiastic about the former, the latter need not be such an issue. But while Kate Moss believes that “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels”, I find myself veering more towards “a lot of things taste really, really good and I can’t even remember skinny”. It’s a supposedly easy equation when it comes to losing flubber – more needs to go out than comes in. But add a sedentary job and a woman of a certain vintage and you can be putting…

Holding A’Court Before I was a mother, I imagined I was going to be terrific at talking to my kid about sex. I had some experience in sex education – I made a video years ago that was used in secondary schools – and I’m generally pretty hard to embarrass. But once you’ve spent the first years of your life as a parent keeping the world away from your child’s bits and pieces, it’s hard to make the shift to talking about the idea of your child inviting anyone into their bits and pieces. So if we seem to tiptoe around the subject, this is why. If you ask us when it’s the right time for our child to start having sex, we are likely to say, “When they’re about…

DECLUTTER & CLEAN Regular grooming keeps everyone happy, even the neighbours. Invest in a good vacuum – and use it. “For cats, litter trays with minimal odours might be needed,” says veterinarian Dr Rachele Lowe. “You can get covered trays, which cats don’t mind, or even use special litter. If you have a balcony, there are pretty functional ‘doggy toilets’ you can get too.” PET-PROOF If you have a balcony, look into pet-proofing it so they can enjoy time out there. Remember to keep chargers, electrical cords and other harmful household items out of reach. “A safe place is a happy place,” says Rachele. Owners should also lid-lock the toilet, put away poisons and block access to special areas. SPACE SAVERS If you’re strapped for space, you can source pet…

FAVOURITE TV SHOW This is a hard choice because I have quite a few favourites. I like Netflix Originals such as Riverdale. I also love Friends, The Simpsons, Dance Moms and Modern Family. FAVOURITE SONGS I love multiple songs, but Ariana Grande and Drake’s latest songs are really nice to listen to. FAVOURITE BOOK I like old books like The Time Machine because I’m interested in time travel and Sherlock Holmes because I love mysterious topics. FAVOURITE MOVIE I quite like old movies from different decades, but recently I enjoyed watching Ocean’s 8 and I’m excited about seeing Mamma Mia 2 soon. FAVOURITE APP There are social media apps, but when it comes to games, I like Rider, where you control a neon motorbike and drive across lots of different…

6am My wrangler gently wakes me, lifting me from a bed of assorted cushions, and puts me in a specially designed booster seat before driving me to location. 6.30am A team of selected make-up artists begin grooming my coat and nails, and then curling my tail. Despite gossip, my fawn colouring and dark lashes are totally natural. 7am Production designer Clayton Ercolano and I discuss a range of different dog collars to complement various scenes, locations and character emotions. 7.20am It’s time for a meeting with my personal dietician and caterer. My comedic timing on screen is very important and relies on me going to the toilet right on cue. The food I eat before a scene needs to be of a certain consistency in order to make a perfect…

TASKMASTER Now on TVNZ OnDemand  Rating: ★★★★ If you’re looking for an easy, lighthearted show to make you laugh, then this is it. The British game show sees a group of comedians compete in strange challenges. MACGYVER Season one on Neon  Rating: ★★★ While new episodes play out on Prime, catch up on the thrilling first season of this reboot featuring a problem-solving war veteran. ER Seasons one to five on Neon  Rating: ★★★★ The award-winning hospital series that introduced us to George Clooney, and got viewers’ hearts racing, is now available to binge! HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN 10 DAYS Available on Netflix  Rating: ★★★★ In this rom-com classic, Kate Hudson plays an advice columnist who tries everything to shake off a guy (played by Matthew McConaughey).…

Leo JUL 24 - AUG 23 Hello, birthday girl! As your mojo returns, fascinating people will gravitate to you. Conversations may be intense, but don’t get carried away – sleep on big decisions and do your homework. If your willpower is tested, relax as this month’s eclipse should get you back on track. Virgo AUG 24 - SEP 23 Don’t feel guilty – it’s time to concentrate on yourself for a while. If the recent eclipses have left you wrung out, book a massage. With a series of meetings and social events on the horizon, you’ll want to feel your best. Keep your diet light and simple this week as rich foods could take a toll. Libra SEP 24 - OCT 23 Get ready for a surprise! There are nostalgic…