Felicity O’Rourke, 45, from Wimbledon, London, found peace through garden design.
Overwhelmed and exhausted, I was drawn towards my garden. I twiddled a wayward tendril, did a little gentle pruning, and instantly felt calmer.
At 40, with three girls aged eight, five and two, I’d been diagnosed with breast cancer and was undergoing a series of operations. Once, I’d been a pilot with easyJet, a high-achieving working wife and mum. Now, being outside with nature was the only time I felt comforted and back in control.
I had happy childhood memories of my grandfather’s allotment, picking blackberries and eating peas from the pod, and now I found it therapeutic to watch the rhythms of the seasons, the way plants died then grew again. I’d put the kids’ dinner on, then…