Innholdsfortegnelse for Dec-2018 i Woman & Home

BARBARA TAYLOR BRADFORD OBE is one of the most successful novelists of all time. Her latest book, Master of His Fate (HarperCollins), is out on 29 November. In our feature Comfort & Joy (page 86), she recalls the glittering New York Christmas party she hosted for her husband, TV producer Robert Bradford, who’d had a tough and lonely wartime childhood. “I wanted to make up for all the parties he never had as a boy,” she says. TANIA EDWARDS is a stand-up comedian and writer, who has appeared on TV shows such as Mock the Week and Stand Up for the Week. She recently supported Katherine Ryan on her sell-out tour. Tania’s worst Christmas (page 101) involved a new baby, a house move and the terrifying task of hosting the…

“I still believe in the miracle of Mother Christmas” Dear Mother Christmas, Sorry, I appreciate that you’re really busy right now, what with several billion presents to wrap and those pesky elves constantly nicking the Sellotape. I just wanted to send a message of support from one woman to another. Every year, I imagine how you must roll your eyes when children are queuing up to meet Father Christmas. It’s Father Christmas to whom all those longing letters are addressed. Father Christmas who they leave out a sherry and mince pie for, plus a carrot for Rudolph. Who do they think mucks out the reindeer, eh? Who buys wrapping paper the length of the Nile and matches the right gift to the right child? It’s not your old man, snoring…

CLEVER COLOUR BLOCKING Use colour to trick the eye – sticking to the same tones from head to toe has an elongating effect if you’re petite. Choosing dark hues can conceal problem areas, or opt for bright shades to accentuate your plus points. STYLE TIP For an extra-slimming effect cinch in your waist with a tie belt SOPHISTICATED SPARKLE Master the art of distraction and make sequins work for your shape – wear on either your top or bottom half to deflect attention away from a fuller bust or wider hips. Prefer all-over sparkle? Try a shift dress to skim and flatter the stomach. STYLE TIP Try colourful sequins as an alternative to classic metallics SLIMMING SUITS Try tailoring to streamline your silhouette. The key is to choose bottoms that…

Sue Perkins, 49, lives in London with her partner, TV presenter Anna Richardson. wutHerIng HeIgHtS BY EMILY BRONTE I love this because it’s an antidote to the mass of fiction written during the Victorian age, which was largely society driven and revolved around the comedy of manners. In contrast this is gutsy. It’s not a very heartening love story but it’s the kind of love story I enjoy. How Soon IS now? BY THE SMITHS I don’t think anyone can listen to a Smiths song and not scream your lungs out in recognition of what it’s like to feel odd. COMFORT FOOD I’ve been fortunate enough to travel a lot and to have tried lots of intriguing cuisine but I’d have to be…

Ah, technology. I do like it. It gets me where I need to go. (Literally. Before sat nav I circumnavigated most roundabouts upwards of five times, often shouting to any passengers, regardless of age or local knowledge, “Which way? WHICH WAY?!!” like a deranged banshee.) And yes, tech has also revolutionised modern communication. But along with its advantages it has brought the potential for some hilarious/mortifying social faux pas… Something just happens, my thumbs take over and, before I know it, I’ve sent kisses to the plumber… I thought I would share my worst offenders with you: Accidental kisses. To the plumber. To the headmaster. Something seems to just happen, my thumbs take over and before I know it those xxxxs have appeared and shot off into cyber space. Sending…

Stepping in and making a positive difference to the lives of vulnerable people can be hugely rewarding. But of course there’s no such thing as a magic wand to make things happen – it takes commitment, courage and a broad mind to get through the toughest challenges. Here we talk to three women who saw where help was urgently needed, and made a decision to get involved. Their work has been life-changing, life-affirming and, in some cases, even life-saving. So with the season of peace and goodwill just around the corner, it’s the perfect time to discover the real-life fairy godmothers… ‘We’re calming and non-judgemental. You just need a good heart’ THE STREET ANGEL Sarah Ward, 49, is a part-time youth worker. She lives in Guildford, Surrey with her husband…

Just because rituals are positive, it doesn’t mean the ones you have now are set in stone. Creating new ones takes planning, but can be fun and fulfilling, says therapist Rachel Martin. And you don’t have to change things completely – just tweak. It only takes a couple of years to establish traditions... 1 First, prepare your environment. Plan ahead, put it on the calendar and get ready. Tell people what’s going to happen, buy what you need and put it in place. This will make you more likely to do it and give the pleasure of anticipation. 2 Try a minor shake-up of what you usually do. For example, if you normally go out for a Christmas Day walk in the afternoon, do it early in the morning instead.…

Party dressing should be the fun part of the festive season – a chance to primp, preen, dress up and relax after all the hard work. But the quest for the perfect party outfit can become just as fraught as all the other Christmas prep… and it’s often coupled with the panic of wanting to look glamorous without being laden down with more glitz than a freshly trimmed tree. So where to start? First of all focus on just one thing – a beautiful new dress, a spangly pair of party shoes or some statement-making jewellery. It’s a much more modern approach – and a lot less stressful. Then forget about the traditional “festive” shades like garish red and instead opt for rich jewel colours – forest green, inky dark…

BODY BUILDERS Bumble and bumble products have been backstage faves for years. Why? They work. Now they’ve reformulated their Thickening Collection range and introduced two new products: Great Body Blow Dry Crème, £25, and Thickening Go Big Treatment, £24. THIS TECEMBER... I’M ENCOURAGING the kids to use Spots & Stripes, the new range designed for teenagers. GIVING MY SKIN an evenness and radiance with Look Fabulous Forever’s new Light Look Beauty Balm, £30. BURNING the chic and festive Winter Oranges candle by La Montaña, £36 at lamontana.co.uk DECORATING my lashes with subtle shimmer thanks to Clarin’s Gold Mascara Top Coat £22. VISITING Devon’s Bovey Castle for pampering spa treatments, firesides and country walks. 3 NEW BAG-FIGHTING, LINE-ERASING EYE CREAMS • Party essential: La Roche-Posay Hyalu B5 Eyes, £25.50,…

1 week to go LOOKING ROOTY? Seven days is the sweet spot for a pre-party colour appointment, as the dye will have time to settle after a wash or two, but still look super-fresh. While you’re in the salon, why not book in for a KMS Style Primer, £20 – three new five-minute booster treatments that last seven washes and include a takeaway primer to top up at home. Choose from MoistRepair, TameFrizz or AddVolume; kmshair.com GLOW ON Now’s the time to work on skin texture. Fresh Vitamin Nectar Vitamin C Glow Powder, £32 for 12, contains 20% vitamin C, kept at its most potent in powder form. Mix up the sachets, let it tingle for 30 seconds and rinse for noticeable brightness that only gets better with repeat use.…

Charley Williams-Howitt, Group Beauty Director “Estée Lauder’s Modern Muse Nuit is my go-to whenever I want to feel a bit sexy. I’m not a fan of sweet fragrances, preferring masculine scents instead (I have been known to steal my husband’s!). This has a musky waft about it, with an addictive rum accord.” £79 for 50ml, esteelauder.co.uk Fiona McKim, Beauty Editor “Confession: I’ve never had a signature scent. Currently, my main squeeze is Jo Malone Orange Bitters Cologne, a spicy number that reminds me of my favourite cocktail. A limited edition in 2016, it’s back just in time to be my seasonal fling.” £48 for 30ml, jomalone.co.uk Annie Vischer, Beauty Editor “When it comes to scent, I have to be hit by an…

Tis the season to be merry, and us Brits certainly put that into action, with alcohol consumption rising by 41%* over the festive period. And although we know the perpetual popping of Prosecco corks is never going to be “good” for us, it probably won’t stop the majority of us from overindulging. Luckily, there are insider tricks when it comes to selecting your wine, which can be kinder on your body. “A lighter white like Pinot Grigio would be better in terms of lessening any after-affects, than a heavy red such as a Rioja Reserva or a Châteauneuf-du-Pape,” says Neil Palmer, director and co-founder of Vintage Roots (vintageroots.co.uk). “This is not only because it’s likely to be 11.5-12.5% alcohol (compared with 14-15% for those heavier reds), but also due to…

THIS MONTH… Cooking nut-free at Christmas • Oven burns • Festive exhaustion Q I find the run-up to Christmas really tiring. I end up exhausted and irritable, and find myself screaming at my husband or kids. A friend said she got her doctor to prescribe her tranquillisers, but that seems a bit drastic. A We family matriarchs just want Christmas to be lovely for everyone else, and in the process run ourselves into the ground. Tempting as it might be to take a tranquilliser, which a good GP is unlikely to prescribe, it will make you feel very drowsy, especially after alcohol, you won’t be able to concentrate, and you won’t be able to drive. So it’s not the answer. A better solution is to stop being such a perfectionist,…

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ADD TRUFFLE BUTTER TO YOUR TURKEY FOR A LUXURIOUS TWIST Perfect sage, thyme and truffle turkey We recommend you cook an ample turkey to make the most of the leftovers – serving cold turkey on Boxing Day makes life much easier. Serves 8, plus leftovers • Ready in 3hrs 20mins, plus resting 4.5kg free-range turkey 1 onion, cut into wedges 1 lemon, cut into wedges 6 thyme sprigs 6 sage sprigs 40g truffle butter (available from souschef.co.uk ) 8 rashers smoked streaky bacon bay leaves and cooked stu"ng balls, to garnish 1 Upturn the turkey onto a…

“Maps drawn by authors or inspired by authors and accompanied by their insights and explanations of their own bookish journeys” The Writer’s Map edited by Huw Lewis-Jones (Thames & Hudson) A glorious, illustrated gathering of maps from all over the literary world. They are drawn by authors or inspired by authors, and come accompanied by their insights and explanations of their own bookish journeys. This exquisitely crafted atlas is a must for any passionate reader. Infinite Wonder: An Astronaut’s Photographs from a Year in Space by Scott Kelly (Doubleday) NASA astronaut Scott Kelly spent a record-breaking year in space on board the International Space Station, completing 5,440 orbits of the Earth, witnessing 10,944 sunrises and sunsets – that’s 16 a day. During that time, he amassed a collection…

It’s the time of year to embrace the power of pantomimes. The stars are queuing up to appear – with Strictly alumni leading the charge. Shirley Ballas is top of the bill as Mother Nature at the Liverpool Empire theatre’s 3-D Jack and the Beanstalk (14 Dec-5 Jan, atgtickets.com). Meanwhile, Debbie McGee floats into Sleeping Beauty in Wolverhampton (8 Dec-13 Jan, grandtheatre.co.uk). Or catch Shrek the Musical (shrekthemusical.co.uk) on its UK tour, starring Call the Midwife’s Laura Main as Princess Fiona, now until 6 Jan 2019.…

“Although the season of goodwill can be hard work for the women who make it happen, it’s also us that love to uphold the family folklore” It’s always lovely to see new inspiring ideas at Christmas and think about how we can turn our homes into stylish, sparkly grottoes. You’ll find lots of gorgeous festive decorating tips in this issue, and we’ve had adorable children Leyland and Elia, plus the cutest dog ever, Gigi, helping us create the magic. But a recurring theme that kept coming up in the office when we were planning this issue is nostalgia and how much we all love the age-old traditions that make Christmas truly special. And although the season of goodwill can be seriously hard work (not to mention stressful!) for the women…

FEEL-GOOD FASHION Hobbs have teamed up with Key to Freedom to launch an exclusive collection of silk scarves to raise funds for vulnerable women in India. Guilt-free shopping? Count us in. CELEB APPROVED Daytime TV favourite Holly Willoughby has hand-picked her fashion favourites from M&S’s latest drop, ready for you to shop in selected stores and online. The asymmetric check dress is at the top of our winter wish list. EAR CANDY Statement earrings are still a must-have accessory this winter – the bigger the better. Lucky for you, we’ve found a lust-worthy pair to suit every budget. “IT” KNITS Made from merino wool and soft cashmere, look no further than ME+EM for high quality knitwear you’ll be snuggling into for years to come. Jumper, £199, sizes xs-xl; trousers, £199,…

“I LOVE A PRINTED DRESS, FROM FLORAL TO LEOPARD, STRIPES TO SPOTS” 1 DON’T BE AFRAID OF COLOUR Women can be frightened of wearing bold shades. The easiest way to introduce colour is to style up a print with neutral classics like a black polo neck or wide-leg trousers. 2 BLACK HEELED ANKLE BOOTS – you can never have enough. They are super versatile as they can add an edge to a feminine dress or dress up a pair of jeans. 3 GO FAUX Grab yourself a fur-effect jacket. Stores like Asos, H&M, M&S and Zara have really good coats that will add a touch of va-va-voom to an outfit. 4 INVESTMENT DRESSES I love a printed dress, from floral to leopard, stripes to spots. This…

STYLISH friends The hottest must-haves, selected by fashion director Paula Moore BEAUTY babes From blush to brushes, beauty ed Fiona McKim has it covered HOME birds Favourite buys from our homes editor Holly Walsh FABULOUS foodies Feel-good presents chosen by w&h acting food director Jules Mercer MODERN men Creative director Dave Dowding on what to get the man in your life LITTLE ones Executive editor Miranda McMinn’s top picks for kids TRICKY teens Trendy buys that even lifestyle director Jayne Marsden’s Gen Z teens will love STOCKING fillers Fun gift ideas for under £20 by craft editor Esme Clemo…

With the pressure on to put up the most Insta-worthy decs and rustle up a Michelin-standard lunch, it’s not surprising that most us feel more frantic than festive right now. But don’t panic! Follow these tips to have yourself a very merry (and stress-free) Christmas. 1 WHY PLANNING IS CRUCIAL... When there’s a lot to do, the difference between breezing through and panicking is often forward-planning. “Some people even buy their presents in the January sales and wrap them up ready for the following year,” says time management coach Clare Evans. If that’s you, there’s no need to read on, but if the mere thought of Christmas sends you into a panicked frenzy, it’s time to get organised. “First, think about what’s important to you at Christmas, so that…

“Having another child is the best experience. It means more love, more responsibility… and less sleep!” What is your earliest memory? I have such happy memories of my childhood in Burnaby, British Columbia. I remember my dad, who worked as a commercial salmon fisherman, taking me out in his boat. And my beautiful mum, who stayed at home to raise my younger sisters and me, driving around with me in my “little green machine”. Did you have a career plan B? I was close to studying to become a journalist. At 24 years old, I’d been working the nightclubs since I was 16 and record companies kept saying, “You’re a very talented kid, but we just don’t see how this could work commercially.” The funny thing is though, once a…

Dating should be easy and in my twenties it was. Surrounded by friends of both sexes, and meeting new people all the time at parties, clubs, polytechnic and work, I had a constant flow of steady boyfriends that would last about a year each, then the next one would turn up. I met my future husband at my local pub. We got married, had two children and moved to the suburbs. But, like so many marriages, it didn’t last, and I found myself on my own in my mid-forties. At first, I loved it. I assumed that a new man was just around the corner. So I waited for fate to happen. Well, it didn’t. I’m not saying that I didn’t meet anyone, but no long-term potentials. “Every user is…

The time is 9.50pm on Christmas Eve. I am placing carrots and a small brandy by the fireplace next to the stockings, ready for you-know-who and his reindeer, despite the fact that my children are well into their teens. Candles glow on tables and carols are playing softly on the radio. Monopoly and Scrabble tournaments are underway, and we’re tucking into cinnamon eggnog and mince pies. The truth is, we could enjoy spicy milk drinks, play board games and listen to little donkey any time of the year. But we don’t. And why, despite the fact that my children have known for nearly a decade that no one is coming down the chimney, do they insist on the stockings and carrot ritual? According to research, there are huge benefits to…

As a family we always managed to avoid festive disasters. When our dog was seen running towards the woods with a Christmas turkey in his teeth, our turkey was still in the fridge. But a couple of years ago, in my thirties and newly married, I realised it was my turn to host Christmas. I thought I was ready. Sure, no one can deck out a 90-foot tree like my mother, but I wanted to try. I’ve inherited her excesses. Before we were married, I smuggled a whole Iberico ham across London to surprise Sanj because I knew he liked prosciutto. He looked horrified, and clearly had no idea how to house half a pig in his bachelor pad, but I couldn’t have been more pleased with myself. ‘Against all…

We’re not denying that relying on the same fail-safe make-up formula every day takes the stress out of looking less bedraggled and more appropriate to face the world. But hey, it’s Christmas – the party-hopping season – and “appropriate” just won’t cut it. It’s the time of year to be a bit more audacious and step out of your make-up safe zone. Bright lip? Why not! Shimmer? Go forth! Seriously smokey eye? It would be rude not to. The ‘IT’ lip Nothing makes you feel “done” quite like a red lip. A swipe of crimson suggests confidence, glamour and put-together-ness. “Red lipstick expresses an empowering persona of strength,” says Jen Evans of the Lipstick Queen. “You put it on and immediately you feel more confident than you did without it.”…

HELP, I HAVE A SPOT! Don’t panic, and definitely don’t pick. Nothing, bar a cortisone injection, can make a spot disappear, but if it’s one of those scarlet under-the-skin lurkers, nip out and buy a bottle of anti-redness eye drops. These contain ingredients to temporarily shrink blood vessels and will reduce redness around the blemish, making it look smaller and easier to conceal. You’re welcome. SPRAY TAN TIME “An airbrushed tan from a pro gets into the areas of the body that are a constant struggle at home and uses different gradients of pressure to ensure the most natural colour in the right places,” says James Harknett, known as the Tom Ford of spray tanning. “Afterwards you don’t have to hibernate, but avoid anything that could make you perspire. Stick…

Victoria Cator Casablanca, £50, Fortnum & Mason. The perfect addition to your fireside mantel. Matthew Williamson English Garden, £140, Fenwick. A fresh blend of floral notes. Orange and Cedarwood, £20, River Island Home. Invigorate your senses. Lavender & Lillie Grand Canal, Venice, £42, Fortnum & Mason. Ideal for chilly evenings. Mistletoe & Fir, £12.50, M&S. Fill your home with these smells of Christmas. Paddywax Cranberry Rosé, £20, Asos. Fruity, festive and fun! Great for gifting too. Bella Freud Starry Starry Nights, £48, Amara. Rich woody notes smell elegantly Christmassy. Limited Edition Precious Moment, £45, Neom. A calming and uplifting blend of 21 pure essential oils. Winter Fruits, £15, Laura Ashley. Give the gift of festive cheer… or keep for yourself! Honeysuckle & Davana, £47, Jo Malone. Add a little sunshine…

1 LIPS Huda Beauty Liquid Matte in Venus, £18 This formula delivers excellent colour pay-off, is long-wearing and the applicator creates a clean and precise line. Venus is my favourite not-pink, perfect hue. 2 SCENT Jardin d’Amalfi from Creed, £335 I dabble with dozens of scents, but I have one constant that I come back to again and again. My first flacon was a gift following my honeymoon to the Amalfi, it’s my own little Proustian piece of heaven. 3 FACE 3 Dior Prestige Le Cushion Teint De Rose, £72 I often buy two of these at a time so I never run out, and one always lives in my handbag. I also get a bit panicky if I don’t have a packet of tissues and a bag of…

Wine not your thing? With sales having tripled in less than a decade, gin is more popular than ever. Here are our favourites… The one to make you look younger Collagin Rose, £36.99 for 50cl, Ocado. Contains edible skin-boosting collagen. The one your liver will love Ceder’s Wild, £19.99 for 50cl, Sainsbury’s. An alcohol-free pick infused with clove and rooibos, so you won’t miss out on flavour. The one to boost your mood Kyoya Shuzo Premium Yuzu Gin, £68 for 700ml, japancentre.com. Made with vitamin C-rich yuzu fruit and sansho pepper, said to enhance mood and burn fat. w&h…

• Return flights from the UK, taxes and transfers • 14-night river cruise from St Petersburg to Moscow on the luxury Scenic Tsar • Talk and Q&A with Dame Darcey Bussell in St Petersburg including tickets to a ballet performance • All excursions and other expert talks (full details in the itinerary online) • All meals including complimentary beer, wine and soft drinks with on board lunches and dinners • Services of an expert Cruise Director • All transfers, taxes and gratuities…

• Experience shimmering paddy fields, rubber and spice plantations, verdant tea estates, swaying coconut groves and exotic wildlife • Visit the Buddhist monastery of Dambulla and its UNESCO-listed cave temples • Guided tour of the 5th-century Royal Palace and Citadel at Sigiriya Rock • Visit Kandy and see the Temple of the Tooth, said to house Buddha’s tooth, plus visit the Royal Botanical Gardens • Stay in the colonial hill-station of Nuwara Eliya • Visit the Elephant Transit Home at Udawalawe National Park • Enjoy a 4x4 safari in Yala National Park • Spend three nights on one of Sri Lanka’s beaches • Return flights from the UK, plus hotel transfers • Hand-picked three and four-star accommodation, including taxes, with breakfast and dinner included • The services of a tour…

‘My door wreaths are made of natural materials’ Rachel Mitchell, 44, is married with two children. She lives in Chelmsford, Essex, and is the founder of AdoreMyDoor, a company that creates elegant Christmas wreaths using fresh herbs and garden foliage. • THE IDEA I was working as an accountant at PricewaterhouseCoopers, and it’s fair to say I lived and breathed my job – until I fell pregnant in 2005. After giving birth to twin boys, sadly we lost one of our sons, and Seb, who survived, was in hospital for 10 weeks. It was a traumatic time. So when I was offered a four-year career break I took it, but decided not to return after having my daughter. My husband encouraged me to pursue something I had a passion for…

Spiced molasses cake Layer cakes are simple to whip up, but never fail to make a big impact. Serves 12 • Ready in 1hr 20mins 250g unsalted butter, plus extra for greasing 250g light brown soft sugar 100g blackstrap molasses 300ml full-fat milk 350g plain flour ¼tsp ground cloves ¼tsp ground nutmeg 1tsp allspice 2tsp bicarbonate of soda 2 eggs for the icing 180g unsalted butter, softened 375g icing sugar, sifted 180g cream cheese fresh figs and berries, to decorate you will need 2 x 19cm cake tins, greased and lined with baking parchment 1 Heat the oven to 180C/Gas Mark 4. Melt the butter, brown sugar and molasses in a pan over a medium-low heat. Remove from the heat and add the milk. Set aside. 2 Sift the flour,…

NUMBERS GAME Make the countdown to Christmas even more exciting with an Advent calendar filled with treats, like this Susie Watson for Biscuiteers embroidered calendar, £125 (above), biscuiteers.com SPREAD THE JOY Forgo the usual text message or email invite to your Christmas drinks this year, and put pen to paper… Papier has a beautiful range of seasonal invites and notecards especially for sending some love this Christmas. SANTA PAWS You know what they say, a dog is for life, not just for Christmas… So treat your prized pooch to a personalised Christmas Eve box, filled with toys, treats and even a festive bow tie. Guaranteed to give your four-legged friend that warm, fuzzy feeling. LOVE LETTERS Perfect as stocking fillers, I love these alphabet mugs, £16.95 each by Emma Bridgewater.…

TREND 1 Natural rustic Bronze and copper tones mixed with forest green give this simple woodland look a smarter update. Display fresh sprigs of eucalyptus and holly in a trio of different vases in an entrance hall or a cluster of pine cones displayed in a hammered bowl on your coffee table, bringing a touch of the outside in. TREND 2 Pretty vintage A more sophisticated take on a classic theme, pastel pinks are teamed with warm tones of copper and golds rather than icy silvers, where prancing stags take centre stage, creating a magical yet elegant frosted feel. TREND 3 Winter wonderland A snowy look that draws purely on a palette of sparkling silvers and bright whites, it takes inspiration from crisp moonlit nights and glistening snow-covered landscapes, creating…

The best new stories for a gripping read this festive season SMALL-TOWN SECRETS A Keeper by Graham Norton (Hodder) Elizabeth Keane returns to Buncarragh following her mother’s death. Before long she’s unlocking the past. With a dark secret at its heart, the novel moves between the present, where Elizabeth must deal with her missing son, and the time when her mother posted a lonely hearts ad that has terrible consequences. Norton conjures up small-town Ireland with emotion and humour. COMPELLING THRILLER Past Tense by Lee Child (Doubleday) On a whim, Jack Reacher heads to Laconia, his father’s birthplace, to investigate his family history. On a different road not far away, a couple’s car breaks down and they’re forced to put up at a remote motel. These two stories…

The Generous Gardener by Caroline Donald (Pimpernel Press) From Jim Carter and Imelda Staunton to Bob Flowerdew, Jilly Cooper and Dominic West, this gorgeous illustrated book visits private gardens that are nothing short of paradise. Sharing the inspiration and vision behind each one, this is a gardener’s delight. “This gorgeous book visits private gardens that are nothing short of paradise… a gardener’s delight” Island Gardens by Jackie Bennett (White Lion) More than 100 out of over 6,000 islands around Britain are inhabited. The varied locations of island gardens provide many challenges that demand special skills from their gardeners if they are to survive and thrive. Stunning photos make this a perfect gift. Essentially French by Josephine Ryan (Ryland, Peters & Small) A glimpse into the homes of…

Watching... I’m a drama addict. It’s the one good thing about the nights drawing in; the dramas on TV are fantastic for people like me who hate stepping a foot out the door between October and May! I have just finished Succession, which was great, and am hoping Billions comes back on soon. Reading... I’m making my way through Mary Portas’s Work Like a Woman and Viv Groskop’s How to Own the Room. I like books that help me grow. Listening to... I am a huge fan of American podcaster Lewis Howes. He interviews interesting people and I listen on the train, in the gym, while I’m cooking dinner... Eating... My husband Nick and I like to go to The Ivy in Cobham, where they make a mean Espresso Martini!…

When it comes to celebrating the festive season in style, it’s all about choosing flattering separates that’ll up the fab factor without any of the fuss – especially if you’re entertaining friends. This season’s opulent florals, luxe textures and neutral knits evoke a romantic yet laid-back sophistication that’s perfect for a packed Christmas calendar. Delicate details like smocked cuffs and lace trims work alongside vibrant shades for a look that’s both bold and ultra-feminine. Just add subtle touches of sparkle for a fabulously festive finish. JAYNE MARSDEN Lifestyle Director “Sharp, tailored separates work perfectly for the party season, especially when they’re as vibrant as this. Wear with heels and a glittery black camisole for maxium style impact.” CHARLIE MOORE Fashion Editor “Leather-look skirts have become a winter wardrobe essential, and…

THE WRITER SUSIE MCKENNA, 56, is the writer and director of Aladdin at London’s Hackney Empire. She lives in London with her wife, actor Sharon D Clarke. The trick to writing a good panto? Engage the children first, then layer the script to make sure the adults enjoy it too – everyone loves an innuendo! I’ll put in a few gags that are a bit political, before moving on quickly to something for the children – for instance, this year we have a panda character, which kids will love. The trick is not to hang around too long on any one thing. This is my 20th year at the helm of Hackney Empire’s panto, so the pressure is on! Believe me, it certainly doesn’t get any…

You sit there for years, decades even, increasingly irritated that the women showing off clothes for the over 40s are so very, very young, and then, thrillingly, a whole mass of fabulous older models starts to come along, all at once. There was Isabella Rossellini, 66, at Dolce & Gabbana’s recent runway show, ruling the catwalk with her grown-up son and daughter, and baby grandson in tow. Meanwhile, in Paris, Jane Birkin, 71, mesmerised audiences at Gucci. Last year the original Nineties supers – Claudia Schiffer, Naomi Campbell, Helena Christensen, Cindy Crawford and Carla Bruni –posed on the Versace catwalk 25 years on from their debut and every bit as gorgeous; and there’s the increasing prevalence of grey-haired mavens such as Carmen Dell’Orefice, 87, and Jan de Villeneuve, 73, in…

A glittering Christmas celebration Novelist Barbara Taylor Bradford OBE, 85, lives in New York with her husband of more than 50 years, television producer Robert Bradford. Her 1979 novel, A Woman of Substance , ranks as one of the top 10 bestselling novels of all time, and her latest novel, Master of His Fate , is out on 29 November. Bob and I were married on Christmas Eve in 1963, so our wedding anniversary has always coincided with Christmas. And in 1998, after 35 years of marriage, I wanted to throw a party – it felt like the right time to celebrate. There was another reason too. Bob had never had parties as a child. He’d had to stand on his own…

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Traditions and rituals don’t have to involve other people. If you feel overwhelmed by Christmas, take time out to create some just for you… • HAVE A CHRISTMAS MORNING BATH. Make it special by using luxury products, then lie back and relax with a glass of Prosecco. • CREATE A HYGGE CHRISTMAS RITUAL. Lots of candles, quality chocolate, spicy Christmas tea, a soft blanket, warm wool socks, a page-turner, or a notebook and pen to jot down thoughts, or a photo album for a nostalgic flick through. • LIGHT A CANDLE and meditate or do some Christmas yoga poses – elf walk, reindeer pose, sleigh pose, star pose and some ho-ho-ho breathing. See pinkoatmeal.com for more ideas.…

There’s one question the beauty team always gets asked. Is the Dyson hairdryer really worth the hype? Truthfully? Yes! Not only does it dry and style your hair faster than a speeding bullet, it also leaves your locks pleasingly shiny and sleek (without any arm ache thanks to its lightweight design). If you weren’t tempted when it was launched two years ago, then this seriously lust-worthy version of the supersonic dryer is bound to appeal. Skilled craftspeople apply two layers of gold leaf over the cap of the dryer, and finish each 23.75-karat gold model by hand. The cost for this thing of beauty? An eye-watering £399.99. But when you consider the original version was £299.99, we’re definitely going for gold. Put it on your Christmas list pronto and bring…

Special occasions call for special hair, right? But often all that effort (and if you’re going to the salon – expense) leaves us with tired, stiff hair instead. Whereas what we really want is Cate Blanchett’s effortless waves, yet we somehow end up with astronaut’s wife circa 1960. An ageing look that’s both over-styled and overblown. As a beauty editor and beneficiary of a million styles over the years, I’ve learnt that the trick is not to get too fixed on “special” hair. If it’s overworked, it won’t look modern – it’s that simple. Keep the “special” element to investing in luxe products and taking your time over it rather than going for an elaborate style. “Don’t overcomplicate it,” agrees Kiki Koh, creative director of John Frieda’s Aldford St salon…

THE FINAL BLOW Nothing says party time like a freshly done “do”, and these days you needn’t even change out of your dressing gown to get one, thanks to mobile beauty apps. In London, Manchester and Birmingham, I love Blow Ltd for their 7am-9pm appointment times and easy menu to pick from. Nationwide, treatwell.co.uk is a useful resource for booking local mobile stylists. TIRED EYES? Avon Anew Platinum Instant Eye Smoother, £14 , is an unbelievably effective (albeit temporary) undereye tightener. It works by creating an imperceptible film that essentially “shrink-wraps” skin into a perkier state. Just pat it on as a final step over make-up – but don’t rub it in or it’ll pill. HANDY HINT As chief cocktail holders, your hands are often centre stage in party photos…

Here’s a loaded question: what does ageing mean to you? From a beauty perspective, it’s fair to say getting older has suffered from a bit of an image problem, being seen as an enemy to employ all your might to avoid. But what if there was a different way? There’s no denying the green shoots of change that are breaking through, from grown-up faces in beauty campaigns to the renaissance of Cindy, Christy and co on the catwalk. Now is the time for us to step forward, share our stories and inspire one another to live our very best lives, inside and out. Join the #AgeWellRevolution After discovering that 70 per cent of women in their 40s and 50s feel largely ignored by the media*, Neal’s Yard Remedies decided to…

From delicious goji berries to unpronounceable superfood powders, we’re always being encouraged to stock up on a new must-buy product to boost our health, but your spice rack could be harbouring just as many – if not more – of these benefits, from better ageing to oral health. Cinnamon From a cinnamon stick in a jug of mulled wine to a sprinkling of powder on a cake, this well-loved spice needs to remain a key player in your Christmas cooking. Why? “Cinnamon is thought to help lower blood sugar levels by interfering with certain digestive enzymes that breakdown carbohydrates in the digestive tract,” says nutritionist Rob Hobson. Studies also claim that it may have beneficial effects on blood markers in those with type 2 diabetes. Cinnamon is also loaded with…

Fed up of the post-festive guilt, but don’t want to deprive yourself? We’ve worked out how to make Christmas both happy and healthy – just stick to the portion sizes and smart swaps below. Cranberry sauce Make your own and swap sugar for a little honey or a sweetener. One portion = 2tsp Sausages in bacon Try low-fat sausages in bacon with the fat trimmed. Better still, switch the sausages for vegetarian ones. One portion = two sausages Brussels sprouts Steam sprouts rather than frying to retain their nutrients. Swap bacon and butter for lemon zest or fresh herbs. One portion = 180g Turkey Prick the meat before cooking so fat can drain, remove the skin after, and go for lower-calorie breast meat. One portion = 200g (about fist-size) Stuffing…

THE ICEHOTEL, SWEDEN Spend a chilled few days in one of the world’s most remarkable hotels, made every year from over 1,000 tonnes of ice; discover-the-world.co.uk/icehotel FOUR SEASONS FAIRWAYS, PORTUGAL Golfing fans will love this beautifully renovated hotel in the heart of the Algarve, which features 136 slickly-designed villas, some with their own private pool; fourseaonsfairways.com HOTEL THEODUL, AUSTRIA The charming town of Lech is one of the finest ski resorts in Europe; stay in one of 29 spacious en-suite bedrooms with balcony overlooking the spectacular mountainside scenery; vip-chalets.com THE MUSE, SEMINYAK, BALI Stay in a beautiful four-bedroom villa, complete with rooftop infinity pool, set close to one of Bali’s most bustling resorts, and the beach; themusevilla.com…

Although just a short ferry ride off the coast of Cornwall, the beautiful, unspoilt Isles of Scilly feel like another world – with only 2,000 people living on the five inhabited islands. Thanks to the Scillies’ unique geography, there’s a wonderful array of flora and fauna. More than 400 varieties of seabirds, waders and migrants can be spotted throughout the year. Spring is when birds in song display brightly coloured breeding plumage, while April also sees the arrival of breeding puffins. The coastlines will be awash with alliums, wild primroses and sea thrift, and there’ll also be the chance to spot rare plants such as orange bird’s foot and dwarf pansy. Once again, on this exclusive tour, you’ll be staying at the St Mary’s Hall Hotel on St Mary’s, visit…

From the lush green vineyards of Burgundy to the sun-kissed hills of Provence and the wild ruggedness of the Ardèche Gorges to the medieval allure of Avignon – on this truly enthralling cruise, every day is full of fascination. We start in France’s gastronomic capital and explore the beautiful Saône and Rhône rivers, the preferred route of traders and invaders alike since the dawn of recorded history. Everywhere there are reminders of the Romans and the greatest empire of the ancient world. You will be amazed by the engineering genius of the staggering amphitheatre at Arles, and the huge aqueduct at the Pont du Gard. Avignon was the seat of the Papacy during medieval times, heralding a century of greatness crowned by the absorbing Papal Palace and its stunning renaissance…

1 PLAN AHEAD Think about how many people you need to feed. Then write a shopping list with enough for everyone invited, rather than trying to feed an entire army. Remember most shops only shut for a single day, so you don’t need more stock than a supermarket! 2 SAVE ON STOCKINGS Include fancier versions of things kids need anyway, like character toothbrushes and cartoon socks. 3 FOCUS ON TIME TOGETHER Children (even quite big ones) often appreciate your attention rather than a boat-load of expensive activities. Think decorating the tree together, baking Christmas biscuits or playing board games. 4 MAKE YOUR OWN WREATH Check out tutorials on YouTube, then get handy with a coat hanger, conifer branches, holly, ribbon and a few baubles. 5 GET MORE FOR LESS Check…

Whipped herby feta dip with pickled carrots Tired of houmous? Give this dip a go. Serves 10 • Ready in 20mins, plus marinating for the pickle 90g caster sugar 125ml white wine vinegar 3tbsp red wine vinegar 1tsp coriander seeds 2tsp salt 1 small bunch of fresh dill 400g rainbow or plain baby carrots, peeled for the whipped feta 250g feta 75ml whole milk 125ml Greek yogurt zest and juice of ½ lemon 1tsp za’atar, plus extra to sprinkle 1 bunch chopped fresh parsley or basil 1tbsp olive oil, to serve 1 Put the pickle ingredients in a large pan with 200ml water. Heat to dissolve the sugar. Add the carrots and bring to a boil. Cook for 2-3mins, then remove from the heat. Leave the carrots to cool in…

Lobster and prawn rösti pie You can make this pie in advance and freeze ahead – simply assemble the pie and freeze before baking. Defrost overnight in the fridge and bake. Serves 6 • Ready in 1hr 30mins 6 large potatoes 50g butter melted for the filling 50g butter 50g plain flour 1tsp English mustard 1tbsp sundried tomato paste 200ml milk 200ml fish stock 150ml double cream 50g mature Cheddar cheese, grated 250g spinach 400g raw tiger prawns, peeled 2 lobster tails, shelled and thickly sliced 200g baby scallops 1 Heat the oven to 200C/Gas Mark 6. Put the unpeeled potatoes for the topping in a pan of cold water, bring to the boil and cook for 10mins until starting to soften at the edges. Drain and set aside. 2…

If pastel pinks are a little too girly for your scheme, introduce hints of blush and champagne in the form of wrapping, ribbons, scatter cushions and throws >> This look works well if your home is already decorated in neutral tones, but if you feel it’s looking washed out in places, swap pale silvers for darker steel or pewter shades to create depth Fresh flowers and berries will add an extra level of richness to this look – choose deep red roses, fresh green foliage and even poinsettia…

Bloody Brilliant Women by Cathy Newman (William Collins) The Channel 4 News presenter celebrates the women who transformed 20th-century Britain, many of whom never made it into the history books, bringing them out of obscurity and lauding their impressive achievements. Using memoirs, diaries, letters and other research, Newman shines a spotlight on wartime revolutionaries, scientists, politicians, businesswomen and more, showing the prejudices and obstacles they had to overcome. Everyone should read this! Becoming by Michelle Obama (Viking) In her memoir, the former First Lady of the United States of America chronicles the trajectory of her life, from her upbringing on the South Side of Chicago to her time as an executive juggling the demands of motherhood and work, and then her years living at the White House. A…

Prue by Prue Leith (Bluebird) The first cookery book from Prue Leith in 25 years celebrates her passion for food and the favourite dishes she has cooked for family and friends. From quick suppers to dinner-party dazzlers, this is a book no kitchen should be without. Asma’s Indian Kitchen by Asma Khan (Pavilion) Asma Khan, from the Darjeeling Express restaurant, brings home-cooked Indian meals conjured from traditional family recipes. This is a celebration of heritage and culture that makes a feast out of every meal. Modern Baking by Donna Hay (Fourth Estate) Chocolate; caramel, toffee and coffee; sugar and spice; fruit and berries; and milk and cream are the sections that are each split into – essential, quick fix and fresh and light. This is a book…

Death and Nightingales Jamie Dornan stars in this three-part drama set in Co Fermanagh in 1885. Beth Winters (Ann Skelly) escapes her troubled relationship with her stepfather, landowner Billy (Matthew Rhys), but it leads to a terrifying climax. BBC Two I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out of Here! This Morning presenter Holly Willoughby will be joining Declan Donnelly in the jungle this series. Will she have the stomach for watching celebs munch on kangaroo private parts? ITV My Dinner With Hervé This follows the real life of French dwarf actor Hervé Villechaize (Game of Thrones’ Peter Dinklage). Hervé ended up taking his own life aged 50. Jamie Dornan co-stars. Sky Atlantic Doing Money In this gritty one-off drama Allen Leech (Downton Abbey’s Tom Branson) plays detective Dougie Grant in a harrowing…

Homecoming Julia Roberts stars in this psychological thriller, playing Heidi Bergman, a caseworker who helps soldiers such as Walter (Stephan James) transition back to civilian life. Amazon Prime The Sinner In season 2 Bill Pullman returns as Detective Harry Ambrose tasked with investigating a sinister new murder case when an 11-year-old boy, without any apparent motive, kills his parents. Netflix The Kominsky Method Michael Douglas stars as an ageing actor who’s now a Hollywood acting coach in this new comedy written by Chuck Lorre, creator of Two and a Half Men. Netflix…

• For inspiring music in beautiful churches, catch The Brandenburg Choral Festival of London, with concerts in its autumn series running until 24 November (brandenburg.org.uk). • Remember the Oscar-winning film Shakespeare in Love? Enjoy this new production of the stage version, touring UK theatres until 24 November (theatreroyal.org.uk, atgtickets.com). • Oceania at the Royal Academy runs until 10 December and offers an incredible overview of South Pacific art, marking 250 years since Cook’s first voyage (royalacademy.org.uk).…

Star sign of the month SAGITTARIUS 23 NOveMber – 22 DeceMber  The weekend starting 7th December is a brilliant time to steer an important situation in the direction you want. Plans and actions you start now stand a better than usual chance of success. The MONTHS AHEAD  Your lucky ruler Jupiter is in your sign right through the coming year, meaning you’re on a once-every-12-years’ high. Opportunities to expand your horizons appear. call 0905 789 4158* and choose to hear weekly and monthly updates. CAPRICORN 23 DECEMBER – 19 JANUARY From the minute your birthday month starts on the 22nd, relationships are full-on. Ongoing partnerships see situations good and bad come to a head. Call 0905 789 4159* and choose to hear weekly and monthly updates. AQUARIUS 20 JANUARY –…

Anton lives in Buckinghamshire with his wife, Hannah Summers. They welcomed twins, George and Henrietta, in March 2017. My rise to fame… When the BBC came along and said “We’re doing this show called Strictly Come Dancing and we need some professional dancers”, I was sceptical, and I know a lot of the other dancers they approached were too. Dancing had moved on a lot since the old days of Come Dancing [the BBC show that ran from 1950 to 1998], and we were worried that wouldn’t be reflected in this show. How wrong we were! In fact, it was such a hit they did two series in the first year. My favourite Strictly moments… I have some incredible memories, from my first waltz with Lesley…