Why do we have so many words for parties, a slewof them once you start looking: shindig, bash,meet-and-greets, raves, blowouts, barbecues,and more tepid functions, receptions, luncheons, and do’sof all kinds, though, let’s face it, most people have no clueabout how to throw a party, like the friend who was complainingbecause her husband wanted to have lots of food at the brunchthey were planning, but she knew people didn’t goto parties to eat, and Marsha and I had to break it to herthat brunch was the combination of two meals,so her guests were expecting to eat double, and you can’t believethe shock on her face, but her husband put out a great spreadand everyone ate and talked, though we’ve all been to those partieswith the bowl of dead chips and the…