Early in production on season one of Love on the Spectrum in the U.S., we were filming at Abbey’s house in L.A. Abbey (we use only first names on the show), an autistic woman living at home with her mom, Christine, was 23 at the time, and Christine was talking to me about some of her fears for Abbey’s future, when she as a mom may not be around anymore. She pictured Abbey being seen by others as a weird, “crazy” lady — walking along talking to herself, singing loudly in public, someone people would cross the street to avoid. Her concerns that people wouldn’t understand her uniqueness are valid; we live in a society where we tend to turn away from, avoid and judge without basis what we don’t…