Lady Fitzalan Howard married Lord Gerald in 1990, and in 1991 when their first child was only a few months old, they moved to the Fitzalan Howard family seat, Carlton Towers in Yorkshire. As it had lain empty for 20 years, the couple had to undertake an enormous restoration job, something Emma – as she likes to be called – admits to initially finding “very daunting”. Today, the magnificent house hosts more than 70 weddings a year and also has a cookery school, Cooks. Lord and Lady Gerald Fitzalan Howard live in a wing of the house with their three children, Arthur, 25, Flossy, 23, and Grace, 22, and their three dogs.
How would you describe Carlton Towers?
I always use the French term jolie laide when describing the house…
