Innholdsfortegnelse for Edition 1.3 i TGT The Girls Times

In today’s emotionally complex world, many young women find themselves entangled in relationships that begin with affection but end in deep emotional scars. Too often, society labels these women as “weak” for having fallen into the trap of emotional manipulation. But the reality is far more painful—these women weren’t weak; they were lied to. Manipulation in relationships frequently wears the mask of love, and many girls unknowingly walk into emotional traps disguised as connection. This article sheds light on how manipulation and deceit infiltrate relationships, often leaving victims emotionally, mentally, and sometimes physically exploited. When Love Is a Mask: The Beginning of Emotional Deceit Manipulative relationships rarely start with obvious red flags. In fact, they often begin with overwhelming attention, charm, and gestures that seem sweet and sincere. A girl…

In a world where love is romanticized and boundaries are rarely discussed, many girls find themselves in situations they never anticipated—used, discarded, and left to deal with the emotional wreckage alone. The topic of physical misuse in relationships is often brushed aside or hidden under shame, judgment, and silence. But the harsh truth is this: being physically used is not just about what happens in a moment—it’s about the emotional manipulation, the betrayal of trust, and the long-lasting psychological impact it leaves behind. This article explores the painful reality of being physically used in relationships, why it happens, how society reacts, and most importantly, how healing is possible. There is no space here for victim-blaming—only understanding, awareness, and empowerment. How Physical Intimacy Is Misused In a healthy relationship, physical intimacy…

In a world where love is romanticized but rarely explained, many girls grow up believing that giving their body is part of proving their heart. Whether in conversations with friends, social media portrayals of relationships, or even casual romantic advice—one message keeps echoing: "If you really love him, show it." This expectation is not just toxic—it’s deeply harmful. It turns a girl’s body into a bargaining chip in the game of love, instead of treating it as a sacred, autonomous space deserving of full respect and consent. This article dives into the painful but essential topic of physical coercion disguised as affection, emotional manipulation around consent, and why educating girls—and boys—about body autonomy is a necessary step toward true emotional safety. What Does Coercion Look Like in Relationships? Coercion doesn’t…

Silence is often mistaken for strength. A girl who doesn’t complain is seen as “mature.” A girl who swallows her tears is called “strong.” But in truth, silence is often the heavy armor worn by those who have been told that their voice is a burden. Across households, schools, and societies, countless girls are taught—directly or indirectly—to stay silent. Whether it’s about abuse, harassment, or toxic family dynamics, they are trained to endure, not to express. This article explores how silence, when forced, is not a symbol of strength but a cost paid in mental peace, emotional health, and often, self-worth. The Culture of Silence in Households From a young age, many girls are told to “adjust,” to “not talk back,” and to “keep family matters private.” These instructions, though…

"You're not like other girls." At first, it feels special—like a compliment carved out just for you. He says it with a smile, maybe a little laugh, maybe in awe. And you glow, because who wouldn’t want to be the exception? But hidden inside that flattering sentence is a message far more dangerous than it appears. This article breaks down why this statement—so common in modern relationships—is actually a red flag. We’ll explore how it separates you from other girls, reinforces toxic ideas about womanhood, and is often a manipulation tactic that chips away at your self-worth and connection to other women. This isn’t just about words; it’s about control masked as charm. What Sounds Like Praise Might Be Prejudice “Not like other girls” is a statement built on comparison.…

Sia had always believed in the idea of love that was deep and meaningful, the kind that was depicted in movies and novels. She imagined love to be a strong bond built on trust, respect, and shared dreams. But her world had turned upside down the moment she met Rahul. He was charming, unpredictable, and unlike anyone she'd ever encountered. Sia’s heart raced every time he smiled, and she was swept up in the intensity of his attention. The good guys, who had been there for her all along, seemed too dull in comparison. Rahul was different; he was the thrill she had been craving. In the beginning, it felt like a dream. Rahul was a bad boy—carefree, confident, and full of adventure. He had this way of making everything…

At first, it feels like love. He wants to know where you are, who you're with, if you've eaten. He texts “good morning” and “good night” every single day. He compliments your smile, your mind, your laughter. He says you’re different from other girls. He wants to be around you all the time. You feel wanted—chosen—important. But slowly, something shifts. The questions become rules. The attention feels like surveillance. The concern begins to suffocate. The “love” that once made your heart race now makes it heavy. You start changing small parts of yourself just to keep the peace. You don’t talk to certain friends. You stop wearing what you like. You hide parts of your personality. You think you’re in love, but you’re really being managed. This article is about…

Home is supposed to be a sanctuary—a place of warmth, acceptance, and protection. It’s where we are meant to feel most ourselves. But for many girls, home is the opposite. It’s a place filled with fear, silence, and wounds that never fully heal. The world sees the smiles, the grades, the appearances—but behind closed doors, some girls are just trying to survive each day. This article explores the difficult journey of growing up in emotionally or physically abusive homes. We dive into the silent suffering of girls who are taught not to speak, the long-term trauma such environments create, and how those early experiences shape every part of their lives—from self-worth and identity to the relationships they build as adults. The Hidden Scars of an Unsafe Home Not all abuse…