Silence is often mistaken for strength. A girl who doesn’t complain is seen as “mature.” A girl who swallows her tears is called “strong.” But in truth, silence is often the heavy armor worn by those who have been told that their voice is a burden. Across households, schools, and societies, countless girls are taught—directly or indirectly—to stay silent. Whether it’s about abuse, harassment, or toxic family dynamics, they are trained to endure, not to express. This article explores how silence, when forced, is not a symbol of strength but a cost paid in mental peace, emotional health, and often, self-worth.
The Culture of Silence in Households
From a young age, many girls are told to “adjust,” to “not talk back,” and to “keep family matters private.” These instructions, though…
