HERE I was on a date when my date looked me in the eye, and said: ‘I have never been with a woman with a disability, therefore, I don’t know how to treat you. Please teach me to treat you the way I should’.
I bet you would like to know my response, and what happened to us. Askies, I am not going to say, because that is not the point of this article. I welcome and appreciate those honest questions, and generally welcome the sometimes uncomfortable conversations. Especially when they are about how people should interact with me.
Do I get upset, hurt, disappointed, offended, and cry sometimes? Definitely, yes.
Emotions are what makes us human, hence it is very dehumanising when people think they have a right to…