I have several women in my life: my spouse, mother, siblings, friends, sisters in Christ. The more I engage with them at a personal and emotional level, the more I realise there are many things we, as men, fail to understand.
Among those are three impacts that result from our actions. In dealing with these three impacts, I need to tread softly, take off my shoes, as this is a serious and sensitive matter. Few men, if any, can be exempted on these issues.
The first impact is the impact of cheating. A woman can be cheated on many times, yet the impact is the same. We can cheaply say she is used to it, but the embarrassment of the last incident equates to the embarrassment of the first.
The…