In October 2012, Midshipman Abdussalaam Kako, wearing his summer white uniform, stepped inside a Boys & Girls Club in Annapolis, Md. A volunteer with the nearby U.S. Naval Academy's Midshipman Action Group, Kako had chosen to teach marine science in the club's mentoring program. "I was visiting for the first time," Kako, 20, says. "I looked around and saw the kids staring at me."
Todd Womack, now 10, broke the ice. "He came up to me and said, 'Hey, who are you?'" Kako recalls.
Kako is the son of a Kurdish Iraqi who, while in Saddam Hussein's army, plotted to oust the tyrant in the late '90s. After Hussein found out, Kako's family gained asylum in the United States, settling in Memphis. His father returned to Iraq in 2003, when…