SINGLE WOMEN AND LGBTQ+ COUPLES are increasingly pursuing pregnancy via known donors—people they find on the internet, in Facebook groups and through dating-like apps. In her own quest to become a solo mother by choice, investigative journalist Valerie Bauman has spent the past four years embedded in the world of freelance sperm donation, attempting to get pregnant. Along the way, she interviewed dozens of donors, recipients, donor-conceived people and relevant experts. She learned that freelance sperm donation thrives in a corner of the online world where women’s dreams come true: Many find decent men who will get them pregnant for little-to-no-cost. It’s also a place where men go for easy sex.
Either way, more Americans are turning to this world to build their own unconventional families, whether driven by cost,…