Reese Witherspoon, 49, actor, entrepreneur, producer
When I’m making friends, I have to be brave and being brave is just jumping. I imagine myself as a little kid jumping two feet into a cold pool. Once you get in there, it’s not as cold as you thought it would be.
Dr Brené Brown, 59, author, research professor
Fitting in is about assessing a situation and becoming who you need to be to be accepted. Belonging, on the other hand, doesn’t require us to change who we are – it requires us to be who we are.
Melissa McCarthy, 54, screenwriter, producer, actor
I love to throw a loud, aggressive compliment. I yell things at people a bunch, like, “You’re doing great!” or, “You look terrific!” I’ll roll down the window…
