Innholdsfortegnelse for Issue 37, 2023 i New Zealand Woman's Weekly

Royal rider Zara Tindall was hot to trot as she showed off her expert equestrian skills to her family at the Wellington International Horse Trials in the Hampshire village of Heckfield in the UK. The Olympic medallist, 42, competed in the dressage and jumping trials at the three-day county fair, while former rugby player husband Mike, 44, tackled the parenting duties. Two-year-old Lucas kept a close watch on Mum’s riding skills from Daddy’s shoulder sporting a white t-shirt and cute shorts as he held on to Dad’s baseball cap. The fun day out was a hit for the whole family, with Lucas joining his sisters Mia, nine, and five-year-old Lena, to enjoy a different kind of ride from their mother’s horseback version in the fair’s giant teacups. After all the…

Lottie Moss has opened up about her testy relationship with her fashion icon half-sister Kate Moss. There’s a 24-year age gap between the pair – who share the same father – and former Vogue model Lottie, 25, says despite expectations, they aren’t close. “I’ve felt quite abandoned by my sister and we’ve not had a very good relationship for quite a few years,” shares Lottie, who’s currently starring in British reality show Celebs Go Dating. It’s not the first time Lottie has spoken publicly about the rift between herself and Kate, 49, who shot to supermodel stardom in the early ’90s. Earlier last month, Lottie also revealed, “Me and my sister have never been close. When I was younger, I couldn’t understand it. I thought, ‘Why is someone in my…

She was Monarch for so long that when the Queen died a year ago, many people struggled to imagine what life would be like without Her Majesty on the throne. Her son, now King Charles III, stepped into the role that has been his destiny since he was born, and the transition from one sovereign to the next has been relatively seamless. But while we now have a new Monarch who is determined to do things his way, the legacy of Elizabeth II lives on. Epitomising “keep calm and carry on”, she adapted to massive changes during her incredible 70year reign with great dignity, setting an example for future generations of British royalty to follow. The world was a very different place when Elizabeth came to the throne in 1952.…

‘I just can’t do retirement … I’ve got to have a project’ Deborah Coddington took the 10-day trial version of retirement and found that aimlessly rearranging the furniture wasn’t for her. So at 70, with a life that’s revolved around words, the award-winning journalist, author and former Act MP decided she needed a new challenge for her creative spirit. Deborah’s recently set up a small niche publishing company called Ugly Hill Press – named for the country road she grew up on in Hawke’s Bay – in a move that’s more about coming full circle than it is starting a new chapter. After selling The Martinborough Bookshop (the first to open in the historical Wairarapa town), she has returned to publishing after working in the industry in the 1980s, and…

COCKTAIL CHIC Cocktail events suit midi-length dresses or a statement jumpsuit. This metallic silver item is an investment piece that will work for many events. Pair with a cropped tailored blazer and tasteful crystal embellished accessories. DRESSY CASUAL Dressy casual allows for below-the-knee dresses, skirt-and-top combos and even an elegant trouser suit. This satin one-shoulder blouse and wideleg trouser combo in dark khaki looks great paired with lilac metallic accessories. BEACH STYLE The event will be more laid-back because of its location. Try sundresses, summery patterns and prints with dressy sandals or wedges. This oversized pattern dress is made from a breathable airy weave. Add a stylish sun hat and peach-and-bone coloured accessories. FORMAL OCCASION Formal is fabulous! This shimmering plisse-tiered dress with sheer blouson sleeves flatters all body shapes.…

Not to put a damper on your nuptials, but when people choose to remarry without addressing what went wrong in a previous marriage or partnership, unhealthy relationship patterns can unknowingly arise – as can trust issues. Everyone has baggage and sometimes it can cause couples to rush into tying the knot a second time without truly getting to know each other. Marriage a second time around will not be like the first. Often, the establishment of a blended family will need to be taken into consideration, as you may both have children, and it’s likely there will also be ex-partner relationships to take into account. With these considerations alone, a foundation of trust and intimacy will be vital to a successful marriage. Everyone gains when entering marriage in a thoughtful,…

I’d always thought a little antique gold ball among my family keepsakes had once been part of an elaborate necklace or bracelet. But I recently photographed it and zoomed in for a closer look. To my surprise and delight, it turned out to be a tiny 2.5cm gold rugby ball. On it is engraved: 7 ASide 3-6-15 L PDonohue 2nd Grade. The L PDonohue referred to is my late great-uncle Laurence Donohue. When he received that award, he was a month short of his 19th birthday. He was better known by his nickname “Tiny”, to distinguish him from his identical twin Leo, named “Jum” (Jumbo). Maybe Laurence looked a touch shorter, though they were both tall boys. They were also talented athletes, very handsome and the much-loved “babies” in a…

Letters to the Editor MEMORIES TO SHARE ● Winning letter I really enjoyed Kerre Woodham’s article about gifting her mum a ticket to an Abba tribute show for her 86th birthday (NZWW, August 28). Live concerts and shows have always been a real joy in my life, and at 76 years young, I still love them. My family’s given me tickets for Christmas and birthday presents, and one, which was a very special time, was a ticket to see Adele for my 70th birthday – and the added bonus was my granddaughter came along with us. We also shared a Fleetwood Mac concert – so special for three generations to have the same love of music and now I have a 19-monthold great-grandson who is already showing a love of…

I had the privilege of emceeing the most wonderful charity fundraiser last Saturday – actually, I’ve emceed some marvellous charity fundraisers over the years. I’m always in awe of people who have the talent and time to raise hundreds of thousands of dollars for the good of others. But this is a charitable organisation that doesn’t get a lot of attention – and it should. It’s called KiwiHarvest Collective, and collects food that would otherwise rot on the ground or go to landfills, and then distributes it to more than 200 charities that feed needy Kiwis. It’s food collected from supermarkets, wholesalers, producers, cafés, restaurants and hotels that they aren’t able to sell by the best-before date. KiwiHarvest collects around 170,000 to 200,000kg of food every month – and then…

Paris Hilton celebrated National Dog Day as only she can – with a social media photo dump of herself with a bundle of her furry friends. The socialite, I am Paris podcaster and mum to nine-month-old baby boy Phoenix Barron Hilton Reum, is well known for adoring her pooches – she owns a luxury two-storey mansion with sweeping views of Los Angeles just for her four-legged friends. The star’s dogs over the years have included chihuahuas Prada, Peter Pan, Dolce and Tinkerbell – who was immortalised in a digital art collection when she died in 2014 – and Prince Tokyo Gizmo; seven Pomeranians called Princess Paris Jr., Prince Hilton, Marilyn Monroe, Baby Bear, Baby Luv, Crypto Hilton and Ether Reum; a pug called Mugsy, a mini pinscher called Dollar and…

September 11, 2023 There is something very special about women and intergenerational bonds. Through shared experiences, values and wisdom, we learn from and support each other. And you can see how true this is in this week’s cover story with Wendy Petrie, her mum Carole and her daughters Addie and Liv. Their love shines through in both the words and pictures as they tell of how Wendy will soon have both daughters on a scholarship at  American colleges. It’s going to be very different for the presenter with only her son still living at home. But as Wendy says, you can’t be sad when they’re so happy and achieving so much. It naturally made me think of my two grandmothers, Hilda and Betty, and the treasured times I had with…

THE HOST DUNCAN HEYDE You may know him as the cheerful co-host of The Rock Drive and podcast Renovation Nation, but before Duncan Heyde made his name in the media industry, he worked as a bricklayer, which is perhaps where he gets his handy DIY skills from. “I have just built a 40-metre square deck at home, turning an unusable space into our main outdoor living area,” Duncan says of his most recent project, which has now become his favourite space at home. “My parents did a lot of renovating when I was growing up and without realising it, I was probably learning by osmosis!” he says, admitting his interior design skills may still need some brushing up. From hosting the series, Duncan has learned how quickly something can be…

It’s jokingly been said there are two things needed for a long marriage: a thick skin and a short memory. Worldwide, fewer than five percent of all marriages last 50 years, with a much smaller number surviving 60 years. The Weekly speaks to three devoted Kiwi couples who have been married 60, 65 and yes, even 70 years, and discovers it’s the small daily acts of devotion that count towards lasting love. Rex & Valerie Cowley When Rex Cowley spotted Valerie Harris across an Auckland dance hall in 1949, he thought to himself, “She’s a bit of all right” and immediately wanted the next dance with her. But Val, as she’s known, was only 17 and had come to Ye Olde Pirate Ship – a two-storey dance hall in Milford…

It’s safe to say everyone wants to look like the best version of themselves on their wedding day, but that doesn’t mean you can’t dabble in a few trending beauty looks (and – dare I say it – have a little fun!). Whether you’re a barefaced backyard bride with two make-up products to your name, a bronzed goddess getting hitched on a beach, or someone who has been dreaming of an enchanted garden wedding since a child, bridal make-up is completely personal – but there are a few standout trends that just may help with your wedding day plans. A FRESH START A soft-focus foundation is a non-negotiable in almost every bride’s make-up arsenal, immediately lending the appearance of healthy, fresh-looking skin. Stick to demi-matte or satin finish foundations for…

Theme queen Choose a theme that suits the occasion, then use it as a guide when it comes to your decorative elements. For example, a vintage theme creates a nostalgic and charming atmosphere, with decor elements like vintage furniture, lace tablecloths, antique China and old-fashioned games, while hay bale seating, lanterns and picnic-style fare will create a rustic, laid-back atmosphere. For a sophisticated look, opt for crisp white tablecloths, a neutral colour palette and an abundance of fresh greenery. Layout love Make sure your area is the right size for your gathering. Before the big day, set out the furniture as it will look on the day or night so that you get a sense of space. Rent tables, chairs, linens and other necessary furniture if hosting larger groups, and…

Back when I was a kid, the greatest fashion crime was to turn up somewhere overdressed. Maybe it was a small-town thing and people were doing something different in the cities, but heaven help you round our way if you strolled about the annual A&P show looking fancy. I made that mistake once and still require therapy to unpack all the feelings. (I’m happy to share in case any of this resonates with you.) I would have been 11, I guess, that tricky age between childhood and teens. There weren’t a lot of big events on our local calendar, so a day out at the showgrounds was much anticipated. There would be sheep shearing, wood chopping, prizes for pet calves and sponge cakes, plus the chance to win a frozen…

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For some women, being part of the “sandwich generation” – where you have a hectic life of your own, and both your children and your parents depend on you – can be tough. With teenage kids, a mum about to turn 80 and a busy workload that includes emceeing events, as well as being a fill-in newsreader on TVNZ, Wendy Petrie could easily be part of that demographic. But she counts herself very fortunate that her family are all very independent. “I know it’s difficult for some people, but I feel very lucky – my kids are all very capable of doing their own thing, especially my girls, and my mum is still really active. In fact, she’s still doing so much to help me.” Just the week before Wendy,…

When a bright pink, all-woman motorbike gang was planned for The Brokenwood Mysteries, nobody was more excited than Kathryn Burnett. As a screenwriter, creating dynamic female characters has always been her forte and the opportunity to write the script for the glamorous girl gang, Mama’s Angels, was a dream come true. “I seem to have, purely by luck or good fortune, ended up writing on shows that have strong female leads, which I just love,” smiles Kathryn. “I find it quite galling when there’s pressure to make a character nice for no reason other than that they’re female. Ladies are flawed and complex, and I think the characters we create should reflect that.” So, when Brokenwood producer Tim Balme first contacted Kathryn last year to discuss writing Mama’s Angels into…

1 LET GO OF TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS Friendships are a vital ingredient for happiness and often help us feel better – but not always. Sometimes we can fall into the trap of hanging onto unhealthy relationships because they’re familiar. However, unbalanced alliances seldom work and often result in someone being constantly let down. If you’re the one putting in all the work, psychologist Clare Mann says it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship. “What you get out of your friendships ultimately affects your physical and emotional health, so it pays to focus your attention on strengthening healthy relationships and letting go of toxic friends,” she advises. 2 USE YOUR SENSES Take note of life’s simple, little pleasures and savour each moment. Take time to smell your shower gel, give your head a…

LIBRA Sep 24 – Oct 23 You might feel like withdrawing from the world. Maybe meditation, a retreat or simply shutting the doors, switching off devices and daydreaming. There is a big adventure or venture beckoning, where you’ll fly off overseas or start a business. It all began with a dream. SCORPIO Oct 24 – Nov 22 It’s time to finish that long-term project. It feels like something practical, like creating a herb garden, making a table or framing a picture. If you have to go and learn some skills to finish the job, then do it. And if you have to hire someone to finish it, that’s not cheating. There’s satisfaction in closure. SAGITTARIUS Nov 23 – Dec 22 Work is steady and stable. You’ll be asked to help…

The first thing happened as I was sitting by the pool waiting for my daughter to finish her morning swim. Her coach approached me, “Good news,” she said. “Charlie is going up a level!” “Fantastic!” I replied, a small lump of pride giving the word an extra syllable. “They start at 5am,” she added, striding off to destroy some other parent’s sleep plans. “They… wh… huh?” I mumbled with a scrunched-up quizzical look, eyes straining to comprehend this information, the men in my brain rushing one way with the good news of a daughter’s progress, bumping into other men with the bad. I stared at the concrete lip of the pool, calculating my future alarm settings. After some intense negotiation between the aforementioned men in my head, we settled on…

Beautiful bond After welcoming two new children into her family this year, US model Chrissy Teigen, 37, spent some quality time with her first-born, seven-year-old Luna. Thor-some! Kiwi director Taika Waititi celebrated his 48th birthday with a bang, partying the night away with his wife Rita Ora, 32, and a starstudded guest list on the Spanish island of Ibiza. Lovely line-up Runway success If life were a song, the tune Kiri Nathan must be humming is On Top of the World! The Kiwi fashion designer officially opened New Zealand Fashion Week at the Viaduct Events Centre in Auckland last Tuesday, making her the first Māori designer in the event’s 20-year history to do so. GALA GIRL Singer/actor Paula Abdul was Straight Up spectacular as the guest host of A Night…