Innholdsfortegnelse for Issue 40, 2022 i New Zealand Woman's Weekly

Most people mourning a loved one take time out to come to terms with their loss and prepare for life without that special person. But our new monarch, King Charles III did not have the luxury of private time to grieve for his “darling mama” in the days between the death of the Queen and her funeral. It was up to him to lead the United Kingdom in mourning at the same time as taking on an all-consuming new role, and it was a sad and challenging task he tackled with great dignity and grace. In the 11 days following Her Majesty’s passing at Balmoral Castle, her eldest son travelled more than 3000km around England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland, carrying out more than 30 engagements and meeting hundreds of…

It’s cheesy, but true. Marcus Lush has found that the world’s his oyster in Bluff. When the popular broadcaster moved to Southland – not for a radio job, but more for solace after simply “getting sick of Auckland” – he had no idea that 20 years down the track, he’d be putting his hat in the ring to be Invercargill’s next mayor. Or that contentment would be found clearing gorse with his two young boys. The 57-year-old will take on Sir Tim Shadbolt, who has been Invercargill’s mayor for the past 24 years, along with nine other candidates vying to win the local election on October 8. He won’t be hanging up his microphone though and plans to continue hosting his top-rating nightly talkback show on Newstalk ZB. As they…

He’s wowed the judges with his flavourful shortbread swirls and perfectly baked drizzle cake, but Jonathon Willow’s success on The Great Kiwi Bake Off is no surprise as the Brit confesses he was raised in his father’s restaurant. “The story goes that they’d put my cot in the middle of the restaurant, so my babysitters were chefs!” tells the 53-year-old. “My first memories are playing in the kitchen and cooking.” Jonathon’s late mum was also an amazing cook and he loved watching as she prepared the family’s Sunday roast every week, and was always delighted when she would let him help decorate the top of the apple pie. When he left school, Jonathon tried to pursue a career in the kitchen, but he quickly discovered that he much preferred the…

Rhubarb crumble cake SERVES 12 PREP + COOK TIME 1 HOUR 30 MINS 150g butter, softened1 teaspoon vanilla extract1 cup (220g) caster sugar2 eggs1 ½ cups (225g) self-raising flour½ cup (75g) plain flour½ teaspoon baking soda¾ cup (180ml) buttermilk1 bunch (400g) thin-stemmed rhubarb, trimmed, washed, chopped into 2cm pieces CRUMBLE TOPPING ¼ cup (35g) plain flour¹/³ cup (40g) almond meal¹/³ cup (30g) rolled oats¹/³ cup (75g) brown sugar½ teaspoon ground cinnamon75g butter, chopped 1 To make the crumble topping, place the dry ingredients in a medium bowl. Rub in butter using your fingertips. 2 Preheat oven to 180°C/160°C fan-forced. Grease a 25cm springform pan. Line base and side with baking paper. 3 Using an electric mixer, beat butter, vanilla and sugar until light and fluffy. Add eggs, one at a…

The weather outside might still be a little unpredictable, but spring 2022 make-up trends are already coming in hot – giving us something to look forward to in the lead-up to summer. And if you’re not one for trends? Consider the choices in your make-up routine that make you feel a little bit sunnier inside – then go forth and shine! Minimum to the max While celebrities are still sporting over-the-top glam, “skinimalism” reigns supreme in spring when it comes to base products. “People aren’t using as much foundation as they used to in general,” says celebrity make-up artist Sir John, “and instead, are opting for a fresh face, using minimal products and make-up with skincare benefits.” To hop on the skinimalism bandwagon, reach for L’Oréal Paris True Match Nude…

We all experience little moments of joy in our everyday lives, no matter how small they may seem at the time. These small sparks are powerful and when we incorporate them into our homes, they can become the building blocks to true happiness. Renters and homeowners alike can apply this idea to their homes, making just a few simple adjustments to unleash the joy. Get touchy feely The idea: Whether it’s a big hug or the feel of your favourite cashmere jumper, touch makes us feel good. Try this at home: Textiles that are soft or smooth are cocooning, so use them on furniture and accessories. Velvet, silk and wool are popular. You could even get crafty with crochet and create brightly coloured pieces for your space. Go with what…

The beloved broadcaster’s reflections on life I never thought I had anything in common with Elvis Presley. But I do, though I’ve only just discovered it. When Elvis was born, his mother gave birth to twin sons. Sadly, the first twin to emerge from the womb was stillborn. Elvis was born 35 minutes later. His baby brother was given the name Jesse and the next day was buried in an unmarked grave. When I was born, my mother also gave birth to two twin sons. And the first she gave birth to, my twin brother, was also stillborn. My mother didn’t even know she was having twins and the loss of my baby brother must have been heartbreaking. That baby was taken away and she never saw him again. But…

A great chat with the queen of talk back Have you ever had a fake tan? It’s a funny thing to do to yourself, isn’t it? In my younger days, the only way to tan was out in the sunshine or on a tanning bed, and given the warnings about New Zealand’s harsh sun and the vanishing ozone layer, I was quite careful about exposing myself to too much sun. I loved the days of summer, when my skin had a healthy, sunscreen-protected golden glow, and in the winter I resigned myself to living with pasty white skin. Until a new generation of women showed up on the social scene in Auckland back in the early 1990s. They had perfect white teeth that dazzled and shone, and that were offset…

Bromance! All Blacks fanboy Jason Momoa, 43, had the afternoon of his dreams hanging out with the players on their return from Australia after their Bledisloe Cup win, and even meet his idol Tana Umaga, 49. Still working it Dolly Parton, 76, made sure she looked picture perfect for the re-release of her iconic song 9 to 5. It has been reimagined as a duet with Kelly Clarkson for the soon-to-be released documentary Still Working 9 to 5, about the cultural impact of the film of the same name. BRIDAL BARBIE! A far cry from the neon looks she sported for upcoming movie Barbie, Margot Robbie, 32, looked bohemian chic arriving at the premiere of Amsterdam in New York City. The Oscar winner commented, “I knew there was going to…

On September 19, billions united around the world, gathering either in person or around screens, to say farewell to our remarkable Queen. It was a momentous day that played out perfectly, thanks to the precision of planning, and the sentiment felt was truly fitting for a woman who had served for more than 70 years as our Monarch. But, of course, as much of a loss that we may feel, it’s much more so for her family. Putting any troubles aside, young and old, children, grandchildren and even great-grandchildren Prince George and Princess Charlotte banded together for their mum, granny and gan gan. There were many special moments of reassuring gestures toward each other throughout the day. In a letter to the former Archbishop of York, John Sentamu, following the…

She’s been a mainstay on New Zealand screens and stages for the past 40 years, racking up awards for her work, all while raising a family. But even as Kiwi acting legend Alison Bruce looks back at all the wonderful things she’s done in her life, she admits she’s still a little daunted by the prospect of turning 60. “The number 60 is pretty challenging, to be honest,” says The Gulf star. “But I realised I’ve always felt like that. From about 27, no matter what age I’m turning, I start freaking out a bit. “I really admire people who go, ‘Hey, it’s my birthday, it’s my day!’ I’d like to be a bit more like that. I look around at my friends who are 60 and older, and they…

Sitting in a small hospital office waiting for the results of her colonoscopy, 31-year-old Melissa Laing was eager to finally get some answers to the dramatic weight loss, night sweats, bloating and discomfort she’d been living with for the past year. “There are a few polyps but don’t stress, it won’t be bowel cancer, you’re far too young for that,” the specialist assured her with a pat on the knee. Frustrated and feeling dismissed, Melissa, now 35, was starting to wonder if she was a hypochondriac. But thankfully, the solo mother-of-one trusted her instincts and kept pushing for a second colonoscopy. “I thought maybe it would be Crohn’s disease or coeliac and I’d have to give up bread,” recalls Melissa, who was not prepared for the shocking news that followed.…

Where to get help Leukaemia & Blood Cancer NZ (LBC) helps patients, their wha¯nau and carers while they are going through treatment and survivorship. This includes answering questions, and providing practical help and information on specific diseases and treatments. LBC can provide financial assistance, such as food or petrol vouchers, or help with counselling support. The charity also runs support sessions throughout New Zealand for patients and family. To learn more, visit leukaemia.org.nz Often deemed a “hidden cancer” because its symptoms are so deceptive, Leukaemia & Blood Cancer New Zealand is urging Kiwis this September – Blood Cancer Awareness Month – to be mindful of the seemingly minor and easily dismissed ailments that might be signs of the disease. Symptoms can include persistent fatigue, bone pain and swollen lymph nodes.…

Home It can be daunting introducing the bold and the bright, but when done well, it will create style and harmony in your home. Where to use it You don’t have to drown a space in colour – try adding pops in furniture or accessories against a neutral backdrop. Statement walls and ceilings are a great option, and don’t overlook doors, using Resene Lustacryl with a semi-gloss finish. How to find your hue While trends can be a helpful starting point, they do date and can be tricky to work with. Take inspiration from the colours of the moment – greens such as Resene Yucca and blues like Resene St Kilda are currently popular, as are sunny yellows and blush pinks – but remember who is living in the space.…

Musings from our favourite Kiwi funnywoman There is a photo I love of the Queen’s visit to New Zealand in 1954. The Queen is not in the photo. It’s a picture of my parents waiting to see her outside the Wellington Town Hall. This was before they were married, before they were even engaged. You can look at this photo and know without being told that they are courting. You’d be hard-pressed to find two pairs of eyes with more sparkle anywhere. John and Donna must have arrived early – there is only one person visible behind them on the temporary seating which would soon be crowded. My mother is 19, cute as a button, short black hair in waves, sophisticated earrings, a good coat and a smile definitely not…

Here’s a hint Doing a spot of painting? To renew old paintbrushes that have gone hard, boil them in vinegar with a small amount of soap powder added. – Rae, Masterton If you’re in the process of repainting your home, be sure to fill some well-washed nail polish or shoe-polish bottles with a little of each colour of paint you are using in the different rooms, then label the bottles. Later, when a scratch appears on your wall, you are all set to do a small touch-up job without getting the paintbrush out again. The small polish brushes are just the right size. – Pop, Dunedin Before painting window frames, glass doors etc, take a clean cloth soaked in turpentine and rub over the glass. Any paint spots are then…

Star WEEKLY The hottest celebrity scoop Blake Lively beamed as she stepped out in New York debuting her blossoming baby bump last week. Dressed in a glittering gold mini-dress, the 35-year-old actress made sure all eyes were on her at the Forbes Power Women Summit in New York. This is the fourth child for Blake and her husband Ryan Reynolds, 45, who are also parents to daughters James, seven, Inez, five, and Betty, two. The new addition to the family is no surprise, as the pair have both been vocal about their love of being parents, with Blake once saying, “You have a baby and you think, ‘I can’t imagine ever not having a baby,’ because they grow up so quickly. I’d be an 80-year-old woman with a baby if…

It was a fitting final farewell to a woman who dedicated her life to duty. The state funeral for Queen Elizabeth II mixed sadness and sorrow, with spectacle and splendour, as it mourned her passing and marked her long life of selfless service. But in among the pomp and pageantry were poignant moments that hinted at the personality of a woman who wasn’t born to be monarch, but accepted her fate with dignity and grace, and got on with the job for an incredible 70 years. One of the most heartrending images occurred as the hearse bearing the Queen’s coffin slowly made its way along the Long Walk, the stretch of road leading to St George’s Chapel at Windsor Castle. Following the state funeral at Westminster Abbey in London, the…

Chongqing hot & sour noodles SERVES 4 200g dried sweet potato or mung bean (cellophane) noodles (see note), soaked in cold water for 1 hour to soften, then drained 2 tablespoons vegetable oil4 cloves garlic, minced1 teaspoon ground Sichuan peppercorns1 teaspoon five-spice powder¼ cup (60ml) chilli oil, or use Lao Gan Ma chilli oil¼ cup (60ml) light soy sauce 1/3 cup (80ml) Chinkiang black vinegar2 cups (500ml) hot good-quality stock4 spring onions, sliced 1/3 cup (50g) ya cai (see tip)2 tablespoons roasted peanuts1 tablespoon sesame seeds Handful of coriander sprigs, finely chopped 1 Cook the softened noodles in a saucepan of boiling water for 8-10 minutes or until tender. They will still be chewy, but should be fully translucent when cooked. Drain and rinse with warm water, drain again and…

1. Going green You will be seeing a lot of this vibrant hue and nothing shouts “refresh” like this nature-loving shade, which is a safe bet this spring. This shirt dress with a flattering shirred bodice is a piece that will be ideal for work or play with a simple switch of accessories. Pop on a white belt and heels for a crisp combo. $199.90 Witchery 2. Maxi-mum impact The maxi is finally back! After years of the ever popular midi-length, we have hemlines skimming the ankles again. The most popular styles include satin slip skirts and the more figure-forgiving tiered style. Think about volume proportions when pairing with a top – tuck in a simple tee, or try a cropped top or tying a shirt at the waist. $165…

Left your wallet in the fridge? Forgetful when it comes to names? It’s easy to put blips in focus down to occasional “senior” moments, but there’s no need to live with a lack of clarity. While brain fog can be associated with menopause, side effects of some medications and health conditions such as thyroid disorders, you can take simple steps to improve day-to-day brain function by adjusting your lifestyle. “Give your brain what it needs and it will thrive,” says psychotherapist Dr Mike Dow. “A healthy diet, regular exercise and sleep regimens, as well as eliminating toxins, can all help boost your brain’s function.” What is brain fog? It may not be a formal medical term but it’s a description most of us recognise. It can cover feelings of confusion…

SCORPIO Oct 24 – Nov 22 Don’t hold back, whatever the emotion. If it’s negative, people are not going to be happy, but better they know how you feel and things can be worked out quickly. It’s more likely to be happiness because it’s an upbeat week. If you’re declaring love, it will be returned. SAGITTARIUS Nov 23 – Dec 22 You’ll be feeling a little more outgoing than usual. People you work with in a team capacity will sit up and notice your attitude. It’ll be easy to excel and impress. Your imagination is working overtime and creative, artistic types will find they are doing their best work. It’s time to reap the rewards. CAPRICORN Dec 23 – Jan 20 Do not be surprised if you’re feeling fenced in.…

Mayhem and mirth with the man about the house My old mother had a bit of a thing about the wonderfulness of friendship. She reckoned it was the most valuable and important thing in life, and mentioned this belief so often that in the end, it must have made an impression on me. Though I’d never have wanted to take the friendship thing quite as far as Mum did. She had more friends than big old pine trees have pine cones and she surely deserved a medal from NZ Post each Christmas for the volume of mail she generated with her greeting cards. When I was a kid, my mother’s habit of making friends with everyone she met meant people we barely knew were forever dropping by our house, often…

Unfolding over 24 hours and also over 50 years, this is a beautiful and devastating story about one woman who must make an almost impossible decision and choose between two men, knowing she will both win and lose either way. Already a huge bestseller, The Paper Palace is set in the backwoods of Cape Cod, where Elle’s family has holidayed all her life. Her grandfather built a flimsy camp there, made of fibre board, and this summer she is back again with her husband, children and mother. It is the early morning after a night before when Elle did something that threatens to shake her life. She had fast, passionate, secretive sex with Jonas, the childhood friend she has always loved, while her family were only a few metres away.…