Innholdsfortegnelse for Issue 33, 2021 i New Zealand Woman's Weekly

Forget bake sales and car washes, this is the kind of fundraiser we want to go to! Last week, some of the biggest names in Hollywood donned their finest frocks as they stepped out for the LuisaViaRoma for UNICEF Gala. Held in Capri, Italy, the annual event aims to raise funds for UNICEF Italia. An auction that included items like a race car owned by Steve McQueen and one of Pablo Picasso’s notebooks raised more than $8 million to support the foundation’s efforts in distributing the Covid vaccine. The glamorous evening was topped off with a performance from Katy Perry, 36, who was joined by John Legend, 42, to perform Moon River in honour of one of UNICEF’s most beloved Goodwill Ambassadors, Audrey Hepburn. Then the Roar singer got the…

Reese Witherspoon has collected many accolades throughout her career and last week, she added a new title to her collection as the world’s richest actress. The news comes after an announcement that a majority stake in her production company Hello Sunshine has been sold in a whopping $1.3 billion deal. The mum of Ava, 21, Deacon, 17, and Tennessee, eight, founded the company in 2016 with the mission of creating women-led stories, and has since had a hand in some of the biggest screen successes of the past few years, including Big Little Lies and Gone Girl. Reese, 45, was overjoyed when the news of the sale was finally announced and released a statement assuring fans that they’d still champion women. “I started Hello Sunshine to change the way all…

‘I’m going to be vulnerable with our kids, and tell them I’m flawed and that it’s okay to cry’ What do you listen to in your ute? The Breeze radio station. I also love a bit of Springsteen and the old fella over the ditch, Jimmy Barnes. Tell us about confronting the baddies when you reported for Fair Go... I’m not terribly articulate, but I have three older brothers and I’m not bad in a verbal slanging match. When you get those people who have been up to no good, they’re not interviews as much as being stand-up verbal stoushes and I love those! It’s like being back on the ropes in Milton in 1984 with my brothers. You describe your brother Nick as your hero. What has he taught…

When Shelley Reynolds was pregnant with her son Jamie, she hung a canvas on his bedroom wall displaying the Dr Seuss quote, “Why fit in when you were born to stand out?” At the time, the Lower Hutt mum and her husband Matt Reynolds didn’t know how significant those words would be for their vibrant six-year-old boy, who has been diagnosed with Tourette’s syndrome. “Jamie started ticcing just before his fourth birthday, and it took a lot of doctor visits and a specialist appointment before he was diagnosed with a tic disorder,” recalls Shelley, 42, chatting to the Weekly as her talkative boy bounds happily around the living room. “It began with a throat-clearing tic. Then he started developing more tics and was diagnosed late last year with Tourette’s.” The…

Karen says those vulnerable to anxiety see risks in everyday situations, such as Alana worrying that everything will make her ill, but may also include applying for a job, asking for help or finding a partner. “Anxious people tend to catastrophise and think, ‘I’m too scared to ask anyone out on a date, so I will never meet anyone and I’ll be alone forever,’ and those fears can escalate.” But if you’ve had a low mood for some time and it’s starting to affect your daily life, then that could point to depression. “You can be clinically depressed and still get out of bed every morning, go to work and take care of your kids, but depression can severely affect your quality of life. Take notice when you start not…

You will need • Tall glass vase• Cake stencil in a lace pattern• Resene testpot in your choice of colour. We used Resene Redemption Blue• Testpot brush or sponge• Masking tape 1 Secure the stencil around the vase 2 with tape. Lightly apply your Resene testpot colour onto the stencil, so as not to spread the paint underneath. 3 Once dry, remove the stencil. Your beautiful lace vase is all ready to use. Fill with freshly picked blooms. Top tip Use a Resene FX Metallic to add sparkling bling to your vase. Or opt for old glass bottles instead of a vase and use the lace effect on them.…

• I thrive in the cold • Thanks to climate change, I have been classified as a vulnerable species • I was the mascot for the 1988 Winter Olympics • I can reach speeds of up to 40km/h • Sixty per cent of my population lives in Canada • I don’t live at the South Pole, as many people assume • I can go for up to eight months without eating • My Latin name is ursus maritimus and I’m also known by locals as Nanuq • I am the largest land-dwelling carnivore – I can weigh as much as 700kg • My diet consists entirely of seals • Although I look white, I actually have black skin and transparent fur…

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I answered the mobile phone the other day to find my six-year-old grandson looking at me from its screen. It felt like I was being checked out and it turns out, I was. He’d forgotten what I looked like and wanted to see me, his mother explained. I know how Noah feels, though I hadn’t forgotten what he looks like. Cute mostly, but bigger, much bigger than the last time I saw him in the flesh. That’s because he’s in Melbourne and I’m in Auckland. He probably thinks by now that it’s normal not to see some people you love for absolutely ages, thanks to reasons he won’t entirely understand. What is Covid, he might ask if you tried to explain. There’s no easy answer when things are changing every…

Give us a clue A crime writer stumbles on a real-life case to crack Once I was lost in the pages of Lisa Jewell’s fiendishly readable suspense novel, it was hard to tear myself away. This book has so many elements I find irresistible – a big, creepy house, obnoxious rich people and characters who are there one minute and gone the next. It’s most definitely a page-turner. Sophie Beck has moved to the countryside with her boyfriend, who has a new job as the head teacher of an exclusive boarding school. Sophie is a detective fiction author and is about to find herself enmeshed in a mystery that feels very like a plot she might have written. While out for a walk, she finds a sign nailed to a…

They were extraordinary circumstances for extraordinary Kiwis. In a Covid world, without their families by their sides or crowds in the stands, this year’s Olympics showcased the sheer drive, talent, and mental and physical strength of each of our athletes. To even qualify for such an elite event is admirable and with some going on to win a medal – or in some cases more than one – was wonderful to watch. I was often glued to my television, riding the highs and lows of their sporting journey, and I’m surely not the only one to have shed a tear or two. I reckon they are all champions. On page 16, we look back on what has been a stellar couple of weeks for New Zealanders with the stand-out magical…

For Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, turning 40 is more than a milestone birthday. It’s time to kickstart a new era of her life and set her sights on a career in politics. And that could mean aiming as high as becoming the President of the United States. Meghan, who celebrated her 40th birthday last week, has been able to tick lots of items off her “to-do” list, including becoming a successful actress, supporting causes she’s passionate about, marrying the man of her dreams and having two children. Now she can embark on the next stage of her plan to live an extraordinary life, say sources close to the mum of Archie, two, and Lilibet, two months. “She has her eyes set on the US presidency,” says her biographer Omid Scobie.…

Dame Valerie Adams Two special little people were foremost in Dame Valerie Adams’ thoughts when she stepped up to make the shot put throw that would earn her a bronze medal. The star athlete imagined her daughter Kimoana, three, and son Kepaleli, two, watching her from the stands, and says it was “awesome to draw that energy from that feeling I had”. During a media conference after winning her fourth Olympic medal – she already has two golds and a silver – Val wore a photo of her gorgeous pre-schoolers on a lanyard because she wanted them to be part of the experience. “These two children are my ‘why’ and I hope I made them proud,” said an emotional Val, 36. She says her jubilant response to making it on…

It’s been 22 years since Margaret Baker’s younger brother Grant Hutcheson passed away, but the 73-year-old vividly recalls his precious last moments. “He looked at the time on the wall and said, ‘It’s 3 o’clock. Afternoon tea time!’ Then he smiled and was gone.” Spending their final moment together observing the time was only fitting given how much of their lives were spent watching the clock as Grant, who had Down syndrome, trained for and competed in swimming competitions, including Special Olympics events. ‘Competing gives them a goal to strive for. And it gives them mates – their own mates’ Margaret helped and eventually became a swim coach, with her efforts recently recognised by Queen Elizabeth, who made her an Officer of the NZ Order of Merit for her service…

Vitamin C Although there’s no quick-fix when it comes to completely blocking cortisol, we can “protect our skin against environmental aggressors, such as UV radiation and pollution, with daily use of appropriate sun protection”, says Dr Smith. “A topical antioxidant like vitamin C can also combat stress.” Acids If your skin is prone to dryness, Dr Smith also recommends using hyaluronic acid (HA) and products containing ceramides “to help with skin-barrier support, minimise water loss and assist with hydration”. Vida Glow’s ingestible hyaluronic complex contains HA, gotu kola, acai and other vitamins, minerals and antioxidants that help replenish and protect your natural HA levels. Beauty from within! Collagens “To stimulate collagen synthesis and skin repair, a product with topical retinols, peptides or growth factors at night may also be beneficial,”…

A rug can make or break a room, but getting it right is easy if you follow a few simple guidelines. Colour, texture and size all play their part, so here are some tips to help you find that perfect flooring for your home. LOUNGE ROOM In this space, the rug will define the space. It should be large enough to sit underneath the front legs of the sofa and armchairs so your feet are on fabric not the floor. Measure the lounge width and allow enough space for the front legs of the armchairs. If it’s a large room, or you’re renting, try overlapping two medium-sized rugs. They can be mixed and matched to suit any room or future homes. DINING ROOM The rug should always be large enough…

I have a picture on my wall at home of a Native American Indian chief. It’s a favourite picture because its colours and style remind me of the cowboys and Indians comics I loved as a kid. I found the picture in a secondhand shop about 25 years ago. I had no idea who the chief was or where the picture came from. My only clue was three words at the bottom of the picture,“Hardest & Fastest”. After some research, it turns out the picture came off a 1930s calendar for an American manufacturer of grinding and cutting equipment, Carborundum. But who was the Native American chief? I found exactly the same image on a promotional jig-saw puzzle on sale in an online antique auction. It was also put out…

If you have any juicy secrets you are bursting to tell, here’s an offer – they are perfectly safe with me. This is because I am, in possibly equal parts, both discreet and a bit daft. The discreet part comes from my childhood. Our close neighbours back then were what might be termed “movers and shakers” in the twin worlds of business and politics. When special guests arrived for cocktails and dinner – the environment where important deals are actually done and then rubber-stamped later in the boardroom – I was asked to pop on my best frock and climb the fence between our houses to hand around the nuts. So, between the ages of 10 and 17, I was privy to many a conversation about the business, political (and…

Everyone needs a friend like my mate Di. I have some lovely friends, each with their own unique and lovable characteristics, but Di is the “make it happen” girl. With other friends, we’ll talk about a weekend away, a trip overseas or a visit to a gallery, but with Di, the thought becomes deed. So, when I said “I can’t believe I still haven’t done the TranzAlpine train journey”, then I probably knew in the back of my mind that I’d be on that train within a matter of weeks. And I was. “Let’s book it, then,” said Di and out came her phone. The fact of there being no available seats for the forseeable future meant nothing to Di. She loves small challenges and obstacles. Within half an hour,…

THE MIRACLE PILL by Peter Walker (HarperCollins, $37.99) What will shock you, reading this book, is how much modern life has robbed us of opportunities to move. While we know that being sedentary is bad for us and that exercise is vital for good health, it can seem impossibly hard to find the time. UK journalist Peter Walker looks at ways to change our world to encourage walking, cycling and daily movement, and why it’s so important. Readable and non-preachy, this might be the book that gets you off the sofa. WHY CALORIES DON’T COUNT: HOW WE GOT THE SCIENCE OF WEIGHT LOSS WRONG by Dr Giles Yeo (Hachette, $32) Everything you thought you knew about calories is wrong, says obesity researcher Dr Giles Yeo. In…

It’s a clear winter Friday and Jenny-May and Dean Clarkson are midway through explaining the significance of the TV presenter’s new moko (tattoo), a series of stars and birds from her neck to her bellybutton, when there’s a cacophony of voices downstairs. The couple’s twin five-year-old boys Te Manahau and Atawhai have arrived home from school, and Atawhai is eager to show Mum his large, swirly lollipop. Jenny-May gives him a cuddle and gently discourages him in te reo from devouring the treat straightaway – after all, the whole household, including Dean’s parents Maurice and Jocelyn, and Dean’s daughters Libby-Jane, 16, and Leah, 14, aren’t far off heading to dinner at the local restaurant. It’s a typically upbeat start to the weekend, yet for a few months, it’s been tough.…

WHAT A DEAL Meghan had her heart set on acting from a young age and worked hard to get there, including working as a briefcase girl on the game show Deal or No Deal. HUSBAND NUMBER ONE Aged 30, Meghan married her first husband, film producer Trevor Engelson, in 2011. The pair had dated for six years before tying the knot, but the marriage only lasted two years. SUITS HER Meghan got her big break in 2011 playing paralegal Rachel Zane in the drama Suits. When the show snowballed in popularity, she pocketed $70,000 an episode. HELLO HARRY In July 2016, a mutual friend set Meghan up on a blind date with Prince Harry and the pair hit if off immediately. Three weeks later, they fell in love on a…

Smashed potatoes with herbs & green olives SERVES 4 PREP + COOK TIME 20 MINS 600g potatoes, scrubbed, coarsely chopped 2 tablespoons finely chopped mint 2 tablespoons finely chopped curly parsley 2 tablespoons finely sliced chives ¼ cup (60ml) extra virgin olive oil 2 teaspoons lemon juice 10 green olives, pitted, coarsely chopped mint leaves, lemon cheeks, to serve 1 Place potatoes into a large saucepan and cover with cold water. Bring to the boil, cooking for 15 minutes or until the potatoes are tender. 2 While the potatoes are cooking, place the herbs, oil, lemon juice and olives in a bowl, stirring to combine. Season with sea salt and ground white pepper. 3 Drain cooked potatoes and place them in a large bowl. Roughly smash them with a fork.…

PARKA FLAIR Up your gumboot game with some funky patterned styles that will brighten your day. Pair with slimline pants that can be tucked in to keep you dry. COAT TALES Embrace some colour as we start the slow march towards spring with this soft yellow-hued wool-blend coat. Pair with other muted pops of colour. PUFFER DUTY This sandy coloured puffer’s A-line silhouette, raglan shoulder and quilted stitching make it a toasty take on style. TRENCH TREND Up the ante with your accessories – felted wool hats are a chic way to keep your head warm, and a boot with a solid tread will give you more stability in the wet. FOR STOCKISTS, TURN TO PAGE 73…

HELPLINE INFORMATION Need to talk? 1737 – free call or text 24/7 to talk to a trained counsellor Lifeline – 0800 543 354 Depression Helpline – 0800 111 757 Suicide Crisis Helpline – 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) Healthline – 0800 611 116 Samaritans – 0800 726 666 Information about suicide prevention can be found at mentalhealth.org.nz/ suicideprevention. SCENARIO 1 A full-time administrator and mother-of-three is going about her busy life when she starts suffering from panic attacks. “My throat constricts and I can’t breathe,” says the 39-year-old. “The room is spinning and my heart is pounding out of my chest. It’s terrifying because I have no idea what’s happening.” SCENARIO 2 After a tough year of trying to manage her anxiety, the single mother falls into a deep depression.…

ALL ABOUT WEAVE Look to your own style – does a Persian or a sisal rug work best for your room and personal style? Maybe a shag rug is more for you. SAFETY FIRST If you’re placing a rug over wall-to-wall carpet, remember to avoid a thick pile as it can create a trip hazard. SHAPING UP A rectangular rug will generally work best for a rectangular room, while a square or round rug will suit a more square-shaped room. LIGHT IT UP If you have dark furniture and dark floors, a lighter rug will help lift the room. There should still be visible floor around the rug so it becomes a feature and doesn’t dominate the space. A bold patterned rug will add interest and warmth to a plain…

1 The play The Winter’s Tale was written by which Elizabethan playwright? 2 The city that receives more snow than any other in the world is in: A. Russia B. Japan C. Finland D. China 3 Is winter colder in the Northern Hemisphere or the Southern? 4 What is chionophobia a fear of? A. Icicles B. Freezing to death C. Snow D. Frostbite 5 Which winter sport is similar to lawn bowls, except it is played on ice? 6 Jennifer Lawrence plays a poverty-stricken teenager in the film Winter’s ...? 7 Eddie “The Eagle” Edwards competed for Britain at the Winter Olympics in which sport? 8 “Winter is coming” is the motto of which Game of Thrones family? A. Targaryen B. Stark C. Lannister D. Tyrell 9 Flu is short…

Letters to the Editor INSPIRING READ • Winning letter I learnt such a lot from this week’s magazine (NZWW, August 9). Hilary Barry is indeed a good example of a woman “pushing back against ageism and sexism” – but I did not realise she is “the oldest woman in a full-time primetime presenting position” in this country. I also have a more favourable opinion of Sarah Ferguson since reading the exclusive interview with her. Who knew that Fergie was a “keen photographer of the natural world”? I’m looking forward to seeing her pictures when the book is released. Meanwhile, her novel Her Heart for a Compass sounds like a good read. I’m appalled to learn from Kevin Milne’s page that learning the art of cursive writing is being phased out…

LEO Jul 24 – Aug 23 You are usually focused and organised, but this week is a little crazy. There are some past issues that come up that you thought were sorted out. It is simply someone being a little dramatic, so do not give them the opportunity to escalate the situation. Keep your cool and allow yourself to embrace the upheaval for a few days. Chaos encourages spontaneity and there is an unexpected invitation you can’t refuse. VIRGO Aug 24 – Sep 23 Check any information that comes your way – a bank statement that says you do not have what you expected, an account that is higher than quoted or a decision that doesn’t make sense. You can’t rely on the fact that other people know what they…