Innholdsfortegnelse for 1809 i New Zealand Woman's Weekly

‘When he was speaking, I realised that I should make sure I could enjoy the moment’ With one supportive arm curled discreetly around her husband, Dr Mary English stood alongside her partner of three decades, the outgoing Leader of the Opposition Bill English, as he announced his retirement from politics after 27 years. As cameras clicked and reporters furiously scribbled notes, Mary felt every emotion under the sun as she stared into shocked faces and camera lenses. Most palpably there was relief, followed by loss, sadness, happiness and the sense of a new beginning. With her husband choking back tears as he described the toll political life has taken on Mary and their six children, Mary briefly turned towards him and offered a small smile and sympathetic squeeze, silently encouraging…

Becoming a father has made pop star Robbie Williams a better man. The British singer, known for his wild ways in his younger days, was in New Zealand last week for two shows in Auckland and Dunedin, and says he’s changed since he and his wife Ayda had daughter Teddy (5) and son Charlie (3). “Everything is about them,” says Robbie. “Before I was just wandering around the planet having an existential crisis about everything. You know… ‘Why is this happening? I’m in a stadium and there’s the people and the records and the houses and the cars – why am I so sad?’ The archetypal bulls*** pop-star stuff. “Then the kids come and right, it’s about them. Daddy goes to work and Daddy’s got a great job. Let’s not…

Standing in the departure lounge last September, Jess Brockie cradled her baby bump as she prepared for yet another long flight back to Australia. A precious piece of cargo was joining her on this journey. As a mum-of-two, Jess already knew all children are special but this child in particular – Rixon James Arena – was a miracle. The much-longed-for baby she was selflessly carrying was for her dear friends Bec (30) and Gareth Arena (30). But tragically, as surrogate mum Jess (30) was about to board her plane to Townsville, she received a dreadful, life-changing phone call. Bec, her childhood friend and the mother-to-be of the child she was carrying, had died. As the Weekly speaks to Jess, back at home in Johannesburg with her husband Jeremy (30), a…

Nothing says summer like a touch of bronzer and it really isn’t too tricky to master. Give it a go with these easy-to-use formulas. Say aloha! You can do it... 1 Try not to stray too much from your natural skin tone. Most bronzers come in light, medium and dark, so the general rule is the lighter your skin tone, the lighter shade of bronzer you should use. 2 Undertones are important too. Look out for one with golden undertones if you have warm-toned skin, and subtle pinky ones if you have cool-coloured skin. 3 Always allow time for your moisturiser and foundation to soak in before brushing on bronzer. That way, the pigment won’t grab onto the skin and look patchy and grubby. 4 For…

It’s a message that has been hammered home for years now – too much salt is bad for us. But how are you meant to cut it out of your diet if you don’t know you are eating it? Healthy decisions! We all need salt or rather, the sodium chloride in it to balance the fluids in our bodies, and to help with muscle and nerve function. The problem is, most of us consume too much of it, often without realising it, and that can have a harmful effect on our body, including increasing the risk of heart attacks and strokes. Some people think the solution to cutting their salt intake is to not add it to meals at the table. Unfortunately, it’s not that simple – around 75% of…

Investing in dental health when young will yield benefits later on so, of course, you’d want the best care for your offspring. But what if your child isn’t seeing the professional you wanted? Tooth be told! You took your 14-year-old to a dental clinic. But you discovered the work was primarily to be done by an oral health therapist rather than a fully qualified dentist. Is that an issue? Should you be taking your teenager to a fully qualified dentist? Oral health therapists in New Zealand are university graduates who have at least three years’ training. They are qualified to carry out, among other things, oral-health assessments, X-rays, fillings, extraction of primary teeth, some crowns, mouthguard fittings, cleaning and polishing etc. They are permitted to carry out more complex tasks…

PISCES Feb 20 – Mar 20 There is a strong connection to all things creative this week. Whether you are the creator or are simply gazing upon the creations of others, it is so important to do something that takes you away from your daily routine. Borrow some books and teach yourself a new hobby, feast your eyes at art or movies online, or go out to the theatre or a live concert. ARIES Mar 21 – Apr 20 It seems you will have to learn a new set of rules, either because you are in a new job or you are dealing with new people. Others around you will be patient while you learn the ropes and you’ll pick up everything fast. If someone seems to have an odd…

For some reason, the entire time I was reading new thriller The Woman in the Window, I assumed its author A.J. Finn must be female. Maybe the fact that it’s centred on a female character and is emotionally layered put me wrong – although there’s no reason a man shouldn’t write books like that! Anyway, it’s a cracker, an homage to the classic Hitchcock film Rear Window that had me practically sitting on my hands, I was so desperate to turn to the last page. Anna Fox lives alone and is suffering from agoraphobia, leaving her virtually trapped inside her New York home. She passes her time by drinking too much wine, binge-watching old movies and staring out the window at her neighbours. As they cook meals, read books and…

‘I was thrilled when my name was called. I don’t know why – it’s a random process’ For years, I’ve been waiting. Obviously, if my numbers were to come up, I’d rather it was in a Lotto draw, but being called for jury duty would be the next best thing. During my time on talkback, people have shared their experiences of serving on juries and I’ve always wanted to be one of them. Not because I have any romantic notions of courtrooms. I sat through a number of trials as a junior reporter years and years ago, so I know real-life courtroom dramas bear no relation to the nonsense you always see on the telly. My reporting experience gave me a healthy respect for our justice system. Certainly, there are…

It was only just before Christmas last year that Bill and Mary English welcomed the Weekly to Wellington to talk about their recent political defeat. It was obvious at the time that the couple were doing some soul-searching as they reflected on a tumultuous year in politics – and, indeed, almost three decades in the difficult business. But they were positive and buoyant, enjoying the opportunity to spend more time together and obviously already in the early stages of coming to a conclusion about what to do next as they embark on the unknown. It was certainly relief that came across as the strongest emotion Mary was feeling when our assistant editor Kelly Bertrand spoke with her just hours after the news was announced that her husband was stepping down…

How does one make the ultimate public declaration of love? By proposing on stage at a film screening, of course! Idris Elba (45) did just that when he got down on bended knee in front of model and actress girlfriend Sabrina Dhowre (29) at the London screening of his directorial debut film Yardie. The couple met on set while Idris was filming his 2017 thriller The Mountain Between Us and they’ve reportedly been an item since last March. And the smitten star couldn’t keep his feelings about Sabrina quiet, describing their connection as “instant”. “Falling in love while making a movie about falling in love is pretty special,” he says. Given the actor, who has been married twice before, has spoken publicly of never wanting to get married again –…

On screen, they were the best of friends – which just goes to show what good actresses they are. Off screen, there’s no love lost between Kim Cattrall and her Sex and the City castmate Sarah Jessica Parker. And after rumours have circulated for years about the bad blood between the two, the gloves are now well and truly off, with Kim blasting Sarah via social media and telling her, “You are not my friend.” She also branded the star of the hit TV show as “cruel” and accused her of exploiting the tragic death of Kim’s brother Chris in order to look good. The long-standing feud came to a head after Kim (61) announced on Instagram that Chris (55) had died, after earlier posting that he was missing from…

What should I cook? At this time of the year, it’s an easy question to answer – I look to my garden, local roadside stall or farmers’ market and reach for what is at its plentiful best. Plenty to share! Summer sausage bake SERVES 2 I’m beginning to tire of barbecues so this tray bake, where sausages are baked with colourful summer vegetables, is a simple dinner option. ½ red capsicum ½ yellow capsicum ½ eggplant 500g tomatoes, mixed sizes, varieties and colours 4 tbsp good sherry vinegar 3 tbsp olive oil ½ tsp sea salt Decent grind of black pepper 4 sausages (I used pork and fennel) Small handful fresh herbs – parsley, coriander or basil Sourdough or crusty bread, to serve (optional) 1 Preheat oven to 180°C. 2…

A beautiful floral print never truly dates, so try one of these stunning designs to ease yourself away from the block colours and black we often depend on. You’ll look blooming gorgeous. Branch out! Simply belted • This pretty belted shift dress from Max is ideal for any occasion. The self-fabric belt nips in the waist for a feminine silhouette, but will look just as stylish by adding a contrasting statement belt too. • I’ve styled it here with some soft pink accessories for a cohesive look that will have you turning heads. DRESS $149.99 from MAX. BAG $47.99 from COLETTE BY COLETTE HAYMAN. SHOES $89.99 from PORTMANS. Tailored chic • Sleeve features are trending this season, so it is hard to go past this stunning floral blouse from Witchery,…

This week’s model Carol smells as pretty as she looks. Try these new ways to wear a floral fragrance… ON YOUR CLOTHES… How often have you picked up a loved one’s clothing and recognised their scent? That’s because perfume latches onto the fibres in fabric. Try spritzing your fragrance into the air and walking through it to allow the droplets to fall onto your clothing, or spray directly onto your clothes – taking care with materials such as silk, which can stain. Try the rose, French mimosa and magnolia scent of Avon Viva La Vita, $64.99 (1). ON YOUR SKIN… Nothing feels more luxurious than a velvety body cream. Massage a perfumed one all over your body after showering and the warmth of your skin will amplify the scent all…

Having a cruisy time Oh, how I loved reading Sharon Williams travel article about her French cruise (05.02.18). She was so lucky to win The AM Show’s 9 in 10 game and then get to take her son Reuben on a magical eight-day adventure on the River Seine. Thank you Sharon for sharing your holiday with us and all the best for the next one. K Fisher, Auckland $100 WINNING LETTER Topp treasures I really appreciated your article about our very own homegrown celebrities, “Jools and Linda’s 40 years on Topp” (19.02.18). It is always fun to read about their stories in the entertainment world, their struggles and their successes. They are such a big part of New Zealand history with their contributions towards country dancing, singing, yodelling and making…

His real name is Daniel Mallory and he’s a 38-year-old New York publishing executive who penned this debut novel in secret. He’s battled mental health issues, eventually being diagnosed as bipolar. It was then that he started writing in the evenings and on weekends. Rumour has it Kate Winslet will star in the film version. On his inspiration for the novel... “I wanted to tap into my love for suspense novels and thriller cinema in the Hitchcock tradition. I’ve attempted to summon some of the moody atmosphere of black-and-white films.” On mining his own experiences of mental illness... “I realised that whilst a blow-by-blow account of depression might put off readers, I could smuggle those lows into the audience’s heads by folding them into a fast-moving plot. My hope is…

Atten-shun, company! There’ll be no acting the goat during Prince Charles’ visit to the Mercian regiment, unless of course you’re new recruit Private Derby XXXII, the regimental ram. Decked out in full camouflage gear, the Prince of Wales butted heads with the four-legged soldier during his trip to Bulford Camp in Wiltshire, England. As colonel-in-chief of the battalion and having served as a pilot for the Royal Navy for 23 years, the 69-year-old royal still got a thrill out of getting behind the controls of an armoured military tank – a rare honour for the heir to the throne. The father-of-two, who will welcome a daughter-in-law and grandchild into his family this year, also had some words to say to the servicemen and women about the importance of loved ones.…

From racing tracks to fashion runways! Since announcing his shock decision to retire earlier this year, Paralympic Games superstar Liam Malone certainly has changed things up, making his modelling debut at New York Fashion Week, no less, alongside supermodels and stars alike. The Nelson-born athlete walked the runway for designer Philipp Plein alongside fellow Kiwi, Victoria’s Secret model and newly announced host of Project Runway NZ, Georgia Fowler. Just a week before, the former sprinter showed off his first fashion magazine cover, posing shirtless on the cover of a French men’s magazine alongside a fellow Paralympian. While he’s just started his official new gig at an artificial intelligence firm in Auckland, we think the gold-medallist could definitely have a bash at a full-time modelling gig!…

With the voice of a choir boy and songs likely to make even the hardiest men cry, James Blunt has made a name for himself among romantics across the globe. But he’s revealed that being a notoriously emotive singer is causing friction at home! James (43) has been married to high-powered lawyer and socialite Sofia Wellesley (34) – the granddaughter of the 8th Duke of Wellington – since 2014, but it turns out his lyrics have been distressing his wife. “I’m married so I can’t be continually writing miserable songs because she gets worried,” James explains. “But misery sells, so I do have to say to her, ‘Hey, you know, darling, in this album, I’m going to write some really miserable songs – but they’re not about us!’” The couple,…

It’s been almost 45 years since ice dancers Jayne Torvill and Christopher Dean first paired up as teenagers to skate together, and more than 30 since they captured hearts around the world with their gold medal-winning performance at the 1984 Winter Olympics. But the duo are still as mesmerising as ever on the ice, even though their knees are getting creaky and their backs don’t quite bend as much. Jayne (60) and Chris (59) have reunited to skate again on a tour promoting the UK TV show Dancing on Ice, on which they are judges. It’s been four years since they’ve glided across a rink together and they’re noticing they can’t do some of the moves that propelled them to stardom back in the ’80s. “The knees don’t bend quite…

OREGANO & LEMON CHICKEN WITH GRILLED VEGES SERVES 4 8 chicken thigh fillets (about 800g in total) 2 tbsp dried oregano Finely grated zest and juice of 1 lemon 2 garlic cloves, crushed 1 tbsp extra virgin olive oil Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper 1 eggplant, sliced into 1cm rounds 1 red capsicum, deseeded and thickly sliced 1 yellow capsicum, deseeded and thickly sliced 1 large courgette, sliced lengthways into 5mm-thick strips 550g butternut squash, cut into 5mm-thick slices 1 tbsp extra virgin olive oil (if char-grilling), plus extra for drizzling Lemon wedges, to serve 1 Place the chicken in a bowl, then add the oregano, lemon zest, garlic, olive oil, and a pinch of salt and pepper. Leave to marinate in the fridge for at least 20…

weekly FASHION 1 Add olive One of my favourite classic colour pairings is a soft feminine blush with an earthy olive hue – they balance each other beautifully and will work with other darker colours as the weather cools. 2 Timeless classics Ziera not only makes functional and comfortable footwear but they also produce timeless handbags that will add flair to any ensemble. These classic styles in warm hues would be welcome additions to any wardrobe. 3 Dark and moody With the weather telling us it’s still summer, it can be hard to make sense of the autumnal fashion in stores. Take the easy route into the change of seasons and opt for a dark and moody floral. This stunning skirt from EziBuy is a must-buy, the Ketz-ke blouse will…

Make your own dishwasher powder, two natural conditioners for your hair, and how to get new towels soft and more absorbent. It all makes cents! There are two very easy, natural hair conditioners I like to use, which keep my thick, frizzy hair in control. If you try them, you won’t be disappointed. ALOE VERA GEL This gel must have no additives so don’t buy the green one in the chemist. Try to find a real gel in a health shop or if you have an aloe vera plant, then harvest it yourself by splitting the leaves and scraping out the clear gel. After shampooing, rub the gel through your hair and leave for as long as you can. When you rinse it out, your hair will feel a bit…

I receive many emails from garden designers, magazines and websites (some from places I’ve never heard of in languages I don’t recognise), so it takes a very interesting subject line to entice me these days. But how could I resist one that read, “Learn How to Design Your Dream Garden”? Read all about it! Common sense tells me that nobody really knows how to design a dream garden, or at least not without a budget equivalent to that of the international space programme. But there are a few tricks which – while not resulting in the realisation of the dream – might at least offer a few dramatic improvements. One tidbit I liked immediately was about finding your garden’s “power spot”, defined as any place on your property that seems…

CUT AND RUN I was recently reminded of my first job at a hairdressers’ many years ago. The manageress, who was very abrupt, gave me my first task – to put a gown on a man who was going to have his hair cut. I dressed him in one from the rack by the door, then left him to wait. All of a sudden, I heard her yell, “That is not a gown – that is my coat!” Sheepish, Northland SHARP THINKING As a student nurse, I had to give an injection to an old lady. I asked her which leg she wanted the injection in, to which she retorted, “If I have a choice, I’d rather it be yours!” Cinderella, Palmerston North, November 16, 1981 SCHOOL LESSON A number…

In her shoes TV New Zealand’s first ever locally-made documentary series, Islands of the Gulf, is being remade 52 years on – this time with a touching family connection. The series was originally hosted by Shirley Maddock, who passed away in 2001. Now her daughter Elisabeth Easther is set to carry on Shirley’s legacy by stepping into the coveted role, one which takes her to some of Aotearoa’s most beautiful places. As Elisabeth tells, “Mum turned the camera’s attention on people and places that had previously been tucked away.” Islands of the Gulf , TVNZ 1, Saturdays at 7pm. ROSEANNE ACTRESS LAURIE IS LINED UP FOR AN OSCAR AT LAST FILM During her 40-year career in the entertainment industry, Laurie Metcalf has won three Emmys and a Tony award,…

Time for a pug update. I’m writing about Spud, our new family member, for my own therapy – talking about the four-legged, squashed-faced demon is necessary for my mental health. Just to be clear, he’s a dog. It’s unfair. Since we invited this fawn fiend into our lives, he has had almost unwavering adulation. I have never experienced such universal excitement for an animal. Especially one that is so physically impractical. His mushed-up face appeal spans all ages, races and demographics – it would seem pugs bring the world together. But it has fallen to me to be the yin to all this Spud-loving yang. Someone’s got to bring balance. I’ve got to be the bad guy. And, to be honest, it’s not that hard. I can understand when nature…