Innholdsfortegnelse for 1720 i New Zealand Woman's Weekly

‘You only step out openly when you believe your other half can manage to live with it long term’ When it comes to decoding a royal romance, it can be difficult to disentangle fact from rumour. But the evidence that Prince Harry is truly serious about his relationship with American Suits actress Meghan Markle is piling up so convincingly that bookmakers have suspended betting on an engagement and slashed the odds on a 2018 wedding. Here are the big clues... They attend events together This may not sound like much – but when William and Kate were courting, they went to considerable lengths not to be seen at parties and celebrations. Harry (32) and Meghan (35), on the other hand, went to Harry’s old friend Tom Inskip’s wedding in Jamaica…

‘I’ve made a promise to David and to my sons that I really don’t want to be schlepping around the world at 72’ He’s said it himself – his hectic lifestyle and endless touring are “killing him”. And now Sir Elton John has been laid low by yet another health scare that could have been fatal. His loved ones are hoping this latest incident – which left him in intensive care and requiring several operations – will convince the workaholic pop star it is time to slow down. His pals are pleading with the 70-year-old dad-of-two to cut down on work after he had a severe reaction to an infection he contracted while touring in South America. A friend says, “Elton has a close-knit circle of friends who are genuinely…

Mums are full of good advice – whether it’s “be kind” or “listen to others”, or “leave your eyebrows alone” and “always keep a red lipstick in your handbag”. Celebrities are no different, so we’ve rounded up some of the best nuggets of wisdom that the mums of some of Hollywood’s finest have offered their children throughout the years. Sarah Jessica Parker’s mum: Barbra Forste “Be decent and kind to other people.” Melissa Rivers’ mum: Joan Rivers “The best advice my mom ever gave me is to never give up. She believes when one door shuts, another door opens.” Gwyneth Paltrow’s mum: Blythe Danner “She’s taught me a lot about being a woman who isn’t afraid to be creative and expressive and to channel that energy and power, which she…

Rice is nice! With protein, fibre and magnesium, SunRice’s new SuperBrown range will make a sensible addition to your healthy meals. The microwave pouches and quick cups contain brown rice and wholegrain red rice, which both provide your body with energy and keep it fuelled for longer than non-wholegrain foods. Find them in New World and Pak‘nSave supermarkets nationwide, priced from $3. Easy Mother’s Day BREAKFAST If Nici’s beautiful Mother’s Day brunch creations (page 34) are a little tricky for the kids to create, these simple breakfast projects will give the little ones a feeling of accomplishment. They’re sure to need a hand from an adult, but it’s the thought that counts! Heart-shaped egg-in-a-hole: Take a heart-shaped cookie cutter and cut out a heart from a slice of toast. Heat…

When it comes to perfume, most of us are drawn to a particular type of fragrance. These latest releases ensure there is something for every woman’s taste and they make the ideal treat for Mother’s Day. FLORAL & FRUITY 1 Daisy Marc Jacobs Kiss Edition, $99. Think juicy fruits mixed with hints of peony and rose. 2 Viva La Juicy Sucre eau de parfum, $115. Sparkling mandarin and redcurrant join peach nectar, almond cream and vanilla. 3 DKNY Be Tempted Eau So Blush eau de parfum, $89. Pink peony blooms are mixed with an invigorating blend of pink grapefruit, blood orange and apricot. SWEET & SENSUAL 1 YSL Black Opium Floral Shock, $115. Espresso coffee and white musk add a sensual touch to the freesia, gardenia and sugary pear notes.…

You will miss talking to other grown-ups. Being at home with a baby can be quite isolating, so do try to have contact with other adults. Plunket coffee groups are a good way of doing that. You’ll gain a whole new appreciation for your mother and wonder how on earth she did it! Breastfeeding does not always come naturally. It looks like it should be easy, but it isn’t. It can hurt, especially to start with, but most of the time the pain goes away if you persevere. If it doesn’t go away, see a lactation expert. You’ll see a completely new side to your other half. There’s nothing like sleep deprivation and dirty nappies to shine a light on someone’s true colours! You will be beyond tired. Most people…

Tammy & Dave Cresswell The happy couple were married by their padre in a relaxed ceremony at the Air Force base chapel two weeks before Dave was due to be deployed. They tied the knot with their children by their side and absent loved ones in their hearts. The icing on the cake was a C-130 Hercules flying at low level over the wedding. HOW TO ENTER Email nzww@bauermedia.co.nz (Subject line: Weddings) with your story and two to three high-res images for publication. For terms and conditions, and photographer copyright, see our website. It has long been understood that stress undermines health. However, scientists have recently discovered some stress can be good for us. Inspired by these findings, the skin health experts at Dermalogica and The International Dermal Institute have…

Safety device Checking through the last couple of weeks’ magazines to make sure I’d read everything, I came across Wendyl’s “urban survival kit” (03.04.17) and had a good laugh. My mother had a survival kit – a large safety pin. The one worry in her life was the thought of the elastic giving way while she was out and her drawers falling down. It never happened, but she was prepared! Ada, Wairarapa $100 WINNING LETTER Lucky son of a Gunn A big thank you for your inspiring cover story “I’m Lucky to be Alive” (08.05.17). Jason Gunn is lucky to have survived a heart attack he had recently. While he looks fit and healthy, it just goes to show a heart attack can affect anyone – young and old, fit…

She’s a 70-year-old American and this is her 18th novel. Having her sixth, The Pilot’s Wife, picked by Oprah Winfrey for her Book Club helped her to become a household name. On what she loves writing about... “I’m really interested in the catastrophic moment in life. If you push a woman to the edge, how will she behave?” On always writing by hand... “It takes twice as long and it’s cumbersome but I’ve tried to write straight onto the computer, and the results are terrible.” On why she hates the term women’s fiction... “It makes me seethe. It’s just dismissive. After all, we wouldn’t call something men’s fiction. If I had to choose a label then I would describe my books as mainstream fiction.” YOUR BOOK CLUB Thinking of…

Batter up! Reese Witherspoon took her boy Tennessee Toth (4) out to his ball game last week. The Big Little Lies star and her husband Jim Toth (47) were spotted cheering from the sidelines as their son took to the field. Since returning to Los Angeles from her trip to New Zealand earlier this year, Reese (41) has been spending lots of time with her children, Ava (17) and Deacon (13), who she shares with ex Ryan Phillippe (42), and little Tennessee. However, she also made sure to celebrate her sixth anniversary with talent agent Jim last week, paying tribute to him on Instagram. “Six years ago I was lucky enough to marry this wonderful man. He makes me laugh every day and supports me in everything I do. Happy…

When it comes to mums, I’ve been pr etty darn lucky to be blessed with one of the best. She may be mor e of a mini-me version of myself rather than the other way around (she’s a seriously teeny-tiny lady – particularly if I wear heels ar ound her!), but if I’ve managed to inherit even half her compassion and empathy I’d be pr oud as punch. Mum has a social calendar I’d find dif ficult to keep up with, and in her early seventies (sorry for outing your age, Mum!), she’ s far better at Pilates than me – and, dare I say it, clocks up more kilometr es than me each week, thanks to her walking club. She may be small, but I certainly look up to…

It took them almost five weeks, but British singer Cheryl (33) and her boyfriend, One Direction star Liam Payne (23) have finally settled on a name for their newborn son – and it’s an unusual one. The musically gifted duo have called their wee one Bear, apparently after adventurer Bear Grylls, a friend of the couple. Bear, whose real name is Edward, congratulated the new parents on the moniker on Twitter, writing, “Great choice! Love & blessings to you guys as you start on the greatest adventure…”, with Liam seemingly confirming the name in his reply Bear saying, ‘Thanks, man. Hope he grows with an ounce of your courage! Your a boss [sic]’. While it’s not exactly a common name, Bear as a first name isn’t unheard of, at least…

‘I like the idea of being Kurt’s girlfriend. I think part of it is you don’t fishwife or demand things’ It’s hard to believe it’s been 15 years since we’ve seen Goldie Hawn’s famed grin light up a movie screen. In her mind, the star had retired from acting, with 2002 film The Banger Sisters intended to be her swan song. But now she’s back – playing Amy Schumer’s mum in the upcoming comedy Snatched. “I believe life is about doing,” Goldie (71) says. “It’s about changing. It’s about transitioning. I can’t imagine, as a human being, not being able to grow. When I turned 50, I asked some of my girlfriends, all actresses of the same age, ‘What are we going to do now?’” Seeking something different – as…

When rumours surfaced in 2015 that Top Gun star Val Kilmer was battling cancer, he immediately shot them down. He said he had “no cancer whatsoever” after fellow actor Michael Douglas, a survivor himself, claimed a gaunt-looking Val was dealing with throat cancer. But now the Batman Forever actor seems to have confirmed he had been diagnosed with the disease after telling people on the website Reddit that he had received “a healing of cancer”. Val (57) is believed to have got in touch with Michael (72) for advice over a lump in his throat. After Michael spilled the beans, Val declared his colleague was “misinformed” but added, “he was probably trying to help me because press probably asked where I was”. Val said he still had a swollen tongue…

‘I think women are naturally resourceful and they figure it out’ Eva Longoria says she’d almost given up on love, with two failed marriages in her past, but that all quickly changed when she set eyes on José “Pepe” Bastón and experienced love at second sight! The hugely successful actress, producer, director, activist and businesswoman says she’s happier – and busier – than ever thanks to her supportive husband and her ever-expanding showbiz career, which is the result of years of hard work. Here, Eva (42) opens up about being charmed by love the third time round, what she learned from her mother and whether we might ever get to see a Desperate Housewives reunion. You’ve just celebrated your first wedding anniversary. What kind of husband is José? He is…

Some days, all we need is a little monochrome styling, but make sure to add statement jewellery to ensure your outfit pops. This look requires a bold lip and nail – try hot pink, orange or a rich purple. Casual chic • Wrapping yourself up in a cosy cardigan does not have to be for just around the house. This monochrome leopard-print option from Jacqui-E is a must-buy. • Team with a simple layering top from Max and skinny pants from Farmers, then funk things up with a bold statement necklace to tie the entire look together. CARDIGAN $129.99 from JACQUI-E. TOP $39.99 from MAX. WHISTLE PANTS $79.99 from FARMERS. EARRINGS $10.90 from COLETTE BY COLETTE HAYMAN. NECKLACE $22.99 from LOVISA. BOOTS $279 from WITCHERY. Street cool • This ensemble…

How to remove yellow stains from vintage knitwear, delicious ways with in-season sweet parsnips, and it’s fun to make your own eco-friendly dishwashing mousse. KNOW YOUR WAY AROUND USE-BY DATES ON FOOD HANDY hint When is food really not edible? Do we go by the use by date or the best before? Many of us waste good food because we think that it is past its best when in fact you could still get a few good days out of it. Here are the definitions of both terms: USE BY: You need to eat it before or on its use by date unless it has been frozen. Use by dates will appear on food, such as meat products, smoked fish and ready-to-eat salads. BEST BEFORE: This is more about…

It’s official – I can now make terrariums. I’ve probably always been able to, since they were desperately trendy when I was about 20, but I’d forgotten until I recently saw one in a design store. Love at second sight. I was hoping someone might give me a terrarium last Mother’s Day, but both the occasion and I were ignored. Not having children of my own doesn’t help, of course, but I had hoped the dog might communicate to the Partner her desire to offer me a gift. She didn’t and he didn’t, so I had to make my own. The upside of that is I can now make them for other people. Of course, not everyone wants a glass jar with plants in it, but my nephew, who lives…

Help your children make Grandma’s day on Sunday with a craft project. This gift is perfect for little hands to try. 1 Put about 2 tablespoons of coloured paint into the mixing dish, then paint 4 popsicle sticks. Allow to dry (they may need another coat). 2 Mix a little white paint into the colour and stir well – it should be 1 to 2 shades lighter than the original colour. 3 Paint one popsicle stick this shade. 4 Repeat Step 2 until you have 4 different coloured sticks – each a shade or two lighter than the one before. Allow to dry. 5 Lay out 4 unpainted sticks, line up the painted sticks on top as shown, then glue them together. 6 Glue the top ends of the unpainted…

HIGH PRAISE I took my nine-year-old niece to Parnell cafe Winona Forever as a treat over the school holidays. She took her sweet time choosing between the goodies on offer. But, in the end, she picked a chocolate doughnut. She was so impressed by it, she confided to me that she wished it was alive so she could pay it a compliment. S Ewen, Auckland LITTLE LAMB Last Sunday we had chicken for dinner. My two sons each wanted a leg and Mr Seven-year-old finally got his way. Daddy had the other. Yesterday, on taking the meat from the oven, my five-year-old whispered, “Mum, what’s this?” “Lamb,” I replied. “Oh, goodie! Can I have the leg please?” Shamrock, Levin January 15, 1968 SIDE EFFECT I had asked my sister-in-law what…

When Carrie Fisher and Debbie Reynolds passed away within two days of each other last year, a shocked world plunged into mourning for mother and daughter. Now a new documentary, which will play in Wellington and Auckland as part of the Documentary Edge International Film Festival, gives an inside look at their relationship and life together. From emotional interviews with the pair, to simple days at their home, this is an intimate and moving portrayal. Directors Fisher Stevens and Alexi Bloom explain that Carrie approached them about making a documentary about Singin’ in the Rain star Debbie, who was still working at nightclubs in her eighties. “She wanted the world to see how incredible her mother was,” explains Fisher. While initially Carrie (60) was shocked at the intimacy of the…

Donna Brookbanks of Funny Girls fame brings her one-woman show Cat-Lady-In-Waiting to Auckland’s Basement Theatre from May 9-13, as part of the International Comedy Festival. My favourite book ever is… Tina Fey’s autobiography Bossypants. This really cemented for me that comedy was what I wanted to do. Tina Fey is very cool and I would like to be her when I grow up. My book of the moment is… The Clan of the Cave Bear by Jean M Auel. My best mate Shoshana McCallum lent it to me to take with me to the Melbourne Comedy Festival. It’s a great historical fiction read – and I’m told it gets a bit saucy at the end!…

‘My eyes are my thing. I don’t have another asset that attracts the same attention’ It was a sign. I’ve been putting it off for a while – in fact, I’ve been delaying the inevitable for about five years – but when I saw the invitation on my desk at work, I decided to bite the bullet and make an appointment. While I was away in London, Specsavers had launched their range of Kylie Minogue spectacle frames – or eyewear, as it’s known in slightly more hip parlance. As a woman of a certain age, I had been invited along to attend the launch and have my eyes tested. If I needed glasses, I would be gifted a pair of Kylie frames. Although I’d missed the launch, the offer to…

Her parents have described her as a “joy from heaven”, and that’s exactly what Princess Charlotte looks like in this gorgeous photo, released by the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge to celebrate her second birthday last week. The snap, which was taken by her mum Kate at their Kensington Palace home in April, shows just how much the little royal has grown since we last glimpsed her on Christmas Day. Charlotte’s mane of hair – clearly inherited from her mother – was held in place by a blue clip, while her slightly quizzical expression reminded many of her great-grandmother, the Queen. Kensington Palace posted the photo to social media alongside a message of gratitude from Kate and William. “TRH [Their Royal Highnesses] would like to thank everyone for the lovely…

‘Melanie has always been very low-key and discreet about their relationship. There’s trust there’ With a plump pout like that there’s no argument over who the daddy of dapper little Deveraux is! Sir Mick Jagger’s partner Melanie Hamrick was spotted out and about in New York City’s Central Park last week with her first – and Mick’s eighth – child, after giving birth to the wee chap last December. Mick’s fourth son’s full name is Deveraux Octavian Basil Jagger. Deveraux, which is usually used as surname is French in origin and means “riverbank”. Octavian is Latin for “born eighth”, while Basil was Mick’s late father’s name. The little boy looked to be having a ball with his mother on their outing. Melanie, a dancer in the American Ballet Theatre, raised…

‘She also taught me to treat people the way you want to be treated, to be kind and respectful’ There might have been 22 prospective paramours clamouring for Zac Franich’s heart, but one woman who definitely doesn’t have to wait for a rose from New Zealand’s latest Bachelor is his mum Debbie. Along with dad Wayne, the 57-year-old teacher is her son’s biggest fan – even if she was a little stunned when she discovered he was about to be unveiled as New Zealand’s third Bachelor. “I had to hold the phone away from my ear when I told her,“ confesses surf life-saver and kayaker Zac (28), as we grill mother and son over lunch at an Auckland cafe. “The laughter was ear-splitting! But Mum and Dad have always been…

‘If you don’t feel loved as a child, you spend your life trying to get that love’ It’s taken a long time, but Barbra Streisand has finally found peace. The singing superstar, who has just celebrated her 75th birthday at a celebrity-packed Los Angeles party, has revealed that after years of self-doubt and insecurity, she’s happy at last with who she is. “I would never trade my life for anybody’s,” she says. “I like my life, I like what I’ve done. I like what I am going to do.” You’d think with all the success she’s had over the years – including winning Oscars, Grammys and Tony awards, and selling more than 140 albums – she’d be more than satisfied with her lot. But while she’s said to have…

It’s time to celebrate mothers and what better way than over a relaxed family brunch filled with some scrumptious, easy-to-prepare food and drinks? I want to surprise my mum with some of these goodies this year, but she’ll probably spy them here first. Best of the brunch! Easy night-before walnut & caramel sticky buns MAKES 8 Freshly baked sticky buns are a magnificent addition to any brunch menu. These ones can be prepped the evening before, then baked in the morning to serve still warm. DOUGH  90ml milk 2 tsp sugar 1½ tsp active dry yeast 50g butter, melted 2 egg yolks 1 whole egg 2¼ cups high grade flour, plus extra for dusting 1 tsp sea salt Oil, to grease bowl CARAMEL 100g butter 100g brown sugar ½ cup…

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We women are terrible at putting ourselves first. But this Mother’s Day, it’s time we thought about our own wellbeing for once. Make sure you’re in the best possible health by having some important checks. SKIN CHECKS Once the weather gets colder and your skin is covered up most of the time, it can be easy not to notice anything suspicious, such as the growth or change in appearance of a mole. These can be signs of skin cancer and the sooner it is diagnosed, the better the outcome is likely to be. Getting a skin expert to take a look at you is a good idea at any time of the year, but especially important now. HEART HEALTH Many women think that it’s men who are at greater risk…

Dressing things up is my passion, especially if I can make it myself. Terrariums lend themselves to additions of rope, raffia, cork and all manner of other flotsam and jetsam, and I also like the idea of adding a stylish label or piece of artwork to personalise them if they’re intended as a gift. If you have a flair for design, you can make your own labels – just make sure it’s not so large that it obscures what’s going on under the glass. If you’re not artistically inclined, then visit your nearest two dollar shop and buy a sheet of tattoo transfers to give your terrarium an ethnic look.…

We know that petrol vapours are flammable and the last thing we want is for a spark to ignite them while you’re refuelling. But can you still safely use your cellphone? You were recently barked at by a petrol station attendant for using your cellphone on the forecourt. Weren’t the dangers proven to be a myth? Is it still illegal to use a cellphone on a petrol station forecourt? There is no law specifically prohibiting someone from using their cellphone on a petrol station forecourt. And I know that the popular TV show Mythbusters has concluded there’s no special danger. But NZ regulations around the safe storage of hazardous products state that petrol station owners must control all ignition sources on the forecourt, including cellphones. So attendants have every right…

In honour of Mother’s Day on May 14, we invite you to test your trivia knowledge with this celebrity-inspired quiz! 1 The late Elizabeth Angela Marguerite Bowes-Lyon was better known to us as? 2 Paul McCartney wrote about his mother Mary in which famous Beatles’ song? 3 Who played Gunner “Lofty” Sugden in the hit British TV series, It Ain’t Half Hot Mum? 4 What do Jennifer Lopez, Lisa Marie Presley, Margaret Thatcher, Julia Roberts and Sarah Jessica Parker all have in common? 5 Which celebrity mother has children named Rumer, Tallulah Belle and Scout LaRue? 6 Which celebrity welcomed her first child to the world, aged 50, giving birth to a boy in January this year? 7 Which science fiction movie featured a starship computer named Mother? 8 What…

TAURUS April 21 – May 21 This week will pass in a blur and suddenly it will be the weekend, and you’ll wonder what you have achieved. Don’t worry, you have done a great deal. You cleared away a lot of small things that needed sorting out, you organised people and you have everything in order for the following week – which is an important one. Be happy that everything is up to date. GEMINI May 22 – Jun 21 Being community minded is a good thing and if you are in politics, it is a particularly good time to get out and about. People will take notice – you have a charismatic energy at the moment. If you’re not in politics, then use this charm for love as you…

I’ve read quite a few of Anita Shreve’s novels. Some I’ve really loved; others not so much, and one I actually threw across the room because I was so annoyed by the ending. There was no risk of that happening to her latest book The Stars Are Fire. It’s a great read – involving and thought-provoking. The story is set in coastal Maine just after the end of World War II. Housewife Grace Holland lives a small, quiet life with her husband Gene and their two young children. Her main concern seems to be whether the weather will be fine enough to hang out the laundry. If her marriage to the deeply troubled Gene isn’t what she had hoped, then she is prepared to put up with it in return…

I have a theory that it’s good for the soul to get rid of things, downsize a bit, loosen up the drawers and empty some shelves and cupboards. It’s quite a recent theory, brought on ever so slightly by the fact that someone else is going to be living in our house for the next few months while we go off and live somewhere else altogether. Auckland, actually. While we’re away, the people in our house will need some space for their bits and pieces and it feels like we’re having to move a mountain just to make that possible. And when I say “we’re” having to move a mountain, I mostly mean I’m having to do it, but that’s okay. I’ve had previous experience moving mountains. And it’s not…