Innholdsfortegnelse for 1703 i New Zealand Woman's Weekly

• Be open to the goodness of the world. “Decide to see and be in your world with your eyes and heart wide open,” she says. “Wherever you live, really look around.” • Go to places you’ve never been before, even if it’s just as simple as trying a new restaurant, or take a class on something new. • Don’t beat yourself up if you go a little off track with your goals – it happens to everyone! “The other night I’m out and I have a couple of spoonfuls of something I normally wouldn’t... and it’s okay because tomorrow is another day, so then I would just pull back and balance the night before.” • Create balance and accountability. If you know you’re going to have a bit of…

 "I want to be with Carrie.” Those were the last words of a broken-hearted mother. Hollywood golden girl and mother of the late Carrie Fisher, Debbie Reynolds was facing unimaginable grief, being without the daughter to whom she was incredibly close. ‘She’s had an amazing life and she’s someone to admire’ While it was true theirs had been a complex relationship over the years – dealing with a shared spotlight, affairs and Carrie’s drug addictions – most recently the pair were close as could be. Debbie lived just down the hill from Carrie. While planning Carrie’s funeral with her son Todd Fisher (58), Debbie suffered a catastrophic stroke and couldn’t be revived. She died the day after Carrie, who was 60, at the age of 84. Todd says Debbie struggled…

Tossed, chopped, warm or cold, salads make for a satisfyingly simple summer meal. With our gardens flourishing and local farmers’ markets overflowing, salad fixings abound. Get creative! Send your foodie thoughts and questions to Nici: nwickes@bauermedia.co.nz Rustic Italian sausage & courgette salad SERVES 6 Lay this beauty out on a board or platter so guests can pick and choose. The fried courgette is the hero of this dish. 3 red capsicums, halved and deseeded (or use store-bought char-grilled peppers) Olive oil 6-8 pork and fennel sausages 1 large red onion, halved, then sliced thinly from tip to root 1 tbsp butter Olive oil, for frying 4-6 courgettes, sliced thinly (I use a mandoline) 1 cup olives Large handful basil leaves 1 To char-grill the capsicum, rub with olive oil, place…

Brighten up your wardrobe with a dose of florals. You only need one piece to up the ante on your ensemble. Embrace the summer vibes and don’t forget to sniff the flowers. Blooming great! THE DRESS • A floral dress is a timeless option to have in your wardrobe. From lunches to weddings and beyond, you will never regret having this classic print there to use. • This high-necked, swing-style dress from EziBuy ticks all the boxes. When you’re picking accessories to wear with your floral frock, choose a colour in the print to match and go from there for a winning combination. GRACE HILL DRESS $129.99 from EZIBUY. BAG $49.90 from COLETTE BY COLETTE HAYMAN. XCESRI EARRINGS $9.99 from FARMERS. THE TOP • Embracing the cold-shoulder trend has been…

Whether it’s naturally what you were born with or bleached and lightened, caring for blonde hair often requires extra effort, especially over summer when it can become porous. Our model Jane cares for her lightened locks with a weekly restoring mask, but here are a few other ways you can keep your blonde hair looking its best... TONE Lighter blondes are prone to yellowing and darker blondes brassiness between salon visits, but toning every now and then with a lavender pigment found in some shampoos, conditioners and foams can counteract this. Try: Juuce Blonde Violet Foam, $28. ADD SHINE Generally, the lighter the hair, the less it reflects the light, which can read as looking dull. Once you’ve styled your hair, try a light mist of shine-enhancing spray to help…

1 Your credit card balance never shrinks If you have multiple cards, try paying off the card with the smallest balance first, then work your way up to the highest, says financial planner Susan Bryant. Clearing one card can encourage you to stay on the right track. “What’s important with this strategy is that, rather than just paying the minimum on those cards, you also tack on the amount you were paying towards all the other cards, so you pay those lower balances off faster,” says Susan. Consolidating your debt by transferring all your balances to a single credit card with no interest for 12 months is another smart option, according to financial coach Melissa Meagher. “Not having to pay interest on that original balance will ensure you pay it…

It’s very inconvenient when the appliances we use all the time give up the ghost! Especially if the products in question are new. Do you have to go without while they’re being fixed? Borrow trouble! If a product you buy turns out to have a fault and it’s a product you use every day, can you demand a loan while it’s being repaired? It’s bad news, I’m afraid. The Consumer Guarantees Act does not even mention loan items. So you can’t demand a temporary replacement while your new washing machine or microwave is being repaired. I think the law should be changed so that if the store can’t give you a loan, then it should pay for you to hire one, or simply compensate you. After all, it’s inconvenient –…

I’m very happy with my age. Well, my date of birth. Falling in the early ‘60s, it meant I was born at the tail end of the generation known as the baby boomers. Baby boomers: those lucky buggers born after WWII, when soldiers were returning home and making like rabbits. If you arrived on this planet between 1946-1964, then you’re blessed. Some say baby boomers hit the good times in terms of politics, the economy, global stability, consumerism and social change. I’m not sure about that, I don’t think everyone that belongs to this generation is happily diving into piles of cash with wonderful memories of free love, peace and buying a house in Auckland when normal people could. But I do agree this group has size on their side.…

RED DOG: TRUE BLUE RATING PG The tale might lack excitement, but the dog still has his charm. Levi Miller (Peter Pan) stars in this prequel of the 2011 Australian family hit Red Dog. The story follows an 11-year-old boy who has been forced to spend time at his grandfather’s cattle station when he discovers a scrappy one-of-a-kind dog that would grow up to become an Aussie legend. While the storyline will not fetch the same levels of success as the original, it’s a pleasant choice for a family day out to the cinema.…

She lives in London and is a writer and TV producer. She was the creator of the hit show Grand Designs but is now concentrating on historical fiction and the second TV series of Victoria. On why she was excited to write about Queen Victoria... “She is just such a fantastic subject. I think most people think of her as this stern old widow but her early life is astonishing. It’s been very nice to spend some time with this young, effervescent, enthusiastic girl.” On how her real ambition was to be a film star... “Sadly, as I grew up, I realised I didn’t have the face, figure or acting talent to be a screen goddess, so I settled for a life behind the camera, first as a TV producer…

Mary, Crown Princess of Denmark positively dazzled at one of her first engagements of the year, with the 44-year-old Australian-born Danish royal attending the New Year’s Diplomatic Reception in Copenhagen last week, alongside husband Frederik, Crown Prince of Denmark (48). Showing she’s every bit as stylish as the United Kingdom’s Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, mum-of-four Mary donned the traditional turquoise Danish sash. It was a busy week for Mary and Frederik, who also attended a banquet on New Year’s Day.…

It’s taken some practice, but I’m finally getting the hang of writing “2017” without thinking I’ve accidentally started penning a futuristic science-fiction novel! We’re doing our very best here at New Zealand Woman’s Weekly to ensure it’s a cracker of a year . So far, there’s been plenty of looking ahead as we gather inspiration from experts and celebrities to help us all put our best foot forward. But we’ve also been fitting in a fair bit of reflection. In this issue, we turn the dial way back to 1937. Not only was this the year King George VI was crowned, it was also when a bevy of stars were born – and they’ll all be celebrating their milestone 80th birthdays this year . Be sure to turn to page…

‘The tragedy would mark the end of the unhappiness’ This year marks the 20th anniversary of Princess Diana’s death in a car crash in Paris. It is also the year when a new approach to monarchy is set to take public shape – and the two events are very much connected. “Everyone, from the Queen down, was shocked and appalled by what happened,” says a long-standing courtier. “Everyone, including Prince Charles, was determined that the tragedy would mark the end of the unhappiness that dogged several of the royal family. “Above all, everyone was determined that her sons would not suffer from the rigid rules that placed duty above the important personal factors that lead to a balanced life and a happier person. The results are now becoming clear.” Prince…

‘So were these delusions an exciting new feature of menopause, I wondered?’ I was starting to wonder if I’d seen a ghost. How could a man be there one moment and gone the next? And Marley really had been living in that bach; I hadn’t dreamt it. We’d sat on the beach together, eaten food and drunk beer. I’d admired his driftwood sculptures – I’d even hugged him, for goodness’ sake. But now he’d disappeared and there was a family in his bach who were claiming he didn’t exist. From my deck, I watched the children screaming into the sea with their boogie boards. They seemed all too real. So were these delusions an exciting new feature of the menopause, I wondered? Was I losing my mind? The weekend then…

Super sunnies Protect your eyes from the sun in style with a pair of timeless tortoiseshell sunglasses. This classic pattern works with most colours and will never date. Whether you opt for the traditional brown combination or move into something a little more modern, this is one purchase you won’t regret. Treat yourself Welcome in the new year and take advantage of the summer sales to pick up the ultimate personal gift – some new lingerie. Adding some florals under your clothes will not only put a smile on your face, but also your partner’s. Colour me Kagi Step into the new year on the right foot with Kagi. Colour is scientifically proven to boost our mood and evoke a range of emotions. Experience a kaleidoscope of colour with the…

Make a savoury pudding with day-old bread, keep hydrangeas fresh in their vase, discourage moths from winter woollens and mix up an old-fashioned shrub drink or spicy cup of tea. Cheers! CLOVE & GINGER BLACK TEA 2 cups boiling water 2 black tea bags ½ tsp ground ginger ½ tsp ground or whole cloves Orange peel Honey 1 In a medium saucepan, combine the water, tea bags, ginger and cloves. Add some orange peel and a teaspoon of honey. 2 Bring to the boil, then remove from the heat and allow to steep for 5 minutes. Strain into a cup and enjoy. Add more honey if you like it a little sweeter. CARDAMOM PEAR SHRUB A shrub drink is an old-fashioned concoction designed to quench your thirst. It is traditionally…

Planning is not my strong point. I’m good with designing gardens for other people, but a meeting about our own garden seems to render me indecisive and useless. My take on it: I planned it 15 years ago, so why would I want to do it again? The Partner has the answer to that. Get scheming! When you have a two-acre wilderness gradually being overtaken by plants that have grown too big, paths that haven’t worked out and lawns that grow more moss than grass, occasional assessments of where the garden is at and where it might conceivably be going in the foreseeable future are essential. It’s good to do this early in the year while it’s too hot to do anything more useful. The Partner and I tend to…

FREUDIAN SLIP While holidaying with the family this year, we found ourselves driving down a very congested Las Vegas Boulevard. Traffic was heavy and we witnessed some crazy manoeuvres. My daughter said, as we finally made it to our destination, “The driving in Vegas is very erotic, Mum.” Indeed, very erratic! Jenny, Canterbury YOU DON’T LOOK IT... I don’t think I look older than my 40 years. In fact, I have been taken as quite a lot younger. Yet children seem to have a peculiar idea of age. We were talking of how old someone was the other night when my eight-year-old asked, “How old are you, Mum?” I replied, “21.” Pausing, he said, “Imagine that. And you look 70!” What a blow. Old Lady, Nelson, February 22, 1965 SAY…

What’s missing? I do love the British royal family and enjoyed your article about them (28.12.16). I believe they work hard for their subjects and deserve credit for that. It is wonderful to see the Queen with Prince Philip still faithfully by her side. How many readers noticed the Queen was not holding her wedding bouquet? Apparently, it was mislaid and couldn’t be found for the group photos. It shows they are human after all (but I hope no servant’s head rolled over the omission!). G Porter, Canterbury $100 WINNING LETTER Words to inspire I loved the Suzanne Paul article (02.01.17). Her tenacity, sense of humour and smiling face is an inspiration to us all. I enjoyed her tips for remaining sensational at 60 but would like to add a…

Escape from the aftermath of the recent US presidential election with TV’s favourite fictional politician Elizabeth McCord in a new season of Madam Secretary. In an alternate universe, the Secretary of State, played by Téa Leoni, could even be a presidential candidate voters could agree on. “One thing that I have been very vocal about with the other partners in this show is I don’t want us ever to use the words Republican and Democrat,” says Téa, who is also a producer for the show. “I really want to move away from the idea of ‘us’ and ‘them’ because the polarisation in our politics is getting us nowhere.” While her character is often compared to Hillary Clinton, Téa reveals it was a family member who inspired the role. “The first…

I am all about the royals at the moment. I loved the Netflix series The Crown and, while I missed Victoria when it screened on TVNZ 1, I really enjoyed this novel from the same writer. It looks at the early life of Queen Victoria, an over-indulged and overprotected young woman who comes to the throne at the age of 18. Very quickly, the young Victoria discovers that being queen doesn’t mean she has much power over her life. Her court is full of people who want to dictate who she should choose for her friends and husband. There are those who want to use her to make themselves powerful, and others who try to portray her as too young and silly to rule. Somehow, this spirited but naïve young…

Loretta Swit The original “Hot Lips” Houlihan made her mark in M*A*S*H . Jack Nicholson “I’ve had everything a man could ask for,” Jack has said. “But I don’t know if anyone could say I’m successful with affairs of the heart. I would love that one last real romance.” Warren Beatty ”I’m old, I’m young, I’m intelligent, I’m stupid. My tide goes in and out,” the Bugsy star has said of ageing. Shirley Bassey “I don’t in any way feel that I am the age I’m told I am. I think someone put the wrong date on my birth certificate. I’m sure I’m younger than the official version. There’s definitely been a mix-up somewhere. I feel 50 years younger than that. How I…

‘It’s my life story – the lessons I’ve learned, the discoveries I’ve made – told through food’ “Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right,” is perhaps one of Oprah Winfrey’s most well-known quotes, but 2017 is shaping up to be a special one for the talk-show queen and entertainment doyenne. And got it right, she has. Last week, Oprah released her first ever cookbook, Food, Health and Happiness, in which she talks through her very public, decades-long struggle with her weight – a battle she is now winning. She’s dropped almost 20kg over the last two years and, as the title of the book suggests, she’s happier and healthier than ever before. “It’s my life story – the lessons I’ve learned, the discoveries…

1 What are Princess Charlotte’s middle 2 names? Who is seventh in the line of 3 succession? What is the primary residence of Prince Charles and the Duchess of Cornwall? 4 Who was Her Majesty The Queen’s 5 paternal grandmother? How many grandchildren does 6 the Queen have? In what year did Prince Charles and Lady Diana 7 Spencer get married? What is the surname used by the immediate royal family when one is required? 8 Does the Queen require a passport for 9 international travel? What crossbreed of dog has the Queen been credited with creating? 10 Where do the royals traditionally 11 spend Christmas? How many of the Queen’s four children have been divorced? 12 At what university did Prince William and the Duchess of Cambridge meet? 13…

‘I wouldn’t want to go to Hollywood – I’d have to go and have a face-lift for a start’ Julie Walters is sitting in a fancy chair in the grand library of a posh London hotel and cooing about her sumptuous surroundings. “God, I wish my house was like this,“ she says as she greets us, warmly of course (imagine if she wasn’t friendly, the world would stop turning on its axis). Surely, a house like this is what you’d expect for an actress of such stature, we say? “You must be joking,“ she laughs, telling us she lives in a “funny old house“ in the Sussex countryside with her farmer hubby Grant Roffey (they have a grown-up daughter Maisie, 28). Coming across as normal and a bit like your…

There was nothing Sacha Jones couldn’t do on a tennis court. Her incredible talent, poise and determination led to a number one ranking in New Zealand tennis in 2009. She was living the professional athlete’s dream. But on the inside, Sacha (26) was struggling. Depression, loneliness, incredible pressure and a horror run of injuries were beginning to consume her. “At the time, I didn’t really know how to handle what I was feeling,” she tells the Weekly. “I felt like a failure, not good enough, quite insecure and I didn’t have a lot of inner confidence. Much of my self-esteem came from my results and how well I was doing, so when I didn’t have that after I retired, I didn’t have any internal resources to pull on. “And I…

PORK & CRUNCHY NOODLE SALAD SERVES 4 500g Chinese barbecue pork, thinly sliced ½ Chinese cabbage, shredded 1 yellow capsicum, seeded, thinly sliced 1 carrot, shredded 4 spring onions, thinly sliced 100g crunchy Asian noodles 1/3 cup roasted cashews, chopped, coriander, mint leaves, to serve DRESSING 1 cup coriander, chopped ¼ cup lime juice ¼ cup peanut oil 2 tbsp fish sauce 2 tbsp soy sauce 1 tsp sesame oil 2 tsp brown sugar 1 long red chilli, sliced 1 In a large serving dish, combine the pork, cabbage, capsicum, carrot and onions. 2 In a small food processor, combine all of the dressing ingredients. Process for around 1 minute. Toss half through the salad. 3 Sprinkle the salad with noodles, cashews and herbs. Drizzle with the remaining half of…

Who doesn’t love a good gadget? When it comes to beauty routines, these high-tech tools are simply genius and make mundane tasks just a little more glamourous, fun and stress-free. Be your own pro. Tools of the trade! HAIR REMOVAL Removing unwanted hair is always at the forefront of our minds over summer. If it’s unruly eyebrows, peach fuzz on your face, nostril hairs or hair “down there” that’s bothering you, Veet Sensitive Precision Beauty Styler, $49.99 (1), will quickly take care of it. This precision shaver’s interchangeable trimming heads and comb attachments make it a no-mess, no-fuss grooming essential! Remington i-Light Pro Plus Face & Body, $899.99 (2), uses IPL (intense pulsed light) to reduce hair growth by targeting the root of each hair. It’s safe to use on…

If your New Year’s resolution is to lose weight, it’s important to make sure you shed those excess kilos slowly and do your best to avoid regaining them. Read on to find out why. Say no to the yo-yo! Does this sound like you? You go on a diet, lose a few kilos, then before you know it, you’ve put the weight back on. So you go on another diet, lose a few kilos and the cycle continues. Losing and gaining weight like this is known as yo-yo dieting and for some people, it’s a way of life. But this kind of weight loss can be bad for your health. If it becomes a habit, it can actually make it harder for you to keep the kilos off. Here’s why…

YOU WANT TO: BE LESS STRESSED Get up an hour earlier. Adding an extra 60 minutes to your day can reduce stress by improving your productivity or simply giving you quiet time for a cuppa before the world wakes up. “Just set your alarm and resolve to stick to it,” says Annie. “It’s much easier to make it routine if you avoid any internal debate with yourself.” YOU WANT TO: BE INVOLVED IN THE COMMUNITY AND VOLUNTEER ONCE A MONTH There are plenty of opportunities to give back – even in a small way. Dedicate one day to help out at your local animal shelter, community centre or charity shop. “The responsibility and obligation alone will help you to show up because you’ll know people are…

CAPRICORN Dec 23 – Jan 20 There is some spare cash in the bank but ask yourself – is it really spare? If you spend it, does it make the rest of the month just a little tighter than it should be? It’s likely the answer is yes... and you will spend it anyway! You don’t mind if it is baked beans on toast for a couple of days until payday – living on a budget will be worth that fun day out with family and friends or gorgeous new handbag. AQUARIUS Jan 21 – Feb 19 It’s time to mix things up, but then again, that’s in your nature – and people love you for it. Gather your friends for an adventure, perhaps a meal at a new restaurant…

‘I saw the plastic bag emerge during the carving process’ Well, it’s back to work for lots of Kiwis this week – including me. I hope you managed to get a break over the Christmas-New Year period and if you were one of the many people who worked through, can I just say thank you very much. To those in retail and supermarkets who worked up to the bitter end on Christmas Eve; to those in the media who kept us informed and entertained; to those in the transport industry, who provided the planes, trains and automobiles for us to connect with far-flung family and friends; to the emergency crews and hospital staff; to all of you who provided the essential infrastructure that makes a community tick – thank you…

Peta Mathias is an entertainer, cook and author. Her latest book is Never Put All Your Eggs in One Bastard (Penguin Random House, RRP $40). My favourite ever book is… One that did really influence me was Bruce Chatwin’s In Patagonia. He talks about what he called l’horreur du domicile, our need to be nomadic, which is a compulsion to wander and also our emotional need to have a home base. As a nomad, I didn’t feel so freaky any more. My book of the moment is… On my way home from India, I bought a book in the airport by David Sedaris called Me Talk Pretty One Day. He is so hilarious, smart and naughty, and his portrayal of his family is phenomenal.…

Three words – sultry, seductive Salma. The Frida actress exuded an artful mix of sophistication and sex appeal in this figure-hugging frock, which showed off her incredible curves. With a pair of black pumps, she couldn’t put a foot wrong. Platform heels took this modern jumpsuit to new heights. The style was a total winner on the From Dusk till Dawn vamp, suiting her body shape perfectly. The elegant floral fabric was to die for – spot the matching handbag! Where do we line up for this? The style may have been rather formal, but Salma still managed to stand out in this well-cut cobalt dress with complementary belt. The outfit was expertly paired with a metallic clutch and gold heels – a great example of how accessories can make…

Hola, señorita! After a tough 2016, which saw her split from longtime love Liev Schreiber, Aussie actress Naomi Watts definitely deserved a little rest and relaxation over the New Year holiday. The King Kong star (48) took some time out in Cancun, Mexico, with her sons, Sasha (9) and eight-year-old Sam, as well as a gaggle of girlfriends. “Farewell 2016, happy new year to everyone,” she posted to her Instagram account. “Bring on 2017, love from Mexico.” The mum-of-two looked sensational in her turquoise one-piece swimsuit as she took a dip in the ocean. No doubt Naomi will be thrilled to have a little holiday, as her 2017 is looking hectic with three movies and a television series due to premiere. It will also be her first full year as…