Jeff and Debbie Kolod know firsthand the truth behind the saying, “If you build it, they will come.” The couple’s waterfront house, situated on one of Maine’s most popular lakes, is a bustling hub for their crew of 21. The family, which includes a mix of adult children, their spouses and 13 grandchildren, are drawn to the property by the promise of time together.
“It’s like summer camp,” says Debbie of the house, affectionately dubbed Bear Cove. “You can swim on the sandy beach, kayak, gish off the dock; there’s always something cooking over the fire pit.” (In the winter, it’s ice fishing and snowmobiling that capture the crowd.)
The carefree vibe feels completely natural — “Kids can just be kids here,” declares Debbie — but the laid-back approach is…