Innholdsfortegnelse for H&R Monthly May 2020 (vol.2) i Horse & Rider

When my daughter enrolled in 4-H this year, I expected it to give her a chance to make friends, learn about her horse, and ride. All good things. What I discovered, though, was that she gained so much more. In fact, she gained an education in ships: horsemanship, leadership, citizenship, and friendship. As a parent, I saw 4-H through a different lens than I did as a child, when it was just fun. After watching my own daughter work on her record books, give presentations, and prep for fair, I found myself taking a “what I wish I knew then that I know now” look at 4-H. I talked to several experts—from former 4-H members to leaders and staffers—about what first-time 4-Hers (and their parents) should know before they embark…

Be a parent first. “Think of your child’s perspective, and emphasize fun,” advises Teresa Larson, a lifelong horsewoman who has raised four children, three of whom are riders. “The right horse for each child is so important here. A mount that’s hard to catch, for example, can make a sensitive child feel unwanted or ignored.”The right horse for each child is so important here. A mount that’s hard to catch, for example, can make a sensitive child feel unwanted or ignored. She adds that you must let your child do the things he or she thinks are fun-which may or may not include competing. Larson also recommends you share your child’s other interests while waiting to see if a horse attraction emerges. “Participate wherever possible, to keep that child from…

If you’re a kid who gets to ride, consider yourself lucky. You experience the joy of caring for a horse and riding, all while being physically active, and you reap benefits that’ll help form who you are and set your path toward a successful adulthood, both inside and outside the arena. I raised my son, BJ, in the horse industry, and I’ve coached numerous youth riders to reach their goals and see them succeed as amateur and open competitors. Here are seven insights all youth riders should consider to get the most out of the experience. Find a Barn That Fits Youth riders tend to stick together, and trainers who work with kids have a special skillset. Find a barn that’s fun and where you fit in. That means your…