Things shrink as you approach your 40s. Some grapple with receding hairlines, deteriorating eyesight, and diminishing libidos. For many of us, our friendships start to plateau, before fading away. Before you know it, you are commiserating on Reddit, asking, “How common is it for adults to not have any friends at all?”
When I set my own personal KPIs this year (meet people, get laid, and try not to accidentally procreate), I didn’t expect to be making new friends and reconnecting with old ones. As I opened myself up to dates, I also started attending various events – lectures, book readings, and parties – where I’ve bumped into long-lost acquaintances. Sometimes, with a little help from liquid courage, I would strike up conversations with strangers.
In the course of my…
