Innholdsfortegnelse for January 2023 i Her World Singapore

EDITOR’S NOTE I AM CAPABLE OF ANYTHING THAT I SET MY MIND TO. I DO NOT SEEK EXTERNAL VALIDATION; I KNOW WHAT I AM GOOD AT. I AM PROUD OF MY ACHIEVEMENTS AND WHO I AM. I first met cover girl Lim Xixi a few years ago when we were seated together at a press luncheon for a beauty brand. I didn’t know who she was then, but I loved her vivacious energy, and remember enjoying the conversation we had. Fast forward to 2023 and the actor-comedian-singer now has tonnes of accolades under her belt, including starring in the Ah Girls Go Army movie, and releasing her single I Am Xixi in October last year. Plus, we hear that she has plans to launch a size-inclusive clothing line in the…

TO KNOW Ask Rochelle Lai (better known as Relle Lai) what she was like growing up, and she’d be quick to say that she was not known as an outgoing and gregarious child. Reserved and quiet, she was content with playing by herself, or focusing on her interests and tasks at hand. She loved art and fashion, but she certainly did not see herself getting into modelling as a career. Life, however, had other plans. The 24-year-old, who has a Communication Design diploma, is now a fashion and lifestyle digital creator and model, with an Instagram following of close to 11,000. She’s also a freelance graphic designer. Facing an “identity crisis” in 2021, Relle decided to quit her full-time job as she felt that it limited her “time and energy…

1. MCM Ultra Eau De Parfum, from $45 Encased in a gold, backpack-shaped vessel (designed to resemble the brand’s iconic Stark bag), this fragrance is unapologetically bold and feminine. It features notes like blackcurrant, pink lady apple and bergamot that are layered with tuberose and jasmine sambac. Cedarwood, golden amber, tonka bean and moss are added into the mix for a scent that’s fruity-floral, but still grounded. 2. Bskin Elvi Pro Device, $495 This facial device sculpts and enlivens the complexion with its ergonomic design and advanced technology. Harnessing microcurrent technology, micro-vibrations and LED therapy, combined with gentle heating and cooling, Elvi Pro depuffs the face, helps sharpen features, and combats signs of ageing. Plus, it’s also shaped like a traditional gua sha tool for relieving tension. 3. Est.lab Lumiglow…

ARIES, LIBRA AND PISCES These signs are always ready to dive headfirst into even the most challenging situations to achieve their goals. This year, you don’t have to make major leaps forward – take small steps towards success and make small positive changes. Expect an abundance of new opportunities in the months ahead. BEAUTY LOOK TO TRY When it comes to your makeup, take extra time to add a little spice to your everyday beat. Give your simple black winged liner an upgrade by drawing it in a graphic shape and adding rhinestones on the inner corner of your eyes. GEMINI AND AQUARIUS These two air signs often put the needs of others before their own, and the past year offered plenty of chances to keep busy by giving back…

EVERYONE IS BETTER THAN ME I ,M NOT GOOD ENOUGH I DON"T BELONG HERE I HAVE ZERO TALENT I ,M A FAILURE! I DON , T DESERVE THIS I JUST LUCKED OUT MY COLLEAGUES ARE SO MUCH SMARTER THAN ME AS FAR AS YOUR BOSSES ARE CONCERNED, YOU’RE A SUPERSTAR EMPLOYEE WITH AN AMAZING CAREER AHEAD OF YOU. You perform well consistently (and have the raises and promotions to show for it), and have been praised for being “competent and the best at what you do”. Despite your successes, you don’t think you’re anything special. You assume you just lucked out, or that your colleagues are just being nice. Dig a little deeper and the way you truly feel becomes more apparent: You don’t believe you’re as skilled or talented…

I am about to walk into a sexual wellness pop-up centre. But while I might typically hustle my way into such spaces at breakneck speed to avoid the curious stares of passersby – Singapore, after all, is still a relatively conservative society – today, I’m strolling in. See, I’m going to enter a first-of-its-kind sexual wellness space in the metaverse. The virtual centre is launched by the world’s largest sexual wellness company Lovehoney Group, which offers award-winning adult product brands such as Womanizer and We-Vibe. The metaverse space by Lovehoney was hosted on Decentraland, a virtual reality browser-based platform powered by the Ethereum blockchain. The centre spans four floors with educational videos, an NFT art gallery, as well as a dance floor. THE VIRTUAL SPACE ALLOWS ADDITIONAL WAYS FOR CONNECTION…

Wearing fabulous footwear can sometimes cause excruciating pain as bunions may form. However, thanks to a new minimally invasive technique, you’ll soon be up and strutting your stuff again. If your toes are feeling a little squashed in those stilettos, or there’s a little red painful bump forming inside those pumps, it’s time to make a trip to the clinic. Bunions are bony deformities that can form near the joint at the base of your big toe due to ill-fitting shoes. They can also be hereditary. If your mother or grandmother had bunions, there’s a chance you may have them too. Left untreated, bunions can cause pain or difficulty wearing shoes. Mobility may also be affected. In severe cases, it can cause the other toes to “overlap”. Help is at…

When even fashion designer Victoria Beckham – known for her minimalist aesthetic – references the unapologetically bold excess of the ’80s, you know the era is making a comeback. In her Resort 2023 collection, tights in yellow, red and pink were styled with everything from skirt suits to slinky dresses. Another striking look: a ruched green asymmetrical dress, which she playfully styled with bright red stockings. A distinctive hallmark of ’80s fashion, ruching was incorporated into almost every piece of clothing – from miniskirts to toga tops and puff-sleeved prom dresses. The reason for its enduring appeal? When designed well, this gathered overlay of fabric strips flatters any body type. This redeeming quality of the ruched dress was not lost on designers Lazaro Hernandez and Jack McCollough of Proenza Schouler.…

Who could forget the time when fashion and beauty influencer Chiara Ferragni strutted about Paris in a sheer Schiaparelli top with gold nipple covers during fashion week last October? Whether you loved or questioned her look, one thing’s for sure: The outfit, which garnered 580K likes on Instagram, was a huge hit. A leading haute couture house in the 1930s, Schiaparelli is one of the many heritage luxury brands from decades past that are back in fashion. Courreges, known for iconic 1960s staples (think miniskirts and vinyl cropped jackets), is now embraced by the likes of pop star Ariana Grande and model-actor Lily-Rose Depp. And what about Mugler and Paco Rabanne, two other seemingly lost-to-the-archives houses? Established in the ’60s and ’70s respectively, these French labels were recognised more for…

"I am so excited that this is my first cover shoot,” gushes Xixi, throwing her hands up in the air with exuberance. “It’s such a huge milestone.” She’s been interviewed by several publications before, but this marks her first time in the title role. It’s ironic really, because most of her roles on-screen tend to be typecast as a supporting character. “[It’s usually] the best friend of the female lead,” she says with a slight weariness in her voice. It is not something that Xixi regrets as she entered the industry with her eyes wide open when she was 18. As a plus-sized performer, the 35-year-old was aware that she was unlike most celebrities in Singapore. Still, Xixi was laser-focused on showcasing her talent in comedy: “Every show needed a…

TO KNOW Fact: When it comes to product endorsements, Tiktok has become the new word of mouth, with users checking out trending hashtags to discover the latest in shopping. For example, #dysonairwrap has clocked in over 1.1 billion views of content on the social media platform, while #diorlipglow is currently at over 115 million views. Want to know what’s buzzing with the beauty community on Tiktok? Look no further – these are the products you should cart out now. ANASTASIA BEVERLY HILLS BROW FREEZE BROW STYLING WAX, $41 WHAT IT IS A clear brow wax that lifts, tames and sculpts brow hairs, keeping them in place without looking stiff. Best of all, it’s perfect for all skin tones and brow colours. WHY IT’S TIKTOK VIRAL If you’re a fan of…

TO BUY You might sport that barely there, glowy makeup look on most days, but some situations call for foundations with more coverage. Maybe you didn’t get a good night’s sleep, or you’re going to a party after work, and your go-to tinted moisturiser just doesn’t cut it in these instances. That’s when you might reach for something with full coverage. While there are plenty of options available, finding a base that meets all of your needs can be tricky. To make things easier, we tried and tested a range of foundations – here’s our edit of the best ones, ranked according to their coverage. LIGHTEST COVERAGE HEAVIEST COVERAGE SEPHORA COLLECTION BEST SKIN EVER GLOW 12HR MOISTURIZING LIQUID FOUNDATION, $30 Combining the benefits of skincare and makeup, this foundation…

In her younger days, Chia Yong Yong had no interest in helping others, she admits with a sheepish laugh. The lawyer was solely focused on climbing the career ladder, and was indifferent to the social service landscape. Her admission comes as somewhat of a surprise: Today, the 60-year-old is a respected advocate who has lent her expertise to a number of agencies and boards in the social service sector, to champion the equal treatment of people with disabilities in Singapore. Her interest stems from her own disability: She has peroneal muscular atrophy, a condition that damages the peripheral nerves and causes the muscle tissues in her limbs to be progressively weakened. “It took me such a long time to find a job that I wanted to make the best of…

I AM CAPABLE OF ANYTHING THAT I SET MY MIND TO I DO NOT SEEK EXTERNAL VALIDATION; I KNOW WHAT I AM GOOD AT I AM PROUD OF MY ACHIEVEMENTS AND WHO I AM I AM AS GOOD AS PEOPLE SAY I AM I AM WORTHY OF THE SUCCESS THAT I HAVE ACHIEVED THIS WILL WORK OUT, BUT IF IT DOESN’T, I AM CAPABLE OF STARTING OVER WITH A NEW PLAN I KNOW WHAT I AM DOING 1 Share your experience with a person or group you feel safe with. Ruminating that you’re the only one who feels like an imposter can be tremendously isolating. Sharing your experience goes a long way towards validating and reassuring your feelings, and immediately creating a sense of belonging and comfort. 2 Create a…

It’s a lazy Sunday evening in December, and Barood is completely full. Not too shabby for a Latin-Indian izakaya that just opened its doors in late 2022 with minimal fanfare. Accessible via a nondescript set of stairs on Tras Street, the vibe is sexy, with low, warm lighting, scarlet accents and dark wood furnishings. The food is, in one word, excellent: Think Indian fritters topped with uni, and rice cakes laden with pulled duck, all paired with creative cocktails. It’s a far cry from the traditional Indian restaurants we are accustomed to, which are known for their spice-laden flavours and no frills decor. In recent years, Singapore has seen a burgeoning number of modern Indian restaurants setting up shop in trendy dining enclaves such as Keong Saik and Tras Street.…

Every month, one of our beneficiaries – who wishes to remain unnamed – faces a battle: She has to choose between a meal or a pack of sanitary pads. When money is tight, she ends up having to create makeshift pads by sticking double-sided tape onto diapers that her toddler has outgrown. Period poverty exists in Singapore, and this is defined by the lack of access to menstrual products, as well as menstrual education. It mainly affects individuals from low-income households, though we believe that other marginalised communities, such as migrant workers and the LGBTQ+ community, are inadvertently affected by this issue too. These communities often live in greater poverty when compared to the average Singapore population. The stigma associated with period poverty and a lack of menstrual education make…

One of the world’s most recognisable handbags, the Lady Dior is a boxy carrier with Cannage stitching, a quilting design inspired by Dior atelier’s iconic cane chairs. In celebration of the maison’s signature bag, the Dior Lady Art Project – now in its seventh edition – features 11 creatives from around the world, including American contemporary artist Alex Gardner and French visual artist Francoise Petrovitch. Launched in 2016, this annual display is a showcase of how artists around the world reinterpret the Lady Dior in their perspective. Look out for Gardner’s figurative artwork, and Francoise’s aviary-inspired version of the Dior bag charm. The Dior Lady Art Project 7’s full global launch will be unveiled on Jan 5, 2023.…

Biker Jackets Get a cool girl upgrade with outerwear that’s two sizes too big. Fringed Skirts The fringe skirt trend is still going strong – but brands are now moving away from mini hemlines, and embracing midi lengths instead. Cut-out tops Pieces with irregular and unconventionally placed cut-out details look set to be a crowd favourite this year. Column Dresses While the Resort 2023 collections featured knit versions of these straight, form-fitting dresses, they take on a more tailored silhouette this Spring/Summer season.…

Red carpet queen The 30-year-old actor made an unforgettable entrance at the 2022 GQ Men of the Year Awards, clad in an Alexander McQueen leather ensemble. Rebel in me Their unique sense of style leans towards an experimental mix of streetwear with a touch of bohemian glam – just like this necklace. Boyish charm This chic Serpenti Spiga watch is the perfect finish for the loose and boxy silhouettes favoured by the native Londoner. A case in sleek They are often spotted in edgy, androgynous outfits, and this gender neutral cuff matches their style seamlessly. Iron maiden Not one to shy away from making a statement, Emma pairs their distinctive look with striking embellished accessories.…

As you are sleeping, your skin is repairing itself from environmental damage incurred in the day (think UV exposure, allergens or pollutants) – which is why it is important to choose the right nighttime products to help boost your skin as it regenerates new cells. To achieve a more radiant and youthful-looking complexion, consider adding these rejuvenating elixirs to your routine. 1. Shiseido Bio-Performance Skin Filler, $440 Using the brand’s signature Molecushift technology, which “shrinks” hyaluronic acid molecules so they are better absorbed by skin, this two-serum product refines your appearance on a molecular level. Apply the Infill Serum at night to deliver hyaluronic acid deep into skin. In the morning, follow up with the Full Expansion Serum, which “expands” the hyaluronic acid molecules back to their original size. This…

TO KNOW The term “quiet quitting” is an Internet phenomenon that has translated well into real life. The term was popularised by Tiktok user Zaid Khan, and refers to doing only the bare minimum at the workplace. Forget answering e-mails after you’ve left the office, or going above and beyond your job description to score points with the boss. This approach has hit our skincare regimen too. Some people are “quiet quitting ” by scaling back to the essentials and simplifying their beauty routine. This is unlike a skin fast, which involves going cold turkey on skincare products. Dr YZ Tan, founder and medical director of Mizu Aesthetic Clinic, says this shift in focus towards skincare over makeup has taught us some lessons, such as how “skincare trends and fads…

PEOPLE STRONG ADVOCATE FOR EQUAL RIGHTS AVA SOH, 17 Founder and designer of socially conscious fashion label Daughters of the Revolution It’s not every day that a 16-year-old gets a mention from the leader of a nation on a world stage. When Ukrainian President Volodymr Zelenskyy made his virtual address at the Shangri-La Dialogue last June, he wore a T-shirt designed by St Joseph’s Institution International student Ava Soh, which featured an image of a girl wearing a traditional Ukrainian dress and spray-painting the Ukraine flag. The graphic, which Ava created as a non-fungible token (NFT), was inspired by street artist and political activist Banksy. It was launched under her fashion label Daughters of The Revolution (DOTR) to raise funds for Ukraine’s war relief efforts. “I wanted to do…

Design your avatar Meta has launched the Meta Avatars Store in Singapore, letting users customise their avatars in premium outfits designed in collaboration with luxury brands, football clubs and popular Netflix shows. Highlights include Thom Browne suits and runway looks from Prada’s latest collections. Not only that, fans of Squid Game and Stranger Things can imbue the style of their favourite characters too. “There are now even more ways for people to customise their avatars and showcase their passion – be it football, music, food, fashion, dance, or film,” says Damian Kim, Meta’s Singapore managing director. The Avatars Store is available on Facebook, Instagram, Messenger, and in VR. TOSS TO GOOD HEALTH Bird’s nest in our yusheng? Yes, please! At 5 On 25, a modern Cantonese restaurant at Andaz Singapore,…

Natalia Rachel, founder of Illuma Health and author of Why Am I Like This, tells us how trauma manifests itself in different ways, and what the healing process looks like. Could I have trauma and not know it? Trauma is not a past event; it’s what is left over that’s unmetabolised inside us. It is when a past experience or threat is living and breathing in us now, and is largely unconscious, nonverbal and “physical” in nature. It shows up as sensations, emotions and related patterns. Trauma travels through relationships, families, communities, cultures and systems. The severity of the trauma is not necessarily about the gravity of what happened in the past; it’s more to do with our lack of resources to process it. Trauma can occur not only from…