Innholdsfortegnelse for November 2017 i Her World Singapore

In my 20s and 30s, a sense of humour was what I looked for in a man. That was the ’90s: Women were coming into their own; we didn’t need a man to provide for us; and since it was also the time of Seinfeld, humour was a big turn-on. In my 40s, I couldn’t decide if the funnies were enough. Now that I am 51, I like and admire a man who is kind. Kindness isn’t just something good to have in a man; it makes him a good man, too. When he is kind, his heart is bigger. When he is kind, his mind is more open to possibilities and positivity. When he is kind, he is more tolerant to others. When he is kind, he is more…

Last October, the Japanese lifestyle brand launched Uniqlo U, a range devoted to high-quality, everyday “elevated basics”. Developed at Uniqlo’s Paris R&D Center, U is helmed by artistic director Christophe Lemaire (the French designer has his own brand and was previously with Lacoste and Hermes). Among the 83 pieces in U’s latest collection are three dresses, one sweater, and one skirt created with 3D U-Knit. This employs Wholegarment technology to improve fit and comfort using special knitting machines that produce knitwear in one piece without the need to cut and sew parts together. The outcome? It eliminates seams (which can be annoying) and waste at the same time. In Singapore, the collection is exclusively at the Uniqlo Global Flagship Store in Orchard Central and www.uniqlo.com/sg. Price range: $59.90-$99.90 The 3D…

For making fake – or costume – jewellery fashionable and respectable, we have two designers to thank: Coco Chanel, who introduced the idea of faux with fine; and Kenneth Jay Lane (pictured below with Burch), who took the idea further by making it accessible. Lane, who passed away in July at 85, launched his first costume-jewellery collection in 1963, after shoe-designing stints at Delman and with Roger Vivier at Dior. He quickly found success with his couture-like pieces, which featured dramatic designs, bold hues, and imaginative colour combinations. Adorned with “jewels” made of glass or plastic, they were often said to be almost indistinguishable from the real thing. His designs found a place among both the well-heeled and the masses. The late Audrey Hepburn wore his five-strand pearl necklace in…

London-based fashion designer Erdem Moralioglu is no stranger to collaborations. Outstanding ones include eyewear with Cutler and Gross in 2009, limited-edition notebooks and diaries with Smythson, and a pair of jeans with J Brand in 2010. His latest with H&M isn’t just his most mass; it’s also truest to his signature aesthetic – romantic floral prints and classic feminine lace frocks.…

HANG www.hanggggggg.com Who’s behind it: Designer Mim Mak started it in 2013. She called the label Hang – the German word for slope – to reflect its concept of three-dimensional clothes that give the wearer, and the viewer, different perspectives from every angle. What’s in it: For her latest collection, Mak takes apart windbreakers and pieces them together with raw, undyed fabrics to create skirts and dresses. Knotting and weaving techniques also feature prominently. FFIXXED STUDIOS http://ffixxed.com Who’s behind it: Australian couple Kain Picken and Fiona Lau. He studied fine arts at Melbourne’s Victorian College of the Arts, and she studied fashion at the Royal Melbourne Institute of Technology. The brand began as a collaborative art project between the two in 2008 before becoming a ready-to-wear label in 2010. What’s…

What does the new generation know about the material that we have always known? It’s not just tough (that’s why it’s on a lot of biker jackets); it’s also the sweetest on other forever classics. Diya Prabhakar, 18, current supermodel here and hot favourite for Vogue India; and Iman Fandi, 17, daughter of the Singapore footballer, and model Wendy Jacobs, show how to pull leather off now.…

Why do these two floral notes smell wonderful, make you smell wonderful, yet hardly leave a scent trail? Jasmine calms the nerves and has a freshness that lifts moods. Tuberose is headier and has a buttery-creamy scent that gives off a sensual vibe. Out of the seven fragrances here, six have either of the two, or both, and they have our – and our neighbours’ – nod of approval. – KT Okay, Jo Malone’s English Oak & Redcurrant Cologne has no jasmine or tuberose. But it’s a fruity-woody pleaser that refreshes and calms the senses. $104 for 30ml.…

Cosmetics companies basically work the same way as fashion: a new season means a new collection to thrill and excite, until the next big thing. Kanebo’s F/W ’18 is somewhat different: its makeup and skincare are here to stay. More of the Same You know what? Not everyone wants to look different every day. NYX Professional Makeup Ultimate Multi-finish Shadow Palettes are made for women who like the same routine day after day, year after year. Each eyeshadow palette holds variations of four shades. Each comes in three textures – matte, satin and shimmery – for moments when you want “same but slightly different”. Choose from four options: Electric (brights), Sugar High (coral-mauve), Smoke Screen (purple-khaki) and Warm Rust (burnt orange-brown). $35 each. - LY A Facial Plan to Manage…

With all the parties you’ll be attending this festive season, you’ll want to look your best. Your skin is one of the first things people notice about you, so if you want to make a good impression, why not treat yourself to Jean Yip Group’s R6 Customised Face Treatment? This treatment minimises skin damage caused by UV radiation, emotional stress, the ageing process, and pollution. Using advanced skincare technology and state-of-the-art equipment, the treatment addresses a host of concerns, such as blemishes, scars, dullness, wrinkles, loss of firmness, and an uneven skin texture. The treatment is carried out in just four steps: 1. Deep cleansing: After a professional consultation and diagnosis, your consultant will determine your skin’s needs and customise a treatment programme to resolve your skin problems. The first…

Q Do antioxidants in skincare make a difference to skin? – Lydia Yip A Antioxidants are vital to the skin. They combat damaging free radicals produced by skin-ageing factors like sun exposure, pollutants, unhealthy lifestyle habits and stress. How bad are free radicals? They break down the skin’s support structure, causing wrinkles, sagging, dryness and dullness. They also trigger dark-spot production. Worst-case scenario: You might even develop eczema and rosacea. How do antioxidants like vitamins C and E, and other minerals, save your skin? They render free radicals powerless, creating a protective barrier on skin. The best part: Antioxidants can be added to just about any skincare, from toners to moisturisers and masks. And they have the ability to repair and renew cells, leaving you with healthier-looking skin. Face serums…

Some people buy nature’s best as a better way to live. Some look to it as a holistic alternative for addressing long-term skin issues, or because they’re pregnant or recovering from illness. Some do it because it’s the right (or PC) thing to do now. But how do we know – without legal legislature or governance – what is truly green and what is greenwashed? It’s not easy, but we manage to break it all down for you. Doing the natural thing should be simple. It’s not. It’s actually quite complicated. Add terms like organic, toxin-free, non-GMO, sustainable, ecofriendly, vegan and/ or cruelty-free, and it becomes trickier. Why? Because there are no clear or legal definitions for what is safe (apparently, what ingredients are harmful and toxic is hugely debatable).…

If you need a little extra help to achieve your ideal silhouette, why not try Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) techniques? For centuries, the Chinese have used TCM to treat a variety of conditions, including excessive weight gain. Now, Slim Couture has selected some of the most effective TCM principles for its signature slimming treatment programme, Divine Slim. The Best of East and West Divine Slim is an all-natural programme that combines centuries’-old Asian health principles with modern science. Acupressure, a TCM technique, is applied on your acupoints. This is said to boast bene›ts such as strengthening your qi(energy ›ow) and blood circulation, eliminating body fatigue and pain, keeping your yin-yang in balance, and reducing muscle tension. Other techniques used in Divine Slim include magnetic therapy, which supposedly improves blood circulation…

1) A mystery holiday Leave the fuss of booking flights, accommodation, and even a destination to Anywhr (www.anywhr. co), a Singapore-based service that customises holidays based on your travel preferences and budget. Three days after you book, you get information on what time to be at the airport, weather information, and packing tips. A week before your trip, you get an envelope indicating your destination, a travelogue with tips on what to do there, and local currency worth S$30. 2) A changed-up wardrobe If you hate braving the crowds to shop, and don’t mind mixing up your wardrobe, Lowinsky (www.lowinsky.com) gets a personal stylist to do it for you. For $60 a month, your stylist will pick clothing and accessories worth at least double that amount, from both mass and…

➊ You can grow goji berries or wolfberries from wolfberry vegetable stalks (ask for kau kee at the market). Trim the tip of each stem and strip away the leaves. ❷ Place the stem in water. Wait about 11 to 14 days for roots to emerge and new leaves to appear. ➌ Transplant each stem into a large and deep pot to accommodate the plant’s long roots. ➍ Water daily and cut the tips of the stems as they start to grow taller. This will cause the stem to branch. Prune the stems regularly to encourage more branches to grow. ➎ After about 10 months, stop pruning and let the stems mature and turn woody. ➏ Once the plant flowers, it takes another five months or so to fruit, and…

I’ve gone on five dates with this guy, and it seems like we’ve really clicked. We’ve been Whatsapping each other daily, but recently, his messages seem to have slowed down. He takes hours to reply – even on weekends. I’m confused by his change in attitude. What’s going on? Anything could have happened, but it doesn’t mean he’s not interested. Remember, you’re at that stage of courting when it’s still a game – which means that being overeager and too available might make him take you for granted. Try being the one who takes hours to reply to a text, and see if that hastens his responses. It’s just the way the game works, girl. My boyfriend seems to hate my close guy friends. He doesn’t make the effort to…

WHERE IS IT? Located in the Arctic belt, this Nordic island nation’s closest neighbour is Greenland, about 280km to its west. HOW TO GET THERE Several airlines fly direct from Singapore to Reykjavik. The flight usually takes around 17 hours, and includes one stopover. YOU CAN GET BY WITH ENGLISH Icelandic is the official language, as you’ll see by the country’s road signs. But you’ll be fine – most Icelanders speak very good English. YOU’LL GET SOME SUN For most of the year, expect 12-hour cycles of daylight and darkness. In December and January, each day has only about five hours of daylight. From May to August, Iceland experiences the midnight sun – 24 hours of continuous light. IT’S COLD Temperatures dip as low as minus 2 deg C in…

1 The Lime Truck – No #1 Steak Taco Slices of smoky beef steak are paired with a piquant and aromatic chimichurri sauce for a riot of sweet and spicy flavours. We love the surprise element of shredded and fried wonton skins scattered on top, which adds crunch to this super-succulent taco. $4.60 from The Lime Truck, Pasarbella, #01-K39 North Wing, Suntec City Mall, 3 Temasek Boulevard. 2 Comida Mexicana – Tacos Mexicana de Adobadas Soft, pliable white corn tortillas made from scratch hold large, succulent shrimps slathered in a mildly spicy chipotle cream sauce. If you can handle more heat, take a bite of the fresh whole jalapeno served on the side. This is some serious slow burn. $26 for three servings, from Comida Mexicana, 404 East Coast Road.…

Shredded vegetables Whether it’s fresh cabbage, pickled vegetables, or a dollop of ’slaw, you’re likely to find crisp, shredded vegetables in any taco for extra bite. Lime With so many hearty flavours packed into a taco, a quick squirt of lime always livens things up. Corn tortilla The corn tortillas should ideally be made from masa harina, a dough that has been ground from corn kernels, and soaked as well as cooked in lime water. The lime water makes the tortillas pillowy and pliable, which means they won’t break or flake when stuffed.…

Look Radiant A facetherapy session at Prive Aesthetics brings out the radiance in your complexion. The 45min, intensive Red Carpet Glow ($88, UP $250) uses a gentle fruit peel to exfoliate dead skin cells, after which a pressurised oxygen spray delivers hyaluronic acid, vitamins and antioxidants to hydrate and firm while reducing the look of fine lines. The result: glowing skin. At Prive Aesthetics, #03-02 Palais Renaissance, tel: 9656-5380. Black Beauty New to Daniel Wellington’s Classic Petite line is the minimalist Ashfield, with a matte black mesh strap, bold black dial, and 32mm stainless steel case in a rose gold or silver tone. The strap is interchangeable with other Classic Petite ones, including seven leather and three mesh options. Spicy Turkey Planning your year-end festive feast? Hotel Fort Canning offers…

You wouldn’t think a shoe this simple – a strap around the ankle, another across the toes – would have such a long runway. Former Saint Laurent creative director Hedi Slimane has to be credited for this feat. When he resurrected the disco-era style in 2013, it became one of the most worn, seen and photographed shoes. His was called Amber – it still is – and it now comes in more colours, textures and heel heights. It also has friends: Christian Louboutin’s Choca, Jimmy Choo’s Annie and Lang (the latter has a higher heel), and Gianvito Rossi’s Portofino, among others.…

A lot of people have compared Moynat (say mwa-nah) with Hermes. They are both French. Hermes started as a maker of harnesses and bridles in 1837 while Moynat, founded by Pauline Moynat, began as a maker of trunks in 1849. While the first grew into an empire that includes ready-to-wear, bags, perfumes and home furnishings, the latter kept to just leather goods. And while one has to build a “relationship” with Hermes to get two of its most wanted commodities – the Birkin and the Kelly – one mostly needs a lot of patience with Moynat. Since Bernard Arnault, CEO of LVMH, acquired it in 2010 – the brand closed when there were no family members to inherit it – and installed creative director Ramesh Nair, 52 (India-born, Paris-based), it…

We have to say this: The rock chick formula – biker jacket + kind-of-destroyed Metallica tee + skinny jeans + dirty boots – hasn’t changed one bit since it started in the ’70s. It needs an update, a reinvention, because it’s become… um, predictable. The 2.0 version: add silver, even a unitard. Biker jacket, optional.…

Call it the Saint Laurent effect, or millennial designers resurrecting the ’80s for the new generation (who didn’t truly experience that era either). The wardrobe stalwart for all special moments (dates, events and parties) is back in every way, from short and sexy to punk-inspired and elegantly chic.…

There’s a reason why most facials feature a lot of steaming: To effectively remove blackheads and whiteheads, pores must be dilated. And a steady stream of warm mist makes extraction easier – as well as less painful. The latest self-heating (yup, they heat upon application) pore de-cloggers work the same way – except they are only for the T-zone and the parts of the cheeks alongside the nose. Laneige Mini Pore Heating & Clean Duo consists of a heating gel and clay mask. Massage the gel into skin until there’s a warm sensation, then immediately rinse off. After that, apply the mask. Rinse off when it dries. $30 Orbis Care-na Hot Cool Gel warms up quickly. The gooey gel has some grains in it but doesn’t irritate skin. $23 Garnier…

The festive season is a great time for revamping your hair colour. Whether you are thinking of going for the season’s hottest shades or head-turning rainbow-inspired hues, Jean Yip Hairdressing can help. Its well-trained and highly experienced stylists can recommend the latest colours to suit you, and suggest the best treatments to ensure that your locks stay shiny and strong well beyond Christmas. The best hue for you Even if you only want to colour your hair brown or black, your stylist can suggest the perfect shade. If you’re feeling adventurous and want to go for a bolder shade such as pink, blue, orange, green or even purple, you’re in good hands too. Jean Yip Hairdressing also offers Ombre Duo Colour, which has an illuminating 3-D effect. A favourite of…

Free of aluminium, alcohol, synthetic antibacterial agents, artificial fragrances and parabens, they use non-toxic plant powders, essential oils and minerals to counter odour – not stop you from sweating – and reduce the possibility of skin irritation and allergies. The current ones are definitely better than their predecessors from the ’50s – they don’t leave ugly yellow rings on white clothes.…

1 GET CAFE-STYLE COFFEE DELIVERED TO YOUR DOOR You’ll never have to brave the crowds at a hipster cafe ever again. Just get a coffee subscription. Try Hook Coffee (http://hookcoffee.com.sg), which sends you fresh coffee based on your taste profile for $14 an order. You can pick from whole beans, ground coffee, drip bags or Nespressocompatible pods. Cold brews are also available – at $35 for six bottles. If tea is more your thing, local company Gryphon Tea Company has a subscription service too (www.gryphontea.com/ subscription), from $28.80 a month for 30 sachets from its Artisan Selection. 2 SHOP OVERSEAS, WITH A PERSONAL SHOPPER TO BOOT Don’t be that annoying friend who asks other people to get stuff for you when they’re travelling, or gets major buyer’s regret when the…

The Grape Grower Home-grown grapes are smaller and softer than store-bought ones, but a nice balance of tart and sweet, says Alex Ng of SG Grapegrowers. You just need space to build a trellis (a frame to support creepers), as grapevines need to climb. Here’s how to get started: 1. Buy grape stem cuttings from any nursery (Alex gets his from a wholesaler called World Farm). Pick harder brown stems that are not too green or tender – you’ll have more success. 2. Trim the stems and poke them into damp garden soil. Keep them out of direct sunlight. Water daily, but don’t overwater – pour just enough so that the soil does not look or feel dry. 3. When new shoots and leaves are visible, you’ll know the plant…

EXPERTLY EFFORTLESS Pick a subject and theme, then build the picture around it. But the elements of your flat lay don’t always have to line up perfectly. Layer them on top of one another instead, so you get a more natural and lived-in look. Everything should look like it just happened to fall into place. STICK YOUR HANDS IN A hand or foot in the picture makes it look more candid, and gives it a sense of movement. Cup your latte in your hands, or leave your legs (with feet in cute bedroom slippers, of course) in the frame if you’re doing a flat lay of items on your bed. EDIT, EDIT, EDIT Instead of using pre-installed filters that come with apps like VSCO, Foodie and Snapseed, switch to the…

1 We get insecure about our bodies too We’re subject to unrealistic standards of beauty too. All those jacked dudes on the covers of health magazines? It makes us feel horrible about our paunchy guts and receding hairlines. We eat our feelings too, you know. 2 We mean it when we say you don’t need makeup Coiffed hair and smoky eye makeup? Guys could do without that. I’ll be straight – short shorts, a top, and hair pulled back in a loose ponytail work just fine. You’re hottest when you’re not trying. 3 We lie because we’re scared of upsetting you We sometimes don’t tell you we had lunch with a female colleague, or that a girl struck up a conversation with us. It’s not a conspiracy to cover up…

Bakalaki’s Melitzanosalata Agioritiki If it sounds like Greek to you, that’s because it is. Bakalaki’s Greek chef, Spiros Palaiologos, is all about authentic flavours, with much of the produce he uses imported from his home country. This smoky eggplant spread ($14.90) has flavourful pieces of eggplant, red pepper, onion and olive, with a splash of tart white vinegar. But what holds it together is the restaurant’s cold-pressed extra virgin olive oil – velvety, fragrant and light, it’s flown in from Greece. Have it with pillowy-soft bread made in-house daily and dusted with oregano and fleur de sel – tiny and delicate flakes of sea salt that give it bite. Bakalaki Greek Taverna is at 3 Seng Poh Road. Folklore’s Masak Lemak Many of the hearty Peranakan and Eurasian dishes on…

You could say The Local People support, well, local. The duo, consisting of 33-year-old Pin Goh and 29-year-old Lu Yawen, started organising pop-up art markets in 2014 that gave Singapore artisans a place to hawk their wares – whether it was homemade food, handcrafted leather goods or illustrated greeting cards. “At the time, there weren’t many people championing the local scene or one-stop shops for all things local,” says Pin, adding that the craft scene here was burgeoning. Among the better-known names they championed early on were Momolato (known for its wacky popsicle and gelato flavours), Second Helpings (homemade peanut butter), and printmaker Ong Lijie. So far, the pair has organised more than 30 art markets where more than 90 per cent of the vendors are local. The other defining…

No matter how portable Bluetooth speakers are, most of them are designed for traditionally safe zones. On a table, on a shelf, and in whichever space gives the best acoustics. Wonderboom isn’t made for that – although it can play safe too. It’s designed for life’s bigger, more rambunctious moments – the ones that are “fun now, worry later”. Like a Korean barbecue by the pool or beach with friends, family, friends of friends who bring their children – plus their dogs. Like a house party to which you’ve invited the whole neighbourhood. Covered with a woven skin that’s impervious to snagging, scratches and 1.5m drops, it’s been tested to withstand hardship in a tumble tester (similar to a tumble dryer) that drops it 300 times from a height of…

It’s called Invisimatte Blotting Paper: a fancy name that doesn’t do justice to a product that has totally put a new spin on sheet blotters. Unlike most others, which come as sheets in packs, Rihanna’s version takes after cling-film and aluminium-sheet dispensers. Her face mattifier comes in a roll, not individual sheets. Each roll goes into a nude-pink case no bigger than a small lipstick. The case has two lids: the inner keeps the roll in place; the outer, with teeth, helps you tear the paper into sheets. And on top of that, it has a small mirror for your touch-ups. A case with a roll is $26; refills are $14 each.…

Because all manner of hangout wear looks hotter in gold.…

The Beautyblender Keep.it.clean mitt ($30) is as bright as the American brand’s famous tear-shaped foundation sponge (Kendall Jenner uses it; Bella Hadid uses it; every beauty junkie uses it), and as cleverly designed. It’s soft and rubbery, and covered with bumps in different sizes that provide friction for removing makeup from brushes or sponges – without shredding your tools. How to use: Place filthy sponge or brush against pad. Add water and soap. Run sponge or brush over the bumps. Rinse everything. Done. – DC Do wash brushes in the morning after use. They should be dry and ready by the next AM. Don’t spend a bomb on a dedicated makeup-tool cleanser. Any mild soap or shampoo will do.…

There are as many long-lasting cushion foundations as liquid ones. So why do we opt for the latter, and what’s the difference? Liquids – regardless of their formulas – set quickly, making them natural contenders when you want a long-wearing product. Cushions are not designed to “set”; dewiness is their USP. To stay dewy, they need to remain wet and not dry up in the case. Which means that they can’t adhere to skin the way liquids can. This has 80 per cent naturally-derived ingredients, including antioxidant-rich argan and tea seed oils. Rihanna’s makeup brand offers a whopping 40 shades. There’s definitely one for you. With this, you don’t need a radiance primer before, or a highlighter after.…

It believes in holistic beauty For THREE, the secret to beauty lies in the perfect balance of body, mind and skin. Besides having a positive attitude, the brand believes that one should respect the gifts of nature, and embrace them. This is why it searched all over the world for ingredients that have been farmed with care. No genetically modi›ed components are used, and every product is free of arti›cial fragrances, colouring and parabens. Naturally, the brand is also against animal testing. All these ingredients go into the extensive line-up that covers everything from head to toe: skincare, makeup, hair and body products – all meant to be a treat for the senses. Take the AC body-care line, which promotes circulation. Herbal Bath Soap AC lathers into a rich foam…

As if it wasn’t bad enough that your skin has started to sag due to age. Now, you notice with horror that your pores are sagging too: They’ve become elongated, so now they’re more oval instead of being tight little circles. It’s partly due to ageing – the skin is less elastic and begins to sag, pulling the pores down. If you have skin that’s clogged with oil and dead skin, pores can get stretched and look bigger. And lack of hydration doesn’t help. Overall, skin looks dull, uneven and rough in texture. According to ORBIS, which specialises in oil-free skincare, incorporating this routine daily will go a long way towards preventing and reducing sagging. 1. Deep-clean with Powder Wash + ($25 for 50g) This has two enzymes, protease and…

1 One of the most challenging forms of pigmentation is melasma. This appears as patches around the middle of the face, the cheekbones and the jawline, and is caused by sun exposure, genes and hormones. It’s not known exactly how hormones influence melanin production, but it’s a fact that melasma is common during pregnancy, when it’s called chloasma or the “mask of pregnancy”. 2 Dermal pigmentation is equally tricky. It occurs in deeper layers of skin (the dermis, instead of the epidermis), and can therefore be harder to treat than typical epidermal pigmentation such as freckles. How to tell the difference? Dermal pigmentation usually has unde›ned outlines, and will never be lightened by topical products because they can’t penetrate deeply enough. 3 Sun exposure can cause pigmentation, worsen any that…

1) Foodpanda, Deliveroo and Ubereats They were here long before we developed our crippling reliance on apps to perform basic functions like feeding ourselves. What would we do without them? 2) Style Theory This local designer-clothing rental service has a waiting list of women itching to trawl through its huge wardrobe of more than 7,000 pieces from some 90 designers. For $129 a month, borrow three items for as long as you want. When you’re up for something new, just return them and pick another three items. Or you can swop out the items within the month, free of charge. (http://sg.styletheory.co) 3) Bottles XO Get chilled artisan wines, ciders and beers delivered to you in under an hour, so the party doesn’t have to end when you run out of…

1. Do it in August, when the weather gets cooler. 2. Put several seeds (you can get them from any nursery) into a sealed container filled with water and freeze for at least 12 hours. The cold temperature tricks the seeds into germinating despite our hot weather. Thaw them only when you want to plant them. 3. Poke holes in the bottoms of several small plastic or styrofoam containers and fill them with damp soil. Place the seeds on the surface of the soil, but don’t bury them. 4. Put the containers on a windowsill or table in an area with bright morning sun. The seeds do not need air-conditioning, but the roots must be kept cool. A nifty trick: Tilt the containers towards the sun so the top of…

1 “I CAN’T WORK WITH YOU.” Don’t call out aggressive or disagreeable team members in front of colleagues. It’ll embarrass them and make things worse. Talk to them in private instead – acknowledge their strengths and build mutual trust before you tackle their aggression head-on. Do this, and they could end up being your best leaders or salespeople. “If they value their job, they will want to improve. Sometimes these people just don’t get enough feedback because others are afraid of them,” says Tjin. 2 “NO, THIS WON’T WORK.” If you’re going to say this to your team, you’d better have a solution. Simply shutting an idea down without discussing alternative options makes you look lazy and unsupportive. 3 “THE CLIENT IS ALWAYS RIGHT.” Nobody wants to hear this from…

CLOTHES Show off your #ootd in a flat lay. Create structure by folding clothes in half along the vertical and horizontal lines. Don’t sweat it if your feet are in the frame – just slip on a cute pair of shoes. MAKEUP Blu-tack is the pro Instagrammer’s little secret. Tuck it underneath lippies and mascaras so that they stay in exactly the position you visualised for the picture. A CUP OF TEA OR A BUNCH OF DRIED FLOWERS … breathe life into your photo, especially if you don’t want hands or feet to feature.…