As General George Washington’s aide-de-camp, Alexander Hamilton became part of a military family. He got to know top army officers, political leaders, and the social elite of the American Colonies. Although he longed to see military action, he enjoyed both the status and the social whirl that came with his position at army headquarters. Evenings brought dinners, balls, and friendships with the daughters of his superiors.
In April 1779, however, Alexander began thinking of marriage. Writing to his friend and fellow aide-de-camp John Laurens, he playfully asked Laurens to find him a wife. She must be “sensible” and “well bred,” as well as young, handsome, faithful, generous, and moderately religious, but no saint. Most important, she should have a fortune—“the larger stock of that the better.” His tone was sportive…
