Innholdsfortegnelse for December 2017 i Chat It's Fate

Love the it’s fate team x Tis the season to deck your halls with all that glitters and nature's greenest bounties - see p12 for inspiration. And to fill stockings with goodies - p60 has some divine ideas! But baubles and bling aside, this special time is about so much more… It's a time to raise a toast to those we cherish - both around the turkey-laden table, and at peace in the spirit realm. We hope our stories fill you with love, hope and warmth. And a very merry Christmas...…

‘My two beautiful sisters are pain-free, safe’ Brutal attack ‘It’s Louisa,’ Dave wept. ‘She’s been murdered.' She’d been beaten and stabbed to death. A teenager, Reece Ludlow was arrested, charged. But I was bereft. I was losing Kayleigh. Now Louisa was dead too? Thoughts of my dream haunted me. Louisa was the one in the coffin, I realised. ‘She’s gone. I’m next,’ Kayleigh had said to me. Chilling. I prayed my dream was wrong. But as we waited for Ludlow’s trial, Kayleigh’s illness progressed. Together In August 2011, Kayleigh was admitted to a hospice and I visited her every day. One night I dreamt Kayleigh was opening a door. What does it mean? But deep down, I knew. She slipped away a few nights later. I was heartbroken, but kept…

Q & A I’m in the wrong body Dear Jenny I feel like a man trapped in a woman’s body, and dream of a life that I lived in England during the 17th or 18th Century. I’m also troubled about the death of my mother. I feel she can’t rest because I gave her a hard time in her last few months. Lucy, 34, Reading, Berkshire Dear Lucy You and your mother shared several lives. In the 1930s, you were her son, Rudolph. Before that, you were her French husband, Jacques, and another time, you were her brother, Hussein. On a subconscious level, you both wanted you to be male and she felt aggrieved that she couldn’t have a similar relationship with you like the ones in the past. You…

Q & A Winter makes me pout! Dear Jayda My lips get sore in the winter, but I hate Vaseline. What can I use instead? Pinki, 28, Stratford Dear Pinki Your lips lose moisture and can crack in cold weather. Vaseline is petroleum jelly, which is a by-product of the oil industry and was originally discovered coating the bottom of oil rigs. Gross. Of course, it’s highly refined before it reaches your kisser, but you can swap it for lip balms made with beeswax or cocoa butter. Try Dr Bronner’s organic naked lip balm, £2.99, which contains essential oils. • essentialslondon.com I don’t go normally! Dear Jayda Whenever I go to the loo, I seem to have either constipation or the runs. What's going on? Bel, 29, Liverpool Dear Bel…

Jewel-encrusted skeletons and holy objects unearthed across Europe, the catacomb saints were once seen as personifications of the afterlife's glory. These skeletons, lavishly decorated with gold and precious stones, are corpses exhumed from Rome’s catacombs, given names and sent abroad by the Vatican as relics of saints. Strictly speaking, though, they aren’t – not according to Catholic rules! Their macabre splendour represented what awaited the faithful in the afterlife. However, despite being raised to the heights of glory, these skeletons could be anyone as they were pulled from the ground. Found by workers in an underground chamber under Rome, the skeletons are thought to be from the first three centuries after Christianity’s arrival – a time when thousands of its followers were persecuted. It’s estimated half a million were laid…

It was New Year’s Eve 1995, and I was at a party in a nightclub. As a treat, I’d bought myself a bag of cocaine. I could feel the rush of anticipation as I squirrelled myself away and snorted the class-A drug. ‘This is going to be good,’ I thought, addicted. Deluded. After, I went back out to my old friends, who had no idea I had a drug problem. They thought I had the perfect life. Hooked And, to the outside world, I did. I was a PA to a wealthy Japanese property tycoon, and my salary package was £400,000 a year. It allowed me to live in a swanky flat in Tokyo and splash out on a designer wardrobe. But I was terribly lonely. So I drowned my…

Off her trolley After a hard day, I asked the angels for a sign and heard nothing. I’d forgotten about it until I was listening to some music and the song Meanwhile up in Heaven came on by the Kaiser Chiefs. I shrugged it off. Later, I went to the supermarket a lady gave me her trolley, When I looked inside I was stunned – there was a picture of an angel in it! Now I know the angels are always watching. Denise Higson, Skipton Yasmin’s card of the month– your question answered, see p52 So what was your question? Get very clear on what you asked before you read on! The answer for everyone is Five of Cups. This shows a male looking downcast at some spilled cups.…

Your relationship Mars creates a tricky pattern with Mercury and Saturn on the 6th, which heralds a grand finale before exiting your Partnership Sector on the 9th. Wrap up a long-running issue – you’ll both need to compromise. As Mars moves on into sexy Scorpio, you’ll bond again more deeply. New love Your desire for adventure brings spontaneity to your love life. If someone rocks into your world on or around the 3rd, move heaven and earth to be with them. It may mean travelling! Christmas could be upsetting but smile into the new year. Career and money Fortune and finances are linked. What happens near the 3rd reveals how it will go. The flow of giving and receiving is expanded, whether you come into money or you’re passing it…

Your relationship Are you set in your views of how love should be? The Full Moon on the 3rd marks a milestone, and helps you get the balance right between life’s routines and the chores that can wait. The last 10 days of the month are important for your relationship, especially Christmas Day, so put romantic Yuletide plans in place! New love Passionate Mars picks up where romantic Venus left off as it enters sexy Scorpio on the 9th. Lust and libido soar up your list of priorities. If you’re looking for a steamy love affair to end the year, go for it. In fact, events at Christmas help you reassess what it is you want. Career and money You're going to be busy. Mercury's up to his tricks in…

Your relationship Mars is on the last leg of his journey through your sign, culminating with Mercury and Saturn unfortunately enforcing an inflexible pattern. A partner’s problem will need eggshell treatment. Fortunately, your ability to smooth and soothe will pour oil on troubled waters. New love Being with someone who’s unwilling to compromise is a no-no. Make sure you steer clear of the person who wants to have everything their own way. Spread your net far and wide, and use the festive party season to meet new people. Spontaneous gestures and fun times come calling on the 15th, 16th and 20th. Career and money You are remarkable in that you always view both sides of the scale equally. This stands you in good stead when Jupiter meets Neptune on the…

Your relationship Prepare for potential rows about Christmas plans. You may be prepared to sacrifice your own preferences to keep the peace, but even so, these are unlikely to be easily sorted. That's especially true around the 6th when Mercury in mischief mode tangles with Mars and Saturn. New love Love planet Venus is tucked away in your Secrets Sector until the 25th. This smacks of a love affair or unrequited feelings for someone you’ve known for a long time. Christmas Day has the potential to be awesome. The romantic decision you make on this day will be lasting. Career and money Any work problems could escalate close to the 1st when angry Mars in your Career Sector opposes unpredictable Uranus. However much you want to kick back, just walk…

As if 25 December wasn’t exciting enough – ripping open pressies and feasting on heaps of food, there’s more to celebrate and be happy about on each of the 12 days following Christmas Day. Grab your calendar and take note, giving thanks to the coming year ahead… Day 0 25 December Christmas Day Although always busy , everyone's in good spirits, so it's the perfect time to skulk off for a quiet half-hour . Reflect on the past year and light a gold candle, saying: ‘May the light in my heart burn bright this coming year’. Visualise three good outcomes: for yourself, a loved one, and the world. Day 1 26 December St Stephen’s Day Stephen may be link ed to ancient shamans. In one legend, he was a missionary…

‘I feel sure I’ve known him in a past life’ Dropping off to sleep one night in January 2017, I felt a presence over my bed. Psychic for as long as I could remember, I knew it was a spirit. From the warmth that crept through me, I could sense the spirit was friendly. I wasn’t scared. Then a vision of the spirit popped into my head. Going native He had red, curly hair, and a little moustache. And he was wearing a brightly-coloured, checked jester’s costume with a ruff at the neck! It be a message! So, a few days later, I researched the world of jesters. I discovered in the culture of the Lakota tribe of Native Americans, jesters – called Heyokas – were powerful, sensitive empaths. And…

‘I told him that I loved him, was going to miss him...’ ‘ I knew the dream was Dad trying to warn me’ My dad, Hassan, was always there for me, always such a kind man. So, when I needed a place to live with my three children, we moved in with Dad. One day four years later, in October 2007, I came home from my job as a PA, popped upstairs to check on Dad – he’d been suffering from a cold. ‘Do you want me to call an ambulance?’ I asked suddenly. But Dad only had a cold. Why on earth did I say that? ‘Don’t be silly, I’m fine,’ he replied, smiling. Still worried The following day, I went to work as usual. But, still worried…

Although not a believer, I went with my friend to a psychic reading and tried it, too. The psychic’s predictions seemed way off – a red car, moving to a house surrounded by trees. He said I’d be ill, but recover, and that one of my daughters, who never did well in school, would end up a doctor. I didn’t know anyone with a red car, and we had no intention of moving. Then, after a few months, my hubby bought a red car and, years later when we moved, I realised our new home was surrounded by trees! Then I fell badly ill and recovered – but, best of all, my daughter’s now a doctor! Do I believe now? You bet! Have you had an amazing reading lately that…

Locket of love Cara Spiritguide, 57, from Knutsford, Cheshire ‘Your twin sister in spirit is here with us,' I told Louise who had come to me for a psychic reading. But Louise looked baffled. ‘I don’t have a sister,’ she stuttered. I passed on messages to Louise from her twin. I told her they’d been separated when they were babies. Her sister, who’d been taken to live abroad, was searching for Louise when she was taken ill, and It was her dying wish that Louise was given a treasured gold necklace and a letter she’d written to her. ‘You’ll be given the necklace and the letter one day,’ I told her. But I could tell Louise didn’t really believe me. Then three years later, in 2013, Louise came back to…

Easy guide Who doesn’t love a house full of twinkling lights and the rich scent of a real tree? But these trimmings do more than get everyone in the festive spirit. Ensure harmony for your family by decorating the house with magic. Take this class to: • Create a merry, loving atmosphere in the home • Dispel ill will, and prevent arguments • Ensure prosperity for the year ahead Wreathed in smiles Hang a wreath upon the front door to welcome guests and hail the immortality of the spirit. The wreath is an ancient symbol of strength and eternity in both Pagan and Christian traditions. Evergreen branches are woven in a ring to celebrate the unending life of the soul and encourage peace in the household. In the past, a…

Crystal fact Herkimer diamond Not actually a diamond, this most powerful quartz is named after where it was first discovered in the 18th century - Herkimer County, New York. The find resulted in a rush of prospectors! Roman Goddess of Silence Angerona celebrates her festival on 21 December, the winter solstice. More recently, she’s been honoured with these beautiful gemstones. Use the high-vibration Herkimer diamond to soothe aches and pains, aid psychic abilities and boost positive energy. It’s found in Herkimer County and surrounding areas. Ghostly Inspirations Violette Szabo What an inspirational young woman! Violette Szabo (1921-1945) was a secret agent for the Allies in the Second World War and went on two missions behind enemy lines. She was caught, tortured and executed at Ravensbrück concentration camp. She was just…

On Christmas Eve 1945, the excitement in the Sodder household was palpable. With nine of the 10 children at home – one was away with the Army – it was a wonder any of them got to sleep. Three of the younger kids, Martha, 12, Jennie, 8, and Betty, 5, begged to stay up past their bedtime so they could play with the toys their older sister, Marion, 17, had surprised them with. Night caller They were all finally asleep when the phone rang in the smart, two-storey, West Virginian house. When Jennie, the mum, told the woman caller she’d got the wrong number, the caller laughed and hung up. Before going back up to bed, Jennie noticed all the house lights were on and the doors were unlocked. She…

My husband and I bought our first fridge in 1965, and it’s still in use. Eventually, the bulb went and we couldn’t find a replacement, but still used it. Last year, my husband died, and a year later I was diagnosed with spinal cancer. A few days before my treatment, I was crying and calling out to my husband to give me a sign that I’d make it through. Later, when I reached into the fridge for the milk, I noticed something… the light was on! My last treatment session was this July and the light has gone. I think I got my sign, don’t you? Gladys Day, Swindon…

Sign of the month Sagittarius Ruled by Jupiter Element and Mode Mutable Fire Zodiac Symbol: The Archer Myth: Zeus, king of the Gods Day of the week: Thursday Colour: Purple Body part: Liver Metal: Tin Gemstones: Amethyst, turquoise, blue topaz Herb: Red clover, borage, sage and dandelion Food: Asparagus Career: Writers, literary agents, publishers, barristers or solicitors, and all work connected to ethics, religion and overseas, athletics and equestrianism sports. Sagittarius Year Ahead: The end of a very tough cycle brings gentle relief, and opens doors to new horizons. What was impossible this time last year can now take shape, maybe in unexpected ways, but your trust in life will be restored. Spiritual purpose To live life with enthusiasm, optimism and an entrepreneurial spirit. Life’s challenges may test your faith,…

Your relationship The month starts with lucky Jupiter in your Partnership Sector aligning with Neptune. This could be a most special Christmas for romance! This theme will continue to August, so wedding plans, renewing vows or moving in together all get the green light. New love Passion planet Mars chimes loud from Saturday 9th. This is one of the best months to meet someone, so get dates in your diary. Mars promises a sexy encounter, and the 28th is a stand out date for a romantic liaison. If you’re carrying a torch for an ex or a lover who moved away, end contact. Only then can love flourish. Career and money If a job or contract comes to an end on the 1st, take time before you make your next…

Your relationship If you spend too much time covering up your needs, how on Earth can you expect your other half to know? But the first half of the month isn't ideal for sharing all your thoughts and feelings. Bide your time. The Sun-Mercury get together on the 13th makes life fun again. New love Keep it real when it comes to new love. This might mean letting go of someone who lives abroad. Focus instead on the person who’s in your life on a regular basis. The 16th and 20th are standout dates for an exciting tryst. In the last 10 days of December, a barrier's lifted that helps reveal what has stood in the way of your heart's desire. Career and money Responsible Saturn moves into your Work…

Your relationship Do not underestimate how important the end of the year is for you, and by association also for your other half. Jupiter on his life-changing journey through your sign signals major developments especially with romantic Neptune as a travelling companion. New love New love is part of the Universe's plans for you and this includes the planet of optimism and faith, Jupiter, in your sign of Scorpio. This means you'll lose some of your cynical edges and become more hopeful and idealistic. Trust your gift of being able to read other people well. Passion planet Mars also enters Scorpio on the 9th. Career and money Wrap up an important money matter as quick as you can – ideally by the Full Moon on the 3rd. Avoid signing paperwork…

Your relationship It would be all too easy to fall into the trap of the ‘I'm right, you're wrong’ argument, but does it really matter? Christmas can bring all sorts of stresses, but allow your other half to handle things in their own way. They’re not in the mood to take things too seriously, so just remember to laugh. New love As December begins, you should be looking at where you're going wrong in your choice of partner. Say goodbye to an attraction that’s heading nowhere fast. You won’t be short of social invitations, but focus on meeting people who you’re compatible with. Career and money The Jupiter-Neptune alliance is wonderful for you when it comes to work and money. Make a plan for the future, and use your clever…

Extra boost Naturally Radiant Glycolic Tonic, £5.99, Superdrug, works as an exfoliating toner to even and brighten skin tone. Sweep over skin on a cotton pad after cleansing every morning and night. Cover up Barry M Concealer Palette in Light-Medium, £5.99, Superdrug, has everything you need to disguise even the most stubborn dark circles! Use separately or blend for unique shades. Get muddy Give your skin a pre-party pick-me-up with Starskin Silkmud Green Tea Clay Mud Mask, £8.50, House of Fraser. It plumps, hydrates and unclogs pores for an instantly clearer and fresher face. Prepare to repair Cold weather and late nights can play havoc with your skin! Your Good Skin Instant Dryness Rescue, £9.99, Boots, is a thirsty skin saviour. Use overnight or as needed to calm and soothe.…

Strange goings on in Blåkulla, the Swedish island of the Blue Maiden! Witches would travel here on Maundy Thursday, on their broomsticks, to tryst with the Devil. These powerful women could summon animals and control the elements. Skilled potion makers, they were called upon for help and healing spells. This mystical hot spot is also home to trolls. Your December ritual Add a sprig of rosemary, 2tsp of honey, a pinch of nutmeg and a dash of lemon juice to half a glass of hot water. Stir for success and good fortune. Sip first thing, whilst picturing your achievements, then dry the rosemary. Keep it in your purse. Riddle’s remedies Dear Kirsten I'd like to make new friends, but I don't know how to start. Sophia, 40, St Ives Dear…

My debts consume my thoughts Dear Yasmin No matter how hard I try to get on track financially, I feel there’s no way out of debt. I just want have a little money put by and be able to pay the bills. Brenda, 40, Sligo Dear Brenda The negative planet of fear, Saturn, is in the part of your birth chart that’s about money, debt and paying bills. Processing negative feelings about cash is one of your life lessons. Do this by working with Saturn. That means being strategic and realistic, making sound financial plans, and spending wisely. Your card Temperance totally backs this up. I long for him! Dear Yasmin This weekend I saw an old school crush, and I can't stop fantasising about him. I dream about us…

A shaman is a mystical priest who journeys into the otherworld for wisdom. People often relied on him – or her – for information that was very valuable to the community, such as where the best hunting grounds or berries were to be found. The shaman would take flight into the spirit world, led by his power animal. He'd also lead seasonal rituals – at the solstice especially – to ensure the rhythms of nature remained stable. Today, some remote communities still rely on shamans. We may have lost contact with these beliefs, but the image of the shaman still tugs at the depths of our minds and brings us magic. Ring the changes Bells are rung as part of rituals to cleanse sacred space by the power of sound…

‘I doted on Kayleigh and looked up to Louisa’ As I watched through the patio doors, a funeral car pulled up next to my little sister Kayleigh. There was a coffin in the back, with two arms and legs dangling out. Who’s that? I panicked, absolutely horrified. I looked back at my sister Kayleigh, 22. She was dressed as an angel, glowing. Kayleigh just shrugged. ‘She’s gone. I’m next,’ she said. Then suddenly my eyes flew open and I was sobbing into my pillow. It was just a dream. Still, I was a wreck. Spooky It was March 2011, and Kayleigh had been fighting cancer for 18 months. ‘Am I going to die this week,’ she panicked when I told her about the dream. You see, it wasn’t the first…

BRRRILLIANT! Demi Moore does it. So does Cristiano R onaldo. It burns calories, boosts endorphins, improves sleep, reduces inflammation and eliminates wrinkles. Cryotherapy is the latest wellness kick. No, it’s not weeping in front of your shrink, it’s sticking yourself in a giant tin can filled with nitrogen-iced air at minus 256 degrees Fahrenheit (-160 Celsius). Y es, that’s extremely cold, but it’s a dry cold and bearable – not unlike standing naked in front of a walk -in freezer. The treatment was developed by a Japanese doctor in the late 70s to help patients suffering severe rheumatoid arthritis. Now it’s the go-to cure for injured sports pros and age-conscious celebs. A single whole-body session in one of New York’s Kryolife’s cryosaunas costs $75 USD . Kryolife also sells their…

‘I felt a very special connection with Chris’ Like most teenagers, I spent hours online. In a chatroom in June 2003, I got talking to Chris Spurrier... I felt oddly connected to Chris – who, like me, was aged 13. ‘I feel like I’ve known you for years,’ I typed. ‘Me, too,’ he answered. I knew there was a very special connection between us. Soon I found myself rushing home from school to speak to Chris. We messaged each other every day. Indigo child Although, as a kid, I hadn’t known the name for it, I’d been an indigo child. I often heard voices and saw shadowy beings float through my window. Aged 12, I realised I was seeing and hearing spirits. But my gift made me different, and I…

I’m on a journey Dear Katie This past year, I’ve learned so much about myself and the Universe. I’d now love to know more about my energy. Austin, 19, Oxford Dear Austin , Your aura has three dominant colours. Your core one of green reveals a healer and you should explore this side of your essential self. The blue and yellow indicate a clairvoyant who’s finally on the right path. There’s a lot more to come! Canny Crystal Dear Katie Falling in love with my boss caused nothing but problems. I’ve since left the company, but can’t seem to move on, especially as I’ve had no closure. It’s really affecting me. Sarah, 39, Manchester Dear Sarah You poor thing, but there are two crystals that can help you get over…

Regular reader Angela from Salford sent me an email, telling me how much she had loved the book A Tree Full of Angels, by Macrina Wiederkehr (Bravo Ltd, £11.99). I'd featured this in our Midsummer issue. She said that as a Wiccan, it wasn’t the type of book she'd usually buy, but it had called out to her. I was delighted to hear this, not just because someone had loved my recommendation, but also because I had forgotten that I had this beautiful little book. I quickly found my copy and keep it by my bed so that I can dip in whenever I feel the need. It has a calming energy; no matter what your views on spirituality, it can speak to everyone, and would make a wonderful Christmas…

Q & A It doesn’t bother me Dear Roi de Lune My dreams often show me happily walking barefoot down the streets of my hometown. It makes me feel free. Jean, 45, Hamburg Dear Jean You’re one happy woman! You’re relaxed about your life, and feel secure, especially in your hometown. This place provides you with a sense of identity, and you’re certainly sure-footed and confident there. You aren’t bound by convention, and enjoy indulging in extrovert behaviour, which gives you a rush of exhilaration. And most liberatingly, you don’t worry about what other people may think of your footloose ways. Culture corner Homer’s epic poem The Odyssey is about Greek hero Odysseus’ 10-year journey home after the fall of Troy. Loving wife Penelope was plagued by suitors during his…

Opening my eyes, a face was looking right into mine Signs across the divide I do – approve of you! I couldn't wait to get married to partner of 25 years, Andreas, now 45. But, in October 1992, about six weeks before the big day, something strange happened… We travelled to Germany to visit his 65-year-old grandmother who everyone called Nana. I’d never met her before, so was looking forward to it. ‘She’s been widowed for 12 years,’ Andreas told me. Her husband Pieter died of natural causes, aged 72. We’d travelled for hours by car from our Lincolnshire home to Harwich. Then ferried across to Holland, before driving to Germany. By the time we got there, 16 hours later, we were utterly exhausted. Exciting as it was, wedding planning…

Mixed messages Bountiful Jupiter and spiritual Neptune make a positive link on the 3rd, which will be repeated next May and August. This is the stuff of dreams, healing, redemption and compassion. There’ll be some mixed messages as we also have Mercury turning retrograde and the Full Moon in creative Gemini on the same day. Love magnet Red heart crystal to arouse passion Luck object Chinese lucky coin in your wallet for extra cash Taking shape The New Moon moves into Sagittarius on the 18th and is all about looking to the future. It’s the perfect time to suss out your New Year resolutions. Many plans could take shape more quickly than you expect. That's because, just two days later, constructive Saturn arrives in his own sign of goal-orientated Capricorn,…

Your relationship Mercury turning around in your Partnership Sector on the 3rd starts the month off awkwardly. You’re happiest when you think and act as one, but when you don’t, it’s a chance to strengthen your relating skills. Hidden agendas might lurk. No matter how hard something is to say, be honest. If there are fidelity issues, the New Moon on the 18th will clear these up. New love Act decisively early in December if someone you've met fails to deliver. Don’t waste time on a below par lover. Love planet Venus lights up your Relationship Sector from the 1st, and it’s a glorious month to meet someone. Someone from your past might pop up. By Christmas, you’ll know where your heart lies. Career and money Action planet Mars enters…

Your relationship Jupiter and Neptune open a magical love cycle for you on the 3rd, but you’d be forgiven for not noticing it immediately. The celestial weather is proving to be somewhat stormy, but getting your own way over little things isn't worth the hassle. New love Your ruler Mercury is retrograde: on go-slow for most of December. Mysterious Neptune also dominates the planetary action. So love could be puzzling. In fact, you might not have a clue what you want or what someone else thinks about you. The landscape shifts radically close to Christmas. Career and money The Full Moon on the 3rd dramatically lights up your Career Sector, and news you hear around this date helps you decide what's next for your working life. You may have to…

Your relationship What seems right for you might not make sense to your other half. With Mercury switching to reverse in your sign on the 3rd, followed by the Full Moon in your Partnership Sector on the same day, you must make time to talk about issues. You’re good at soul baring, but your partner may not be so open. New love Planet of love, Venus, is in your sign of Sagittarius from the 1st to the 25th, making this an exciting time! New relationships are plagued by a few twists and turns in the month ahead, so if someone keeps you guessing, play them at their own game. Career and money You have a flurry of planetary activity in your sign, but that doesn’t mean you hold all the…

Your relationship Mercury’s turnaround spells uncertainty for your other half. Whatever they’re dealing with, you're going to witness frustration, secretiveness or lack of enthusiasm. Try not to take this personally, so that you can avoid the emotional downward spiral that Pisces is prone to. New love You’ve had enough of dramas and you would rather focus on yourself for a while. Looking to find happiness within a relationship is rarely wise unless you’ve found happiness within yourself first. An infatuation may arise at work, but it’s more likely to be a short-term flirtation. Career and money Events on Friday 1st pack a punch, which might send you reeling when it comes to money. Fight for what’s rightfully yours. Do so quickly and get back on track pursuing career goals or…

Nervous after a lucky escape Dear Miss Crimebuster Until recently, I always thought of myself as a strong woman, then a man grabbed my keys as I was opening the car door. I had a go at him, and he fled when a passing motorist intervened. Will he be caught? I'm surprisingly nervous about driving now. Deb, 24, Sutton Dear Deb The man is part of a car-nap gang who are currently plaguing the neighbourhood. The good news is that a couple of them will be caught and then spill the beans about the others. Check out victimsinformationservice.org.uk  for support in your area. You come from a line of feisty women, and you have strength in droves. A sting in the tale… Dear Miss Crimebuster My grandad’s hobby…

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I came across this month’s tale while researching a haunting – and I couldn’t resist sharing it. Let’s head to the town of Guadalajara in Mexico 300 years ago. A young girl was participating in her Holy Communion, even though her father had prohibited her from becoming a Catholic. She had befriended a local nun and secretly left home to take part in the ceremony. Grisly end All went well, and the little girl went on her merry way back home. There she found her angry father waiting for her. Seeing his daughter and learning of what she had done, he attacked her in a fit of rage, plunging a knife in her chest and killing his young daughter almost instantly. Word quickly spread about this awful crime, and the…