Innholdsfortegnelse for Summer 2017 i Chat It's Fate

In a reading with psychic Susan Devere, she said she saw me making folk laugh by talking about ladies' things. She was right, as I used to do stand-up comedy, performing as female characters. She even told me I was giving Spirit a good laugh! Susan also warned me to beware of a tanned man with a gold watch. It turned out to be a man who constantly pestered me to go out with him. But once I did, I found out he was married. Susan had described him exactly! I’m now following the comedy path. I’m so very grateful to Susan for all of her help and vision. £25! Have you had an amazing reading lately that you’d like to share with us? Or have you taken a ghostly…

Sniffing out trouble! When I was 5, I played with my brother Michael, then 7, in the woods across the road from our cottage. They were really creepy and one day, while playing on a rope swing, we heard rustling behind us. Spinning round, we spotted a big greyhound sniffing around in the undergrowth. But it was no ordinary dog – we could see right through it! ‘Let’s get out of here,’ Michael and I gasped in unison. We ran home and shot straight into our bedroom. We both cowered at the window, which overlooked the woods, but the greyhound didn’t reappear. ‘W-what on Earth was it?’ I said shakily. When we told friends about the spooky dog, they laughed… until six months later when we were all out playing…

Do people call you an old soul? Do strangers think they know you? If someone looks into your eyes, do you get a strange reaction? Perhaps groups of people tend to see you as a leader. This can mean you’re an old soul and have lived hundreds of lives. People sometimes recognise you and others feel strange looking into your eyes as something tells them you’re a rare and unusual spirit. Folk will follow you as you have an air of trustworthiness, and reliability that’s been earned during many lifetimes, and some people instinctively crave a leader to keep them safe. But those who want to rely on you are often newer souls, and can become clingy. Jenny has just bought out her first Kindle novel, Angel Heart. Get it…

Q & A I’ve broken my elbow Dear Jayda I’ve just smashed my elbow to pieces and had a metal plate put in. Should I take knitbone? Jean, 46, Uppingham Dear Jean Comfrey, often called knitbone, is a herb used to heal broken bones. Scientists say this is partly due to a substance it contains called allantoin that speeds up new tissue growth. But it’s not for you as the bone may grow over the metal and make it harder to remove. How can I flatten my belly? Dear Jayda Help! I'm not overweight, but my belly sticks out. I want to look good on my wedding day! Aldonna, 29, Blackpool Dear Aldonna This could be due to water retention, so try a magnesium supplement. Or if it’s gas, cut…

‘I wrote a list of 60 criteria for my soul mate’ ‘Know what you want and shout it from the rooftops’ It was another boring day on my own. My marriage had broken down six years before, and I was single and living in Inverness. Quite frankly, I was lonely. And tired of waiting for the right man. Something had to change – but how? Then in April 2007, I read Rhonda Byrne’s The Secret, which is about the law of attraction – better known as cosmic ordering. The book reveals that everything you think and feel is what you attract into your life. I decided to be open-minded and see what would happen if I cosmic ordered a man. Order Following the book’s guidelines, I wrote a list of…

Jenni Kemp is the author of Haunted Bishop’s Stortford (published by The History Press). She says: ‘The haunting is undoubtedly true as children have seen the apparition. Whilst kids can have inventive imagination, they are often more “honest” in their approach to the paranormal. It’s widely believed we’re more open to the supernatural in our early years and that can lessen as we age. Spectral sightings aren’t unusual! For example, Hill Hall at Theydon Mount in Essex has many ghosts, including a ghost dressed as a bride. There are two versions of how she met her end, which both involve her being courted by seven brothers.’…

‘He visited me in a dream to say goodbye’ Signs across the divide No more regrets I always looked up to my brother Steven. Four years my senior, he never once stopped looking out for me. Things didn’t change when we were adults. Then in 2001, tragedy struck. Steven, then 50, drowned in a lake in a freak accident. I was utterly bereft. He still had so much to give and living to do. He’d been taken too soon. ‘It wasn’t his time,’ I cried. I was so consumed by grief, I didn’t go to his funeral. I regretted it tremendously after. I should’ve been stronger, I tortured myself. I hated that I’d not said goodbye. Years on, in March 2003, I was struggling to get to sleep. When I…

Heat is on Flaunt your sensual nature in June whilst Goddess of love, Venus, is in your sign of Taurus from the 6th. Tap into your feminine side and clear your diary for some extended love-making sessions. From July, events at home add excitement to affairs of the heart. Falling for someone you shouldn’t? Or uncovering hidden secrets? Take care that romance doesn’t run away from you after 13 August. Perfect match Your sign’s associated with money, so size matters where a lover’s wallet’s concerned! Yet, relying on a partner is a fool’s game. When you step into your power and gain financial independence, you revolutionise intimacy. Swap status for laughter and cuddles, and find the lover who’s proud of you. Fantasy world Your top sexual fantasy nearly always involves…

Heat is on Mercury’s move into Gemini on June 6 bestows the gift of the gab. This is your cue to flick to flirtatious mode and tell the one you love how gorgeous they are. July brings the real deal once love planet Venus graces your sign from the 5th. This is perfect for summer loving, although a long-standing relationship has to sort out an unspoken bugbear. Events close to the end of July will prove why. Speak with passion. Perfect match Meeting people comes easily to you. Yet recently, you may have felt weighed down by commitment or realised the single life isn’t all you had hoped for. This summer, turn your expectations on their head, so if you want variety in your love life, experiment, if you fancy…

Heat is on Make the most of love planet Venus in your relationship sector from 6 June to 5 July. Quality time’s guaranteed with the one you love and it’ll be incredible. You could easily spiral into a vortex if your job starts to takes over, leaving you too busy for affairs of the heart. Look to work for love If you run a business with your other half, and events in August require careful handling. Perfect match You fancy charismatic individuals who can keep an audience captivated. But not so sexy is a person that’s only interested in is their bedroom performance. Look for a lover with a subtle touch who knows their mind and doesn’t have to share their ideas with everyone. Fantasy world Leather, whips and handcuffs…

Heat is on It’s full steam ahead on the love front this summer, but avoid getting stuck in a repeat cycle. If you’ve been enjoying a love affair, June is a month for ultimatums. Examine your options and look at ways to improve a relationship that suits both of you. Love planet Venus lights up your Relationship Sector in July. This is when hard work pays off and pleasure is king. In August, enjoy time at the seaside or spend time as a couple. Perfect match A casual lover wins you over with a confident smile. They tell rude jokes to make you laugh. Yet if they walk out of your life as quickly as they walk into it, you’ll be bereft. Saturn in Sagittarius feeds any loneliness in your…

‘Terror consumed me when we couldn’t see my brother’ ‘Tom and Dad were attacked in the church’ You’d think a church would be a haven of peace. But I’ve been a paranormal investigator long enough to know nothing is ever quite as it seems. Even holy places can hide festering cruelty and evil… That’s what I discovered at the ancient ruins of St Mary’s Church, Colston Bassett, near Nottingham. Evil spirit I grew up near the church with my stepbrother Tom, who’s psychic. As kids, he told me about his experiences, and I became fascinated with the supernatural. In 2013, we set up our paranormal investigation group Haunted Finders with my dad David. Looking for places to investigate, we decided on the church where there had been numerous spook sightings.…

In June, the rose is the queen of the garden, each flower a handful of silken petals – no bloom is more feminine. But it’s more than just a beauty. As a symbol, the rose has represented the heart throughout history in most cultures and religions the world over. People have always valued love above anything else, which is why it’s the most popular cut flower. Symbols of romance Roses are the foremost symbol of the Goddess of Love - known as Aphrodite in the Greek pantheon, and Venus in the Roman tradition. A lusty bunch of red roses presented by a new lover represents desire, whereas a more romantic bunch would be pink, and a white bouquet symbolises eternal love. In Botticelli’s the Birth of Venus, the Goddess of…

Picking up the receiver, I checked for a dialling tone. Yep, still working. But it didn’t ring. It was a quiet day at the accountancy firm where I worked as a receptionist. So I pulled a pencil and piece of paper from my desk, and started scribbling. I normally instinctively draw angels. Drawing made me so happy and calm. Meditation Truth be told, working in an office wasn’t where my heart was. I was far more fascinated with spiritual things. But that day, as my pencil moved, it wasn’t an angel that appeared. Instead, it was a unicorn. ‘Strange,’ I muttered. It was as if my hand was guided by an outside force. ‘All it needs now is colour,’ I thought. So, at home that night, I coloured the unicorn’s…

I felt a connection with these mythical beings To qualify, you need wings, a tutu and a wand! For as long as I can remember, I’ve been interested in fairies. Then, when I was 8, I discovered the Flower Fairy books by Cicely Mary Barker. Hooked, I spent hours poring over the pages. Growing up, I was convinced I could sense fairies in the garden. So much so, I made perfume out of rose petals and left tiny bottles out for them. Sparkle power One summer’s day when I was 14, I was walking in the woods when I saw flashing lights that looked like sparkles. Far from being afraid, I was mesmerised by the beautiful sparkles dancing in the air. After that, I saw…

The horse threw George to the ground, breaking his neck Grimsby. Now there’s a town It’s popular for fishing, but it also has its fair share of ghostly stories – as detailed in my good friend Jason Day’s riveting Haunted Grimsby book where I wrote the foreword! On 16 January 1885, George Nelson was on horseback, heading back his home, Cadeby Hall, along the road we now call the A18. He was 17 or 18 and was very well to do for the time. The night was drawing in, getting darker every minute, and the weather was awful. Suddenly, George’s horse reared, throwing him to the ground, fatally breaking his neck. Suicidal rider As a mark of respect, a memorial stone was erected close to where…

‘There was something creepy about our home’ Skipping to school in my grey pinafore, I was like any other happy-go-lucky 6-year-old. ‘Ring-a-ring-a-roses,’ I sang to myself – when suddenly, a shadow fell across the sun. There was a man walking next to me. He was tall, dressed in black. As he looked at me, I realised he didn’t have a face. Followed I should have been scared – but I wasn’t. Somehow, I knew this man – this ghost – was a vicar. And vicars didn’t hurt little girls, did they? After that, the vicar followed me to school every day. I soon realised I was different from the other kids – I could also see colours around people. With hindsight, I know I was seeing auras. It freaked me…

Easy guide Easy The UK’s littered with sacred sites left behind by the ancient Celts who honoured the spirits of Sky, Water, Fire and Land. But can anybody work with these nature energies – often called the Elementals? Yes, and you don’t have to be a high priestess to do it! Take this class to: Discover the four Elemental Spirits and the one you’re linked to Learn how to work with your Elemental Helpers Rebalance your mental and emotional energy Which one’s for you? hen you were born dictates a bond to one of the four Elemental Spirit Helpers: Sky Spirits, Water Spirits, Fire Spirits and Land Spirits. Look at your birth date to discover which Elemental is your ideal magical partner. 21 January – 18 February: Sky Spirits 19…

Given the long, dark days of a Scandinavian winter, it’s no wonder they celebrate Midsummer, the longest day in the year, with as much enthusiasm as Christmas! In Sweden, it’s a public holiday. Feast your eyes! At this magical time, people decorate their homes with flowers and wear headbands (krans) of fresh flowers that, if placed under your pillow, will make you dream of your future lover! Everyone heads out of the cities to dance around the Midsummer pole, sing songs and light huge bonfires. And food’s involved in the celebrations! With a menu of herring and potatoes smoked fish and strawberries, there’s nothing to pile on the Midsummer pounds. Health-giving Not surprising when you consider that the Scandinavian or Nordic diet is thought to be one of the healthiest…

Crystal fact Turquoise This bluey-green gem gets its name from the French pierre turquoise, meaning Turkish stone. Traders brought their precious cargo from central Asia to Turkey where it was sold, particularly to Venetian merchants. Ancient Egyptians, Aztecs, Incas of South America and Native North Americans revered it for its properties of wisdom and protection. It’s a purification stone and helps with depression and exhaustion. It’s found in Iran, South-west United States, China, India, Australia and Afghanistan. Ghostly Inspirations Rudyard Kipling Nobel Prize winner for Literature in 1907, Rudyard Kipling spent his early years in Bombay - and India's influence was to go deep. He and wife Carrie retreated to Bateman's, a 17th-Century house in Burwash, East Sussex in 1902 when his fame got too much. Bateman's mullioned windows resonate…

Q&A I was run off my feet Dear Roi de Lune Last Christmas, I dreamt I was trimming my Persian cat’s fur and ended up cutting her skin! It didn’t hurt her, but it made me cringe. Then Mum said she wanted to go to Japan, and I was frantic as I had so much to do, Claire, 29, Buckden, Cambs Dear Claire Lots going on but nothing too dramatic, so there’s nothing awful implied. You were stressed as it was Christmas, and you were worried you’d make a mistake attending to the needs of your loved ones. You just wanted to make sure everyone was OK, from your cat to your mum. That shows how caring you are! Culture corner Spanish director Luis Bunuel and artist Salvador Dali’s surrealist…

Heat is on! Something’s making you retreat into your shell during June and some of July. That might be because you’re caught up caring for family or your fear of rejection kicks in. Once your confidence returns, you’re on the scene all guns blazing. Your ruler Mars sizzles in sexy Leo from 20 July, and there’s no stopping you. A love affair adds drama to your life in August, gearing you up for sensational fun. Yet it’s news of a surprise pregnancy that’s the biggest delight of summer. Perfect match You like to be in charge when it comes to love, and you enjoy a relationship where you can hold on to your independence. Yet if the scales rise dramatically in their favour, it’s time to think again. Instead of…

Heat is on After love planet Venus blesses foreign connections from the 6th, the stars align for a holiday romance. It’s also the ideal time for a romantic break. Friends may try to interfere in your relationship and jealousy could rear its ugly head if one of you focuses too much on a third party. Events in August awaken the caring side of your nature when extra TLC for yourself and others is called for. Perfect match You can be overly picky when it comes to relationships as you have a list of requirements. Try to lower your expectations. Remember that you can work at love, but you can’t take the same approach to a relationship as you would a new job. If ever there was a time to avoid…

Heat is on Your ruling planet Venus leaves Aries and your relationship sector on 6 June where it’s been since February. If your love life’s been a whirlwind for most of this year, you’ll be ready for gentle breezes! June promises sensual pleasures, and if you’re in a relationship, a chance to sort out practical arrangements. July’s the best month for a romantic holiday, but in August, events speed up. Singles: A fling with a friend perhaps? Couples: An unexpected pregnancy? Perfect match Your symbol is the Scales, and there’s never been a better time to ensure you’re in an equal partnership. The planet of truth, Jupiter, is lighting up your sign, so leave a dominatrix situation. If you’re heterosexual, you may even choose to ring the changes by choosing…

Heat is on A bevy of planets move through your Romance Sector this summer, and the action starts in June. When a beau makes their move, it appeals to your vanity, but don’t rush into sex. If you’re in a relationship, kids bring a special kind of happiness, whether you’re starting a family or looking after your grandchildren. The more you prioritise play and pleasure, the better you’ll feel about each other. Perfect match Your ethereal nature means you’re drawn towards sensitive souls, the lover with a dreamy expression. Anyone with a poetic nature makes your heart quicken. To find a lasting meeting of minds, you have to find a lover with their feet on the ground, someone who can support you. Fantasy world Your vivid imagination inspires your sexual…

Psychic advice Over 2,000 years ago, Babylonian folklore told of 80 witches who tormented Ashkelon men. A rabbi coaxed the witches to dance with his men who lifted them up. Cut off from the earth from whence they got their power, the coven was helpless. There is some truth to this, as in the Talmud, Rabbi Shimon ben Shetach sent 80 witches to their deaths… Your Midsummer ritual This was popular with maidens at Midsummer! Sprinkle apple seeds at the base of a pink candle. Carve your initials into the wax, then light. Say: ‘I scatter these seeds upon Midsummer Eve to find a love that’s true. Let me hear the name of the one who will make us two.’ Then listen for the news brought by the breeze! Riddle’s…

Is he The One? Dear Yasmin I’ve been with a man for 10 months. He does feel like the love of my life, but I want the relationship to move on and become more committed. Julie, 59, Farnborough Dear Julie There’s eclipse action coming up in your chart , including your Love Zone, so 2017 could be big! But don’t become so fussed about where things are going that you forget about where it is now. You have the planet of soulmates, Neptune, in your Love Zone, which bodes well. Your card is King of Winter – your guy is unemotional but a good man. He may not give you flowers, but he can make a commitment. I drink to forget Dear Yasmin How can I find the strength to…

Q & A Trust me – I’ve got this! Dear Jenny Why am I such a bossy boots? I’m just not happy unless I’m controlling everything. I also have a weird need to go to Sierra Leone – I don’t even know where it is! Stacey, 24, London Dear Stacey In the 1700s, you were a slave in Sierra Leone, which is in West Africa. If you can get there, visit the remains of the slave-holding pens. It may be upsetting and you might have spontaneous nasty memories that’ll reduce you to tears, but it’ll be very healing. I’ve seen it happen to others who shared that kind of life, which was out of their control. Just make sure you prime yourself to see any memories as a third party…

‘I’d spoken to the fairies and angels all my life’ ‘A gnome, leprechaun and tree giant take care of me’ Looking round the garden, I sighed happily. Sure, it was wild and overgrown. But I knew I could make it beautiful. It was July 2010, and I was viewing a place to rent with my son Niall, now 25. The house was nice enough… but it was the land that went with it that was really special. It was an acre of garden belonging to the farmer, attached to the cottage. Special Suddenly, a voice spoke in my head. ‘We want you to be the guardian of the garden,’ it said. I’d spoken to fairies and angels all my life, knew the voice belonged to an elemental, a nature spirit.…

She chews everything Dear Katie Ferya, my puppy, has started chewing things if she’s left alone, including my glasses! Ruth, 51, Oxford Dear Ruth Chewing’s natural for dogs, but it can become a compulsion when they’re bored, lonely or anxious. The pink and purple in Freya’s aura points to her immaturity. She becomes bored quickly, and then chews to alleviate this feeling. Exercise her regularly and create a den that contains chew toys. She’ll grow out of it if tackled now. Your fave colours interpreted Dear Katie Recently, I've been through major life changes, and I'm finding it hard to cope. My favourite colours are purple, pink and aqua. Sammie, 52, Cambridge Dear Sammie Wear these colours to offset chaos around you. Purple reveals strong perception, but don’t make mountains…

Look to the ordinary! At 19, I went to Stonehenge for the Summer Solstice with my then boyfriend. I had huge expectations and wanted a deeply spiritual experience. But I was disappointed. There were thousands of people, and the stones were fenced off. We didn’t see the sun rise as black clouds came out of nowhere. We only just made it back to the car before the Heavens opened. For me, spiritual experiences come when I least expect them, and can’t be forced by visiting places that are meant to have this effect. I recently saw a double rainbow that made me feel connected and emotional. And I was standing in a car park outside DFS! Who needs Stonehenge? Michelle Cherub’s corner When my son Zak, 5, saw the ad…

Star letter Star letter Star letter Shed the load! Our next door neighbour’s 5-year-old son used to love spending time in the shed with his dad, then one day he refused to go. He was terrified and said there was a scary lady in there. Then suddenly, he started going in there again. His dad asked him why he wasn’t frightened anymore, and we were a bit spooked by his answer… Apparently, she’d moved into our shed! Tracy Enright, Rochester Yasmin’s card of the month– your question answered, see p53 This card comes to us with the message: Take the time to review the details carefully. You will win in the end…This is a time when it’s important to stick to your principles. Trust that your opinions are correct,…

Joanna’s summer blog What’s hot! Jupiter gets the summer off to a promising start, switching to direct motion on 9 June. Four months of rewinding through Libra comes to an end, and lessons learned at this time will start to make a lot of sense. Venus in breezy Gemini aligns harmoniously with Jupiter on 18 July. Love works when it’s fun, playful and interesting. Healthy choices are part of this picture. Single? Romantic opportunities appear with this classic famine to feast scenario. It’s Mars’s turn to team up with Jupiter on 20 August, followed by a dramatic Solar Eclipse. Actions speak louder than words! You’ll be reminded how fast things can change, and how honesty keeps things real. What’s not! The Gemini Sun opposes Saturn on 15 June, followed the…

Heat is on The lovers of the Heavens, Mars and Venus, boost your sign of Cancer from June to August. Lucky you, as this means a sensual summer! You can get whoever you set your eye on, so strut your stuff. Financial pressures may trigger dramas, so the challenge is to keep love sweet. When you feel unsure, be kind. Your biggest mistake is to hide your feelings, but when you express your true emotions, your heart really sparkles. Perfect match Part of you wants to be in a relationship so you have someone to nurture. You may well be attracted to a strong type, but this could be the wrong choice. Happiness is most likely to be found with the person who’s sensitive. A steady kind of love that…

Heat is on A friends with benefits scenario is tempting in June, but think twice before you leap into bed on that premise. If you’re willing to be patient, you’ll attract the right kind of lover in July. Passion planet Mars enters Leo on the 20th and then you’re heading for a high. Eclipses light up your sign on August 7 and 21, bringing proposals for some, and a clean break for others. This is love affair territory, colourful and dramatic. Perfect match Good looks and expensive taste are your go-to temptations. You love glamour and enjoy other people envying your eye candy. Yet it’s important you don’t end up as someone’s object, something to show off rather than treasure. Look for warmth, someone loyal who holds you close. Fantasy…

Heat is on The summer promises steamy days as sensual Venus lights up your love life as bright as Blackpool’s illuminations. Pile on the PDA (public display of affection) in June, and romantic gestures come thick and fast. Mars adds passion, but also aggro from 4 June to 20 July. Try not to let little niggles or frustrations build up in a relationship. For a more gentle flow, August’s stars add caring and kindness. Perfect match A conventional relationship is really appealing, and you often choose a partner who’s a good catch from a professional point of view. Yet being a Capricorn, you don’t give love freely until someone touches you emotionally. This summer, a relationship has the potential to reach your emotions. Fantasy world Your love of the corporate…

Heat is on! You have not one but two New Moons in your Relationship Sector this summer. Plus one of them is a red hot eclipse, so if ever there was a time for steamy love action, get on with it! Synchronicity strikes suddenly with an ex who reappears in your life or an instant love attraction. If your current relationship is wobbly, August is the month to blow things wide open. Sometimes life needs to step in to awaken you. Perfect match You’re often attracted to the unusual lover who stands out from the crowd. This is fine as long as you don’t take it too far and end up with a partner who even your best friends consider weird. When your relationship turns into a therapist-patient session, it’s…

Will we find out who held us up at gunpoint? Dear Miss Crimebuster I enjoy working at a cafe in town but one day, two armed men came in and demanded the money out of the safe. We were all shaken up. Now we've heard it was an inside job and everyone is suspicious of each other. It's ruined the working atmosphere we had. Kerry, 28, Manchester Dear Kerry Both these men who are related to each other have a drug problem. The info about the safe came from someone who only worked there a short while. They’ll be caught when they hold up another small business. Harmony will be restored soon, and I can see you as manager before long! Out of the pan? Dear Miss Crimebuster On a…

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