Innholdsfortegnelse for February 2017 i Chat It's Fate

Long-term relationships make front page news these days - I don't know many sadly. For Brian, there'd only ever be one woman - Wendy - and that was from the moment he saw her. After a few initial hiccups, they were a couple for over 40 years. They ended up in hospital together, but Brian knew that he loved her so much he couldn't live without her. Science calls it broken-heart syndrome when spouses die within hours of each other. Don't miss this tribute to love on p26 - fitting for Valentine's month.…

‘The Universe meant for us to be together’ A man! The trip to Demir Baba Teke lifted my spirits. My heart seemed to be fixed. Back home on the dating site, one guy suddenly caught my eye. His name was Dimitar – like my ex, but I didn’t let that put me off! He was clever, handsome, funny and kind. We seemed to have so much in common. But he lived in Manchester. He was Bulgarian, like me, but working as head chef there. The One Soon, we progressed from messaging on the Internet to chatting on the phone. ‘I wish we could person,’ I sighed one evening after a couple of weeks. ‘We can!’ he said. ‘I’m coming over for five days in August.’ Something clicked in my brain…

Ten years ago, I was visiting Khao San Road, the ultimate backpacker hangout in Thailand, when a fortune-teller approached me in the street. He then proceeded to tell me loads of stuff about myself. I have no idea how he knew certain things! He told me that’d I’d meet a man called James on Christmas Day, and that this James was my future husband. To be honest, I was a little disappointed as I was actually in love with a man called Tim, who I’d met while travelling. So on Christmas Day, after drinking one too many in Byron Bay, Australia, I was quite glad that I hadn’t met a man called James. Tim and I got married in 2008 – his middle name is James, so I’ve always felt…

Q & A Ireland called me home Dear Jenny At 50, I met my Irish husband who brought me to Ireland. I immediately felt at home, so we decided to retire here. Years ago, we drove down a road, and suddenly I was scurrying along the pavement holding a basket over my arm and holding a hood around my head. Kathleen, 76, Charlestown, Co Mayo Dear Kathleen, You’re right to feel at home in Ireland. As a member of the Fitzgerald family, you’ll have lived several lives around Waterford. If you visit this area, you’ll quite likely ‘feel’ the house where you lived. It’s wonderful that you’ve relocated your soul home. The life you recall in particular is when you were a very young Joan Boyle. I have no powers…

‘We often sense what the other is thinking or feeling’ Stumbling along the road, I tried to wipe the blood streaming down my face. I was 18 and had been out with my mates. But like many teens on a night out, I’d had one drink too many. Then I’d tripped over and banged my head. Freaky! I made it home, where my twin Dean was waiting for me in the living room, concern etched on his face. ‘I knew something had happened to you!’ he gasped when he saw me. Our mum Elaine told me Dean had been worried about me all night, had waited up until I came home. ‘He sensed you’d hurt yourself,’ she said. It had been the same since we were tiny. Dean and I…

Do you have days when everything is out of sorts? If you look up and the Moon is full, you may be experiencing the lunar effect. In unison Our tribal ancestors were in tune with the Moon’s cycles. It’s thought all women Bad night Swiss scientists found sleep can be disturbed at the Full Moon. Volunteers had 30% less sleep and a dip in the hormone melatonin, which controls our natural body clock. And they took five minutes longer to nod off. But this study is criticised for being too small. ovulated at the Full Moon and menstruated at the New Moon. We might not be in sync with the Moon now, but women who live together report having their periods at the same time. Trouble afoot Although we may…

The Summer Solstice is the best time to wed! Falling between Gemini (the sign of twin souls) and Cancer (the sign of home and fertility), this magical time of year is traditionally linked with love. The most expensive celebrity ring is thought to be the 33.19-carat Krupp diamond ring given to Elizabeth Taylor by Richard Burton in 1968. They’re always worn on the fourth finger as it’s believed there’s a vein leading to the heart. Engagement rings can be traced back to ancient Rome where women wore bands of iron and gold. During the Renaissance, they began to contain gems, but it was not until the 20th Century that normal folk wore them - not just nobility. The diamond-mining industry has been linked to violent exploitation and environmental damage, so…

‘Brian regularly asked Mum to marry him’ ‘Did Brian ask you to marry him again?’ I asked Mum curiously. She nodded. ‘Yes. I told him I’d think about it,’ she said. It was 1977 and I was 15. Brian was Mum’s boyfriend – her childhood sweetheart. They’d got together when she was 15 and he was 16. Perfect My nan had met Brian in the pub, told him ‘you’re perfect for my daughter’ and sent him home to call for Mum! They dated for three years until my mum Wendy ran off with a handsome ne’er-do-well. She married him, and had me and my sister Mandy, but it didn’t last. As soon as she got divorced, Brian came back on the scene. By now, they’d been seeing each other for…

Joanna’s monthly blog Work together Lucky Jupiter switches direction on the 6th and will be backtracking through Libra until early June. This doesn’t obliterate luck, but careful compromise will be even more important than usual now. Longer term goals will also need patience and preparation, so set out your stall and get help when you need it. Time for change Eclipses throw shadows, but these lift again to reveal new pictures, especially in triangular situations such as affairs or competing for a job. If you really want something or someone with all your heart, then this Eclipse in bold Leo on the 11th says to make your wishes known in no uncertain terms. But remember that real changes never happen without giving something else up. Study the price tags. World…

Your relationship You’re in a good space, but your other half is finding life more of a struggle. Be sensitive about what’s needed. There’s definitely a place for your non-stop energy and flow of ideas. Don’t be annoyingly cheerful and give a partner time to think. There may be issues they’ve been keeping to themselves. Allow some time for things to emerge. New love You’re happiest when you keep love light, and this is sound advice in the month ahead. There are two scenarios to avoid: a lover who’s laden down with emotional baggage, and a flirtatious relationship with someone who’s already taken. There’s also the exciting prospect that someone you’ve known for ages is full of potential. Career and money Focus on finances and look at ways to cut…

Your relationship The Solar Eclipse influences partnerships at the end of the month. This means a meteoric impact on the pair of you. Great as your analytical skills are, the picture may be out of focus. Don’t just assume, and encourage your other half to follow suit. If you’re going through a rocky patch, your loyalty may be stretched. Keep your negative feelings private. New love Emotions run high, and you’re prepared to go in deep to experience a new love sensation. You’re looking for intensity, and will only be satisfied with a sexual relationship that fizzles with excitement. You’re even willing to explore the forbidden side if it means you get to run the gamut of emotions. The weekend of the 25th/26th is filled with drama and potential passion.…

Your relationship Big-thinking Jupiter’s demanding your attention. The problem is how you gel together when you’re out with your friends, both mutual and individual. Are you sparring rather than enjoying each other? Being joined at the hip isn’t easy for you at the best of times, but, as always, it’s all about balance. Find time for individual pursuits, too. New love Both lovers of the Heavens, Venus and Mars, are influencing your love life – lucky you! This means February is a top month for finding romance. Throw yourself into dating or ask friends for an introduction. You may have to tread on eggshells if you and a mate fall for the same person later in the month. Be diplomatic, but remember, all’s fair in love and war! Career and…

Your relationship Are you fretting about the might-have-beens, thinking about a lost love or resenting a partner’s emotional baggage? Start by accepting that we all have history, and encourage a partner to do likewise. A situation you didn’t sign up for may prove to be a headache, but showing tolerance earns your loved one’s respect. New love Once love planet Venus leaves your sign on the 3rd, affairs of the heart might slow down. Use this quiet time to reconsider what you want, and knock knee-jerk reactions on the head. The Sun enters Pisces on the 18th, boosting your vitality and confidence. By the last week of the month, you’re back in the saddle to attract the relationship you desire. Career and money Be alert to making a good impression…

I was drugged! Dear Miss Crimebuster While on my best mate's hen do in Newcastle, I was chatting to a few men - one had a pink streak in his hair. Next thing I remember, I was in Intensive Care, having stitches in my head. The thinking is someone slipped me a drug which made me pass out. Police are combing CCTV. I'm petrified I'll be affected long term. Will they catch the people responsible? Chelsea, 23, Northhampton Dear Chelsea Your friend’s hen party were all dressed in pink tutus. One of the men you talked to was wearing a striped shirt. You certainly had a lucky escape, collapsing as quickly as you did, as they had other plans for you. They won’t be found, but your Nan in spirit…

You can be excused from feeling exhausted when you're ill, overdone the exercise or had a late night! But mental fatigue, that’s different. Is decision making hard? Are people exhausting? You need an energy boost. How to use the Fatigue Dreamcatcher Cut out your Dreamcatcher and place it somewhere on your bathroom mirror. This’ll remind you to check in with yourself first thing in the morning. Make the connection Look at the Dreamcatcher and ask yourself why you’re tired. If the problem’s mental, make a list of what needs to be done. Then do it. If it’s people, clear the space. Create an imaginary, protective forcefield around you. Check in with your Dreamcatcher each day for va va voom!…

‘ I’d been able to see Spirit since I was a child ’ ‘Sian, you’ve got to come on this ghost-hunt tonight,’ my friend Donna pleaded. ‘One of the mediums has dropped out – we need you. Please!’ ‘Oh, alright,’ I laughed. ‘I’ll do it. But you owe me!’ My husband didn’t bat an eyelid when I told him I was off out for the evening. We’d been together for 14 years, had four beautiful children. ‘See you later, love,’ he said as I got my car keys and headed out the door. Loneliness I’d been able to see Spirit since I was a child. My great-nan was a medium, so I must have inherited the gift from her. My psychic ability had come and gone throughout my teenage years,…

Singer songwriter John Mayer finds the woman he’s been missing for 20 years. • The Brexit effect has airlines in disarray. • Tragedy strikes a popular young female singer. Romance of the year may go to Justin Timberlake and Kourtney Kardashian. • Marks & Spencer report terrible sales figures. Jenna Coleman and Tom Hughes tie the knot in a right royal affair! • Romance figures high on the list of subjects in Viggo Mortensen’s directorial debut. • Abramovich may sell Chelsea in a surprise move. • A sudden discovery connects lavender and a cure for cancer. • For Lotto luck, try 8, 9, 17, 23, 35 and 44. For EuroMillions, go for 15, 10, 22, 35 and 44, Lucky Stars 1 and 3. • Post Offices closures will cause public…

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The Mayan Haab calendar dates back to 100 BC. The Haab, or ‘vague’ year, is the most similar to calendars we use today. With 365 days, it’s labelled ‘vague’ as it doesn’t include a leap year. There are 19 symbolic energies linked to it. Find out what the Haab calendar says about you… Ch’en 2 Jan – 21 Jan The night is the most powerful time for you, so use the hours between dusk and dawn to get things done. You’re affected by the Moon, so read up on how and when to enhance your powers to get what you want. Carry a moonstone for luck. Meaning – black storm Yax 22 Jan – 10 Feb Gentle and loving, you like harmony. You’re a peace-keeper and try to make the…

In April 2015, I met with a medium called Stephen Thornton for a dice reading. After rolling, he revealed I wouldn’t be at my current job for much longer, that he could see me in a beauty salon, and that there’d be an engagement. I thought these things couldn’t possibly come true. Though I’d passed some beauty courses when I was 17, I had no plans to marry my partner or leave my job at BHS. But Stephen’s predictions were right, as BHS closed its doors in 2016, and I found myself a part-time job in a beauty salon. Best of all, in summer last year, my mum said she was engaged to her partner and that they were getting married in October! Layla Spauls, 26, Grimsby £25! Have you…

Psychic medium Paula O'Brien says: ‘In my opinion, the signs are always there from our angels and loved ones in spirit. Sometimes when we’re at the point where we really need help or guidance, they send messengers to us to really put the message across! In this case, the messenger was the monk. He could well have been Nadya’s spirit guide, someone who’s been with her since birth. That was enough for her to take the kick up the backside she needed to have faith and put her mind back on track. Spirit always finds a way to reach us – perhaps we choose not to listen…’ For more information about Paula, go to www.paulaobrien.net  or see Twitter @paula_psychic…

I was in a long-term relationship and had two children, Abigail, now aged 10, and Jessica, now 8, when I went to see a medium. I wasn’t very happy but I had two kids, so had to stick at it. ‘You’re in a relationship that will result in marriage, but end suddenly,’ she told me. ‘Look out for someone overseas.’ I thought it was utter rubbish. Why would I marry, then split up? Besides, who else would want me? I’d always suffered with low esteem and struggled with negative thoughts like this. My partner and I eventually did marry. Two months later, I went to Egypt with work. On the last night, I stayed up all night chatting to a bloke named Paul. We shared a kiss which I felt…

All twins are close, but as many as one in five claim to have a psychic connection. Many twins report feeling the other’s pain, or being able to read each others’ thoughts. When they are apart, they often buy the identical item in a shop, or pick up the phone to call each other at the same time. In March 2009, 15-year-old Gemma Houghton, from Atherton, Greater Manchester, hit the headlines after her psychic bond with her twin saved her sister's life. Gemma suddenly had the feeling her non-identical twin Leanne needed help. She rushed upstairs and found Leanne, who had suffered a seizure, was unconscious and under water in the bath. Gemma administered first aid and called for an ambulance.…

I’m drawn to water Dear Lorelei Can you tell me why I have a strong connection to water? Clare, 37, Plymouth, Devon Dear Clare The ‘waves’ around you reveal inherited memories from seafaring ancestors. The fairy lights show your deep link to the ocean. Use this to your benefit by inventing a therapy incorporating your voice and evoking the sea through narrating meditations. Your fave colours interpreted Dear Lorelei I had surgery for cancer last year. I'm glad they got it in time, but I've not felt myself since. My favourite colours are purple, green and orange. Carol, 60, Salford Dear Carol I agree with your doctors that all is well. Continue with checks, but keep your body healthy by cutting out sugar, cow’s milk and yeast, which are bad…

Crystal fact Botswana agate Also known as the Sunset Stone because of its ability to retain sunlight, Botswana Agate is a master comforter. It’s usually banded with a mix of gentle pink and grey, but can feature brown and apricot stripes. Healers use the agate to help with heartbreak and loss, and to open up the third eye to help us see potential. This agate is more commonly found as an ornament, so if you are given one or buy one, keep it in your pocket or handbag. It’s found in Botswana, hence the name. Ghostly Inspirations Mary Seacole During the Crimean War, in 1855, Jamaican Mary Seacole set up a ‘British Hotel' to provide care for wounded servicemen behind the lines. Hugely popular, she was known as Mother Seacole.…

Signs across the divide Backseat visitor It was late and I was struggling to stay awake. I was 12, and me, my brother David, then 9, and my mum were driving home from a camping trip in Norfolk. ‘How much longer?’ I said to Mum as we drove along. ‘Not far now,’ she promised. Then, I felt a presence in the car. I couldn’t see anything, just had an sense someone was on the back seat with David. Then an image of a young man in WWII flying gear filled my head. HeÕs an RAF pilot, I thought. I could feel his energy. Then, seconds later, my vision and the energy faded. I didn’t tell Mum, as I was worried it’d scare her and cause an accident. So I kept…

Your relationship Romantic Venus enters your sign on the 3rd and is going to be in and out of Aries for the next four months. This long journey happens only once over eight years, which shows how important it is. Self love is key. Trouble that won’t be fixed overnight could be brewing, but you’ll work your way through it. New love Venus in Aries is a sexy combination, which means you sizzle! This is your cue to take charge of your love life and get what you want. That might be a good sex life over a committed relationship as you won’t be satisfied with second best in partnership stakes. Dump a lover who takes a lot but gives little in return. Career and money You’re number one this…

Your relationship Love can be contradictory, and you may be realising this more than usual! Start by reminding yourself that dragging up old gripes isn’t worth the backlash. But, if you need to get something off your chest, do it by the 7th. From then on, look forward again. What and how you plan together will dictate the atmosphere for several months. New love Of course you want new love to sweep you off your feet, but what’s about to occur reminds you there has to be more to a relationship than hearts and roses. Practical matters need to be discussed. If you’re currently single, spend time thinking about what it is you want. A Valentine’s date with an older lover makes you tingle all over. Career and money Masterful…

Your relationship When you’re with someone, especially if it’s been a while, you can both lose momentum or backslide into lazy ways. This needn’t be a bad thing – and occasionally some calm time is just what’s needed. But right now the opposite is true, as Venus blazes in on the 3rd, opening a more proactive chapter. It doesn’t matter who takes the lead – the important thing is to get passionate about plans that will fulfil the pair of you. New love Hearts are fluttering and passion is pounding on Valentine’s Day, and, with the Moon in your sign on the 14th, it’s peak time for romance. If love is on the cards, take action – and fast. The 3rd is a perfect date to act on your intentions,…

Your relationship How much are you listening to your other half? If they’ve stopped sharing anything of real significance, that’s because they’ve clocked you’re only giving them half an ear, whether you’re aware of it or not. Similarly, don’t be afraid to tackle anything that, for you, is a deal-breaker. They won’t walk out. Real trust thrives when you’re both happy with the goalposts. New love A lack of self-esteem and fear of rejection might be holding you back in the heart stakes. Grab some happiness when a childhood sweetheart pops back into your life, reminding you of a more innocent time all those years ago. If you don’t repeat past mistakes, rekindling that love will boost your confidence. Career and money Don’t obsess about career plans that have already…

‘Behind us in the wood, we heard the demon cackle’ Down in the Witches’ Wood, there’s evil. There’s magick. There’s devilry. And through the shadows cast by the trees, you can hear the chanting of the wyrd sisters as they perform their rites and rituals. There’s the sound of laughter as they dance barefoot across the mossy earth… Or at least, that’s what the local kids tell each other. Headless People have told tales about the woods in Calverton, Nottingham for as long as anyone can remember. Accounts of Black Masses held there at Halloween. No one’s ever really believed them. I’ve lived near the woods all my life. With my mum Mandy, my stepdad David and stepbrother Jon. I’m fascinated by the paranormal. Which is why in 2013, I…

‘ It took a long time to realise the voices were spirits ’ ‘Bowing to my opponent, my heart soared with pride. I’d just won gold at the 2004 Scottish Taekwondo Championships. I was over the moon. It all started when I had to my first Taekwondo lesson at the age of 12. I was hooked. I loved everything about the Korean martial art – the training, the discipline, the competitions. I worked my way through the different coloured belts. And while all my friends played football at weekends, mine were spent going to Taekwondo contests in the UK. Psychic gift Then, when I was 14, I was asked to teach Taekwondo. I was a natural. But then I began hearing voices in my head. ‘I must be going mad,’…

As well as my work hosting overnight ghost hunting events, I also work part-time as a library supervisor. It got me wondering if are there any haunted libraries? Well, there are… Floating spook Our first library visit takes us to the American state of Indiana. The Willard Library has become well known for its ghostly inhabitants, mainly in the form of a grey lady. She was first spotted way back in 1937. A library caretaker at the time came face to face with her as she was floating downstairs in the boiler room. Ever since then, there have been literally hundreds of reported sightings. But the grey lady isn’t the only spook walking the corridors of the Willard. According to a group of paranormal investigators, a young male child frequents…

‘At the shrine, I saw a man staring at me’ ‘Nadya, I’ve got something to tell you,’ said my boyfriend Dimitar as he took my hand and looked into my eyes. I felt my knees go weak. A sailor, he’d just got back from a six-month stint at sea. I’d missed him so much. This was it, wasn’t it? He was going to propose… A fool ‘What is it, Dimitar?’ I asked. ‘You’re not the one for me. I want to break up. I’m sorry, Nadya,’ he replied. It was so unexpected, I felt like I’d been punched in the stomach. I felt my knees give way for a different reason now. I staggered out to my car, drove home and collapsed into bed, sobbing. It was June 2013. Dimitar…

A few years ago, I was going through a really tough time, both personally and professionally. Seeking guidance, I went to see a tarot card reader. She was remarkably accurate in what she said about the events that had led me to where I was now, but promised that I was coming to the end of a 10-year cycle and things would soon improve. ‘In two years’ time, you’ll meet a man with blue eyes, a dark sense of humour, and the ability to take a computer apart and put it back together,’ she said, turning over The Emperor card. ‘He’s The One.’ Roll on two years, and she was right – the only thing was, there were two men in my life that matched that description! One of them…

Q & A I don’t want to stop! Dear Jayda Can I still have sex during my period? Pearl, 22, Brighton Dear Pearl If you both want to, go for it! Total blood loss is only 4-12 teaspoons, so if you’re expecting to look like you’re in a horror movie, you won’t. Orgasms release chemicals that ease menstrual cramps, too. The risk of sexually transmitted infections is higher, so you still need a condom. It’s a small risk, but if you ovulate early, you could get pregnant. Sperm can survive in a woman’s body for up to a week. My heart skips a beat Dear Jayda I have atrial fibrillation, which makes my heart feel funny. I can take medication, but is there an alternative remedy? Emma, 67, Whitley Bay…

Engagement rings don't only symbolise love and commitment. They also alter a bride’s aura, which influences her energy for her married life. A gold band carries the vibration of unconditional love, but a silver band calms the nerves. Today, society’s main focus is the look of a ring, but the energy is more important! Find out which gemstone best suits your personality… Diamond Regarded by many to be the ultimate jewel of engagement, the diamond has graced the hands of countless famous brides, including actress Grace Kelly, the tragic princess of Monaco who died behind the wheel. The gem is very hard and robust, hence the perfect symbol of an unbreakable bond. However, it’s best worn by earthy brides-to-be because it carries the high radiance of the crown chakra, which…

The old saying ‘time heals' can sound like a cliche, especially if someone comes out with it when your heart is broken into tiny pieces. Betrayal in love can be just as painful as a physical wound, and many of us will go through it at some point. Our angels know how awful we feel, and will work to help us come out of those dark times – and sometimes they succeed spectacularly. Read Carla’s letter (right) to understand what I mean. It’s only when we look ! back that we see just how far we’ve come along the road to recovery. Our Guardian Angels are with us every step we take, holding our hearts in their hands and working behind the scenes to bring us happiness. When those opportunities…

Q & A Mum had gone missing Dear Roi de Lune, Last week, I dreamt that my mum had gone missing. She was also losing her marbles! A few nights later, she also dreamt that she was lost, but I hadn’t mentioned my dream to her. Jen, 35, Warrington Dear Jen You’re both aware that your mum seriously needs to adjust to a new situation. You’re worried about what could happen if she doesn’t get to grips with it. However, the one thing this dream does show is how wonderfully in tune you are with your mother. I’m hanging out in Japan! Dear Roi de Lune For a while, I kept dreaming that I lived in Japan. In one dream, I moved there for a year, but Tokyo's pavements were…

Your relationship Love planets Venus and Mars swing the spotlight onto ego and independence. You may feel sidelined by a partner’s shift in priorities, but you may well be taking it too personally. Talk about your insecurities. Putting off the things you want to say won’t make you happy. Reassurance will do wonders for your sex life, too! New love Your passion can’t be denied once your ruler Venus enters fiery Aries on the 3rd. You may be considering starting an affair – or perhaps your love isn’t reciprocated. If you like someone who’s unavailable, you’ll feel impatient but won’t want to give up. Be clear about boundaries. You need a solid partner, not someone flash. Career and money This is a successful month as long as you don’t take…

Your relationship Wow, what a firecracker of a month! Intense solar activity fans all the flames in partnerships, especially from the 9th to the 14th. This could result in anything from raging anger to can’t-keep-your-hands-off-eachother passion! In other words, respond to the good or the bad of your love life with no half-measures. Even things that spark friction are a measure of intense feeling. New love This could be a stunning month for your love life. If you’re completely at ease in the desired one’s company or if it feels you’ve known each other before, this one’s for keeps! The 9th and Valentine’s Day are key dates for love. If you meet abroad, this will probably become more than a holiday romance. Career and money You’re craving excitement in life,…

Your relationship Mercury influences your communications for most of the month, but finding yourself moody, secretive, jealous or tending towards silence certainly won’t help your cause. It doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t valid, but try to avoid knee-jerk reactions. You’ll win your partner’s admiring attention with news and views, not negative attitudes. New love Take it slow in matters of the heart as the month begins. Listen to your instincts and spend some time alone to help you discover what you truly want. The turning point comes when the Sun influences your love life on the 18th and events move quickly. The last weekend will be especially memorable! Career and money Make sure you have a strategy on how to get ahead this month. Decide the direction you’re going in…

Your relationship Just when you thought you’d got everything on an even keel, something could pop up and rock the boat. Don’t get stroppy or avoid the subject – talk about it face to face. The Eclipse on the 11th makes love issues over-sensitive. There’s no substitute for genuine discussion, but if you let your quirky sense of humour shine through, all will be well. New love A new love relationship must be on your terms, so consider carefully what you really want in a partner, and what your personal needs are. A lover with a big personality will attract you initially, but you need more than good looks and someone with cash for things to last. On Valentine’s Day you’ll meet a suitor with substance and class. Career and…

With its bright colours and eye-catching games, the Chat Mag Bingo website really stood out. It was October 2014, and I was searching the Internet for somewhere to play bingo online. Chat Mag Bingo looked so exciting – and it offered a great sign-up bonus, too. ‘I’m going to give it a go,’ I told my partner Robert, 43. Lots of fun! I’d always loved going to bingo with my sister Michelle, 45. Only, our local place closed! So playing at home sounded like such a fab idea. And no sooner had I signed up, I’d won! I was having a lot of fun, and I’d won a few pounds, too – an added bonus! In fact I had quite a few little wins in the first week. A few…

Witch report The Inquisition certainly had it in for Angele de la Barthe, who was accused of witchcraft and executed in the 13th Century. Angele was said to have had an affair with the Devil and spawned a half-man, half-wolf monster! Rumours spread that their offspring ate babies, so when a few infants went missing, Angele was blamed. She confessed under torture to sleeping with Satan, and was burned alive. Your February ritual Earth is getting ready for Spring. Follow her example and plant seeds. Sit down outside. Press your palms on the ground and feel Mother Nature flow through you. Consider your dreams for the year ahead. Imagine you’re pouring these thoughts into the earth through your fingers. Riddle’s remedies Dear Kirsten My family have been arguing a lot.…

Will he be back in touch ? Dear Yasmin Recently, I fell out with the man in my life. Will he contact me again or should I just walk away? Margaret, 63, Bradford Dear Margaret I can’t say whether he’ll get in touch, but I drew you a card asking your angels for advice about your love life. Your card is Study & Learning with the message: Your angels are asking you to see the learning experience in the challenges you are facing in your life. Ask, ‘what is this teaching me?’ What has the row taught you? How can you apply it in the future? If you want to study, this is a supportive affirmation. Is it time to move on? Dear Yasmin I’ve been…