‘If music be the food of love, play on,’ wrote Shakespeare. It’s that, over the four centuries since, composers have followed advice to the letter, and often to excess. Take, for example, the young Sibelius who, on becoming engaged to Aino Järnefelt in 1890, felt the need to assure his family that, ‘You must not think that this engagement is like the previous ones.’ Given his track record involving a string of local beauties, each relationship as fleeting as the last, his relatives had every right to be sceptical.
As things turned out, he and Aino went on to spend 65 years of married life together. Not, however, that being married prevented other composers from continuing to survey and then play the field, and descriptions of composers who racked up…
